{"id":13686,"date":"2019-06-26T10:07:00","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T07:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=13686"},"modified":"2021-09-21T16:13:21","modified_gmt":"2021-09-21T13:13:21","slug":"kodel-nereikia-kreipti-demesio-i-kritika-feisbuke","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2019\/kapec-nav-japievers-uzmaniba-kritikai-facebook\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101p\u0113c nepiev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu kritikai Facebook?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ir divu veidu kritika.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0113, nevis &quot;labi&quot; un &quot;slikti&quot;. Lai gan tas ir l\u012bdz\u012bgi.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 viet\u0101...<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki cen\u0161as pal\u012bdz\u0113t citiem, daloties savos viedok\u013cos, idej\u0101s, attieksm\u0113.<\/li>\n<li>Citi v\u0113las sev pal\u012bdz\u0113t.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Tom\u0113r tas nav atkar\u012bgs no cilv\u0113ka \u012bpa\u0161\u012bb\u0101m! Ne izgl\u012bt\u012bba, apzi\u0146a, pilson\u012bba vai kas cits. N\u0113.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Tas ir atkar\u012bgs no t\u0101, KUR vi\u0146\u0161 koment\u0113.<\/p>\n<p>Facebook, Delphi, Youtube, Reddit, person\u012bg\u0101s zi\u0146as, e-pasts. v\u0113stul\u0113s, koment\u0101ros zem bloga rakstiem, vai varb\u016bt dz\u012bvo auditorijas priek\u0161\u0101..?<\/p>\n<p>\u013bauj man paskaidrot.<\/p>\n<h2><b>K\u0101p\u0113c tu neesi vain\u012bgs pie saviem stulbajiem koment\u0101riem?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>\u0160eit nav lielas mistikas. M\u0113s visi to dar\u0101m.<\/p>\n<p>Lai cik m\u0113s b\u016btu izgl\u012btoti, apzin\u0101ti, labest\u012bgi un vis\u0101di cit\u0101di for\u0161i... M\u0113s visi (da\u017ek\u0101rt) \u013caujamies vieglai baudai.<\/p>\n<p>Jo:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Tas ir ieprogramm\u0113ts m\u016bsos mekl\u0113t prieku. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i tas ir cilv\u0113ka pamats \u2013 dz\u012bvot pat\u012bkami un bie\u017e\u0101k izv\u0113l\u0113ties to, kas ir pat\u012bkam\u0101kais. (Ne vienm\u0113r.)<\/li>\n<li>Da\u017ereiz m\u0113s nogurstam un nokr\u012bt bremzes.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u2026Un tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka ar liel\u0101ku discipl\u012bnu vai citiem spredi\u0137iem neizvair\u0101s rakst\u012bt citiem neder\u012bgus, varb\u016bt pat izsmejo\u0161us koment\u0101rus.<\/p>\n<p>Un, l\u016bdzu, nesakiet, ka nekad nekur neesat atst\u0101jis stulbu, zemisku, bezj\u0113dz\u012bgu koment\u0101ru. Jo tas noz\u012bm\u0113tu, ka tu vienk\u0101r\u0161i neproti paman\u012bt, ko pats dari.<\/p>\n<p>Var\u0113tu b\u016bt gr\u016bti atz\u012bt, ka j\u016bs var\u0113tu to izdar\u012bt\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Bet fakts ir t\u0101ds, ka j\u016bs jau to dar\u0101t.<\/p>\n<p>Varb\u016bt ne katru dienu un ne vienm\u0113r (es ceru), bet \u0101r\u0101 ar\u012b emocijas, dusmas, stulbi joki, citi zvirbu\u013ci...<\/p>\n<h2><b>\u2026Un k\u0101p\u0113c par\u0101d\u0101s bezj\u0113dz\u012bgi koment\u0101ri?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Jo ir vietas, kas ir paredz\u0113tas, lai to izvilktu no jums.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 ir soci\u0101l\u0101 in\u017eenierija.<\/p>\n<p>Jo vair\u0101k koment\u0101ru, lai cik bezpr\u0101t\u012bgi -&gt; jo vair\u0101k... Nauda. Dz\u012bvot vai n\u0113.<\/p>\n<p>Uzminiet, k\u0101p\u0113c &quot;Delfi.lt&quot; nem\u0113\u0123ina savald\u012bt koment\u0113t\u0101jus, k\u0101 to cent\u0101s (un sal\u012bdzino\u0161i veiksm\u012bgi dar\u012bja) &quot;15min.lt&quot;?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Katrs koment\u0101rs noz\u012bm\u0113, ka koment\u0113t\u0101js atgriez\u012bsies lap\u0101 atkal un atkal<\/strong> \u2013 vismaz vienu reizi lapa tiks p\u0101rl\u0101d\u0113ta un p\u0113c koment\u0101ra ievieto\u0161anas tiks iel\u0101d\u0113ts jauns sludin\u0101jums. Un rekl\u0101mas skat\u012bjumi un klik\u0161\u0137i ir tas, no k\u0101 &quot;Delfi&quot; dz\u012bvo.