{"id":13801,"date":"2019-09-24T17:41:00","date_gmt":"2019-09-24T14:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=13801"},"modified":"2021-09-09T15:09:56","modified_gmt":"2021-09-09T12:09:56","slug":"kaip-suzinoti-ar-mergina-turi-vaikina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2019\/ka-uzzinat-vai-meitene-dzemde-bernu\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101 uzzin\u0101t, vai meitenei ir draugs?"},"content":{"rendered":"

jaut\u0101t<\/p>\n

J\u0101, es uzskatu, ka tas ir bied\u0113jo\u0161i. Bet tas, K\u0100 vi\u0146a atbild, ir v\u0113l noder\u012bg\u0101k par to, KAS. Un, re\u0101li \u0146emot, no k\u0101 j\u016bs baid\u0101ties? Galu gal\u0101 \u0161is jaut\u0101jums pat nav par jums!!!<\/p>\n

...Galu gal\u0101, vai j\u016bs patie\u0161\u0101m v\u0113laties zin\u0101t, vai j\u016bs vi\u0146ai pat\u012bkat vai n\u0113?<\/strong><\/p>\n

J\u016bs varat pajaut\u0101t \"Vai es jums pat\u012bk?\". Bet, nu, atz\u012bstiet, tas izklaus\u0101s mazliet d\u012bvaini un ne\u0113rti, un it k\u0101 j\u016bs l\u016bdzat atbalstu... Nu, j\u016bs v\u0113laties atbalstu, bet j\u016bs to nepateiksiet atkl\u0101ti... (Un visp\u0101r, k\u0101p\u0113c ne? Bet atst\u0101sim to citai reizei.).<\/p>\n

Tad pajaut\u0101jiet:<\/p>\n

\"Ei, tev ir draugs?\"<\/p>\n

Vienk\u0101r\u0161i. Neizdom\u0101jiet attaisnojumus. Neizskaidrojiet, K\u0100P\u0112C j\u016bs l\u016bdzat. T\u0101d\u0101 noz\u012bm\u0113, ka, ja uzdodat jaut\u0101jumu tie\u0161saist\u0113 (viegl\u0101k nek\u0101 kl\u0101tien\u0113, vai ne?), ir viegl\u0101k uzrakst\u012bt tr\u012bs v\u0101rdus nek\u0101 divus teikumus. Un tam ir pamatots iemesls.<\/p>\n

Tas ir norm\u0101ls jaut\u0101jums, un nav no k\u0101 baid\u012bties.<\/h2>\n

\"Ei, tev ir draugs?\"
\n\"Ooo... K\u0101p\u0113c tu jaut\u0101?\"
\n\"Man ir interesanti.\"<\/p>\n

Neizdom\u0101jiet attaisnojumus. Pietiek ar divu v\u0101rdu atbildi.<\/p>\n

a<\/h3>\n

\"Ei, tev ir draugs?\"
\n<ji klausia kod\u0117l ir atsakai arba ji neklausia>
\n\"Man nav.\"<\/p>\n

Ko j\u016bs no t\u0101 zin\u0101t?<\/p>\n

a) vi\u0146ai nav drauga un tu vi\u0146ai patiec.
\nb) Vi\u0146ai nav drauga, un vi\u0146ai nav viedok\u013ca par jums.<\/p>\n

b<\/h3>\n

\"Ei, tev ir draugs?\"
\n<ji klausia kod\u0117l ir atsakai arba ji neklausia>
\n\"Es zinu.\"<\/p>\n

Un kas no t\u0101?<\/p>\n

a) Vi\u0146ai ir draugs, un j\u016bs par vi\u0146u neinteres\u0113jaties.
\nb) Vi\u0146ai nav drauga, bet tu vi\u0146u neinteres\u0113 (vi\u0146a v\u0113las, lai tu patur savu apbr\u012bnu pie sevis).<\/p>\n

c<\/h3>\n

\"Ei, tev ir draugs?\"
\n<ji klausia kod\u0117l ir atsakai arba ji neklausia>
\n\"Es negribu tev st\u0101st\u012bt.\"<\/p>\n

Un \u0161is...? Ac\u012bmredzot tu vi\u0146u neinteres\u0113, tas ir viss.<\/p>\n

Redzi? Vienk\u0101r\u0161i pajaut\u0101jiet vi\u0146ai, vai vi\u0146ai ir draugs.<\/h2>\n

Pirmaj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 j\u016bs zin\u0101siet, ka v\u0113l neesat vi\u0146u p\u0101rsteidzis, vai ar\u012b ka esat un vi\u0146ai esat paticis. Otraj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 j\u016bs zin\u0101siet, ka vi\u0146a vienk\u0101r\u0161i jau ir aiz\u0146emta, neinteres\u0113jas par jaun\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m, vai ar\u012b ka j\u016bs esat vi\u0146ai iespaidu atst\u0101jis, bet j\u016bs vi\u0146ai nepat\u012bkat, un viss.<\/p>\n

Vienk\u0101r\u0161i pajaut\u0101jiet. Lietojiet \u0161os v\u0101rdus. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i:<\/p>\n

\"Ei, tev ir draugs?\"<\/p>\n

Ne vair\u0101k. Ne maz\u0101k. \"Tev ir draugs\" izklaus\u012btos briesm\u012bgi bez t\u0101, starp citu, da\u013ci\u0146as jaut\u0101juma s\u0101kum\u0101. Un \"hei\" ir tik vienk\u0101r\u0161i, tik dabiski, tik... nu, vienk\u0101r\u0161i.<\/p>\n

Starp citu, j\u016bs atrad\u012bsiet sievieti, kurai j\u016bs patiksiet. Pien\u0101ks diena, kad tu to izdar\u012bsi. Tu to izdar\u012bsi.<\/p>\n

\n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n <\/svg>\n <\/div>\n \"Daniels\"<\/noscript>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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