{"id":2848,"date":"2017-07-15T11:39:37","date_gmt":"2017-07-15T08:39:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=2848"},"modified":"2021-07-07T16:54:53","modified_gmt":"2021-07-07T13:54:53","slug":"be-prasmes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2017\/bez-jegas\/","title":{"rendered":"<i>Gr\u0101matas skices par noz\u012bmi:<\/i> K\u0101p\u0113c jums nav vajadz\u012bga dz\u012bves j\u0113ga?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/issukis-365\/\">1621 v\u0101rds<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: <b>1626<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 1.15em;\">Ja v\u0113lies dz\u012bvot laim\u012bgi...<br \/>\n...dz\u012bves j\u0113ga tev nav vajadz\u012bga.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Fakts.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101pat k\u0101 neviens no \u0161iem:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>dz\u012bves aicin\u0101jums,<\/li>\n<li>vietas Visum\u0101,<\/li>\n<li>harmonijas,<\/li>\n<li>apgaism\u012bba,<\/li>\n<li>liktenis,<\/li>\n<li>z\u012bme,<\/li>\n<li>..<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u2026Vai citas l\u012bdz\u012bgas ma\u0123iskas fr\u0101zes, vienalga vai ne, lai ko citu izdom\u0101tu reli\u0123ijas, kultu vad\u012bt\u0101ji, burvji un guru, kuri ir \u201csatiku\u0161i Dievu\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Ja v\u0113lies dz\u012bvot laim\u012bgu dz\u012bvi un dar\u012bt to, kas sag\u0101d\u0101 prieku, naudu, nebeidzamu ener\u0123iju, gandar\u012bjumu un citas bag\u0101t\u012bbas... Dz\u012bvei nav vajadz\u012bga j\u0113ga.<\/p>\n<p>J\u0101, es to teicu.<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs varat uzreiz aps\u016bdz\u0113t mani l\u012bdz krustam un teikt, ka esmu briesm\u012bgs un neiedvesmojo\u0161s cilv\u0113ks, ka man nosp\u013cauties uz jaut\u0101jumu, kas kop\u0161 B\u0101beles tor\u0146a laikiem nomoc\u012bjis filozofus, rakstniekus, m\u0101ksliniekus un citus dom\u0101t\u0101jus vair\u0101k nek\u0101 8 t\u016bksto\u0161us gadu...<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Lai cik interesanti <em>noz\u012bm\u0113<\/em> jaut\u0101jums (piem., &quot;k\u0101da ir manas dz\u012bves j\u0113ga?&quot; vai taml\u012bdz\u012bgi), tas ir gandr\u012bz bezv\u0113rt\u012bgs tieksm\u0113 p\u0113c laim\u012bgas dz\u012bves.<\/p>\n<p>J\u0101, da\u017ereiz gr\u016bti jaut\u0101jumi noder \u2013 tie padzi\u013cina m\u016bsu izpratni par sevi, pasauli, pal\u012bdz tren\u0113t smadzenes, sadzird\u0113t citu cilv\u0113ku viedok\u013cus un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k... Bet \u0161ie jaut\u0101jumi nepal\u012bdz sasniegt laimi.<\/p>\n<p>Ir jaut\u0101jumi, kas jums pal\u012bdz\u0113s vair\u0101k.<\/p>\n<p>Piem\u0113ram, viens no \u0161\u0101diem jaut\u0101jumiem b\u016btu:<br \/>\nUn ko tev pat\u012bk dar\u012bt?<\/p>\n<p>\u013bauj man paskaidrot.