{"id":13622,"date":"2019-03-13T16:55:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-13T13:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=13622"},"modified":"2021-09-21T17:45:56","modified_gmt":"2021-09-21T14:45:56","slug":"kaip-bendrauti-su-negatyviu-zmogumi-kaip-nepasinerti-i-pesimizma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2019\/kaip-bendrauti-su-negatyviu-zmogumi-kaip-nepasinerti-i-pesimizma\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaip bendrauti su negatyviu \u017emogumi? <i>Ir kaip nepasinerti \u012f pesimizm\u0105?<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Gautas debesyliet\u0117s klausimas:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sveikas Danieliau, ra\u0161au Tau, nes tavo patarimai visada praver\u010dia. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Situacija tokia, a\u0161 mokausi ir turiu draug\u0119 su kuria esame kambariokes, tiesiog yra viena b\u0117dele, ji pastoviai yra nervuota, nuolat jai kas nors blogai, viskuom nepatenkinta ir tai veikia mane, a\u0161 jau\u010diu kaip pati tampu tikra niurzga ir taipogi nervuota, pesimisti\u0161ka. Bandau nekreipti d\u0117mesio k\u0105 ji sako,bet be gin\u010d\u0173 neapsieiname, ne\u017einau vengti su ja kalb\u0117ti irgi negaliu, nes kiekviena dien\u0105 matom\u0117s, gyvename.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0105 patartume, kaip su tokiu \u017emogumi bendrauti? Kaip nepasinerti i t\u0105 pesimizmaaa&#8230;? -_-<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>Danieliaus atsakymas:<\/h3>\n<p>Sveika!<\/p>\n<p>Tai vis\u0173 pirma &#8211; su \u0161vent\u0117mis! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Antra, kaip manai &#8211; ar tarp j\u016bs\u0173 yra ka\u017ekuri, kuri b\u016bt\u0173 teisesn\u0117?<\/li>\n<li>Ar turi b\u016bti vienas po\u017ei\u016bris \u012f pasaul\u012f?<\/li>\n<li>Ir ar tur\u0117t\u0173 i\u0161vis b\u016bti visi vienodi?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Klausiu \u0161ito, nes, na, a\u0161 pats tuo padedu sau. Mano aplinkoje irgi yra keli nepozityv\u016bs \u017emon\u0117s. Bet&#8230; Reakcija U\u017dKNISA NEPOZITYVUMAS yra j\u0173 kalt\u0117 &#8211; jie \u010dia tavo tok\u012f jausm\u0105 tavyje padar\u0117, ar tavo &#8211; jausmus, visgi, pri\u017ei\u016bri ir tvarkaisi pati?<\/p>\n<p>K\u0105 jei tavo draug\u0117 yra kaip ma\u017ea kirmelyt\u0117, gyvenanti m\u0117\u0161le? Ar tai rei\u0161kia, kad ji yra bloga ir jos neturi b\u016bti ir jos mintys\/darbas yra neteisingas? Ta\u010diau kaip tuomet tas kakutis pavirsta dirva? Kaip tuomet i\u0161valomas \u0161\u016bdas nuo nenauding\u0173 chemikal\u0173 (atmetama tai, kas negerai) jei n\u0117ra kirm\u0117li\u0173, pastebin\u010di\u0173, persp\u0117jan\u010di\u0173, atrenkan\u010di\u0173 tai?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Galb\u016bt tu turi super gali\u0105 pasteb\u0117ti gerus dalykus, o ji &#8211; blogus?<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Ar tai padaro vien\u0105 i\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 teisesn\u0119?<\/li>\n<li>Ar tada i\u0161vis yra \u010dia konfliktas, kuris n\u0117ra tiesiog tavo\/j\u016bs\u0173\/m\u016bs\u0173 galvoje?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>K\u0105 manai?<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewBox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla-uzrasai-child\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Danielius\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Gautas debesyliet\u0117s klausimas:<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14727,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[66,52,47],"class_list":{"0":"post-13622","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-laiskai","8":"tag-atsakymai-i-klausimus","9":"tag-pozityvumas","10":"tag-santykiai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13622"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13622\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14727"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}