{"id":13701,"date":"2019-07-31T12:07:00","date_gmt":"2019-07-31T09:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=13701"},"modified":"2021-07-08T01:05:07","modified_gmt":"2021-07-07T22:05:07","slug":"viskas-su-tavimi-gerai-arba-kodel-turetum-nesustoti-augus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2019\/vai-jums-labi-vai-kapec-nedrikst-parstat-augt\/","title":{"rendered":"Ar tevi viss ir k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101 (vai - k\u0101p\u0113c gan nevajadz\u0113tu aptur\u0113t augus?)<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pirmo reizi par\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s:<\/p>\n

https:\/\/geresneneivakar.com\/2018\/08\/23\/viskas-su-tavimi-gerai-arba-kodel-turetum-nesustoti-augus\/<\/a><\/p>\n

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K\u0101du r\u012btu tu pamosties un nesaproti, no kuras puses skan zvani. Aicin\u0101jumi iem\u012bl\u0113t savu unik\u0101lo sevi tiek sav\u012bti viens p\u0113c otra, p\u0113c skaidras naudas izlai\u0161anas, skrieniet pa p\u013cav\u0101m, lai mekl\u0113tu m\u016b\u017e\u012bg\u0101s v\u0113rt\u012bbas un main\u012btos un main\u012btos bezgal\u012bgi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0160eit pat esam ar kol\u0113\u0123i <\/span>Daniels (paz\u012bstams ar\u012b k\u0101 Debesyla)<\/span><\/a> m\u0113s r\u012bkoj\u0101m debates. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Daniel, tu esi viesis, tu esi priorit\u0101te, run\u0101!<\/span><\/p>\n

Debesyla:<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ar tevi viss ir k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101. <\/b>Lai gan da\u017ereiz j\u016bs dom\u0101jat, ka \u0161odien jums vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt lab\u0101kam nek\u0101 vakar \u2013 jums jau ir pietiekami. Pat ja j\u016bs to nezin\u0101t. (Un nezin\u0101\u0161ana, j\u016bs dom\u0101jat, ir "nepietiekami" paz\u012bme!)<\/span><\/p>\n

Ar tevi viss ir k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, jo tu esi cilv\u0113ks. <\/b>Un m\u0113s, cilv\u0113ki, esam k\u0101 tarak\u0101ni. Tikai iztur\u012bg\u0101ks. <\/span><\/p>\n

Galu gal\u0101 simtiem t\u016bksto\u0161u v\u012brie\u0161u un sievie\u0161u p\u0113d\u0113jo 20 000 gadu laik\u0101 bija j\u0101satiekas, lai j\u016bs k\u013c\u016btu par tevi. Un, iesp\u0113jams, liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca nem\u0101c\u0113ja ne rakst\u012bt, ne las\u012bt, ne zin\u0101ja, k\u0101p\u0113c un k\u0101 mazg\u0101t rokas, ne k\u0101 pagatavot kartupe\u013cu pank\u016bkas (kas visp\u0101r ir kartupe\u013ci?), un par to nerun\u0101sim...<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2026 N\u0113. Parun\u0101sim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tie simtiem t\u016bksto\u0161u cilv\u0113ku bija negl\u012bti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vai j\u016bs uztraucaties, ka j\u016bsu deguns ir negl\u012bts? Ka tev uz pieres ir kurmis? Ka uzacis cen\u0161as saaugt par vienu? Ka j\u016bs gandr\u012bz nevarat aizb\u0113gt, elpot un nezin\u0101t, k\u0101 apmierin\u0101t savu v\u012brieti vai sievieti? <\/span><\/p>\n

Ha!<\/span><\/p>\n

It k\u0101 tiem simtiem t\u016bksto\u0161u cilv\u0113ku t\u0101 neb\u016btu. <\/b>It k\u0101 nebija ne probl\u0113mu, ne bai\u013cu, ne bai\u013cu no pirmajiem randi\u0146iem, vi\u0146i uzreiz zin\u0101ja, k\u0101 "uz\u0146emties seksu", dro\u0161i vien iem\u0101c\u012bj\u0101s no galvas, k\u0101 audzin\u0101t b\u0113rnus un netrakot, kad pieskaras auti\u0146am vai gultai N+ reizes? Pie\u0146emsim, ka vi\u0146iem nebija gr\u016bti, nebija bail, nebija dusmu vi\u013c\u0146a, nerad\u0101s eksistenci\u0101li jaut\u0101jumi?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u013booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooot<\/span><\/p>\n

J\u016bs esat vien\u012bgais ar \u0161\u012bm probl\u0113m\u0101m, vai ne? T\u0101 es to zin\u0101ju \u2013 t\u0101tad tu esi \u012bpa\u0161s! <\/b>Tava dz\u012bve ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi gr\u016bta, un tu esi tik negl\u012bts, \u0161ausm\u012bgs, slikts, ar to nepietiek, ka par tevi j\u0101raksta lugas un epas! <\/span><\/p>\n

Eh\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Es t\u0101 nedom\u0101ju. Es dom\u0101ju, ka ar tevi viss ir k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101. Jo tu esi cilv\u0113ks.<\/span><\/p>\n