<\/p>\n<h2>\u2026Pala, ko? Ar ko tik vienk\u0101r\u0161s jaut\u0101jums ir lab\u0101ks par dzi\u013ciem, fundament\u0101liem jaut\u0101jumiem?<\/h2>\n<p>Lai gan nekad neesmu bijis \u013coti praktisks cilv\u0113ks (t\u0101p\u0113c rakstu Cloud, lai gan var\u0113tu b\u016bt b\u016bvin\u017eenieris), uzskatu, ka, run\u0101jot par apmierin\u0101t\u012bbu ar dz\u012bvi, svar\u012bg\u0101ki par filozofiskiem jaut\u0101jumiem ir jaut\u0101jumi, uz kuriem var atbild\u0113t.<\/p>\n<p>Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u0101atsak\u0101s no visiem dzi\u013cajiem, interesantajiem, pr\u0101tu izraiso\u0161iem jaut\u0101jumiem. N\u0113 nav \u012bsti. Jo \u0161\u0101di jaut\u0101jumi izgl\u012bto, \u013cauj caur jaut\u0101jumiem atkl\u0101t sevi un reiz\u0113m, parasti savas atbildes skaidrojot citiem, pal\u012bdz justies lab\u0101k.<\/p>\n<p>Tom\u0113r, ja j\u016bs patie\u0161\u0101m v\u0113laties atrast darb\u012bbu, kas j\u016bs aizved\u012bs\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Jums nav vajadz\u012bgi filozofiski jaut\u0101jumi.<\/p>\n<p>Jums ir nepiecie\u0161ami jaut\u0101jumi, kas pal\u012bdz\u0113tu jums atrast j\u016bsu uz\u0146\u0113mumu. Praktiski. Iesp\u0113jams. Nevis &quot;var\u0113tu noder\u0113t&quot;, bet gan &quot;jaut\u0101ja, izdar\u012bja un saprata&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Man pat\u012bk izmantot romantisku attiec\u012bbu metaforas, run\u0101jot par dz\u012bvi un liet\u0101m, kas man pat\u012bk. Un \u0161eit m\u016bsu jaut\u0101jumi at\u0161\u0137iras k\u0101...<\/p>\n<p><strong>A) <\/strong>Kas ir m\u012blest\u012bba?<br \/>\n\u2026Un\u2026<br \/>\n<strong>b) <\/strong>Vai es v\u0113l\u0113tos doties uz randi\u0146u ar vi\u0146u \u0161aj\u0101 ned\u0113\u013cas nogal\u0113?<\/p>\n<p>Viens jaut\u0101jums ir dzi\u013c\u0161, diezgan interesants, to bie\u017ei uzdod filozofi un inteli\u0123enti cilv\u0113ki, bet otrs jaut\u0101jums ir konkr\u0113ts un sniedz atbildi n\u0113. <em>sensenos laikos<\/em>, ak... Nu, tikl\u012bdz izlemsi. Un te nav ko lemt.<\/p>\n<p>Viens jaut\u0101jums sl\u0113pj risin\u0101jumu, atbildi un, iesp\u0113jams, pat patieso mekl\u0113jumu m\u0113r\u0137i, bet otrs paver vieglu ce\u013cu: taisn\u0101ku, glud\u0101ku, viegl\u0101ku.<\/p>\n<p>Vai paman\u0101t at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bbu?<\/p>\n<p>Ja t\u0101 - tad \u013coti labi. Un es ceru, ka j\u016bs saprotat, k\u0101p\u0113c es teik\u0161u \u0161os divus teikumus:<\/p>\n<p>\u0160aj\u0101 gr\u0101mat\u0101 es nerun\u0101\u0161u par dz\u012bves j\u0113gas mekl\u0113jumiem.<br \/>\nT\u0101 viet\u0101 es run\u0101\u0161u par konkr\u0113t\u0101k\u0101m liet\u0101m.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Un es cent\u012b\u0161os j\u016bs aizvest pa\u0161p\u0101rbaudes ce\u013cojum\u0101. Un m\u016b\u017ea m\u012blest\u012bbas atkl\u0101\u0161ana. M\u012blest\u012bba k\u0101 darb\u012bba, kuru tu m\u012bli dar\u012bt.<\/p>\n<h2>T\u0101tad, k\u0101 es varu atrast darb\u012bbu, kas man pat\u012bk?