{"id":2829,"date":"2017-07-03T17:48:02","date_gmt":"2017-07-03T14:48:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=2829"},"modified":"2021-09-21T21:16:19","modified_gmt":"2021-09-21T18:16:19","slug":"nuts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2017\/nuts\/","title":{"rendered":"<i>Mano svarbiausios ribos:<\/i> N.U.T.s sav\u0119s pa\u017einimo b\u016bdas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienos tikslas: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/issukis-365\/\">1439 \u017eod\u017eiai<\/a>. Para\u0161yta: <b>353<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 1.15em;\">Kai dar tik prad\u0117jau savo augimo kelion\u0119, prad\u0117jau nuo visos aib\u0117s saviugdos metod\u0173. Veiksming\u0173 ir nelabai. Vienas ne tiek veiksming\u0173 buvo tinklara\u0161tyje Art of Manliness apra\u0161omas <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/behavior\/30-days-to-a-better-man-day-18-find-your-n-u-t-s\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201eNeper\u017eengiam\u0173 rib\u0173\u201c s\u0105ra\u0161as<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u0160is s\u0105ra\u0161as \u2013 skirtas i\u0161gryninti sau savo \u012fsitikinimus ir taisykles, kuri\u0173 nesiruo\u0161i lau\u017eyti.<\/p>\n<p>Kitaip tariant, toks s\u0105ra\u0161as ne tik tur\u0117t\u0173 pad\u0117ti geriau suprasti save, bet ir suprasti kitus, tapti stipresniu ir labiau pasitikin\u010diu savimi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Man tai ne itin suveik\u0117. Nors s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105 susidariau, nepajau\u010diau jokio jo poveikio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0160tai mano s\u0105ra\u0161as, ra\u0161ytas 2013-tais metais:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Papildyti, kai prireiks:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>A\u0161 nepasiduodu savo priklausomyb\u0117ms.<\/li>\n<li>Atsipra\u0161au tik tada, kai esu \u012fsitikin\u0119s, kad turiu atsipra\u0161yti. Ne tiesiog patenkinti kitus.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 sakau tai, k\u0105 m\u0105stau.<\/li>\n<li>Jei yra koki\u0173 problem\u0173 \u2013 sakau tai i\u0161kart. I\u0161kart, nelaukdamas.<\/li>\n<li>Nesiruo\u0161iu leisti baimei sutrukdyti man siekti savo tiksl\u0173.<\/li>\n<li>Nesiruo\u0161iu leisti ka\u017ekam eikvoti mano laiko veltui. Mano laikas yra man svarbiausias.<\/li>\n<li>Jei kas nepatinka \u2013 taip ir sakau. Pakeisiu taip, kad patikt\u0173.<\/li>\n<li>Bandau surasti kompromis\u0105. Jei jo n\u0117ra \u2013 bandau dar kart\u0105. Kol pavyks.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 i\u0161tikimas savo merginai.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 nesiruo\u0161iu meluoti savo draugams vien tik tod\u0117l, kad jiems b\u016bt\u0173 maloniau.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 sakysiu ties\u0105. Kiek tik tai gal\u0117siu. Jei negal\u0117siu \u2013 nieko nesakysiu.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 visada pasilieku savo darbams laiko. Kiek tik \u012fmanoma.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 pasieksiu to, ko noriu. Nepaisant to, kad ne\u017einau pa\u010dio galinio tikslo, bet tikrai pasieksiu tarpinius tikslus.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 noriu b\u016bti toks, kuriuo \u017emon\u0117s gal\u0117t\u0173 pasitik\u0117ti. A\u0161 toks b\u016bsiu.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 bandysiu ir bandau tapti geresniu. Kaip tik \u012fmanoma.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 pats nusprend\u017eiu, k\u0105 noriu daryti ir ko ne.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 noriu ra\u0161yti ir a\u0161 ra\u0161ysiu. Nes man tai patinka.<\/li>\n<li>Jei pri\u017ead\u0117jau, tikrai pri\u017ead\u0117jau, tai a\u0161 tai ir i\u0161tes\u0117siu.<\/li>\n<li>Pa\u017eadus priimu kaip pa\u017eadus tik tada, kai sakau \u017eodel\u012f \u201epa\u017eadu\u201c.<\/li>\n<li>Nesiruo\u0161iu toleruoti kieno nepagarbos mano draugams ar pa\u017e\u012fstamiems.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 gerbiu protingus \u017emones.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 suprantu, kad ne visi mano pasirinkimai yra geri, bet a\u0161 noriu tur\u0117ti gali\u0105 rinktis. A\u0161 visada galiu rinktis kitaip. Ir renkuosi.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 stengiuosi pad\u0117ti savo \u0161eimai ir draugams viskuo, kuo galiu&#8230;<\/li>\n<li>&#8230;Kol tai nesikerta su mano darbais, planais ar norais.<\/li>\n<li>A\u0161 dovanoju tik tada, kada noriu. Pagal u\u017esakym\u0105 i\u0161 man\u0119s dovan\u0173 negausi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Man kiek g\u0117da d\u0117l to, k\u0105 tuomet ra\u0161iau. Bet, na, tai buvo 2013-tieji metai \u2013 mano kelion\u0117s prad\u017eia.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;O galb\u016bt tau N.U.T.s s\u0105ra\u0161as pad\u0117t\u0173 labiau?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienos tikslas: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/issukis-365\/\">1439 \u017eod\u017eiai<\/a>. Para\u0161yta: <b>353<\/b>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15457,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[2,85,86],"class_list":{"0":"post-2829","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pamastymai","8":"tag-365-tekstai","9":"tag-metodai","10":"tag-saves-pazinimas"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2829","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2829"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2829\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15457"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2829"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2829"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2829"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}