Alvyda:<\/b><\/h2>\n

Es piekr\u012btu Danielam un v\u0113los vi\u0146am \u0161eit iebilst.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tu patie\u0161\u0101m. Tu esi Pietiekami!<\/b><\/p>\n

Un tu noteikti esi cilv\u0113ks, lai gan n\u0113s\u0101t sev\u012b ja ne vair\u0101kus, tad vismaz vienu grau\u017eamo t\u0101rpu, ko iest\u0101d\u012bju\u0161i citi - apst\u0101k\u013ci, vai tikpat "apgrauzti" cilv\u0113ki sev apk\u0101rt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ziniet, nav nekas nepareizs, ja v\u0113laties b\u016bt lab\u0101kam. Ja \u0161\u012b v\u0113lme nerodas no sevis \u0161aust\u012b\u0161anas, vil\u0161an\u0101s, v\u0113lmes izpatikt vai v\u0113lmes sacensties. Jo vienm\u0113r b\u016bs<\/span><\/p>\n

lab\u0101kie<\/span><\/p>\n

skaist\u0101ks<\/span><\/p>\n

gudr\u0101ks,<\/span><\/p>\n

vair\u0101k sasniegumu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vienm\u0113r. Jo vienk\u0101r\u0161i <\/span>ir gr\u016bti konkur\u0113t ar 7,6 miljardiem<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bet ja tu - <\/span>Tavs<\/span> konkurents, ja att\u012bst\u012bba nav bezj\u0113dz\u012bgs v\u0101rds v\u0101rdn\u012bc\u0101 vai ieraksts Facebook, ja t\u0101 ir j\u016bsu sap\u0146u m\u0113r\u0137a atsl\u0113ga, uz priek\u0161u. Pat ja neviens tev nepiesit pa plecu. Pat ja "Tu redzi, cik vi\u0146ai paveicies", "Vi\u0146ai ir labi, kad... (pierakstiet iemeslu)" iegrims j\u016bsu p\u0101rmai\u0146\u0101s. Pat ja apsveikuma viet\u0101 nomurmina "Dzimis ar T-kreklu", "No\u0137erts iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s laik\u0101", "Nebija v\u0113rts".<\/span><\/p>\n

ES dom\u0101ju, ka <\/span>ir daudz slikt\u0101k, ja tu tici, ka viss, tu esi ide\u0101ls un unik\u0101ls<\/b>. Nek\u013c\u016bd\u012bgs un ties\u012bgs uz absol\u016btu paties\u012bbu. Ir s\u0101p\u012bgi skat\u012bties, kad \u0161\u0101di cilv\u0113ki turpina dauz\u012bt galvu pret sienu un br\u012bn\u0101s, ka vi\u0146iem uz pieres ir pumpis, un siena joproj\u0101m st\u0101v. Un ir tik pa\u0161saprotami, ka pietr\u016bkst tik maz \u2013 lai nok\u0101ptu no pjedest\u0101la un to atz\u012btu <\/span>vispirms jums ir j\u0101no\u0146em akme\u0146i no j\u016bsu ce\u013ca<\/b>. Ka tu esi liel\u0101kais \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis, nevis citi.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u016bsdienu mediji ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi labv\u0113l\u012bgi abu dzimumu Napoleonu ra\u0161anos. Visu veidu m\u016bzikas \u0161ovi un sarunu \u0161ovi \u0113d tos brokast\u012bs, pusdien\u0101s un vakari\u0146\u0101s. Interneta port\u0101li plos\u0101s no clickbait rakst\u012b\u0161anas par vienu un dod iesp\u0113ju citiem napoleoniem kritiz\u0113t.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tagad uz katra alt\u0101ra atrodas guru<\/b>, p\u0101rdodot sievi\u0161\u0137\u012bbu, v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u012bbu, vieglu biznesu, bag\u0101t\u012bbu, kas ar pirkstu \u0161\u0137ipsnu lido mut\u0113, un m\u0113r\u0137u materializ\u0101ciju. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pat ja tas alt\u0101ris jau st\u0101v pie tirgus sienas. M\u016bsu mazv\u0113rt\u012bbas kompleksi ir sviests uz vi\u0146u maizes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tagad ir mod\u0113 uzlabot. L\u012bdz uzp\u016bt\u012bbai. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i. Visos virzienos. Devalv\u0113ta v\u0113rt\u012bba \u2013 turkl\u0101t \u013coti neapmierino\u0161a.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u0101p\u0113c j\u0101izv\u0113las pa\u0161am \u2013 ja zini, k\u0101p\u0113c TEV tas ir vajadz\u012bgs un K\u0100P\u0112C, tev nav vajadz\u012bgs guru, kas tev p\u0101rdotu uzlabojumus. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

J\u016bs:<\/b><\/h2>\n

Un k\u0101 tu dom\u0101? <\/b><\/p>\n

Dalieties sav\u0101s dom\u0101s koment\u0101ros zem\u0101k!<\/b><\/p>\n

Kuram, tavupr\u0101t, ir liel\u0101ka taisn\u012bba? Kur\u0161 ce\u013c\u0161 ir lab\u0101ks \u2013 samierin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s vai izaugsme? Dalies sav\u0101s saj\u016bt\u0101s!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ar m\u012blest\u012bbu,<\/span>
\n<\/span>Alvyda un Debesyla<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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