<\/h2>\n<p>Labs jaut\u0101jums.<\/p>\n<p>Bet ne pietiekami labs. Jo k\u0101p\u0113c gan j\u016bs v\u0113laties atrast sev t\u012bkamu nodarbi? Un k\u0101p\u0113c gan ne... M\u012b\u013c\u0101k\u0101 nodarbe?<\/p>\n<p>Jo es dom\u0101ju \u0161eit:<\/p>\n<p>M\u012b\u013c\u0101k\u0101 aktivit\u0101te ir zem\u0101ks iecien\u012bt\u0101k\u0101s aktivit\u0101tes l\u012bmenis.<\/p>\n<p>Run\u0101jot par liet\u0101m, ko izv\u0113lamies dar\u012bt (darbi, kurus cen\u0161amies ieg\u016bt, cilv\u0113ki, ar kuriem ejam uz randi\u0146iem, vai Youtube p\u0101rraides, ko skat\u0101mies), manupr\u0101t, m\u012blest\u012bbas metafora ir vislab\u0101k\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Jo kas gan lab\u0101k izskaidro to neizprotamo pievilc\u012bbu, ko dar\u012bt <em>kaut ko<\/em> nek\u0101 neizdibin\u0101mais M\u012blest\u012bbas sp\u0113ks?<\/p>\n<p>\u0160eit, piem\u0113ram.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Atcerieties savu pirmo dz\u012bves m\u012blest\u012bbu. <\/strong>Z\u0113ns, meitene vai kas cits. Atcerieties savas pirm\u0101s tik\u0161an\u0101s, sarunas, piesk\u0101rienus. Viss, kas jums patika.<\/p>\n<p>Vai atceraties to v\u0113lmi vienm\u0113r b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar savu m\u012blest\u012bbu, neskatoties uz to, ka, pie\u0146emsim, bij\u0101t da\u017e\u0101d\u0101s nodarb\u012bb\u0101s? Vai ar\u012b j\u016bs bij\u0101t no da\u017e\u0101diem pils\u0113tas nost\u016briem? Vai ar\u012b j\u016bsu vec\u0101ki bija \u013coti pret j\u016bsu v\u0113lm\u0113m? Vai neskatoties uz cit\u0101m probl\u0113m\u0101m?<\/p>\n<p>Atcerieties \u0161o atrakciju?<\/p>\n<p>Tas bija gr\u016bti izdar\u012bt <em>kaut ko<\/em>, neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, ko jums saka apk\u0101rt\u0113jie cilv\u0113ki. Neskatoties uz to, ka, k\u0101 j\u016bs dro\u0161i vien saprotat, \u0161\u012bs attiec\u012bbas nebija t\u0101s lab\u0101k\u0101s.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 bija M\u012blest\u012bba. Tu m\u012bl\u0113ji savu pirmo m\u012blest\u012bbu, jo, ja nem\u012bl\u0113ji, tad nem\u012bl\u0113ji.<\/p>\n<p><em>(Un j\u0101, pa\u0161defin\u0113\u0161ana ir lab\u0101k\u0101 defin\u012bcija.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Un \u0161\u012b d\u012bvain\u0101 pievilc\u012bbas vienk\u0101r\u0161\u012bba, t\u012br\u012bba, sl\u0113dzis ar tikai YES YES YES un NO NEKAD ir tie\u0161i tas, ko m\u0113s mekl\u0113jam.<\/p>\n<p>Tas no\u0161\u0137ir darb\u012bbas, kuras m\u0113s veicam vien\u0101 m\u0113nes\u012b un n\u0101kamaj\u0101 gad\u0101. Un aktivit\u0101tes, kas m\u016bs nes jau 40 gadus.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Cilv\u0113ki, kas ir par mums <strong>pat\u012bk<\/strong>, mums pat\u012bk.<\/li>\n<li>Bet cilv\u0113ki, kuri <strong>m\u0113s m\u012blam<\/strong>, m\u0113s v\u0113rt\u0113jam augst\u0101k un ne tikai.<\/li>\n<li>Cilv\u0113ki, kas <strong>pat\u012bk<\/strong>, n\u0101k un iet.