{"id":1798,"date":"2017-02-16T14:45:57","date_gmt":"2017-02-16T11:45:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=1798"},"modified":"2021-09-28T19:39:53","modified_gmt":"2021-09-28T16:39:53","slug":"kaip-rasyti-meiles-laiska","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2017\/ka-rakstit-meles-vestuli\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101 uzrakst\u012bt m\u012blest\u012bbas v\u0113stuli k\u0101dam, kur\u0161 tevi pameta?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: 423 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: 426<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Pirms da\u017e\u0101m ned\u0113\u013c\u0101m man bija saruna ar k\u0101du m\u0101ko\u0146pilso\u0146u. Neuztraucieties -\u00a0<\/span>Es neatkl\u0101\u0161u,<\/span> kas vi\u0146\u0161 ir, jo, atz\u012b\u0161os, tagad esmu aizmirsis, kas vi\u0146\u0161 ir. <\/span>v\u0101rd\u0101 <\/span>t\u0101 bija.<\/span><\/p>\n

Izlas\u012bjis da\u017eas no man\u0101m v\u0113stul\u0113m biju\u0161aj\u0101m m\u012b\u013cotaj\u0101m, vi\u0146\u0161 man uzrakst\u012bja un jaut\u0101ja, ko rakst\u012bt sievietei, kura vi\u0146u pameta.<\/p>\n

Sieviete, kas \u0161\u0137\u012br\u0101s no v\u012bra un atst\u0101ja \u0161o v\u012brieti no Cloud City ar septi\u0146us gadus vecu meitu.<\/p>\n

M\u0101ko\u0146ainais v\u012brs nebija \u013coti apjucis. Vi\u0146\u0161 nebija panik\u0101, jo bija izbaud\u012bjis dz\u012bves gar\u0161u, tikai apjucis par to, k\u0101 r\u012bkoties. Tom\u0113r sieva bez sievas atteic\u0101s turpin\u0101t sarunu vai sazi\u0146u! Vai tas nav tikai v\u0113stu\u013cu rakst\u012b\u0161ana?<\/p>\n

Atz\u012b\u0161os, es neesmu attiec\u012bbu guru. Ne \u012bsts, ne Patins. Es esmu tikai v\u012brie\u0161u dzimuma briedis - dambrie\u017eu dzimuma briedis. T\u0101p\u0113c es nerisin\u0101\u0161u attiec\u012bbas, bet tikai dal\u012b\u0161os ar da\u017eiem padomiem, k\u0101 uzrakst\u012bt \u0161o v\u0113stuli.<\/p>\n

Pirmk\u0101rt, es min\u0113ju, ka ir iesp\u0113jams, ka neviens \u0161o v\u0113stuli nelas\u012bs.<\/h2>\n

M\u0113s visi v\u0113lamies, lai m\u016bsu m\u012blest\u012bbas v\u0113stules las\u012btu p\u0113c iesp\u0113jas maz\u0101k cilv\u0113ku (ja vien vi\u0146i jau nav las\u012bju\u0161i m\u016bsu m\u012blest\u012bbas v\u0113stules). Man vienalga, k\u0101 es<\/a>), bet es tom\u0113r grib\u0113tu, lai \u0161\u012bs v\u0113stules izlasa vismaz adres\u0101ts.<\/p>\n

...Tikai ne vienm\u0113r t\u0101 notiek.<\/p>\n

Da\u017eas no man\u0101m m\u012blest\u012bbas v\u0113stul\u0113m meitenes, kur\u0101m es t\u0101s rakst\u012bju, pat nelas\u012bja, un p\u0113c aploksnes atv\u0113r\u0161anas t\u0101s tika izmestas miskast\u0113. Bet tas ir dabiski - es nevaru piespiest k\u0101du kaut ko izlas\u012bt. (T\u0101pat k\u0101 es nevaru piespiest tevi mani klaus\u012bties.)<\/p>\n

Vienk\u0101r\u0161i pie\u0146emiet to.<\/p>\n

Tad es piemin\u0113ju, ka, iesp\u0113jams, nekad nesa\u0146em\u0161u atbildi.<\/h2>\n

