{"id":13692,"date":"2019-07-10T11:01:00","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T08:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=13692"},"modified":"2021-09-22T14:03:02","modified_gmt":"2021-09-22T11:03:02","slug":"tu-nesi-nepakeiciamas-ir-niekam-taves-nereikia-taciau-tai-nera-blogai-ka-daryti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2019\/tu-neesi-aizstajams-un-tu-nevienam-vajadzigs-bet-tas-nav-slikti-darit\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu neesi neaizst\u0101jams un nevienam neesi vajadz\u012bgs... Bet tas nav slikti!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ir s\u0101p\u012bgi just, ka tu (un jo \u012bpa\u0161i tu) neesi vajadz\u012bgs. Jo\u2026 Nu\u2026 <b>T\u0101 ir paties\u012bba.<\/b><strong> T\u0101du k\u0101 j\u016bs ir t\u016bksto\u0161iem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Citi var paveikt j\u016bsu darbu \u0101tr\u0101k, lab\u0101k vai l\u0113t\u0101k. J\u016bsu b\u0113rni vai vec\u0101ki var dz\u012bvot bez jums. Un visp\u0101r, kas tu esi?<\/p>\n<p>\u0160\u012b nevajadz\u012bba var izrais\u012bt skumjas. Vai dusmas? Da\u017eiem cilv\u0113kiem \u0161\u012bs sagroz\u012bt\u0101s domas d\u0113\u013c rodas depresijas trauc\u0113jumi vai vi\u0146i s\u0101k mekl\u0113t uzman\u012bbu t\u0101dos veidos, kam nepiecie\u0161ama uzman\u012bba, un t\u0101p\u0113c diezgan \u0101tri noraida citus.<\/p>\n<p>B\u016bt nev\u0113lamam nav pat\u012bkami. K\u0101 j\u016bs redzat.<\/p>\n<h2><b>\u2026Bet tas nav nekas neparasts!<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Dom\u0101jams, ka slauc\u012bt\u0101ja, \u0161ofera vai mammas darbu var veikt \u013coti daudzi. Tam nav nepiecie\u0161ama augsta izgl\u012bt\u012bba, gadu desmitiem ilga pieredze vai \u0123en\u0113tiski sp\u0113c\u012bgi musku\u013ci.<\/p>\n<p><b>Bet j\u016bsu darbs joproj\u0101m ir v\u0113rt\u012bgs. Pat ja par to nesa\u0146em paldies, jo citiem t\u0101 \u0161\u0137iet <\/b><b>pa\u0161saprotami <\/b><b>un <\/b><b>viegli<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Galu gal\u0101, visticam\u0101k, j\u016bs bie\u017ei nepateicaties kasier\u0113m vai izsaka komplimentus lielveikala z\u0101les darbiniekiem par to, cik labi vi\u0146i saliku\u0161i plauktos makaronu iepakojumus. Diem\u017e\u0113l. Cik for\u0161i pui\u0161i. J\u0101dal\u0101s man\u0101 facebook.<\/p>\n<p>Un tev nevajag.<\/p>\n<p>Protams, tas vi\u0146iem (mums) b\u016btu jauki, bet... Laikam jau dabiski, ka m\u0113s visvair\u0101k paman\u0101m lietas, kuru mums pa\u0161iem nav? Ka m\u0113s koncentr\u0113jamies uz lab\u0101ko pasaul\u0113, jo mums nav laika (un uzman\u012bbas), ko velt\u012bt visiem?<\/p>\n<p>Aizmirsti. Tas ir norm\u0101li.<\/p>\n<p><b>J\u016bsu darbs joproj\u0101m ir v\u0113rt\u012bgs. Pat ja vi\u0146\u0161 <\/b><b>var izpild\u012bt <\/b><b>t\u016bksto\u0161iem citu cilv\u0113ku. Pat ja vi\u0146\u0161 <\/b><b>jau uzst\u0101jas<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tas, ka Lietuv\u0101 pastnieku ir t\u016bksto\u0161iem, nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146u vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt maz\u0101k. Pastnieki un citi lo\u0123istikas darbinieki ir b\u016btiski - prec\u0113m un pak\u0101m ir j\u0101p\u0101rvietojas.<\/p>\n<p>Un tas ir labi, ka ir daudz t\u0101du k\u0101 j\u016bs.