{"id":10484,"date":"2021-10-23T11:50:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-23T08:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=10484"},"modified":"2021-07-24T14:52:59","modified_gmt":"2021-07-24T11:52:59","slug":"mylintis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/2021\/mylintis\/","title":{"rendered":"<i>Metai be santyki\u0173:<\/i> K\u0105 i\u0161mokau apie save, metams atsisak\u0119s moter\u0173"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u0161\u0161\u016bkis, kuris, turb\u016bt, tau visai nesvarbus. Ar bent jau taip sp\u0117ju.\u00a0A\u0161 paband\u017eiau metus pab\u016bti vienas. Ar tiksliau &#8211; be mergin\u0173, kurios taip da\u017enai patraukdavo mano ak\u012f, prot\u0105, \u0161ird\u012f ir pen\u012f.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Tur\u0117k omenyje:<\/strong> \u0160\u012f i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f irgi laikau nepavykusiu. Kod\u0117l? <strong>Tiesiog ne\u017einau k\u0105 i\u0161 jo gavau ir tiek.<\/strong> Nors ir buvo visai smagu.<\/p>\n<p>Pateikiu u\u017era\u0161us, jei \u0161ie suteiks id\u0117j\u0173 ir pad\u0117s tau.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Leisk, paai\u0161kinsiu.<\/h2>\n<p>\u012esivaizduok, kad esi 19-kametis jaunuolis, paskutinius 14-k\u0105 praleid\u0119s su video \u017eaidimais. <a href=\"#footnote-1-10484\" id=\"note-1-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">1<\/a> Tavo plaukai riebaluoti, drabu\u017eiai apsmuk\u0119 ir purvini, o galvoje pu\u010dia v\u0117jai.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8211; \u016a\u016b\u016b\u016b, &#8211; \u0161aukia v\u0117jas. O tu tyli, nes neturi k\u0105 jam atsakyti.<\/p>\n<p>Laisvu laiku so\u010diai lankaisi \u012ftartinuose puslapiuose, <a href=\"#footnote-2-10484\" id=\"note-2-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">2<\/a> \u017ei\u016bri pornografij\u0105 ir skaitai mokslin\u0117s fantastikos knygas. Kartais nueini \u012f mokykl\u0105 &#8211; visgi tuojau baigiamieji egzaminai!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vien\u0105 dien\u0105 sutinki mergin\u0105. <\/strong>Kalbi\u0105, dr\u0105si\u0105, kupin\u0105 j\u0117g\u0173 ir id\u0117j\u0173, o ir toki\u0105 gra\u017ei\u0105! Turin\u010di\u0105 visk\u0105, kuo negali pasigirti tu. Pasi\u016blai nueiti \u012f pasimatym\u0105. Tai pirmoji mergina, per \u0161iuos 19-ka met\u0173 su\u017eav\u0117jusi tave.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8211; Atleisk, &#8211; sako ji, &#8211; geriau liekame tiesiog draugais.<\/p>\n<p>Tu nuli\u016bsti. Per visus \u0161iuos metus \u017eaid\u017eiant video \u017eaidimus tu ne\u012fpratai \u017eaisti taip, kad mok\u0117tum pralaim\u0117ti. \u0160is pralaim\u0117jimas atrodo kaip pasaulio pabaiga. <strong>Gr\u012f\u017e\u0119s namo verki.<\/strong><br \/>\nS\u0117di prie interneto ir ie\u0161kai \u201eKaip i\u0161eiti i\u0161 draug\u0173 zonos?\u201c.<br \/>\nPo m\u0117nesio sutinki kit\u0105 mergin\u0105. J\u0105 irgi pakvieti \u012f pasimatym\u0105, bet \u0161\u012f kart\u0105 jau apsimesdamas dr\u0105sesniu, prisiklaus\u0119s patarim\u0173 internete.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160i sutinka. <strong>Ir tu patiri vien\u0105 nuostabi\u0105 vasar\u0105. <\/strong>Pirmieji pasimatymai, pirmieji apsikabinimai, pirmieji bu\u010diniai, pirmieji&#8230; Dalykai lovoje.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8211; \u016a\u016b\u016b\u016b, &#8211; \u0161aukia. Bet \u0161\u012f kart\u0105 ne v\u0117jas, o auk\u0161to spaudimo kraujas tavo smegenyse. Nori dar!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Visgi su savo pirm\u0105ja meile i\u0161siskiri. <\/strong>Nes&#8230; Pab\u016bgsti kurti santykius. Bijai. Nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai. Taip bijai kurti santykius, kad dar \u0161e\u0161erius metus po pirmo i\u0161siskyrimo sau to nepripa\u017e\u012fsti!<br \/>\nIe\u0161kai kitos merginos.<br \/>\nTinderyje, pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 portaluose, klubuose ir \u0161iaip gatv\u0117se. <a href=\"#footnote-3-10484\" id=\"note-3-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">3<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Randi.\u00a0Susi\u017eavi.<\/p>\n<div class=\"highlight-2\">\n<h3>Kaip lengvai pakabinti mergin\u0105?<\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Sukurk i\u0161skirtin\u012f save. <\/strong>Prad\u0117k ra\u0161yti, pie\u0161ti \u017eem\u0117lapius, kurti men\u0105, k\u016brybin\u012f versl\u0105. Pla\u010diai apie tai pasakok ir tuo dalinkis. Dr\u0105siai gyvenk su savo i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiais ir nes\u0105moningu stiliumi.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Girkis savo pasiekimais. <\/strong>Ne merginai, o kitiems. Girkis pasauliui, kuo u\u017esiimi! B\u016bk pagyr\u016bnas, b\u016bk super\u017evaig\u017ed\u0117!