<\/li>\n<li>Cilv\u0113ki, kas <strong>m\u0113s iem\u012bl\u0113j\u0101mies<\/strong>, atceramies visu m\u016b\u017eu un st\u0101st\u0101m par to mazb\u0113rniem.<\/li>\n<li>Cilv\u0113ki, kas <strong>pat\u012bk<\/strong>, paz\u016bd pie pirmaj\u0101m nepatik\u0161an\u0101m.<\/li>\n<li>Cilv\u0113ki, kas <strong>m\u0113s m\u012blam<\/strong>, palikt kop\u0101 laul\u012bb\u0101 un pat ilg\u0101k.<\/li>\n<li>Cilv\u0113ki, kas <strong>pat\u012bk<\/strong>, neliek jums m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t.<\/li>\n<li>Tom\u0113r cilv\u0113ki, kuri <strong>m\u0113s m\u012blam<\/strong>, dod jums sp\u0113ku dar\u012bt trak\u0101k\u0101s lietas. Tikai, lai sasniegtu savu m\u0113r\u0137i.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Vai ar\u012b es reiz jaut\u0101ju k\u0101dam v\u012brietim, kas bija trak\u0101kais, ko vi\u0146\u0161 jebkad ir dar\u012bjis, un vi\u0146\u0161 atbild\u0113ja:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0160\u012b ir t\u0101 reize, kad iem\u012bl\u0113jos k\u0101d\u0101 sieviet\u0113 un g\u0101ju vi\u0146ai 30 km k\u0101j\u0101m, jo autobusi vairs nekurs\u0113ja. Ziemas nakts. Pute\u0146a laik\u0101. Tas bija traki, un es dro\u0161i vien gandr\u012bz nomiru. Bet es to izdar\u012bju.&quot;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>A\u013c\u0123is, 43 gadi<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u0160\u012b ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba starp &quot;l\u012bdz\u012bgu aktivit\u0101ti&quot; un &quot;m\u012blas darb\u012bbu&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Pirmo ir \u013coti viegli atrast \u2013 atliek tikai atv\u0113rt darbu katalogu, pieteikties pirmajam darba pied\u0101v\u0101jumam un BOOM! \u013boti iesp\u0113jams, ka j\u016bsu darb\u012bba ir paredz\u0113ta jums <strong>patiks<\/strong>. Kam\u0113r neatrad\u012bsi lab\u0101ku vai nesamazin\u0101si algu par p\u0101ris eiro, kad citas aktivit\u0101tes, burvju k\u0101rt\u0101, patiks vair\u0101k.<\/p>\n<p>Bet atrada <strong>M\u012b\u013cot\u0101<\/strong> aktivit\u0101tes... T\u0101du, kas ne tikai nes 100 % 50 viet\u0101, kas neprasa katru r\u012btu mekl\u0113t motiv\u0101ciju, kas paliek ar tevi ilg\u0101k par trim dien\u0101m...<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Tas ir sare\u017e\u0123\u012bt\u0101k. Tas pras\u012bs p\u0101rbaud\u012bt, ko m\u0113s esam dar\u012bju\u0161i l\u012bdz \u0161im, ko m\u0113s dar\u0101m tagad, ko m\u0113s v\u0113l\u0113tos dar\u012bt n\u0101kotn\u0113... Un atrast to, kas jums ir person\u012bgi vissvar\u012bg\u0101kais. Divas, tr\u012bs vai \u010detras lietas, ko var saukt par j\u016bsu <strong>M\u012blest\u012bba<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Protams, m\u012blest\u012bba main\u0101s. T\u0101pat k\u0101 j\u016bs, dom\u0101ju, ka j\u016bs to jau zin\u0101t. Bet katra m\u016bsu m\u012blest\u012bba n\u0101k no to pa\u0161u m\u016bsu pamatv\u0113lmju piepild\u012bjuma. Un vi\u0146i ar\u012b uzzin\u0101ja ko jaunu par mums pa\u0161iem.