{"id":3161,"date":"2017-08-31T17:58:52","date_gmt":"2017-08-31T14:58:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=3161"},"modified":"2021-10-01T02:59:17","modified_gmt":"2021-09-30T23:59:17","slug":"matt-weyland","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2017\/mets-veilends\/","title":{"rendered":"<i>Intervija ar Metu Veilendu:<\/i> K\u0101 ieinteres\u0113t un piesaist\u012bt meiteni?"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/issukis-365\/\">2252 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: <b>782<\/b>.<\/aside>\n<p>Un k\u0101 jums izdodas sazin\u0101ties ar pret\u0113j\u0101 (vai viena) dzimuma pilso\u0146iem? J\u0101, es zinu, ka tas ir personisks jaut\u0101jums, bet man rad\u0101s jaut\u0101jums - vai jums ar\u012b ir nosv\u012bdu\u0161as plaukstas? (Vai nagi?)<\/p>\n<p>\u0160odienas intervij\u0101 es run\u0101ju <strong>ES redzu<\/strong> (vai Mets Veilands), kuram ilgu laiku sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 bija \u013bOTI gr\u016bti dab\u016bt meiteni, kas vi\u0146am patika, vai pat atrast meiteni, kura p\u0113c trim sekund\u0113m nesajuktu.<\/p>\n<p>Tom\u0113r tas ir main\u012bjies uz labo pusi. Matass m\u0101c\u012bj\u0101s un auga.<\/p>\n<p>Un \u0161odien vi\u0146\u0161 past\u0101st\u012bs par savu izaicin\u0101jumu, kura laik\u0101 <strong>katru dienu<\/strong> vajadz\u0113ja pajaut\u0101t vismaz 3 jaukas meitenes katrai, <strong>30 dienas p\u0113c k\u0101rtas<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>J\u0101, da\u017eiem cilv\u0113kiem tas b\u016btu joks. Un ar\u012b pa\u0161am Matam \u0161odien nav gr\u016bti. Bet k\u0101dreiz tas bija liels izaicin\u0101jums\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Un vi\u0146\u0161 to p\u0101rvar\u0113ja \u0161\u0101di:<\/p>\n<h3>Sveiks Mets! Pirmk\u0101rt, iepaz\u012bstieties ar sevi. Piecos teikumos vai maz\u0101k - kas tu esi?<\/h3>\n<p>Esmu coachingas.lt autors. Kop\u0161 pusaud\u017ea vecuma mani interes\u0113 vispus\u012bga pa\u0161att\u012bst\u012bba un \u012bpa\u0161i saskarsmes psiholo\u0123ija. Iepriek\u0161 Weyland Life projekt\u0101 konsult\u0113ju v\u012brie\u0161us komunik\u0101cijas ar meiten\u0113m un pa\u0161apzi\u0146as jaut\u0101jumos. Tagad es vienk\u0101r\u0161i dz\u012bvoju dienai un cen\u0161os pal\u012bdz\u0113t tiem, kas v\u0113las manu pal\u012bdz\u012bbu.<\/p>\n<h3>Vai j\u016bs bie\u017ei izaicin\u0101t sevi? Kur j\u016bs novietotu sevi desmit ballu skal\u0101 no g\u013c\u0113vul\u012bg\u0101s Nuobodilas l\u012bdz supervaronim Betmenam?<\/h3>\n<p>Katru gadu es veicu vismaz vienu m\u0113nesi vai ilg\u0101ku izaicin\u0101jumu. Citas piemin\u0113\u0161anas v\u0113rtas ir medit\u0101cija katru dienu vienu stundu m\u0113ne\u0161a garum\u0101, ga\u013cas ne\u0113\u0161ana taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 m\u0113nes\u012b un piln\u012bga attur\u0113\u0161an\u0101s no alkohola gada (2014!).<\/p>\n<p>K\u0101 es sevi nov\u0113rt\u0113tu \u0161aj\u0101 &quot;varo\u0146u&quot; skal\u0101? Manupr\u0101t, Forest Gump b\u016btu vistuv\u0101k, es vienk\u0101r\u0161i daru to, kas taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b liekas pareizi un labi un p\u0101r\u0101k nedom\u0101ju par sek\u0101m. K\u0101dam tas ir izaicin\u0101jums, man tas ir dz\u012bvesveids, sevis izzin\u0101\u0161ana.<\/p>\n<h3>Past\u0101stiet mums, k\u0101du izaicin\u0101jumu j\u016bs pie\u0146\u0113m\u0101t un k\u0101di bija noteikumi?<\/h3>\n<p>Esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka izaicin\u0101jums, ko esmu izpild\u012bjis tr\u012bs reizes, da\u017eiem \u0161\u0137it\u012bs smiekl\u012bgs, mu\u013c\u0137\u012bgs, d\u012bvains vai cit\u0101di.