{"id":17295,"date":"2022-01-22T12:11:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-22T10:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=17295"},"modified":"2022-01-08T17:41:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-08T15:41:44","slug":"narcizas-yra-zmogus-kuris-nemyli-saves-as-zinau-nes-buvau-narcizu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2022\/narcizas-yra-zmogus-kuris-nemyli-saves-as-zinau-nes-buvau-narcizu\/","title":{"rendered":"Narcizas yra \u017emogus, kuris nemyli sav\u0119s <i>(A\u0161 \u017einau, nes buvau narcizu)<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Narcizus atpa\u017einti n\u0117ra sud\u0117tinga &#8211; jie nuolat giriasi savo pasiekimais, fotografuojasi, ie\u0161ko \u201e\u012ftaking\u0173 draug\u0173\u201c, \u0161alia k\u016bri\u0173 gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti ir, svarbiausiai&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Narcizai nuolat pagra\u017eina savo gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>Narcizams gyvenimas n\u0117ra tiesiog \u012fvyki\u0173 rinkinys, kaip daugumai \u017emoni\u0173. <strong>Jiems gyvenimas yra holivudinis kino \u0161edevras:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Jei ka\u017ekas vyksta gerai &#8211; tai geriausias \u012fvykis j\u0173 gyvenime, tavo gyvenime ir apskritai pasaulyje;<\/li>\n<li>Jei ka\u017ekas vyksta blogai &#8211; tai did\u017eiausia tragedija, \u0161alyje turi b\u016bti skelbiamas gedulas, pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117kite kaip a\u0161 apsiverkiau.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Gali b\u016bti, kad \u0161i\u0105 akimirk\u0105 prisiminei dal\u012f m\u016bs\u0173 \u012f\u017eymybi\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>Ir, beje, kalbant apie \u012f\u017eymybes &#8211; narcizams tapti \u012f\u017eymiais n\u0117ra sunku. Jie nat\u016braliai moka sureik\u0161minti net ne\u012fdomiausi\u0105 \u012fvyk\u012f, o daugumai \u017ei\u016brov\u0173 &#8211; mums &#8211; \u012fdomu steb\u0117ti j\u0173 spektaklius. Mes \u017einom, kad jie meluoja, bet steb\u0117ti vis tiek smagu. Kaip teatre.<\/p>\n<h2>Ta\u010diau narcizo gyvenimas n\u0117ra vienpusis.<\/h2>\n<p>Tai n\u0117ra tik reklamos bei \u012fvaizd\u017eio formavimas. Taip pat narcizas vis\u0105 t\u0105 daro d\u0117l to, kad jo teatrali\u0161kumas &#8211; tai b\u016bdas nuraminti pasibjaur\u0117jim\u0105 savimi.<\/p>\n<p>Narcizui i\u0161 esm\u0117s nepatinka tai, kaip jis gyvena.\u00a0Jam nepatinka kas jis yra ir i\u0161 kur kilo. Jis nori b\u016bti ne \u0161iaip savimi. Jis nori b\u016bti ka\u017ekuo kitu. Siekiamybe. I\u0161svajotuoju grobiu. Jis nori b\u016bti \u0161i\u0173 laik\u0173 Odis\u0117jos herojumi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u0161 tai \u017einau, nes pats buvau narcizu.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Man nepatiko mano plinkanti kakta ir keistas balso tembras. Nepatiko mano \u012fpro\u010diai ir nesugeb\u0117jimas susirasti moters, kuri b\u016bt\u0173 \u0161alia. Taigi band\u017eiau vaizduoti ka\u017ekok\u012f veik\u0117j\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0117liau, d\u0117ka ger\u0173 draug\u0173 &#8211; tikr\u0173 draug\u0173, ne \u0161iaip \u012f\u017eymybi\u0173 &#8211; supratau, kad mano narcizi\u0161kumas n\u0117ra \u012fprasta. Nustojau apie save kurti pasakas. I\u0161tryniau visk\u0105, apie k\u0105 melavau. Ko negal\u0117jau i\u0161trinti &#8211; pri\u0117miau kaip savo juod\u0105 d\u0117m\u0119. Ir&#8230; Tiek&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Mano i\u0161\u0117jimas i\u0161 narcizi\u0161kumo nebuvo ka\u017ekas ypatingo. \u010cia nebuvo nu\u0161vitimo. Tiesiog ka\u017ekas pasikeit\u0117.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u012f\u017etant prie meil\u0117s sau&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Narcizai nemyli sav\u0119s.<\/strong> Jie nuolat pagra\u017eina &#8211; meluoja &#8211; apie savo gyvenimo \u012fvykius.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Jie tai daro ne d\u0117l to, kad b\u016bt\u0173 blogiukai melagiai.<\/strong> Tiesiog jiems nemiela b\u016bti savimi.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Narcizai irgi \u017emon\u0117s.\u00a0<\/strong>Tik li\u016bdni. Pasiekti j\u0173 tikr\u0105j\u0105 asmenyb\u0119 sunku, bet \u0161i kartais matosi pro j\u0173 suformuoto \u012fvaizd\u017eio tarpus.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Galb\u016bt esi narcizu ir tu?\u00a0<\/strong>A\u0161 ne\u017einau. Tik klausiu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A\u0161 ne\u017einau k\u0105 daugiau pasakyti. Nesu narcisizmo ekspertas. Tiesiog nor\u0117jau pasidalinti savo mintimis, patirtimis, kurias turiu \u0161i\u0105 akimirk\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>Jei turi sav\u0173 min\u010di\u0173 &#8211; papildyti arba pasigin\u010dyti &#8211; dr\u0105siai ra\u0161yk komentaruose apa\u010dioje. 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