<\/li>\n<li><strong>U\u017ekalbink netik\u0117tai. <\/strong>Tarytum tau visai ner\u016bp\u0117t\u0173 &#8211; apie politik\u0105 ir orus, apie menus ir jos nem\u0117gstamiausias knygas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Po keli\u0173 dien\u0173 pakviesk \u012f pasimatym\u0105. <\/strong>Tavo m\u0117gstamiausioje \u201eGreen cafe\u201c kavin\u0117je. <a href=\"#footnote-4-10484\" id=\"note-4-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">4<\/a> Tu ten vis tiek dirbsi, tai galite susitikti.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Susi\u017eav\u0117k ja. <\/strong>Steb\u0117k, kaip juda jos auskarai. Klausykis jos pasakojim\u0173. Kv\u0117puok jos i\u0161kv\u0117ptu oru.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Gr\u012f\u017ekite pas tave ar pas j\u0105 \u012f namus. <\/strong>Jokio sekso! Pa\u017eaiskite stalo \u017eaidimus, papietaukite, i\u0161siskirkite savais keliais.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Antr\u0105 kart\u0105 &#8211; jau su seksu. <\/strong>Pirmasis, visgi, tebuvo skirtas nuraminimui. Pana\u0161iai, kaip visas \u0161is karnavalas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dulkinkit\u0117s. <\/strong>Daug. Da\u017enai. Kaskart susitikus.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Jei santykiai einasi gerai &#8211; t\u0119sk. <\/strong>Mano ilgiausi truko 10 m\u0117nesi\u0173. Jei einasi prastai &#8211; tapkite tiesiog draugais.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Kv\u0117puok. <\/strong>M\u0117nes\u012f pails\u0117k. Visko b\u016bna, tu dar rasi savo Meil\u0119.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Susi\u017eav\u0117k kita mergina. <\/strong>Dabar jau kitokia.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/pickup\/\">Tai &#8211; lengvas b\u016bdas pakabinti mergin\u0105.<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"#footnote-5-10484\" id=\"note-5-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">5<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Per \u0161iuos <strong>6 <\/strong>metus susi\u017eavi:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Raudonplauke <\/strong>nekaltute;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Did\u017eiakr\u016bte <\/strong>menotyrininke;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Keliaujan\u010dia<\/strong>, berniuki\u0161ka blondine;<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u017daisminga <\/strong>vaik\u0173 teatro aktore;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nimfomani\u0161ka <\/strong>storuliuke;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Juokinga <\/strong>juvelyrikos menininke;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mokslin\u0117s <\/strong>fantastikos ra\u0161ytoja;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Garbanota <\/strong>verslininke;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pasaulinio <\/strong>lygio fotomodeliu;<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u0160eimyni\u0161ka <\/strong>esktremale&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&#8230;Ir dar keliasde\u0161imt trumpiau pa\u017einot\u0173 m\u016bz\u0173.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/temos\/laiskai\/\">Ra\u0161ai joms meil\u0117s lai\u0161kus.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Po paskutin\u0117s pa\u017einties, po \u0161ios \u0161eimyni\u0161kos, dr\u0105sios, kadaise i\u0161lipusios i\u0161 narkotik\u0173 pelk\u0117s, ekstremal\u0117s, po jos nuostabaus gro\u017eio, gyvenimo istorijos ir viso nuostabaus laiko kartu&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8230;Jautiesi kaip kelmas. Kaip p\u016bvantis rudeninis kelmas.<\/p>\n<p>Tu k\u0105 tik pa\u017einojai nuostabiausios i\u0161vaizdos, b\u016bdo, pasiekim\u0173 moter\u012f. Ta\u010diau i\u0161siskyr\u0117te, nes visai nesutapo j\u016bs\u0173 po\u017ei\u016briai \u012f Lietuv\u0105, moral\u0119 ir ideali\u0105 \u0161eim\u0105.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Klausi sav\u0119s, kas \u010dia vyksta. Kas \u010dia darosi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Supranti, kad toliau internetais ir j\u0173 patarimais pasitik\u0117ti negali. <a href=\"http:\/\/timas.lt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Susisieki su psichoterapeutu Timu Petrai\u010diu.<\/a>\u00a0Susitinkate.<\/p>\n<p>Perskaitai Brenda Shaeffer\u00a0knyg\u0105 <a href=\"http:\/\/psichika.eu\/blog\/kas-tai-meile-ar-priklausomybe\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8222;Kas tai &#8211; meil\u0117 ar priklausomyb\u0117?&#8221;.<\/a>\u00a0 Suvoki, kad visus \u0161iuos metus tau galvoje p\u016bt\u0117 v\u0117jas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8211; \u016a\u016b\u016b\u016b\u016b, &#8211; spiegia galvos tarpeklius skrod\u017eiantis v\u0117jas.<\/p>\n<p>O tu \u0161\u012f v\u0117j\u0105 laikei meile.<br \/>\nTaigi s\u0117di ir galvoji.<\/p>\n<h2>Bent vienerius metus man reikia pab\u016bti su savimi.<\/h2>\n<p>Ironi\u0161ka, kad asmeniui, kur\u012f pa\u017e\u012fstu geriausiai, skirdavau tiek nedaug laiko. Ie\u0161kodavau pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173, kad&#8230;\u00a0Na, gi \u017einai visa tai. <a href=\"#footnote-6-10484\" id=\"note-6-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">6<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Taigi&#8230;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Vieni <\/strong>metai.