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101p\u0113c mana izaicin\u0101juma b\u016bt\u012bba bija katru dienu uzaicin\u0101t 3 meitenes, kuras es nezinu, kur\u0101m es pat\u012bku.<\/p>\n<p>Minim\u0101lais m\u0113r\u0137is ir saruna, maksim\u0101lais m\u0113r\u0137is ir tas, cik meitenei es pat\u012bku. \u0160\u0101ds izaicin\u0101jums parasti tiek veikts apm\u0113ram 30 dienas. P\u0113c katras dienas es analiz\u0113ju savas burvest\u012bbas, mekl\u0113jot k\u013c\u016bdas un iesp\u0113jas uzlabot.<\/p>\n<h3>Un k\u0101p\u0113c izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101ties \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu?<\/h3>\n<p>P\u0113c pikapu kopienas atra\u0161anas, jauno zin\u0101\u0161anu pielieto\u0161anas praks\u0113 es atkl\u0101ju, ka tas patie\u0161\u0101m darbojas. V\u0113l\u0113jos pilnveidoties arvien \u0101tr\u0101k, justies br\u012bv\u0101k pievilc\u012bgu meite\u0146u sabiedr\u012bb\u0101, b\u016bt v\u012brietim, kur\u0161 var izv\u0113l\u0113ties sev v\u0113lam\u0101s meitenes, nevis gaid\u012bt, kad vi\u0146as izv\u0113l\u0113sies.<\/p>\n<h3>Kopum\u0101, k\u0101 jums izdev\u0101s sasniegt savu m\u0113r\u0137i?<\/h3>\n<p>Pirm\u0101 tie\u0161\u0101m bija wow. Daudz randi\u0146u, piedz\u012bvojumu vai k\u0101 cit\u0101di pat\u012bkamas saskarsmes ar skaist\u0101m meiten\u0113m. Bija ar\u012b \u013coti smagas dienas, kad jutos tra\u0123iski un meitenes mani ignor\u0113ja, bet dom\u0101ju, ka tie\u0161i tad n\u0101ca visvair\u0101k atzi\u0146u.<\/p>\n<p>Izaicin\u0101jums pras\u012bja lielu gribassp\u0113ku un discipl\u012bnu, jo, k\u0101 jau min\u0113ju, t\u0101 nebija tikai pak\u0101r\u0161an\u0101s, bet ar\u012b analiz\u0113\u0161ana, ko izdar\u012bju nepareizi, kur k\u013c\u016bd\u012bjos un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k, bet viss izdev\u0101s, tie\u0161i t\u0101, k\u0101 pl\u0101noju.<\/p>\n<p>Otrais &quot;maratons&quot; bija veiksm\u012bg\u0101ks rezult\u0101tu zi\u0146\u0101, jo biju jau pieredz\u0113ju\u0161\u0101ks, bet neko daudz nem\u0101c\u012bjos, tre\u0161ais man par\u0101d\u012bja, ka atkal laiks main\u012bties un iet uz kvalit\u0101ti, un kvantit\u0101ti...<\/p>\n<h3>Bet kas visvair\u0101k st\u0101v\u0113ja tav\u0101 ce\u013c\u0101? T\u0101tad, ko j\u016bs dar\u012bj\u0101t, kad bija gr\u016bti un grib\u0113j\u0101t visu izmest?<\/h3>\n<p>P\u0101rtrauca... \u0123imene.<\/p>\n<p>Radinieki mani nesaprata un negrib\u0113ja saprast, bet es vienalga dar\u012bju savu un nemaz neno\u017e\u0113loju.<\/p>\n<aside>Par, <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/dejau\/\">k\u0101 iem\u0101c\u012bties teikt &quot;es dar\u012bju&quot; da\u017ereiz ar\u012b ir rakst\u012bts Debesyl\u0101<\/a>.<\/aside>\n<p>Es nekad negrib\u0113ju aizbraukt. Kad viss k\u013cuva gr\u016bts, es medit\u0113ju, mekl\u0113ju iemeslus, k\u0101p\u0113c es jutos slikti, vai vienk\u0101r\u0161i teicu &quot;b\u0101c&quot; un palaidu to va\u013c\u0101.<\/p>\n<h3>K\u0101 j\u016bs jut\u0101ties p\u0113c izaicin\u0101juma izpildes? Vai sasniedz\u0101t to, uz ko s\u0101kotn\u0113ji cer\u0113j\u0101t? Un ko j\u016bs uzzin\u0101j\u0101t izaicin\u0101juma laik\u0101?<\/h3>\n<p>Esmu sasniedzis vair\u0101k, nek\u0101 biju dom\u0101jis, ka varu. Es jutos lieliski. Sapratu, ka mans garast\u0101voklis ir atkar\u012bgs tikai no manis, nevis no citiem vai apk\u0101rt\u0113j\u0101s vides. Pat psiholo\u0123iski visp\u0101r k\u013cuvu stipr\u0101ks.<\/p>\n<p>Uzdro\u0161inos teikt, ka, skrienot p\u0113c sv\u0101rkiem, es pat nedaudz nobriedu, jo tikai p\u0113c to pat\u012bkamo saj\u016btu nogar\u0161o\u0161anas uz tiem s\u0101c skat\u012bties k\u0101 uz dz\u012bves sast\u0101vda\u013cu, nevis uz br\u012bnumu izredz\u0113tajiem.