<\/p>\n<p>Bet, ja at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba ir starp darb\u012bbu, kas j\u016bs iespaidos tikai vienu dienu (vai darb\u012bbas, kas j\u016bs neietekm\u0113s nemaz) un darb\u012bbu, kas j\u016bs iespaidos ilgi un smagi... Es person\u012bgi izv\u0113los m\u012blest\u012bbu. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<h2>Lab\u0101ks jaut\u0101jums:<br \/>\nT\u0101tad, k\u0101 atkl\u0101t darb\u012bbu, kur\u0101 iem\u012blos?<\/h2>\n<p>Ir divi iemesli, k\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs parasti neatrodat savu \u012bsto m\u012blest\u012bbu.<\/p>\n<p>Un j\u0101, es zinu, divi iemesli? Tikai? Tas izklaus\u0101s... Maz!<\/p>\n<p>Tom\u0113r ir taisn\u012bba, ka, lai gan iemeslu var izdom\u0101t vair\u0101k, \u0161is sadal\u012bjums ir daudz noder\u012bg\u0101ks. It \u012bpa\u0161i, ja runa ir par m\u012blest\u012bbu, saj\u016btu, kuru parasti nevar izskaidrot. \u0160eit tr\u016bkst vienk\u0101r\u0161\u012bbas.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160ie divi iemesli attiecas ar\u012b uz gandr\u012bz jebkuru M\u012blest\u012bbas defin\u012bciju: darbs, nodarbo\u0161an\u0101s, p\u0101rtika vai t\u0101s pa\u0161as attiec\u012bbas ar cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160\u012b ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba starp p\u0101r\u0101k daudz un p\u0101r\u0101k maz:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Par maz m\u012blest\u012bbas...<\/li>\n<li>\u2026Vai p\u0101r\u0101k daudz m\u012blest\u012bbas.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Bet \u013caujiet man paskaidrot s\u012bk\u0101k.<\/p>\n<h3>Pirmais iemesls: p\u0101r\u0101k maz m\u012blest\u012bbas.<\/h3>\n<p>Iedom\u0101jieties, ka k\u0101du dienu ce\u013c\u0101 uz darbu j\u016bs notrieca automa\u0161\u012bna. Br\u012bnumain\u0101 k\u0101rt\u0101 j\u016bs nesalau\u017eat nevienu kaulu, bet j\u016bs sasitat galvu un zaud\u0113jat atmi\u0146u.<\/p>\n<p>Ko tu grib\u0113tu dar\u012bt?<\/p>\n<p>Iedzi\u013cinieties \u0161aj\u0101 jaut\u0101jum\u0101 un br\u012bdi padom\u0101jiet. Ko tu grib\u0113tu dar\u012bt... Ja tev galv\u0101 nav nevienas domas, ko visp\u0101r <strong>tu var\u0113tu<\/strong> dar\u012bt<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 ir nenoteikt\u012bba, ja ir p\u0101r\u0101k maz domu.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0113s esam dzimu\u0161i bez vienas domas m\u016bsu galv\u0101s.<\/p>\n<p>Un tikai v\u0113l\u0101k m\u0113s uzzin\u0101m, kas mums pat\u012bk un kas n\u0113.<\/p>\n<p>Reiz\u0113m m\u0113s aizmirstam, kad esam iestr\u0113gu\u0161i ri\u0146\u0137\u012b \u2013 piem\u0113ram, kad tr\u012bs m\u0113ne\u0161us stud\u0113ju b\u016bvin\u017eenierzin\u0101tn\u0113s un rakst\u012bju bakalaura darbu, man nebija nekas cits, k\u0101 tikai darbs. P\u0113c skolas beig\u0161anas es biju apmald\u012bjies un ned\u0113\u013cu nezin\u0101ju, ko gribu no dz\u012bves.