1497 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: 882<\/b>.<\/p>\nBr\u012bdin\u0101jumi: <\/strong>\u0160aj\u0101 noda\u013c\u0101 es run\u0101\u0161u par situ\u0101ciju, kad mums ir p\u0101r\u0101k daudz izv\u0113les iesp\u0113ju.<\/p>\nJa neesat p\u0101r\u0146emts ar ideju p\u0101rbag\u0101t\u012bbu un joproj\u0101m j\u016btaties t\u0101, it k\u0101 neko nezin\u0101tu - atveriet. Ceturtais<\/strong> 2. noda\u013c\u0101 es run\u0101\u0161u par situ\u0101ciju, kad mums ir p\u0101r\u0101k maz izv\u0113les iesp\u0113ju.<\/p>\nJa jums \u0161\u0137iet, ka jums nav ne p\u0101r\u0101k daudz, ne p\u0101r\u0101k maz izv\u0113les iesp\u0113ju, p\u0101rtrauciet melot un lab\u0101k padom\u0101jiet. Izlemiet.<\/p>\n
Vai ar\u012b, ja jums patie\u0161\u0101m ir labi, nolieciet \u0161o gr\u0101matu mal\u0101 un izlasiet kaut ko citu.<\/p>\n
Ko dar\u012bt, ja ir p\u0101r\u0101k daudz iesp\u0113ju?<\/h2>\nUn vispirms: k\u0101p\u0113c tas ir slikti?<\/h3>\n
Viena armija vai piecas - kura ir sp\u0113c\u012bg\u0101ka?<\/p>\n
Viens. Tas ir viens d\u016briens, viens sitiens, viens sp\u0113ks.<\/p>\n
- Roberts Barations, \"Tro\u0146u sp\u0113le<\/p>\n
\u0160is cit\u0101ts no viena no maniem iecien\u012bt\u0101kajiem seri\u0101liem un gr\u0101mat\u0101m, iesp\u0113jams, ir lab\u0101kais veids, k\u0101 pateikt to, ko es v\u0113los pateikt.<\/p>\n
Da\u017ereiz izv\u0113le ir laba. Da\u017ereiz tas ir vesel\u012bgi. Paties\u012bb\u0101, kad tu n\u0101c no ierobe\u017eotas telpas (ideju tr\u016bkums, cietums, stingra b\u0113rn\u012bba, diktatoriska politika), ir pat \u013coti dabiski v\u0113l\u0113ties kaut ko vair\u0101k.<\/p>\n
Ir dabiski, ka v\u0113laties br\u012bv\u012bbu dar\u012bt visu, ko v\u0113laties. Pirkt visu, ko vien v\u0113laties. Skat\u012bties jebkuru filmu, kas vien ien\u0101k pr\u0101t\u0101. Vai dar\u012bt visu, ko v\u0113l v\u0113laties, bet bez ierobe\u017eojumiem.<\/p>\n
K\u0101 cilv\u0113ki m\u0113s to v\u0113lamies.<\/p>\n
Ta\u010du \u0161\u012bm izv\u0113l\u0113m ir viens b\u016btisks tr\u016bkums:<\/p>\n
Tie nov\u0113r\u0161... Izv\u0113le. Un sasniegt.<\/p>\n
J\u0101, da\u017e\u0101d\u012bba - vai t\u0101 b\u016btu studiju joma p\u0113c skolas beig\u0161anas vai nodarbo\u0161an\u0101s vakar\u0101 - dod mums br\u012bv\u012bbu.<\/p>\n
Ta\u010du m\u0113s nezin\u0101m, k\u0101 \u0161o br\u012bv\u012bbu izmantot. Un...<\/p>\n
\n- M\u0113s s\u0101kam ce\u013cu, bet \u0101tri vien p\u0101rdom\u0101jam un atgrie\u017eamies s\u0101kuma punkt\u0101. Izv\u0113l\u0113ju\u0161ies n\u0101kamo \"lab\u0101ku\" ce\u013cu, m\u0113s pa to ar\u012b dodamies. Bet atkal tas viss ir viens un tas pats.<\/li>\n
- Vai<\/strong> M\u0113s st\u0101vam ce\u013ca s\u0101kum\u0101 un skat\u0101mies uz p\u0101rejo\u0161aj\u0101m izv\u0113l\u0113m... Un tom\u0113r neko nedar\u0101m.<\/li>\n
- Vai<\/strong> bet m\u0113s izv\u0113lamies ce\u013cu, sasniedzam galu un sa\u0146emam balvu. M\u0113s izv\u0113lamies otro ce\u013cu, lai sa\u0146emtu otro balvu.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Bet vai j\u016bs bie\u017ei, k\u0101 c)<\/strong> Vai, izdarot izv\u0113li, j\u016bs izv\u0113laties m\u0113r\u0137i un sasniedzat to kazas ce\u013c\u0101?<\/p>\nJa esi t\u0101ds pats k\u0101 es pirms \u010detriem gadiem... Dom\u0101ju, ka tas ir reti sastopams? Varb\u016bt gandr\u012bz nekad? Esmu to piedz\u012bvojusi. Es paz\u012bstu to dz\u012bvi, kad v\u0113lies ~ kaut ko lielu~, bet paties\u012bb\u0101 tikai s\u0101c, un p\u0113c da\u017e\u0101m dien\u0101m atmet projektus un sap\u0146us, lai \u012bstenotu jaunus.<\/p>\n
