{"id":353,"date":"2016-09-28T11:44:58","date_gmt":"2016-09-28T09:44:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=353"},"modified":"2021-07-21T19:17:53","modified_gmt":"2021-07-21T16:17:53","slug":"galbut-pokyciu-nereikia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2016\/varbut-ne-ne-ietekme-nepieciesama\/","title":{"rendered":"Varb\u016bt jums nav vajadz\u012bgas izmai\u0146as dz\u012bv\u0113?"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside><span style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: 102 v\u0101rdi. Rakst\u012bts: <b>449<\/b>.<\/span><\/aside>\n<blockquote><p>&quot;Esi valdnieks sav\u0101m v\u0113lm\u0113m un savas sirdsapzi\u0146as vergs.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>- Viktors Franklis, gr\u0101matas \"Cilv\u0113ks j\u0113gas mekl\u0113jumos\" autors<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Reiz mana draudzene Jurgita jaut\u0101ja: \"Danieli, ko tu dari, ja v\u0113lies kaut ko main\u012bt, bet baidies? Kad esi pieradis pie dz\u012bves, kas nav apmierino\u0161a, bet ir labi dz\u012bvot t\u0101, k\u0101 ir?\"<\/p>\n<p>Ja vi\u0146a man to b\u016btu jaut\u0101jusi pirms pieciem gadiem, kad es tikai s\u0101ku interes\u0113ties par person\u012bgo izaugsmi, es vi\u0146u b\u016btu apb\u0113rusi ar ska\u013cru\u0146iem. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brainyquote.com\/quotes\/keywords\/believe_in_yourself.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fr\u0101zes<\/a>, kas motiv\u0113 <a href=\"https:\/\/.i.imgur.com\/dkmGbhQ.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Skatiet att\u0113lus vietn\u0113<\/a>\u00a0un <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, kas tas ir<\/a>. Varb\u016bt tad mani m\u012bl\u0113tu un cien\u012btu. <del>sievietes<\/del> par to, ka iedvesmoja vi\u0146u main\u012bties.<\/p>\n<p>Toreiz es nezin\u0101ju, ka svar\u012bg\u0101ka par \u0101r\u0113jo motiv\u0101ciju ir apzi\u0146a, ka p\u0101rmai\u0146as var neb\u016bt nepiecie\u0161amas.<\/p>\n<h2>Kas?<\/h2>\n<p>\"Mainies un k\u013c\u016bsti lab\u0101ks,\" - t\u0101 skan balss no motiv\u0101cijas video un skrie\u0161anas apavu rekl\u0101m\u0101m. Nu, ko tu v\u0113l gaidi? Vienk\u0101r\u0161i dari to! K\u013c\u016bsti lab\u0101ks! Tagad!<\/p>\n<p>Tom\u0113r:\u00a0<strong>Vai j\u016bsu past\u0101v\u012bg\u0101 izaugsme patie\u0161\u0101m ir atbilde?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0160eit ir divi cilv\u0113ki:<\/p>\n<p><strong>a) \u0122edimins.<\/strong>\u00a0Vi\u0146\u0161 nav k\u0101j\u0101mg\u0101j\u0113js, vi\u0146\u0161 raksta v\u0113stules, aicina tirgot\u0101jus, \u0161uv\u0113jus un amatniekus sadarboties ar mums. Vi\u0146\u0161. Un vi\u0146\u0161 vienm\u0113r aug. Kaut kas vi\u0146a dv\u0113sel\u0113 vai sap\u0146os, Dzelzs vilku form\u0101, alla\u017e gaudo un riesta - \"Tu vari vair\u0101k. Tev j\u0101turpina iet uz priek\u0161u. Str\u0101d\u0101jiet v\u0113l vair\u0101k, neapst\u0101jieties!\"<\/p>\n<p><strong>(b) Buda.\u00a0<\/strong>J\u016bsu paz\u012bstamais kaimi\u0146\u0161 ar pla\u0161u vidukli. Vi\u0146\u0161 necen\u0161as sasniegt vair\u0101k, un Vara \u0113rg\u013ca balss, kas run\u0101 vi\u0146a pr\u0101t\u0101, neliek tev augt, bet tikai atk\u0101rto: \"Nesteidzies, priec\u0101jies, bez \u0161odienas nav r\u012btdienas, un k\u0101da j\u0113ga no r\u012btdienas, ja tu nevari izbaud\u012bt \u0161o mirkli?