<\/p>\n<p>Bet t\u0101 nav jautr\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca. J\u016bs dro\u0161i vien esat dzird\u0113ju\u0161i visu to shakar markar par to, k\u0101 atrast savus m\u0113r\u0137us un taml\u012bdz\u012bgi.<\/p>\n<h3>Otrais iemesls: p\u0101r\u0101k daudz m\u012blest\u012bbas.<\/h3>\n<p>Un \u0161is iemesls m\u016bsdien\u0101s ir bie\u017e\u0101k sastopams nek\u0101 pirmais. Un \u0161o otro es speci\u0101li uzrakst\u012bju, lai p\u0113c pirm\u0101s izlas\u012b\u0161anas var\u0113tu dom\u0101t, ka &quot;j\u0101, tie\u0161\u0101m, es neko nezinu, jo man nav pietiekami daudz ideju.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Ta\u010du m\u016bsdien\u0101s mums ir v\u0113l viena probl\u0113ma: izv\u0113les iesp\u0113ju p\u0101rpiln\u012bba un br\u012bv\u012bba. T\u0101 viet\u0101, lai dar\u012btu vienu lietu (piem\u0113ram, ja j\u016bs esat sieviete, tikai pirms 60\u201380 gadiem bija neaptverami, k\u0101 j\u016bs varat dar\u012bt kaut ko vair\u0101k, k\u0101 tikai b\u016bt m\u0101tei un r\u016bp\u0113ties par m\u0101ju), mums ir br\u012bv\u012bba dar\u012bt daudzas lietas. Un s\u0101ciet v\u0113l vair\u0101k \u2013 da\u017eas lietas katru dienu.<\/p>\n<p>Bet cik daudzas no \u0161\u012bm liet\u0101m m\u0113s pabeidzam? Cik daudzas no \u0161\u012bm liet\u0101m mums dod atdevi? Galu gal\u0101 nepadar\u012btie darbi atdevi nenes \u2013 par puspadar\u012btiem darbiem neviens nemaks\u0101. Neviens nenov\u0113rt\u0113 pusuzceltu m\u0101ju. Neviens neteiks, ka tu uz skatuves esi uzrun\u0101jusi lielisku runu, ja t\u0101 ir tikai puse no t\u0101s, bet otru pusi pazaud\u0113ji un aizskr\u0113ji m\u0101c\u012bties gatavot pank\u016bkas.<\/p>\n<p>Var pierast pie ideju, ieteikumu, iesp\u0113ju, br\u012bv\u012bbu un izv\u0113\u013cu p\u0101rpiln\u012bbas. Un, god\u012bgi sakot, liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca no mums jau ir pieradu\u0161i. Jo m\u0113s dz\u012bvojam valst\u012b, kur esam br\u012bvi.<\/p>\n<p>Un t\u0101p\u0113c ir otra puse, ierobe\u017eojums. Un k\u0101 att\u012br\u012bt \u010detras lietas, kas virza tavu dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101tad, iedom\u0101jieties, ka atkal pamostaties sav\u0101 gult\u0101\u2026<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bsu galv\u0101 darbojas tr\u012bs iesp\u0113jamie domu dzin\u0113ji:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>M\u0113s zin\u0101m savus m\u0113r\u0137us un v\u0113lmes, t\u0101p\u0113c ce\u013camies un dar\u0101m to.<\/li>\n<li>M\u0113s neko nezin\u0101m, t\u0101p\u0113c neko nedar\u0101m.<\/li>\n<li>Vai ar\u012b dom\u0101jam, ka kaut ko zin\u0101m, cen\u0161amies... Un beig\u0101s tom\u0113r neko nesasniedzam, jo mums bija tik daudz v\u0113lmju. Izv\u0113l\u0113ties labu ideju \u0161aj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 nav gr\u016bti. Gr\u016bt\u0101k to izpild\u012bt l\u012bdz galam.