<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs esat vienk\u0101r\u0161i lieliska komanda. Protams, j\u016bsu uzdevumi ir da\u017e\u0101di, bet j\u016bs str\u0101d\u0101jat vien\u0101 jom\u0101. Un k\u0101ds jums par to maks\u0101. Visticam\u0101k, ja j\u016bsu darbs neb\u016btu vajadz\u012bgs, tas neatmaks\u0101tos.<\/p>\n<p>Un tas ar\u012b... Norm\u0101li. Aizmirsti.<\/p>\n<p><b>J\u016bsu darbs joproj\u0101m ir v\u0113rt\u012bgs. Pat ja vi\u0146am nav neviena <\/b><b>nemaks\u0101<\/b><b>. Or <\/b><b>maks\u0101 tik maz<\/b><b>, kas diez vai izn\u0101k uz darba instrumentiem.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tas, ka Lietuv\u0101 ir simtiem t\u016bksto\u0161u pilso\u0146u... Er... Pilso\u0146i... (Civilpilso\u0146i? Lai t\u0101 b\u016btu.) ...Pal\u012bdz\u0113t kaimi\u0146iem, sav\u0101kt v\u0113ja izmestos atkritumus, gl\u0101bt dz\u012bvniekus vai audzin\u0101t savus b\u0113rnus, tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146i nav vajadz\u012bgi.<\/p>\n<p>Un es dom\u0101ju, ka tas ir ac\u012bmredzami.<\/p>\n<p>Pasaule neapst\u0101sies kust\u012bb\u0101, jo k\u0101ds slepkava nevar\u0113ja nest t\u0101l\u0101k savu kafijas kr\u016bzi, un t\u0101 ripo pa parka celi\u0146a vidu. (Kr\u016bze, nevis kr\u016bze.) Nep\u0101rtrauks kust\u0113ties, ja nedzims jauni b\u0113rni. Vai neapst\u0101sies, jo k\u0101dam tas b\u016bs gr\u016bti, s\u0101p\u012bgi, vientu\u013ci...<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Lai pasaulei uzsp\u013caut. Ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 tas ir.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0113c desmit t\u016bksto\u0161iem gadu diez vai k\u0101ds atcer\u0113sies, k\u0101 soci\u0101lajos t\u012bklos padal\u012bjies ar for\u0161o #Zerowaste Lithuania grupu vai k\u0101 p\u0101rliecin\u0101jies, ka par Donaldu Trampu var balsot tikai celms. (Vai koks.)<\/p>\n<p>Un tas ir norm\u0101li. Tas nav nekas \u012bpa\u0161s. <b>tom\u0113r<\/b> <b>pat j\u016bsu neekskluzivit\u0101te ir neekskluz\u012bvs fakts.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u2026Bet tas nav slikti!<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Tas nav labi.<\/p>\n<p>... Nu, tiesa, citi varb\u016bt ir str\u012bd\u0113ju\u0161ies ar laipn\u012bbu. <b>Galu gal\u0101 var\u0113tu b\u016bt labi b\u016bt neparastam: <\/b>no jums nekas svar\u012bgs nav atkar\u012bgs, t\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs nepie\u013causit k\u013c\u016bdas, kas kait\u0113s miljardiem cilv\u0113ku un cit\u0101m b\u016btn\u0113m.<\/p>\n<p>(Galu gal\u0101, ja j\u016bs b\u016btu \u0101rk\u0101rt\u0113js, un viss b\u016btu atkar\u012bgs no j\u016bsu l\u0113mumiem - tas b\u016btu \u0161ausm\u012bgi! Vai j\u016bs nedom\u0101jat? Es neciestu ar t\u0101du spriedzi...)<\/p>\n<p>Bet es person\u012bgi dom\u0101ju, ka tas nav ne labi, ne slikti. T\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161i ir. T\u0101di m\u0113s jau esam \u2013 neiev\u0113rojami.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Un m\u0113s varam skumt \u0161\u012bs unikalit\u0101tes d\u0113\u013c.<\/li>\n<li>M\u0113\u0123ina (neveiksm\u012bgi) no t\u0101 aizb\u0113gt. Citi skrien \u013coti t\u0101lu \u2013 galu gal\u0101 degv\u012bns nemaz nav tik d\u0101rgs.