{"id":15635,"date":"2020-02-14T15:17:38","date_gmt":"2020-02-14T13:17:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=15635"},"modified":"2021-10-01T03:02:34","modified_gmt":"2021-10-01T00:02:34","slug":"nuobodulys-smagu-ka-daryti-jei-nuobodulys-uzkniso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2020\/nuobodulys-smagu-ka-daryti-jei-nuobodulys-uzkniso\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0105 daryti, jei nuobodulys u\u017ekniso? <i>Nuobodulys &#8211; smagu!<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Mano did\u017eiausias tro\u0161kimas &#8211; nebenuobod\u017eiauti.<\/strong> Tai labai susij\u0119 su valios stiprumu.<\/p>\n<p>\u017dinai, kai turi k\u0105 veikti, savaime \u012fgauni inercijos, ir viskas tampa lengviau, atsiranda motyvacija eiti pirmyn ir gali sau leisti poils\u012f. O mano atveju, tas poilsis bereik\u0161mis, nes a\u0161 tame tiesiog egzistuoju. Nei kuriu naujas pa\u017eintis, nei keliuosi anks\u010diau nei 12 val, nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai mokausi ar skaitau, nugaliu savo ydas, nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai atlieku pareigas.<\/p>\n<p>Atrodo gyvenimas negali i\u0161tr\u016bkti i\u0161 \u0161ios ank\u0161tos d\u0117\u017eut\u0117s, kuri\u0105 a\u0161 kruop\u0161\u010diai d\u0117l \u012fvairi\u0173, ypa\u010d psichologini\u0173 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 laikau u\u017edariusi. Ir nepadeda nei pokalbis su psichologu (atrod\u0117, apie niek\u0105 kalb\u0117jom, na gal padar\u0117m ir vien\u0105 i\u0161vad\u0105, kad esu labai savikriti\u0161ka), nei tai, kad lankiau \u0161okius (jau\u010diu, neturiu tam talento, bet manau privalu leisti sau d\u017eiaugsm\u0105 i\u0161reik\u0161ti \u0161okiu) ir me\u010diau nei\u0161tverusi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160tai, kai turim \u017eod\u012f nuobod\u017eiauti, gal kyla ka\u017ekoki\u0173 patarim\u0173, kaip atsiverti patir\u010diai?<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Mano atsakymas \u0161iai skaitytojai:<\/h2>\n<p>&#8230;O kod\u0117l nenori nuobod\u017eiauti?<\/p>\n<p>A\u0161 \u017einau kod\u0117l. Na, ar sp\u0117ti galiu. <strong>Nes nuobod\u017eiaudama &#8211; veikdama tai, kas turb\u016bt tik tau pa\u010diai smagu &#8211; nesijauti pakankamai gera.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lyg \u017emon\u0117s, supantys tave, visad juda, juda, daro, dirba&#8230; Oi, visas feisbukas ir instagramas tik t\u0105 ir daro! Hustle ir produktyvumas!<\/p>\n<p>Ooo tu&#8230; Veiki tik tai, kas tau pa\u010diai smagu&#8230; Ot savanaud\u0117. Ot neauganti. Atsiliekanti. Visi tave lenkia, o tu lieki ka\u017ekur vietoje. Taip, jei nieko nedarysi &#8211; b\u016bsi negera. Neprotinga. Negra\u017ei. Nepatraukli. <strong>Nepakankamai gera.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Reikia ka\u017ek\u0105 daryti. Ka\u017ek\u0105 didesnio. Dar. Tik kod\u0117l \u0161is dalykas, kuris mane traukia, neatrodo toks geras, kaip dalykas to \u017emogaus, kuris apie j\u012f pasakoja ir giriasi ant viso svieto? Turb\u016bt akivaizdu&#8230; Jie geresni, o mano tinginyst\u0117 yra visa ko blogis.<\/p>\n<p>Na, ai\u0161ku, a\u0161 tik sp\u0117ju taip. Per savo prizm\u0119, v\u0117lgi, \u017ei\u016briu &#8211; jausm\u0173 toki\u0173 turiu da\u017enai. <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2017\/02\/tinginio-manifestas\/\">Net sau knyg\u0105 pasira\u0161iau, &#8222;Tinginio manifesto&#8221; vardu,<\/a> kad atmin\u010diau, jog tinginiauti ne tik svarbu, bet ir smagu.<\/p>\n<p>Jei sp\u0117ju teisingai, tada, kaip manai:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ar \u0161i\u0173 kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 pasiekimai tikrai tokie did\u016bs ir geri, kaip jie atrodo paskelbti internetuose?<\/li>\n<li>Ar tikrai jausies geriau, jei pati pasiskelbsi daug dalyk\u0173, kuriuos padarei, o visi tau plos, nes spausti \u0161irdutes instagrame be galo lengva, ta\u010diau vis tiek nesijusi, kad darai tai, k\u0105 nor\u0117tum daryti i\u0161ties?<\/li>\n<li>Juk turb\u016bt supranti, kad tavo tikroji galia ateina tuomet, kai gyveni pagal Savo norus, ar ne? Jei b\u016btum superherojus &#8211; ar tikrai tau reikt\u0173 b\u016bti ir stipriai, ir magi\u0161kai, ir mok\u0117ti pavirsti labai ma\u017ea ar didele, kad gal\u0117tum atlikti savo darb\u0105? Tai yra, juk supranti, kad neturi b\u016bti ideali?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ai\u0161ku, a\u0161 tik sp\u0117ju&#8230; \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewBox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla-uzrasai-child\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Danielius\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Mano did\u017eiausias tro\u0161kimas &#8211; nebenuobod\u017eiauti.<\/strong> Tai labai susij\u0119 su valios stiprumu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15638,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[66,67],"class_list":{"0":"post-15635","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pamastymai","8":"tag-atsakymai-i-klausimus","9":"tag-tinginyste"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15635","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15635"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15635\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15638"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15635"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15635"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15635"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}