{"id":509,"date":"2016-10-08T16:38:27","date_gmt":"2016-10-08T14:38:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=509"},"modified":"2021-07-21T21:24:40","modified_gmt":"2021-07-21T18:24:40","slug":"kaip-isties-buti-savimi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2016\/ka-pa-istam-but-pasam\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101 b\u016bt pa\u0161am un atst\u0101t vislab\u0101ko iespaidu uz pasauli?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/issukis-365\/\">113 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: <b>310<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 1.15em;\">Vai esat dzird\u0113ju\u0161i \u0161\u012bs fr\u0101zes?<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&quot;T\u0101p\u0113c neliecieties un esiet vienk\u0101r\u0161s!&quot;<\/li>\n<li>&quot;T\u0101p\u0113c esi t\u0101ds k\u0101 vienm\u0113r!&quot;<\/li>\n<li>&quot;T\u0101p\u0113c esi tu pats!&quot;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ja k\u0101dreiz esat jaut\u0101jis saviem draugiem (vai nabaga tie\u0161saistes rakstniekiem), k\u0101 uzvesties pirmaj\u0101 randi\u0146\u0101, pirmo reizi uz skatuves, pirmaj\u0101 darba intervij\u0101, pirmo reizi... Esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka esat dzird\u0113jis \u0161os v\u0101rdus vair\u0101k nek\u0101 vienu reizi.<\/p>\n<p>Da\u017ereiz es ar\u012b tos dzirdu.<\/p>\n<p>Tad es dom\u0101ju: &quot;wow, paldies par padomu.&quot; Jo, zini, ir tik viegli b\u016bt k\u0101dam citam, ja visu savu dz\u012bvi esi pavad\u012bjis tikai sav\u0101 \u0137ermen\u012b. (Tas, starp citu, ir sarkasms.)<\/p>\n<p>Bet n\u0101kam\u0101 doma ir nedaudz at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bga:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cGalu gal\u0101 vi\u0146i iesaka vienk\u0101r\u0161i atp\u016bsties<\/strong><strong>\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un \u0161\u012b doma (un darb\u012bbas p\u0113c t\u0101s) pal\u012bdz vair\u0101k.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left;\">Ko \u012bsti dom\u0101 cilv\u0113ki, kuri tev iesaka b\u016bt pa\u0161am?<\/h2>\n<p>T\u0101pat k\u0101 liel\u0101kaj\u0101 da\u013c\u0101 draudz\u012bgo padomu, \u0161eit galven\u0101 uzman\u012bba nav piev\u0113rsta pa\u0161iem v\u0101rdiem, bet gan tajos pasl\u0113ptajai noz\u012bmei. \u0160eit ir da\u017eas vienk\u0101r\u0161as darb\u012bbas, kas jums j\u0101veic:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Klausieties sniegtos padomus un m\u0113\u0123iniet tos saprast.<\/li>\n<li>Ja j\u016bs nesaprotat, ko vi\u0146i jums saka, padodieties. Ar tevi viss ir k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101.<\/li>\n<li>Padom\u0101jiet, k\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146i jums to visp\u0101r st\u0101sta?<\/li>\n<li>Ja neviena ideja tev neder \u2013 atsakies ar\u012b tu. Tas nav b\u016btiski.<\/li>\n<li>S\u0101ciet dom\u0101t par to, k\u0101du lab\u0101ku jaut\u0101jumu uzdot, lai ieg\u016btu prec\u012bz\u0101ku padomu.<\/li>\n<li>Bet, ja nel\u016bdz, atkal padodies.<\/li>\n<li>elpot Dzi\u013ci. Vislab\u0101k j\u016bs m\u0101c\u0101t mier\u012bgi un viegli. Ja iesp\u0113jams, m\u0113\u0123iniet sajust apk\u0101rt\u0113j\u0101s vides smar\u017eu. (Tikai nes\u0101c uzvesties k\u0101 kuce.)<\/li>\n<li>\u2026Pala, k\u0101da bija probl\u0113ma?<\/li>\n<li>Izbaudi mirkli \u2013 tu vienk\u0101r\u0161i aizmirsi spriedzi, bailes, neveikl\u012bbu un visu p\u0101r\u0113jo, kas tev lika justies tik slikti, ka pras\u012bji padomu sevis nomierin\u0101\u0161anai.<\/li>\n<li>Un palieciet atp\u016btu\u0161ies. Jo, kad tu neesi zem spriedzes, tu esi tu pats.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Un tas ar\u012b viss.<\/p>\n<p>Cilv\u0113ki, kuri saka, ka esi \u201cvienk\u0101r\u0161i esi pats\u201d, nem\u0113\u0123ina j\u016bs mulsin\u0101t. Vi\u0146i saka, ka t\u0101p\u0113c, ka spriedzes br\u012b\u017eos tu ner\u012bkojies k\u0101 cilv\u0113ks, bet gan k\u0101 stabs uz augstsprieguma l\u012bnijas.<\/p>\n<p>...Un augstsprieguma l\u012bnijas stabi raida elektr\u012bbu, bet pa\u0161i par to nej\u016btas labi. Un slikt\u0101kaj\u0101s situ\u0101cij\u0101s uzvedies k\u0101 \u012aSTI stabi.<\/p>\n<p>Kas tu esi, cilv\u0113ks vai stabs?<\/p>\n<p>elpot<\/p>\n<p>elpo\u0161ana,<br \/>\n<strong>Daniels<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/issukis-365\/\">113 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: <b>310<\/b>.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14509,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[2,73,47],"class_list":{"0":"post-509","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pamastymai","8":"tag-365-tekstai","9":"tag-drasa","10":"tag-santykiai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/509","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=509"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/509\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14509"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=509"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=509"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=509"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}