Izv\u0113lei nav noz\u012bmes, ja galvenais ir paveikt darbu.<\/p>\n
Ja v\u0113laties atrast laimi, jums ir vajadz\u012bga tikai viena m\u012b\u013ca nodarbe, nevis simtiem viduv\u0113ju. Ja v\u0113laties nopeln\u012bt lielu naudu, jums ir nepiecie\u0161ams tikai viens labi padar\u012bts darbs, nevis tr\u012bsdesmit nepabeigti darbi. Ja v\u0113laties, lai j\u016bs atcer\u0113tos p\u0113c n\u0101ves, jums j\u0101koncentr\u0113jas uz vienu darbu un tas j\u0101dara labi.<\/p>\n
Karav\u012bri, uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113ji, politi\u0137i - visi slaveni cilv\u0113ki ir biju\u0161i paz\u012bstami ar to, ka ir dar\u012bju\u0161i vienu lietu un dar\u012bju\u0161i to labi. Un vi\u0146i net\u0113r\u0113ja savu ener\u0123iju nodarb\u0113m, kas vi\u0146iem nepat\u012bk, vai iesp\u0113j\u0101m, kuras vi\u0146i \u0101tri vien b\u016btu zaud\u0113ju\u0161i.<\/p>\n
\n- St\u012bvs D\u017eobss nesteidz\u0101s uzreiz rad\u012bt simtiem Apple produktu. Vi\u0146\u0161 s\u0101ka ar iPod un izveidoja tolaik lab\u0101ko m\u016bzikas atska\u0146ot\u0101ju uz zemes. Tad vi\u0146\u0161 s\u0101ka ar t\u0101lruni. Tad plan\u0161etdatoru. Un vi\u0146\u0161 nem\u0113\u0123in\u0101ja vienlaikus k\u013c\u016bt par baler\u012bnu.<\/li>\n
- Smetonas m\u0113r\u0137is bija apvienot lietuvie\u0161u tautu, un vi\u0146\u0161 to dar\u012bja no visas sirds. Vi\u0146\u0161 net\u0113r\u0113ja laiku s\u012bkiem br\u012bvdienu m\u0101jas remontiem, bet koncentr\u0113j\u0101s tikai uz politiku.<\/li>\n
- Vai \u010ciurlionis - vi\u0146\u0161 aprobe\u017eoj\u0101s ar m\u016bziku un glezniec\u012bbu. Ta\u010du vi\u0146\u0161 neuzs\u0101ka galdniec\u012bbu, lai gan var\u0113ja to dar\u012bt. Lai gan k\u0101 galdnieks vi\u0146\u0161 b\u016btu nopeln\u012bjis vair\u0101k.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Da\u017ei pabeigti darbi ir lab\u0101k nek\u0101 simtiem ies\u0101ktu darbu. Un viens ies\u0101kts darbs ir lab\u0101ks par simtiem ideju, ko dar\u012bt vispirms.<\/p>\n
Bie\u017e\u0101kais jaut\u0101jums Nr. 1:
\nBet ko dar\u012bt, ja man joproj\u0101m pat\u012bk izv\u0113les br\u012bv\u012bba?<\/h3>\n
Svar\u012bgi ir saprast, ka es neapgalvoju, ka visas izv\u0113les ir \u013caunas, bet gan to, ka vislab\u0101k ir dz\u012bvot stingri ierobe\u017eotu, no dzim\u0161anas (vai vismaz piecus gadus pl\u0101notu) dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n
Izv\u0113le pati par sevi nav slikta lieta. Br\u012bv\u012bba izv\u0113l\u0113ties nav slikta lieta.<\/p>\n
Ta\u010du probl\u0113mas rodas tad, kad mums ir p\u0101r\u0101k liela izv\u0113le un br\u012bv\u012bba. Un daudzo iesp\u0113jamo ce\u013cu daudzveid\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c m\u0113s vienk\u0101r\u0161i neatrodam To, kur\u0161 ir m\u016bsu uzman\u012bbas cien\u012bg\u0101kais.<\/p>\n
Ja jums pat\u012bk izv\u0113les br\u012bv\u012bba, tas ir labi. Un neuztraucieties, es jums nem\u0101c\u012b\u0161u, k\u0101 atteikties no vis\u0101m br\u012bv\u012bb\u0101m. T\u0101 viet\u0101 es j\u016bs m\u0101c\u012b\u0161u, k\u0101 izmantot savas br\u012bv\u012bbas un ne\u013caut br\u012bv\u012bb\u0101m izmantot j\u016bs. Es ne\u013cau\u0161u, lai br\u012bv\u012bbas aiz\u0113notu j\u016bsu dz\u012bves prieku.<\/p>\n