\".<\/p>\n<p>Pirm\u0101 nep\u0101rtraukti att\u012bst\u0101s, bet otr\u0101 ir apmierin\u0101ta ar to, kas tai ir.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pirmais ir verdz\u012bb\u0101 lab\u0101ka rezult\u0101ta, otrais <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/tinginio-manifestas\/\">k\u013c\u016bt slinki un pied\u0101v\u0101t efekt\u012bv\u0101kus risin\u0101jumus.<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Pirmais ieg\u0101d\u0101jas jaunu apm\u0101c\u012bbu, k\u0101 b\u016bt laim\u012bg\u0101ks, bet otrais atp\u016b\u0161as un bauda sevi t\u0101du, k\u0101ds vi\u0146\u0161 ir.<\/li>\n<li>Pirmie pl\u0101no ide\u0101lu n\u0101kotni, otrie m\u0113\u0123ina un m\u0101c\u0101s \u0161odien.<\/li>\n<li>Pirmais nekad nav apmierin\u0101ts ar sevi, bet otrais vienm\u0113r ir apmierin\u0101ts.<\/li>\n<li>Pirmais, iesp\u0113jams, ir tikai b\u0113ru dv\u0113sele, bet otrais - partijas dv\u0113sele.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Jo viens no tiem ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i relaks\u0113jo\u0161s. Un dz\u012bvo tagad.<\/p>\n<p>...Atceroties, ka viss vienm\u0113r beidzas.<\/p>\n<h2>J\u0101, noteikti.<\/h2>\n<p>P\u0101rmai\u0146as ma\u0123iskas izaugsmes d\u0113\u013c nav nepiecie\u0161amas. Ne jums, ne nevienam citam.<\/p>\n<p>Vai vismaz es neredzu tam iemeslu. Ja man nav v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s m\u0101c\u012bties, augt, eksperiment\u0113t, izaicin\u0101t sevi - es to nedaru. Un es to nedar\u012b\u0161u, l\u012bdz saprat\u012b\u0161u, ka k\u013c\u016bdos. Vai ar\u012b k\u013c\u016bstu traks.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101tad, Jurgita, ja v\u0113laties kaut ko main\u012bt, bet baid\u0101ties... <strong>Varb\u016bt j\u016bs nemaz nev\u0113laties main\u012bties?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Varb\u016bt \u0161o v\u0113lmi iedve\u0161 tikai vilki m\u016bsu sap\u0146os, un, atz\u012bsim, ir bail pateikt n\u0113? Un tad, ja tas nav tavs, k\u0101p\u0113c tu m\u0113\u0123ini piespiedu k\u0101rt\u0101 pie\u0146emt to par savu? K\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t uzspiest sev Stokholmas sindromu un m\u012bl\u0113t kaut ko, kas cen\u0161as j\u016bs nolaup\u012bt un izvarot?<\/p>\n<p>Protams, es tikai uzdodu jaut\u0101jumus.<\/p>\n<p>Bet, ja es var\u0113tu atgriezties piecus gadus atpaka\u013c un m\u0101c\u012bties no jauna, es izbaud\u012btu aizejo\u0161\u0101s dienas, dar\u012btu to, kas man pat\u012bk, un paskat\u012btos vilkam \"Mekl\u0113 vair\u0101k\" ac\u012bs un teiktu \"pf\u016b\".<\/p>\n<p>Es to atk\u0101rtoju, l\u012bdz izvarot\u0101js vilks tika izdz\u012bts no manas m\u0101jas. Un es var\u0113tu dz\u012bvot. Saska\u0146\u0101 ar sav\u0101m v\u0113lm\u0113m. Laim\u012bgi un laiski.<\/p>\n<p>Aicinu j\u016bs pievienoties mums.<\/p>\n<p>j\u016bsu<br \/>\n<strong> Daniels<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<aside><span style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: 102 v\u0101rdi. 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