<\/li>\n<li>Be <strong>romantini\u0173 <\/strong>pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173.<\/li>\n<li>Tyrin\u0117jant <strong>savo <\/strong>\u017emogi\u0161kum\u0105.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Kv\u0117puojant.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h3>\u0160tai, kaip man sekasi.<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Gruodis: <\/strong>Praleidau su psichoterapeutu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sausis: <\/strong>Supratau, kad imuosi \u0161ito.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vasaris: <\/strong>Ramus.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Kovas: <\/strong>Ramus.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Balandis:<\/strong>\u00a0Sutikau mergin\u0105. Nepuoliau. Jau\u010diausi laimingesnis. <a href=\"#footnote-7-10484\" id=\"note-7-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">7<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Gegu\u017e\u0117:<\/strong>\u00a0Stebiu save.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Bir\u017eelis:\u00a0<\/strong>V\u0117l ramu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Liepa:\u00a0<\/strong>\u010ciki. Vasara!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rugpj\u016btis:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/meile\/\">Pradedu suprasti(?), kad santyki\u0173 prasm\u0117 yra m\u0117gautis, ne imti ar duoti. Ir svarbu nesitik\u0117ti.<\/a>\u00a0Jei nusi\u0161neku &#8211; sakyk.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rugs\u0117jis:\u00a0<\/strong>Sutikau mergin\u0105.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Spalis:\u00a0<\/strong>Galb\u016bt esm\u0117 ne romantikoje, o draugyst\u0117je?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Dar bandau suprasti, kas vyksta. Dar gyvenu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Tai va, toks mano 2017 met\u0173 i\u0161\u0161\u016bkis!<\/p>\n<p>O k\u0105 sakai tu?\u00a0<strong>K\u0105 gero tur\u0117\u010diau nuveikti per \u0161iuos metus?\u00a0<\/strong>Ir kas man pad\u0117t\u0173 rasti mano atsakymus?<\/p>\n<p>Sutrik\u0119s,<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewBox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla-uzrasai-child\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Danielius\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>\n<div class=\"footnotes\"><hr \/><ol><li id=\"footnote-1-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Runescape, Lineage 2, Silk Road, World of Warcraft ir gausybe MMORPG, RPG bei strategijos \u017eanro klasik\u0173.<a href=\"#note-1-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-1.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-2-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Kaip 4chan.<a href=\"#note-2-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-2.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-3-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Slampin\u0117ji kaip koks vilkas ir \u017evalgaisi.<a href=\"#note-3-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-3.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-4-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Kauno Laisv\u0117s al\u0117joje.<a href=\"#note-4-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-4.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-5-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Persp\u0117jimas: Satyra.<a href=\"#note-5-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-5.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-6-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Apsikabinimai, bu\u010diniai, seksas, r\u016bpes\u010diai, svajon\u0117s apie \u0161eim\u0105&#8230;<a href=\"#note-6-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-6.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-7-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Pla\u010diau ir i\u0161samiau &#8211; met\u0173 pabaigoje.<a href=\"#note-7-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-7.footnote--><\/ol><\/div><!--\/#footnotes-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u0161\u0161\u016bkis, kuris, turb\u016bt, tau visai nesvarbus. Ar bent jau taip sp\u0117ju.\u00a0A\u0161 paband\u017eiau metus pab\u016bti vienas. Ar tiksliau &#8211; be mergin\u0173, kurios taip da\u017enai patraukdavo mano ak\u012f, prot\u0105, \u0161ird\u012f ir pen\u012f. Tur\u0117k omenyje: \u0160\u012f i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f irgi laikau nepavykusiu. Kod\u0117l? Tiesiog ne\u017einau k\u0105 i\u0161 jo gavau ir tiek. Nors ir buvo visai smagu. Pateikiu u\u017era\u0161us, jei \u0161ie [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16739,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[48,47],"class_list":{"0":"post-10484","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-issukiai","8":"tag-nepavyke-issukiai","9":"tag-santykiai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10484\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}