Vai ar\u012b atbilde var b\u016bt piln\u012bgs meli, absurds, bezj\u0113dz\u012bgs sapnis.<\/p>\n

Ja sap\u0146ojat, ka rakst\u0101t v\u0113stuli, tad tas tie\u0161\u0101m ir tikai sapnis. Man reiz t\u0101ds bija. Un tad, kad no r\u012bta to sapratu, es \u013coti uztraucos par savu gar\u012bgo vesel\u012bbu.<\/p>\n

Vi\u0146i var teikt, ka nav las\u012bju\u0161i v\u0113stuli, bet vi\u0146i to izlas\u012bs. J\u016bs varat justies vien\u0101di, bet rakst\u012bt cit\u0101di.<\/p>\n

Ta\u010du tas ir ar\u012b dabiski. Vien\u012bgais, kas atliek, ir pie\u0146emt to.<\/p>\n

Tad es run\u0101ju par v\u0113stules rakst\u012b\u0161anas b\u016bt\u012bbu.<\/h2>\n

V\u0113stules, t\u0101pat k\u0101 cita veida sazi\u0146a, ir balst\u012btas uz domu pau\u0161anu - to izne\u0161anu no savas galvas un nodo\u0161anu citam cilv\u0113kam. Domas var nodot mutiski - ar muti - vai digit\u0101li - ar pirkstiem.<\/p>\n

T\u0101 pamat\u0101 ir atkl\u0101t\u012bba un god\u012bgums.<\/p>\n

Ja j\u016bs neesat atkl\u0101ts sav\u0101s v\u0113stul\u0113s, k\u0101p\u0113c gan gaid\u012bt, ka j\u016bsu sarunu biedrs b\u016bs atkl\u0101ts?<\/p>\n

T\u0101p\u0113c, rakstot v\u0113stules, ir svar\u012bgi b\u016bt atkl\u0101tam. \u013boti atkl\u0101ti. Jo atkl\u0101t\u0101k, jo lab\u0101k. Izsakiet visas savas domas un v\u0113l nedaudz vair\u0101k, lai sagatavotu labu atbildi.<\/p>\n

Un es pabeidzu ar cilv\u0113ci.<\/h2>\n

Galu gal\u0101 tas ir saist\u012bts ar to, k\u0101 saglab\u0101t cilv\u0113c\u012bbu.<\/p>\n

V\u0113stul\u0113 var izteikt p\u0101rmetumus, var rakst\u012bt punktos k\u0101 filozofs Vitgen\u0161teins (kuram patika visu numur\u0113t), var rakst\u012bt terminos, kurus nesaprotat, vai ar\u012b domas pl\u016bsmas veid\u0101...<\/p>\n

...Bet tev lab\u0101k to nedar\u012bt un palikt cilv\u0113kam.<\/p>\n

K\u0101 j\u016bs run\u0101jat ar saviem m\u012b\u013cajiem? K\u0101 j\u016bs sazin\u0101j\u0101ties ar \u0161o sievu bez sievas, kas j\u016bs pameta?<\/p>\n

Sazinieties ar\u012b \u0161eit!<\/p>\n

Atbilde uz jaut\u0101jumu, k\u0101 rakst\u012bt v\u0113stules, ir tik vienk\u0101r\u0161a. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i paturiet pr\u0101t\u0101 \u0161\u012bs piecas idejas, un j\u016bsu v\u0113stules b\u016bs p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161i lieliskas.<\/p>\n

(Un, pat ja neviens tos nelasa, vismaz zin\u0101siet, ka nemelojat un savu darbu dar\u0101t pareizi.)<\/p>\n

V\u0113stules rakst\u012b\u0161ana,
\nDaniels<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dienas m\u0113r\u0137is: 423 v\u0101rdi<\/a>. Rakst\u012bts: 426<\/b>.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14872,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[2,66,87,106,47],"class_list":{"0":"post-1798","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-laiskai","8":"tag-365-tekstai","9":"tag-atsakymai-i-klausimus","10":"tag-issiskyrimai","11":"tag-rasymas","12":"tag-santykiai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1798","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1798"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1798\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14872"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}