{"id":17853,"date":"2023-07-29T12:39:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-29T09:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=17853"},"modified":"2023-07-23T18:53:21","modified_gmt":"2023-07-23T15:53:21","slug":"gyvenimo-kalendorius-6-metus-skaiciavau-laika-iki-savo-mirties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2023\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-6-metus-skaiciavau-laika-iki-savo-mirties\/","title":{"rendered":"Gyvenimo kalendorius: <i>6 metus skai\u010diavau laik\u0105 iki savo mirties<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Gyvenimo kalendorius<\/strong> \u2013 tai Tim Urban \u012fkv\u0117ptas stoi\u0161ko nihilizmo \u012frankis i\u0161gyvenantiems egzistencin\u0119 kriz\u0119. \u0160ie kvadra\u010diukai, tai savait\u0117s nuo gimimo iki (tik\u0117tinos, imant vidurk\u012f Europoje) mirties sulaukus apie 80-t\u012f met\u0173:<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17867\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17867\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-17867\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/tim-urban-gyvenimo-kalendorius-768x966.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"966\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/tim-urban-gyvenimo-kalendorius-768x966.png 768w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/tim-urban-gyvenimo-kalendorius-1500x1887.png 1500w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/tim-urban-gyvenimo-kalendorius-1221x1536.png 1221w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/tim-urban-gyvenimo-kalendorius-10x12.png 10w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/tim-urban-gyvenimo-kalendorius.png 1550w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17867\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pagal <a href=\"https:\/\/waitbutwhy.com\/2014\/05\/life-weeks.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u0161\u012f Tim Urban straipsn\u012f<\/a>, kuriame principas apra\u0161ytas pla\u010diau.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Principas toks:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u017di\u016bri.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u0105stai kiek, va, nedaug liko, o norisi tiek daug.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tai tave \u012fkvepia veikti.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u0161band\u017eiau tai ir a\u0161. <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2017\/gyvenimo-kalendorius\/\">Nuo 2017 met\u0173 baland\u017eio<\/a>\u00a0kiekvien\u0105 savait\u0119 \u017eym\u0117jausi iksiuku arba savo tos savait\u0117s labiausiai \u012fsiminusiu \u012fvykiu. Kaip \u012f savoti\u0161k\u0105 mikro-dienora\u0161t\u012f:<\/span><\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-17858\" style=\"color: #040402; font-family: Muli, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 20.074px;\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-1-1500x2000.jpg 1500w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-1-9x12.jpg 9w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-17857 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-3-768x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-3-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-3-1500x1125.jpg 1500w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-3-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-3-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-3-16x12.jpg 16w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17863\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17863\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-17863 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-4-768x432.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"432\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-4-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-4-600x338.jpg 600w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-4-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/07\/gyvenimo-kalendorius-4.jpg 984w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17863\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Taip, a\u0161 irgi ne\u012fskaitau k\u0105 ra\u0161iau. A1 formato lapas, visgi, buvo per ma\u017eas.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><b>K\u0105 patyriau? K\u0105 i\u0161mokau?<\/b><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Kiekvien\u0105 savait\u0119 \u017eym\u0117ti k\u0105 esu nuveik\u0119s&#8230; Buvo nuobodu. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pirmus kelis m\u0117nesius jau\u010diau malonum\u0105 \u017eym\u0117tis, jau\u010diau ka\u017ekoki\u0105 prasm\u0119, bet v\u0117liau tai tapo tiesiog \u012fpro\u010diu. Kad tai tapo beprasmiu veiksmu i\u0161 kurio nejau\u010diu naudos supratau tik 2023 met\u0173 bir\u017eel\u012f \u2013 tai turb\u016bt \u0161is \u012fprotis nebuvo sunkus ar labai nuobodus&#8230; Bet d\u017eiaugsmo \u2013 nejau\u010diau.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Nesijau\u010dia, kad \u0161is kalendoriaus pildymas ka\u017ekaip b\u016bt\u0173 pad\u0117j\u0119s.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Neradau gyvenimo prasm\u0117s, langeli\u0173 pildymas egzistencialistinio nerimo nesuma\u017eino, net nejau\u010diu, kad geriau prisimin\u010diau \u0161i\u0173 met\u0173 \u012fvykius. Pild\u017eiau ir nejau\u010diu, kad ka\u017ek\u0105 b\u016b\u010diau gav\u0119s. Blogo irgi ne.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tai tiek. Neturiu k\u0105 daugiau pasakyti. Buvo nuobodu, o naudos nepajau\u010diau.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>K\u0105 dar pasakyti apie \u0161\u012f kalendori\u0173?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nesugalvojau k\u0105. Taigi p<\/span>aklausiau draug\u0173 nuomoni\u0173&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201eJei apie kalendori\u0173 po 6 met\u0173 neturi k\u0105 pasakyti, grei\u010diausiai jis niekur tau ir nepadeda.\u201c +\u00a0\u201eKiekvienai savaitei suteikdamas vienod\u0105 reik\u0161m\u0119, ji praranda kontekst\u0105 ir savo gyl\u012f. Juk \u017einai, kad kartais per savait\u0119 nutinka daugiau nei per visus metus.\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I\u0161ties. Turb\u016bt greitai \u0161is i\u0161\u0161\u016bkis-\u012frankis tapo tik rutinos, ritualo dalimi. Ne\u017einau kaip anks\u010diau \u0161ito nepasteb\u0117jau?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201eVietoj to kad d\u017eiaugtumeisi kiekviena diena, ar \u0161iaip pasid\u017eiaugtum savo ma\u017eais pasiekimais, pradedi save vos ne kaltinti jog nepadarei pakankamai ir tampi \u0161ioks toks hustle culture \u012fkaitas.\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Irgi geras pasteb\u0117jimas. Ypa\u010d turint omenyje, kad gi pats para\u0161iau knyg\u0105 apie tinginyst\u0119s naud\u0105, bet save tiek laiko pas\u0105moningai spaud\u017eiau..? Nors, tiesa, metams \u012fsibeg\u0117jus \u2013 didel\u0117s \u012ftampos nebejau\u010diau. Man tiesiog buvo nuobodu.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201eToks LABAI LABAI suspaustas dienora\u0161tis. Gal net pamin\u0117ti gali, jog dienora\u0161tis \u0161iek tiek prasmingiau b\u016bt\u0173.\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Kartais ir keli\u0173 \u017eod\u017ei\u0173 u\u017etenka, kad prisimintum savait\u0117s \u012fvykius. Bet, tiesa, keli \u017eod\u017eiai nenusakys gilesni\u0173 i\u0161gyvenim\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>Esu eksperimentav\u0119s ir su \u012fprastu dienora\u0161\u010diu \u2013 ra\u0161iau apie du metus, po kuri\u0173 reikal\u0105 irgi me\u010diau, nes nebema\u010diau prasm\u0117s. <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/dekingumo-dienorastis\/\">Eksperimentas su d\u0117kingumo dienora\u0161\u010diu<\/a> irgi, gale, pasirod\u0117 pus\u0117tinas (nors, man asmeni\u0161kai, naudingesnis nei \u0161iaip pasteb\u0117jim\u0173 \u017eym\u0117jimas).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201ePa\u017ei\u016br\u0117jus \u012f kalendori\u0173, dar geriau matai, kad ir kaip greit b\u0117gsi, vistiek teks sustoti 80-ies met\u0173.\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Gal tai ir yra ta \u017einut\u0117, kuri\u0105 b\u016bt\u0173 gerai prisiminti? Galb\u016bt. 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