{"id":1842,"date":"2017-02-21T13:28:00","date_gmt":"2017-02-21T11:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=1842"},"modified":"2021-09-30T23:23:22","modified_gmt":"2021-09-30T20:23:22","slug":"ar-mums-kenkia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2017\/ar-harm-us\/","title":{"rendered":"Vai porno filmas ir sliktas mums? Un vardarb\u012bgas videosp\u0113les?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: 445 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: 583<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Man ir bijusi sarakste ar m\u0101ko\u0146u salu p\u0101rst\u0101vjiem. \u0160eit nav daudz p\u0113t\u012bjumu - tikai idejas.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\"Labdien, Danieli, es v\u0113los uzzin\u0101t j\u016bsu viedokli par k\u0101du t\u0113mu. Tas ir \u013coti nepat\u012bkams (netie\u0161\u0101 veid\u0101). Porn videoklipi. Kas tas ir? K\u0101 tie maina ( ja maina) p\u0101ra attiec\u012bbas? Vai ir iesp\u0113jams k\u013c\u016bt no tiem atkar\u012bgam? Vai t\u0101 nav sava veida nodev\u012bba (ja filmas tiek skat\u012btas slepeni), jo, skatoties pornogr\u0101fiju, j\u016bs \u012bsti nedom\u0101jat, teiksim, par savu sievu vai v\u012bru zin\u0101tniskiem m\u0113r\u0137iem - lai v\u0113l\u0101k var\u0113tu ar vi\u0146u vai vi\u0146u dar\u012bt kaut ko l\u012bdz\u012bgu. Ko j\u016bs par to dom\u0101jat? Paldies.\"<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Nu, tas ir labs temats \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

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  1. Tie ir tikai videoklipi. Tikai.<\/b> T\u0101pat k\u0101 \"Greja piecdesmit nokr\u0101sas\", anim\u0101cijas filma \"Pagaidi, pagaidi\" vai LRT Panor\u0101ma. T\u0101s nav ma\u0123iskas, kas liktu t\u0101m izcelties. <\/b>J\u016bs jau varat spriest p\u0113c da\u017e\u0101d\u012bbas - tie ir diezgan at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi, t\u0101p\u0113c jums vajadz\u0113tu saprast, ka da\u017e\u0101dus cilv\u0113kus stimul\u0113 da\u017e\u0101di att\u0113li. Da\u017eiem pat pat\u012bk v\u0113rot, k\u0101 cilv\u0113ki \u0113d vai veic ekstr\u0113mus l\u0113cienus ar izpletni.<\/li>\n
  2. Ar\u012b pa\u0161i videoklipi ma\u0123iski nemaina attiec\u012bbas. Attiec\u012bbas main\u0101s ar cilv\u0113kiem, nevis ar film\u0101m, hobijiem vai priek\u0161metiem.<\/b> Ja p\u0101rim labi kl\u0101jas kop\u0101, tas ir labi. Ja viens no jums ir neapmierin\u0101ts, risin\u0101jums, t\u0101pat k\u0101 jebkura konflikta gad\u012bjum\u0101, ir izskaidrot savu nost\u0101ju, nevis dusmoties. ja esat patie\u0161\u0101m uztic\u012bgi viens otram, j\u016bs sp\u013caujat uz videoklipiem un dar\u0101t ko citu.<\/li>\n
  3. J\u016bs nek\u013c\u016bsiet no tiem atkar\u012bgs. Tiesa<\/b>diezgan amizanta iemesla d\u0113\u013c.<\/b> var k\u013c\u016bt gr\u016bt\u0101k apmierin\u0101ms: <\/b>Sekss tie\u0161raid\u0113 ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i smiekl\u012bgi. Visi tie trok\u0161\u0146i, sviedri, muguras s\u0101pes, elpas un sp\u0113ka tr\u016bkums... Vai, v\u0113l jo vair\u0101k, reiz\u0113m vienk\u0101r\u0161i nav sp\u0113ka un garast\u0101vok\u013ca. :)) Lai nu k\u0101, no pornofilm\u0101m atkar\u012bba neveidojas, ja k\u0101ds saka cit\u0101di, pal\u016bdziet veikt p\u0113t\u012bjumu. L\u012bdz \u0161im, kop\u0161 pag\u0101ju\u0161\u0101 gadsimta s\u0101kuma, zin\u0101tnieki nekad nav atradu\u0161i skaidru saikni starp bie\u017eu pornofilmu skat\u012b\u0161anos un atkar\u012bbu.<\/li>\n
  4. Un (ne)nodev\u012bba atkal ir atkar\u012bga no attiec\u012bb\u0101m. K\u0101 j\u016bs par to izj\u016btat?<\/b> Piem\u0113ram, kad draudz\u0113jos ar meiten\u0113m, man ir piln\u012bgi vienalga, ko vi\u0146as dom\u0101, skatoties pornogr\u0101fiju, - es vienk\u0101r\u0161i zinu, ka vi\u0146as m\u012bl mani, nevis k\u0101du puisi uz kvadr\u0101tveida ekr\u0101na. \ud83d\ude42 Paties\u012bb\u0101 da\u017e\u0101s gr\u0101mat\u0101s par attiec\u012bb\u0101m esmu las\u012bjis, ka porno ir diezgan labs veids, k\u0101 atrisin\u0101t dilemmas, ja tev ir feti\u0161s, bet partneri tas neinteres\u0113. Netrauc\u0113 - nav ko piespiest. Tu baudi fant\u0101ziju un turpini m\u012bl\u0113t savu sievu\/ v\u012bru.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Tas ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i! \u0160eit nav nek\u0101das ma\u0123ijas!<\/p>\n