<\/li>\n<li>M\u0113s varam b\u016bt dusm\u012bgi, greizsird\u012bgi pret tiem, kas \u0161\u0137iet \u0101rk\u0101rt\u0113ji. Bet internet\u0101 vai medijos \u0161\u0101di izskat\u012bties var jebkur\u0161, ja vien nereklam\u0113 savu neekskluz\u012bvo da\u013cu...<\/li>\n<li>M\u0113s varam m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t padar\u012bt sevi \u012bpa\u0161us citu ac\u012bs. \u201cOho, tu bez manis neb\u016btu nekas!\u201d saka cilv\u0113ki, kuriem m\u0113s neticam ne l\u0101gam. \u201cJa tu man nenopirksi dr\u0113bes, es neb\u016b\u0161u tava draudzene!\u201d teica viens no maniem biju\u0161ajiem. &quot;Ja es tev neb\u016btu izdom\u0101jusi segv\u0101rdu, tu neb\u016btu Debesyla,&quot; saka draudzene, kuras paties\u012bba, ta\u010du \u0161\u0101ds paties\u012bbas pasnieg\u0161anas veids vi\u0146ai nepal\u012bdz k\u013c\u016bt unik\u0101lai.<\/li>\n<li>M\u0113s varam likt rokas pie aus\u012bm un atk\u0101rtot: &quot;N\u0113, m\u0113s visi esam \u012bpa\u0161i, m\u0113s visi esam br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgi, m\u0113s visi esam Dieva b\u0113rni, t\u0101p\u0113c no t\u0101 izriet, ka ar\u012b es esmu \u013coti br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgs&quot;\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Bet diez vai tas pal\u012bdz\u0113s. <\/b>Lai k\u013c\u016btu par iz\u0146\u0113mumu vai visp\u0101r kaut ko.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 viet\u0101 m\u0113s varam samierin\u0101ties.<\/p>\n<p>es M\u0113s. Tu. Neviens no \u0161iem un it \u012bpa\u0161i j\u016bs. M\u0113s neesam ekskluz\u012bvi. M\u0113s nekad neesam biju\u0161i. Pat ja to atk\u0101rtoja mamma vai t\u0113tis, vai b\u0113rnud\u0101rza audzin\u0101t\u0101ja. M\u0113s dro\u0161i vien nekad to nedar\u012bsim. Varb\u016bt... Bet diez vai.<\/p>\n<h3>Un te nek\u0101 t\u0101da nav. Galu gal\u0101 tas nav kauns!<\/h3>\n<p>M\u0113s joproj\u0101m varam b\u016bt t\u0101di, k\u0101di esam. Darot to, ko dar\u0101m. Turpiniet savu darbu. Interes\u0113ties par pasauli. <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/tm\/\">Da\u017ereiz ir labi sam\u012b\u013cot un pasp\u0113l\u0113ties.<\/a> Atdot sevi m\u012b\u013cajiem un sve\u0161iniekiem. B\u016bt par vidut\u0101ju saviem Dieviem, uzskatiem, j\u016bt\u0101m un saj\u016bt\u0101m.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0113s varam vienk\u0101r\u0161i dz\u012bvot.\u00a0<strong>Un ar to pietiek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vai tu nedom\u0101?<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla-uzrasai-child\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Daniels\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ir s\u0101p\u012bgi just, ka tu (un jo \u012bpa\u0161i tu) neesi vajadz\u012bgs. Jo\u2026 Nu\u2026 <b>T\u0101 ir paties\u012bba.<\/b><strong> T\u0101du k\u0101 j\u016bs ir t\u016bksto\u0161iem.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14531,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[52,86,84],"class_list":{"0":"post-13692","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pamastymai","8":"tag-pozityvumas","9":"tag-saves-pazinimas","10":"tag-sekme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13692"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13692\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14531"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}