{"id":1944,"date":"2017-03-21T12:46:49","date_gmt":"2017-03-21T09:46:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=1944"},"modified":"2021-09-30T11:59:08","modified_gmt":"2021-09-30T08:59:08","slug":"kodel-liaujames-mokytis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2017\/kapec-mes-partraucam-macities\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101p\u0113c m\u0113s p\u0101rtraucam m\u0101c\u012bties un kad tas "apg\u016bts" nav meli?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: 511 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: 552<\/b>.<\/p>\n

\u0160odien satiku meiteni, ar kuru kop\u0101<\/span> saruna,<\/span> s\u0101kot ar ievadu un diskusiju par H. Heses "Stikla p\u0113rl\u012b\u0161u sp\u0113li", virz\u012bj\u0101s uz sarunu par m\u0101c\u012b\u0161an\u0101s...<\/span><\/p>\n

Tas neb\u016btu \u012bpa\u0161s st\u0101sts, ja neb\u016btu viens "bet". Viens zvans, \u0161\u0101viens, kas izp\u016bta manas smadzenes uz \u0161\u012bs t\u012br\u0101s un tikko apgaismot\u0101s istabas sienas, klusi st\u0101vot man aiz muguras. Man\u012b ie\u0161\u0101v\u0101s pr\u0101t\u0101 doma, un es ietriecos traumu istabas sien\u0101s.<\/p>\n

K\u0101da j\u0113ga, j\u016bs jaut\u0101siet?<\/p>\n

L\u016bk, es tev past\u0101st\u012b\u0161u. Es sapratu... Nu, vai vismaz es dom\u0101ju, ka sapratu... To, nu, paties\u012bb\u0101, m\u0113s m\u0113s nekad visu neapg\u016bstam l\u012bdz galam.<\/strong><\/p>\n

*kostel*<\/p>\n

Pagaidi, pagaidi, nesaki "Ei, tu man past\u0101st\u012bji zi\u0146as!". Sarkasms nav vajadz\u012bgs, vismaz pagaid\u0101m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

*kostel*<\/p>\n

Vai j\u016bs gaid\u012bj\u0101t? T\u0101tad, l\u016bk, ko es grib\u0113ju jums pateikt. M\u0113s nekad nem\u0101c\u0101mies piln\u012bb\u0101, jo m\u0113s vienm\u0113r p\u0101rtraucam m\u0101c\u012bties, kad dom\u0101jam, ka zin\u0101m visu. Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai t\u0101 ir taisn\u012bba vai n\u0113.<\/p>\n

Vai k\u0101 teica Sokrats un Aristotelis (un, k\u0101 zin\u0101ms, vi\u0146i reti par kaut ko vienoj\u0101s) - tikai m\u0101c\u012bts cilv\u0113ks nezina, ka vi\u0146\u0161 kaut ko nezina.<\/p>\n

Tas ir diezgan interesants princips, jo liel\u0101kos uz\u0146\u0113mumos augst\u0101kos amatos str\u0101d\u0101jo\u0161ie vienm\u0113r non\u0101k situ\u0101cij\u0101, kuru vi\u0146i nezina. Lai saglab\u0101tu lab\u0101kos korpor\u0101cijas izaugsmes tempus, ir svar\u012bgi p\u0113c iesp\u0113jas vair\u0101k veicin\u0101t cilv\u0113kus. Jo, ja neaudzin\u0101s - vi\u0146i nekad neapg\u016bs jaunas prasmes.<\/p>\n

Un, kad m\u0113s beidzot iem\u0101c\u0101mies dz\u012bvot sav\u0101 viet\u0101, m\u0113s k\u013c\u016bstam stagn\u0101ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tu dz\u012bvoji, tu dz\u012bvoji. Tas bija slikti. J\u016bs nezin\u0101j\u0101t, ko dar\u012bt, j\u016bs nezin\u0101t, k\u0101 nopeln\u012bt naudu, j\u016bs nezin\u0101t, k\u0101 m\u012bl\u0113t savu sievu (vai v\u012bru). Un tad j\u016bs uzkr\u0101j\u0101t pieredzi gadu un gadu desmitu laik\u0101.<\/p>\n

K\u013c\u016bsti par savas dz\u012bves saimnieku!<\/p>\n

\u2026Un tad n\u0101ca nevis skumjas, bet gan laime.<\/p>\n

Stagn\u0101cija un laime vienlaikus. Vai netici? P\u0113c tam m\u0113\u0123iniet atcer\u0113ties p\u0113d\u0113jo reizi, kad kaut ko veiksm\u012bgi apguv\u0101t. K\u0101ds bija p\u0113d\u0113jais m\u0101c\u012bbu priek\u0161mets? Vai braukt? Uzcept olu? Ad\u012bt? Vai esat ieguvis bakalaura gr\u0101du uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113jdarb\u012bbas vad\u012bb\u0101? Nav svar\u012bgi, kur\u0161 tas ir.<\/p>\n

