{"id":3022,"date":"2017-10-17T14:41:44","date_gmt":"2017-10-17T11:41:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=3022"},"modified":"2021-09-20T17:39:43","modified_gmt":"2021-09-20T14:39:43","slug":"kaip-kelti-tikslus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2017\/kaip-kelti-tikslus\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaip kelti sau tikslus? <i>[4 \u017eingsni\u0173 gidas]<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Galiu pasidalinti, k\u0105 patyriau apie i\u0161\u0161\u016bki\u0173 k\u0117lim\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Prad\u0117kime nuo pabaigos:<\/p>\n<h3>1) Paskutinis klausimas: Kod\u0117l?<\/h3>\n<p>Kadangi skaitai \u0161\u012f lai\u0161k\u0105, gali b\u016bti, kad\u00a0trok\u0161ti pataisyti save. Numesti arba priaugti N kilogram\u0173, pasiliekninti per Y pir\u0161t\u0173, \u012fspausti sixpack\u0105 pilve ar nuveikti dar \u0161\u012f t\u0105 vasari\u0161ko.<\/p>\n<p>Tik turiu klausim\u0105, kur\u012f kartoju beveik kiekvienam debesylie\u010diui, ra\u0161an\u010diam man ir klausian\u010diam, kaip gi \u012fveikti\u00a0savo\u00a0tikslus.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kod\u0117l trok\u0161ti keisti save?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0160\u012f klausim\u0105 min\u0117jau\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/musu-taisykles\/\">m\u016bs\u0173 taisykl\u0117se<\/a>. Taip pat jis itin svarbus\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.knygos.lt\/lt\/knygos\/pradekime-nuo-klausimo-kodel-kaip-puikus-lyderiai-ikvepia-veikti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">kou\u010dinge ir versle<\/a>. Dabar klausiu tav\u0119s. Atvirai.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160tai kelios blogos prie\u017eastys keisti diet\u0105 ar \u012fpro\u010dius:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201eTai sveika\u201c;<\/li>\n<li>\u201eMan sak\u0117, bus geriau\u201c;<\/li>\n<li>\u201eNes gi reikia numesti kilogramus\u201c;<\/li>\n<li>\u201eNes gi vasara art\u0117ja\u201c.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ir kelios geros:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201eNes noriu ir tiek!\u201c;<\/li>\n<li>\u201eNes noriu pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117t, kas nutiks\u201c.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Trumpa versija:\u00a0<\/strong>nepatariu imtis i\u0161\u0161\u016bki\u0173, o ypa\u010d kei\u010dian\u010di\u0173 k\u016bn\u0105, neturint i\u0161ties \u012fkvepian\u010dios\u00a0prie\u017easties. Tavo noras turi kilti i\u0161 \u0161irdies.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;O kaip patikrinti, ar tikrai ka\u017eko nori?<\/p>\n<p>Taigi palauk, sustok ir atid\u0117k noro pildym\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>Pavyzd\u017eiui jei pirmadien\u012f perskai\u010dius interviu pagalvojai, kad b\u016bt\u0173 j\u0117ga imtis poky\u010di\u0173, o \u0161iandien dar to trok\u0161ti &#8211; tai pozityvus \u017eenklas. Ta\u010diau\u00a0jei pamir\u0161ai po dienos &#8211; gali pasid\u017eiaugt, kad ne\u0161vaistei j\u0117g\u0173 veltui. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>(Ir ne, pvz.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dydisnesvarbu.lt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">apk\u016bnumas\u00a0<strong>n\u0117ra<\/strong>\u00a0blogai<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<h3>2) Apsibr\u0117\u017ek savo tiksl\u0105. Tada prad\u0117k.<\/h3>\n<p>Keliantis\u00a0i\u0161\u0161\u016bkius n\u0117ra nieko baisiau, kaip i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai be galin\u0117s stotel\u0117s. Ir kad koks\u00a0tavo sustojimas &#8211; apsibr\u0117\u017ek j\u012f. Nusistatyk. Nes be krypties&#8230; Kada \u017einosi, kad pradedi eiti netinkama kryptimi?<\/p>\n<p>\u010cia gal\u0117\u010diau ra\u0161yti i\u0161ties daug&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Bet vietoj to, rekomenduosiu Luk\u0105 Marcinkevi\u010di\u0173, kurio ra\u0161om\u0105 tinklara\u0161t\u012f ProtoArchitektas(.lt) \u0161iais metais sp\u0117jau pamilti. Jame rasi i\u0161sam\u0173 gid\u0105\u00a0nuo klausim\u0173 k\u0117limo, iki planavimo ir pa\u010dios\u00a0prad\u017eios.<\/p>\n<p><strong>U\u017esuk:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.protoarchitektas.lt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.protoarchitektas.lt\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>(Jo puslapis yra kaip nemokama knyga. Ir man tai velni\u0161kai patinka!)<\/p>\n<h3>3) Id\u0117ja: Prad\u0117k pama\u017eu.<\/h3>\n<p>\u017dinau, kad gali nor\u0117tis imtis kardinali\u0173 poky\u010di\u0173, kaip tai padar\u0117 Audrius min\u0117tam interviu&#8230; Bet a\u0161 to nepatar\u010diau.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Geriau:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/kaip-gyventi-sveikiau\/\">Vadovaukis ma\u017e\u0173 k\u016bdikio\u00a0\u017eingsneli\u0173 metodu<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>(Tai i\u0161band\u017eiau ir a\u0161. Man asmeni\u0161kai taip lengviau.)<\/p>\n<h3>4) Beveik\u00a0niekam nesakyk apie savo tiksl\u0105.<\/h3>\n<p>Prad\u0117jus kelion\u0119, geriausia apie j\u0105 nepasakoti\u00a0feisbuke ar kitaip,\u00a0kur gird\u0117s de\u0161imtys (ar daugiau) \u017emoni\u0173. Kuo daugiau \u017emoni\u0173 \u017einos &#8211; tuo tau blogiau.<\/p>\n<p>Kod\u0117l?\u00a0Ogi\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/tikslu-siekimas-niekam-nesakyk\/\">moksliniai tyrimai rodo, kad tai kerta per motyvacij\u0105<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Geriau, k\u0105 gali daryti: apie tiksl\u0105 pasakok tik srities profesionalams ir artimiausiems draugams. Tada i\u0161klausyk j\u0173 nuo\u0161ird\u017ei\u0105 ir atvir\u0105 nuomon\u0119 (be \u0161irdeli\u0173 ir emotikon\u0173). Ir m\u0117gaukis.<\/p>\n<p>(Tai irgi patariu ne tik d\u0117l mokslini\u0173 tyrim\u0173, bet ir asmenin\u0117s patirties. Pavyzd\u017eiui tod\u0117l apie savo dabartinius i\u0161\u0161\u016bkius niekam nepasakoju.)<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;O toliau&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Tik prad\u017eia. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Nes visgi galime mes daug kalb\u0117ti apie i\u0161\u0161\u016bkius ir j\u0173 planavim\u0105, bet kokia esm\u0117, jei niekada j\u0173 nepradedame?<\/p>\n<p>Tod\u0117l \u0161iandien linkiu prad\u0117ti!<\/p>\n<p>Antradieninis,<br \/>\n<strong>Danielius<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Galiu pasidalinti, k\u0105 patyriau apie i\u0161\u0161\u016bki\u0173 k\u0117lim\u0105.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15192,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[2,85,122],"class_list":{"0":"post-3022","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pamastymai","8":"tag-365-tekstai","9":"tag-metodai","10":"tag-tikslai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15192"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}