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Un ja <strong>a<\/strong> variants, m\u0113s esam priec\u012bgi (tas ir, ja atrodaties \u0161\u0101d\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101 - \u0161\u012b gr\u0101mata jums nav vajadz\u012bga), <strong>b un c<\/strong> izv\u0113l\u0113s - m\u0113s neesam. Pirmaj\u0101 nav laimes \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, un otraj\u0101 neb\u016bs laimes n\u0101kotn\u0113, kad m\u0113s saprat\u012bsim, ka esam izt\u0113r\u0113ju\u0161i savu laiku.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101tad. Laiks kaut ko dar\u012bt.<\/p>\n<h2>Un k\u0101da ir mana situ\u0101cija?<br \/>\nVai man ir p\u0101r\u0101k daudz izv\u0113les iesp\u0113ju vai p\u0101r\u0101k maz?<\/h2>\n<p>Nu, tas ir jaut\u0101jums, uz kuru jums b\u016bs j\u0101atbild. Padom\u0101jiet par to, kas \u0161aj\u0101s dien\u0101s (vai p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 m\u0113ne\u0161a laik\u0101) ir noticis j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113 bie\u017e\u0101k:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Daudz iesp\u0113ju un kaudz\u0113m puspabeigtu (bet joproj\u0101m nepabeigtu) darbu?<\/li>\n<li>Un varb\u016bt... Dz\u012bve visp\u0101r neredzot izredzes un iesp\u0113jas?<\/li>\n<li>Simtiem darb\u012bbu, kas jums pat\u012bk, bet neviena <em>tie\u0161\u0101m <\/em>iespaidu?<\/li>\n<li>Un varb\u016bt... \u0160\u012b ir viena no aktivit\u0101t\u0113m <em>iztur\u0113t<\/em>, un visi citi <em>vienk\u0101r\u0161i <\/em>\u0161ausm\u012bgi?<\/li>\n<li>Vai t\u0101 ir izv\u0113les iesp\u0113ju p\u0101rpiln\u012bba?<\/li>\n<li>Vai piln\u012bgs tuk\u0161ums?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Atbildiet uz to sev. Un izv\u0113lieties vienu.<\/p>\n<p>Varb\u016bt j\u016bs jau zin\u0101t atbildi, tad varam p\u0101riet uz n\u0101kamo da\u013cu, kur \u0161\u012bs probl\u0113mas risin\u0101sim. Tom\u0113r, ja j\u016bs joproj\u0101m nezin\u0101t, kur\u0161 jums ir tuv\u0101ks, pa\u0146emiet p\u0101rtraukumu. Atlieciet \u0161o gr\u0101matu uz vienu dienu un atz\u012bm\u0113jiet kalend\u0101ru, lai atgrieztos v\u0113l\u0101k. P\u0113c tam apskatiet savu pa\u0161reiz\u0113jo dz\u012bvi un izv\u0113lieties k\u0101du no \u0161\u012bm atbild\u0113m.<\/p>\n<p>Un n\u0113, tu nevari izv\u0113l\u0113ties k\u0101du tre\u0161o atbildi &quot;man t\u0101 notiek&quot;. Ja tom\u0113r situ\u0101cijas main\u0101s (kas ir \u013coti norm\u0101li!), tad izv\u0113lies sev piem\u0113rot\u0101ko <strong>tie\u0161i \u0161is br\u012bdis<\/strong>. N\u0101kotn\u0113, ja situ\u0101cija main\u012bsies, j\u016bs vienm\u0113r varat atgriezties pie \u0161\u012bs gr\u0101matas un p\u0113c izlas\u012b\u0161anas paskat\u012bties uz to no cita le\u0146\u0137a.<\/p>\n<p>Lai m\u0113s var\u0113tu ce\u013cot, tikl\u012bdz esat gatavs.<\/p>\n<p>Un s\u0101k\u0161u no pa\u0161a s\u0101kuma: ko mazulis dar\u012btu tav\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/issukis-365\/\">1621 v\u0101rds<\/a>. 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