V\u0113l svar\u012bg\u0101k ir atcer\u0113ties \u0161o saj\u016btu, kad pabeidz\u0101t darbu un laim\u012bgi skat\u012bj\u0101ties uz sava darba aug\u013ciem.<\/p>\n

Vai atceries to laimi? vai tu j\u016bti<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2026Un taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 laik\u0101, vai j\u016bs tie\u0161\u0101m dom\u0101jat, ka esat iem\u0101c\u012bju\u0161ies visu un vairs nav ko m\u0101c\u012bties? Vai tu nedom\u0101? Tagad, kad j\u016bs par to dom\u0101jat, j\u016bs saprotat, kas ir palicis p\u0101ri? Un \u0161eit j\u016bs esat, agr\u0101k j\u016bs nedom\u0101j\u0101t par vienu lietu, kas v\u0113l b\u016btu j\u0101apg\u016bst.<\/p>\n

Un j\u016bs jut\u0101ties laim\u012bgs, priec\u012bgs, j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, lepojies ar sevi. T\u0101tad, l\u016bk. Tu m\u0101cies. J\u016bs dom\u0101j\u0101t, ka esat iem\u0101c\u012bju\u0161ies. J\u016bs laim\u012bgi pabeidz\u0101t darbu... Un v\u0113l ir palicis darbs, izr\u0101d\u0101s!<\/p>\n

Protams, citi var justies skumji, kad vi\u0146i iestr\u0113gst dz\u012bves rut\u012bn\u0101.
\nBet es esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka tu neesi tik idiots.<\/p>\n

\u2026Un tu priec\u0101sies, ka tagad, kad tev ir stabils pamats zem k\u0101j\u0101m, vari k\u0101pt aug\u0161\u0101!<\/p>\n

M\u0113s p\u0101rtraucam m\u0101c\u012bties, kad piepild\u0101m visus savus vecos sap\u0146us un beidzot p\u0101rst\u0101jam uztraukties par \u0161\u012bm "vienk\u0101r\u0161aj\u0101m" liet\u0101m. Piem\u0113ram, j\u016bs vairs neuztraucaties par to, ko tie\u0161i \u0113d\u012bsit vai uz kuru kl\u012bniku v\u0113rs\u012bsities, kad saslimsit ar d\u012bvainu slim\u012bbu. Vai j\u016bs vairs neuztraucaties, kur mazg\u0101siet apak\u0161ve\u013cu - j\u016bs jau esat pieradu\u0161i to mazg\u0101t, iesp\u0113jams, ve\u013cas ma\u0161\u012bn\u0101.<\/p>\n

Un j\u016bsu "iem\u0101c\u012btais" nav meli, kad j\u016bs varat dz\u012bvot mier\u012bgi, netrauc\u0113ti, atrais\u012bti.<\/p>\n

Kas? Garlaic\u012bgi? Tad izaicini sevi! Paskaties uz savu veco sap\u0146u sarakstu (vai t\u0101da nav? \u0146em un pieraksti!) \u2013 noliec sev priek\u0161\u0101 jaunu sienu un m\u0113\u0123ini tai p\u0101rl\u0113kt. L\u012bdz\u012bgi k\u0101 olimpiskie sportisti lec p\u0101ri sien\u0101m un \u0161\u0137\u0113r\u0161\u013ciem.<\/p>\n

Kas? Vai baid\u0101ties dar\u012bt kaut ko jaunu? Tad nedari to. Un tev nevajag. Tu vari to dar\u012bt, kad v\u0113lies \u2013 nevajag sevi piespiest ar citu cilv\u0113ku v\u0113lm\u0113m.<\/p>\n

"Daniel, man \u0161\u0137iet, ka tu esi \u0101rpus t\u0113mas..."<\/strong><\/p>\n

J\u0101 nedaudz. Tas, ko es cen\u0161os pateikt, ir tikai atcerieties: ja jums k\u0101dreiz ir dienas, kad v\u0113laties no\u0161aut sevi aiz garlaic\u012bbas, priec\u0101jieties, ka esat sasniedzis punktu, kur\u0101 jums vairs nav j\u0101uztraucas.<\/p>\n

Un ar\u012b priec\u0101jies, ka ar to tavas zin\u0101\u0161anas nebeidzas, tu vari uzzin\u0101t vair\u0101k \u2013 t\u0101p\u0113c p\u0101rk\u0101p robe\u017eas, pacel sevi nepaz\u012bstam\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b un atkal saj\u016bti savi\u013c\u0146ojumu.<\/p>\n

Kad uztraukums beigsies - apst\u0101jies un atkal atgriez\u012bsies mier\u012bg\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113.<\/p>\n

Miers un bailes ir j\u016bsu izv\u0113le. K\u0101 tu dz\u012bvo, t\u0101 ir tava izv\u0113le. Vai tas nav fantastiski?<\/p>\n

smaidot,
\nDaniels<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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