    \"Man tas ne\u0161\u0137iet tik vienk\u0101r\u0161i \ud83d\ude42 Paldies par viedokli, es to nov\u0113rt\u0113ju, bet ko j\u016bs teiktu par datorsp\u0113l\u0113m, kur\u0101s ir daudz brutalit\u0101tes, vardarb\u012bbas u.c. (it k\u0101 tas ir tas, kas mani piesaista)? Vai jums ne\u0161\u0137iet, ka t\u0101s ietekm\u0113 cilv\u0113ka psihi? Vai tas nerada agresiju l\u012bdz\u012bg\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101? Pr\u0101tam ir vienalga, vai tas ir re\u0101li vai nav - tas redz, tas j\u016bt, un redz\u0113tie t\u0113li kairina apzi\u0146u. Vai ir v\u0113l kaut kas cits?\"<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    Ar sp\u0113l\u0113m ir tas pats, kas ar film\u0101m (ar pornogr\u0101fiju vai bez t\u0101s).<\/p>\n

    Paties\u012bb\u0101 tas ir pat t\u0101pat k\u0101 ar rokm\u016bziku. Vai zin\u0101j\u0101t, ka m\u016bsu vecvec\u0101ku paaudz\u0113 bija cilv\u0113ki, kuri bija p\u0101rliecin\u0101ti, ka rokenrols (un, protams, ar\u012b AC\/DC) veicina vardarb\u012bbu pret b\u0113rniem, vardarb\u012bbu un gar\u012bgu kait\u0113jumu?<\/p>\n

    J\u0101, es run\u0101ju piln\u012bgi nopietni. \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Ar\u012b \u0161aj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 nav pier\u0101d\u012bjumu par boj\u0101jumiem. T\u0101 nav. Cilv\u0113ki vienm\u0113r baid\u012bsies no visa, kas ir kaut nedaudz jauns. Starp citu, jau tagad jums vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt paman\u012bju\u0161iem, ka bailes no videosp\u0113l\u0113m ir p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101s desmitgades m\u012bts - \u0161odien VR sp\u0113les ir strauji izplat\u012btas.<\/p>\n

    Jebkur\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 tas ir interesants atk\u0101p\u0161an\u0101s:<\/strong> ir t\u0101di, kas apgalvo, ka pornogr\u0101fija vai seks\u012bgas filmas (\u0161eit ir m\u012bts no 90. gadiem) veicina pusaud\u017eu p\u0101rsp\u012bl\u0113tu seksualit\u0101ti, t\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146i iesaist\u0101s riskant\u0101 seks\u0101 utt. Lai gan statistika tikai r\u0101da, ka seksualit\u0101te jaun\u0101kaj\u0101s paaudz\u0113s ir pat samazin\u0101jusies. Iesp\u0113jams, t\u0101p\u0113c, ka tagad ir vair\u0101k izklaides. (ASV ir statistika par augst\u0101ku gr\u016btniec\u012bbu skaitu gadalaikos, kad daudz l\u012bst vai snieg).<\/p>\n

    Nu, es atk\u0101pjos.<\/p>\n

    N\u0113, videosp\u0113les nekait\u0113 cilv\u0113ka apzi\u0146ai.<\/strong> M\u016bsu pr\u0101ts ir p\u0101r\u0101k sp\u0113c\u012bgs, lai re\u0101laj\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101 to patie\u0161\u0101m izprastu. Un tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka sp\u0113l\u0113jot j\u016bs j\u016btaties satraukti (nesen sp\u0113l\u0113ju World of Warcraft, un saspringt\u0101 sp\u0113l\u0113 pat mana sirds pukst\u0113ja), tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka jums tiek nodar\u012bts kait\u0113jums.<\/p>\n

    P\u0101rdom\u0101ts,
    \nDaniels<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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