<\/p>\n<h3>Vai jums ir k\u0101ds padoms cilv\u0113kiem, kuri v\u0113las atk\u0101rtot vai p\u0101rsp\u0113t j\u016bsu piedz\u012bvojumu?<\/h3>\n<p>Sagatavo\u0161an\u0101s un noteik\u0161ana. J\u0101apsola sev, ka, lai vai k\u0101, izaicin\u0101jumu pabeigsi - proti, ne\u013causi sevi p\u0101r\u0146emt kompleksiem, \u0161aub\u0101m un bail\u0113m, bet tikai soli pa solim ies pret\u012b m\u0113r\u0137im.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0101pes ir da\u013ca no progresa.<\/p>\n<p>Svar\u012bga ir ar\u012b pareiz\u0101 \u201ctehnikas\u201d izv\u0113le, jo ir miljoniem interv\u0113\u0161anas meto\u017eu, ta\u010du tikai da\u017eas no t\u0101m der\u0113s tev.<\/p>\n<h3>Nu ooooo... K\u0101du izaicin\u0101jumu tu tagad pie\u0146emsi? Vai jums jau ir idejas vai slepenas v\u0113lmes?<\/h3>\n<p>Tie\u0161\u0101m t\u0101. Dom\u0101ju, ka n\u0101kamais izaicin\u0101jums b\u016bs rakst\u012b\u0161ana. Man pat\u012bk to dar\u012bt, un es zinu, ka cilv\u0113kiem pat\u012bk inform\u0101cija, ar kuru dalos, t\u0101p\u0113c man b\u016bs j\u0101piespie\u017e sevi to dar\u012bt katru dienu, ne tikai tad, kad esmu slinks \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<h3>Paldies par st\u0101stu <strong>Skaties!<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Nu nekoment\u0113\u0161u meite\u0146u (vai pui\u0161u) interv\u0113\u0161anas pa\u0146\u0113mienus... Bet \u0161\u0137iet, ka Matass tikko atk\u0101rtoja veco paties\u012bbu - caur cie\u0161an\u0101m l\u012bdz zvaigzn\u0113m. Un ar\u012b zin\u0101tnes r\u016bgto sak\u0146u saldie aug\u013ci vai kaut kas taml\u012bdz\u012bgs.<\/p>\n<p>Es pats neizmantoju pak\u0101r\u0161anas pa\u0146\u0113mienus, jo uzskatu, ka god\u012bgums ir vislab\u0101kais \u2014 pat ja sav\u0101 veid\u0101 esi negl\u012bts vecs m\u0101rrutks. Galu gal\u0101, sazinoties, \u0161\u012b negl\u012bt\u012bba tiek \u0101rst\u0113ta un iz\u0101rst\u0113ta!<\/p>\n<p>Un, cita starp\u0101, beig\u0101s:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Par <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/kaip-radau-draugu-lietuvoje\/\">vi\u0146a izaicin\u0101jums kopum\u0101 satikt jaunus cilv\u0113kus Lietuv\u0101<\/a> Antanas no Debesy sniedza interviju;<\/li>\n<li>Un mans \u0161efpav\u0101rs Daniels ir uzrakst\u012bjis garu, garu, gr\u0101matas cien\u012bgu <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/kaip-radau-draugu-lietuvoje\/\">rokasgr\u0101mata, k\u0101 iem\u0101c\u012bties sazin\u0101ties ar cilv\u0113kiem<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Es ceru, ka tas pal\u012bdz\u0113s jums, las\u012bt\u0101ji!<\/p>\n<p>tavs,<br \/>\n<strong>C\u016bka Antanas<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<aside style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/issukis-365\/\">2252 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: <b>782<\/b>.<\/aside>\n<p>Un k\u0101 jums izdodas sazin\u0101ties ar pret\u0113j\u0101 (vai viena) dzimuma pilso\u0146iem? J\u0101, es zinu, ka tas ir personisks jaut\u0101jums, bet man rad\u0101s jaut\u0101jums - vai jums ar\u012b ir nosv\u012bdu\u0161as plaukstas? (Vai nagi?)<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15357,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[2,47],"class_list":{"0":"post-3161","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-interviu","8":"tag-365-tekstai","9":"tag-santykiai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3161","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3161"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3161\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15357"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3161"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3161"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}