{"id":17295,"date":"2022-01-22T12:11:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-22T10:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=17295"},"modified":"2022-01-08T17:41:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-08T15:41:44","slug":"narcizas-yra-zmogus-kuris-nemyli-saves-as-zinau-nes-buvau-narcizu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2022\/narciss-ir-cilveks-kurs-sevi-es-zinu-jo-es-biju-narcists\/","title":{"rendered":"Narciss ir cilv\u0113ks, kur\u0161 nem\u012bl sevi <i>(Es zinu, jo biju narcissists)<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Narcisus atpaz\u012bt nav gr\u016bti \u2013 vi\u0146i nemit\u012bgi lepojas ar saviem sasniegumiem, bild\u0113jas, mekl\u0113 &quot;ietekm\u012bgus draugus&quot;, cilv\u0113kus, kas var\u0113tu b\u016bt apk\u0101rt un, pats galvenais...<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Narcisti past\u0101v\u012bgi izpu\u0161\u0137o savu dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n<p>Narcisiem dz\u012bve nav tikai notikumu virkne, k\u0101 tas ir liel\u0101kajai da\u013cai cilv\u0113ku. <strong>Vi\u0146iem dz\u012bve ir Holivudas \u0161edevrs:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ja kaut kas iet labi, tas ir lab\u0101kais notikums vi\u0146u dz\u012bv\u0113, j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113 un pasaul\u0113 kopum\u0101;<\/li>\n<li>Ja kaut kas noiet greizi, t\u0101 ir liel\u0101k\u0101 tra\u0123\u0113dija, valst\u012b j\u0101sludina s\u0113ras, paskatieties, k\u0101 es raud\u0101ju.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Iesp\u0113jams, \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b esat atcer\u0113jies da\u017eas no m\u016bsu slaven\u012bb\u0101m.<\/p>\n<p>Un, run\u0101jot par slaven\u012bb\u0101m, narcistiem nav gr\u016bti k\u013c\u016bt slaveniem. Vi\u0146i, protams, prot uzsv\u0113rt pat visneinteresant\u0101ko notikumu, un liel\u0101kajai da\u013cai skat\u012bt\u0101ju - mums - ir interese skat\u012bties vi\u0146u priek\u0161nesumus. M\u0113s zin\u0101m, ka vi\u0146i melo, bet joproj\u0101m ir jautri skat\u012bties. T\u0101pat k\u0101 te\u0101tr\u012b.<\/p>\n<h2>Bet narcisa dz\u012bve nav vienpus\u0113ja.<\/h2>\n<p>T\u0101 nav tikai rekl\u0101ma un t\u0113la veido\u0161ana. Ar\u012b narciss to visu dara, jo vi\u0146a teatralit\u0101te ir veids, k\u0101 nomierin\u0101t vi\u0146a riebumu pret sevi.<\/p>\n<p>Narcissists pa\u0161os pamatos nepat\u012bk, k\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 dz\u012bvo. Vi\u0146am nepat\u012bk, kas vi\u0146\u0161 ir un no kurienes n\u0101cis. Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las b\u016bt vair\u0101k par sevi. Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las b\u016bt kaut kas cits. Amb\u012bcijas. Sap\u0146u upuris. Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las b\u016bt m\u016bsdienu Odisejas varonis.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Es to zinu, jo pats biju narcissists.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Man nepatika mana uzliesmojo\u0161\u0101 piere un d\u012bvainais balss tembrs. Nepatika mani ieradumi un nesp\u0113ja atrast sievieti, kas b\u016btu blakus. T\u0101p\u0113c es m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju att\u0113lot kaut k\u0101du raksturu.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0113l\u0101k, pateicoties labiem draugiem \u2013 \u012bstiem draugiem, ne tikai slaven\u012bb\u0101m \u2013 sapratu, ka mans narcisms nav norm\u0101ls. P\u0101rst\u0101ju veidot pasakas par sevi. Es izdz\u0113su visu, par ko meloju. Ko nevar\u0113ju izdz\u0113st, to pie\u0146\u0113mu k\u0101 savu melno z\u012bmi. L\u012bdz ar to\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Mana atvese\u013co\u0161an\u0101s no narcisma nebija nekas \u012bpa\u0161s. \u0160eit nebija apgaism\u012bbas. Tikko kaut kas main\u012bj\u0101s.<\/p>\n<p>Atgriezties pie m\u012blest\u012bbas pret sevi\u2026<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Narcissisti nem\u012bl sevi.<\/strong> Vi\u0146i nemit\u012bgi izpu\u0161\u0137o \u2013 melo \u2013 par saviem dz\u012bves notikumiem.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vi\u0146i to nedara, lai b\u016btu slikti me\u013ci.<\/strong> Vi\u0146iem vienk\u0101r\u0161i nepat\u012bk b\u016bt pa\u0161iem.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ar\u012b narcisti ir cilv\u0113ki.\u00a0<\/strong>Vienk\u0101r\u0161i skumji. Ir gr\u016bti sasniegt vi\u0146u patieso person\u012bbu, bet tas da\u017ereiz ir redzams caur vi\u0146u izveidot\u0101 t\u0113la spraug\u0101m.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Varb\u016bt ar\u012b tu esi narcise?\u00a0<\/strong>ES nezinu. ES tikai jaut\u0101ju.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Es nezinu, ko v\u0113l teikt. Es neesmu narcisma eksperts. Es tikai grib\u0113ju dal\u012bties sav\u0101s p\u0101rdom\u0101s, pieredz\u0113, kas man ir \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b.<\/p>\n<p>Ja jums ir savas domas - papildin\u0101t vai apstr\u012bd\u0113t - dro\u0161i rakstiet koment\u0101ros zem\u0101k. 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