J\u016bsu izv\u0113les br\u012bv\u012bba nekad nepazud\u012bs. M\u0113s to tikai ierobe\u017eosim. Un vissvar\u012bg\u0101kais ir tas, ka to dar\u012bsiet j\u016bs. Ar sav\u0101m rok\u0101m. Ar sav\u0101m rok\u0101m un tik ilgi, kam\u0113r Jums tas b\u016bs nepiecie\u0161ams. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
Bie\u017es jaut\u0101jums 2:
\nBet ko dar\u012bt, ja man pat\u012bk veikt vair\u0101kas aktivit\u0101tes un \u012bstenot vair\u0101kus m\u0113r\u0137us vienlaikus?<\/strong><\/p>\nAha, es zinu \u0161o v\u0113lmi. Tu v\u0113lies daudz sasniegt, un tu \u0146em visu, ko vari sa\u0146emt \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b. Neviena laba doma tev gar\u0101m neaiziet nepaman\u012bta - tu centies t\u0101s visas pa\u0146emt un izmantot. Visas.<\/p>\n
Ta\u010du, k\u0101 jau teicu, daudz darb\u012bbas nenoz\u012bm\u0113 daudz rezult\u0101tu.<\/p>\n
...Bet t\u0101 ir j\u016bsu izv\u0113le. Ko j\u016bs v\u0113laties - smagi str\u0101d\u0101t vai daudz sasniegt? Ja t\u0101 ir p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 iesp\u0113ja, tad es ieteiktu veikt tikai da\u017eas aktivit\u0101tes.<\/p>\n
Viena darb\u012bba<\/strong> - iesp\u0113jams. \u0160\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 var\u0113siet koncentr\u0113t visas p\u016bles un sasniegt savu m\u0113r\u0137i viegl\u0101k un \u0101tr\u0101k nek\u0101 jebkad agr\u0101k.<\/p>\nDivas aktivit\u0101tes<\/strong> - tas ar\u012b ir iesp\u0113jams. J\u0101, ja jums apn\u012bk pirmais, jums b\u016bs otrs.<\/p>\nTr\u012bs darb\u012bbas <\/strong>- bez probl\u0113m\u0101m. J\u016bsu izv\u0113le.<\/p>\n\u010cetri<\/strong>- un tas ir ierobe\u017eojums. \u010cetri ir labs skaitlis, jo tas nav p\u0101r\u0101k maz hobiju, darbu un aktivit\u0101\u0161u (t. i., j\u016bs nemoc\u0101t sevi ar piln\u012bgu koncentr\u0113\u0161anos), bet tas nav ar\u012b nepr\u0101t\u012bgi daudz. Un ar\u012b - \u010detri nav ban\u0101li k\u0101 tr\u012bs un ir vair\u0101k atmi\u0146\u0101 palieko\u0161i.<\/p>\nPieci<\/strong> - p\u0101r\u0101k daudz. Vai vismaz man person\u012bgi p\u0101r\u0101k daudz. Ja jums tas der, lai t\u0101 b\u016btu.<\/p>\nTas, ka m\u0113s ierobe\u017eojam savas v\u0113lmes, sap\u0146us, izv\u0113li un br\u012bv\u012bbu, nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums ir j\u0101k\u013c\u016bst par budistu m\u016bku (vai jebkuru m\u016bku) un visu dienu j\u0101dara viens darbs bez p\u0101rtraukumiem, papildu nodarb\u012bb\u0101m vai taml\u012bdz\u012bgi.<\/p>\n
Jums var b\u016bt vair\u0101k nek\u0101 viena br\u012bv\u012bba, un tas ir labi. Person\u012bgi man \u0161\u012bs gr\u0101matas rakst\u012b\u0161anas laik\u0101 ir \u010detri m\u0113r\u0137i: jaunas m\u0101jas b\u016bvniec\u012bba, Debesyla, rakst\u012b\u0161ana un peln\u012b\u0161ana.<\/p>\n
Es iesaku, lai jums b\u016btu no 1 l\u012bdz 5 br\u012bv\u012bb\u0101m. Bet par to es vair\u0101k past\u0101st\u012b\u0161u n\u0101kamaj\u0101 noda\u013c\u0101. Lasiet t\u0101l\u0101k.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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