<\/p>\n<p>Tas nav slikti. Tas ir tikai biznesa modelis.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Da\u017e\u0101s viet\u0101s cilv\u0113ki, visticam\u0101k, pal\u012bdz citiem. Un citos - sev.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Ta\u010du nevajag nosod\u012bt tos, kas pal\u012bdz pa\u0161i sev. M\u0113s ar\u012b to dar\u0101m. Tu, es, tava mamma un bijus\u012b lietuvie\u0161u valodas skolot\u0101ja. M\u0113s esam egoisti, kuriem prieks ir vissvar\u012bg\u0101kais.<\/p>\n<p>Un... Vai zini?<\/p>\n<p>Prieks \u0161eit ir \u013coti svar\u012bga t\u0113ma.<\/p>\n<p>Da\u017e\u0101s viet\u0101s ir <b>vienk\u0101r\u0161i ir jautr\u0101k rakst\u012bt koment\u0101rus<\/b>. Gan noder\u012bgi, gan bezj\u0113dz\u012bgi, gan pozit\u012bvi, gan negat\u012bvi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160aj\u0101s viet\u0101s j\u016bs uzreiz paman\u012bsit, koment\u0101ri ir izsp\u0113l\u0113ti.<\/p>\n<p>Zai-di-mi-zuo-ti.<\/p>\n<p>Tie ir veidoti t\u0101, lai par katru koment\u0101ru sa\u0146emtu gar\u0161\u012bgu prieka kumosu!<\/p>\n<p>Izteici smiekl\u012bgu koment\u0101ru? Turpiniet, \u012bk\u0161\u0137i uz aug\u0161u. Saproti - labi uzrakst\u012bji. Vai uzrakst\u012bji ko interesantu? L\u016bk, tava p\u0101rsteigt\u0101 smaid\u012bg\u0101 seja. Saproti \u2013 par interesantu parakstu. Tu kaut ko stulbu uzrakst\u012bji, konkr\u0113ti tro\u013c\u013co\u0161anu? \u0160eit ir dusm\u012bga smaido\u0161a seja un sa\u0161utumu mug\u013cu reakciju kalni.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Kaut kur pat\u012bkam\u0101k koment\u0113t, vienalga ko un vienalga k\u0101.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Un par to m\u0113s g\u016bstam prieku.<\/p>\n<p>Jo vair\u0101k m\u0113s tur koment\u0113jam, jo jautr\u0101k. Jo vair\u0101k kli\u0161eju, kas pat\u012bk liel\u0101kajai da\u013cai vietas, jo lab\u0101k.<\/p>\n<p>Tas ir k\u0101 sevis cildin\u0101\u0161ana un slav\u0113jami pieskaroties ap\u013ciem.<\/p>\n<p>Nu, k\u0101 t\u0101ds deb\u012blu bars, kas iet pa ietvi, run\u0101 par visiem un visu, un tad par to kop\u0101 smejas.<\/p>\n<p>P\u016b\u013ca apstiprin\u0101\u0161ana ir sp\u0113c\u012bga narkotika.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Un kur atrast j\u0113gpilnu diskusiju?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Viet\u0101s, kur koment\u0113t nav tik jautri.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Zem emu\u0101ra raksta, kur\u0101 nav visu veidu gl\u012btu emocijz\u012bmju, un katru reizi ir j\u0101aizpilda v\u0101rda un e-pasta lauki. pa pastu<\/li>\n<li>Tie\u0161raides forum\u0101, kur\u0101 piedal\u0101s vair\u0101k nek\u0101 100\u00a0cilv\u0113ki un aicinot cilv\u0113kus pie mikrofona pirms visiem p\u0101r\u0113jiem.<\/li>\n<li>Tie\u0161saistes forum\u0101, kur visi ir piln\u012bgi anon\u012bmi, t\u0101p\u0113c tie &quot;pat\u012bk&quot; nav personiski, bet tikai pa\u0161am zi\u0146ojumam.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k.<\/p>\n<p>Jo gr\u016bt\u0101k ir piecelties cilv\u0113ku priek\u0161\u0101 un run\u0101t, jo domas, visticam\u0101k, b\u016bs v\u0113rt\u012bg\u0101kas.<\/p>\n<p>Ne vienm\u0113r! Bet vairum\u0101 gad\u012bjumu.<\/p>\n<p>Kur gudr\u012bba tiek atalgota, mu\u013c\u0137\u012bbas nepal\u012bdz. Kur visgr\u016bt\u0101k tikt pie balv\u0101m, tur negribas rakst\u012bt mu\u013c\u0137\u012bbas.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0101 saka, internet\u0101 visi ir stiep\u013cu bru\u0146inieki.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Bet visliel\u0101kie bru\u0146inieki ir viet\u0101s, kur vide ir rad\u012bta, lai piesaist\u012btu m\u016bsu uzman\u012bbu, izs\u016bktu m\u016bsu v\u0113lmi p\u0113c dopam\u012bna, seraton\u012bna un cit\u0101m \u0137imik\u0101lij\u0101m, kas rada labu pa\u0161saj\u016btu.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Neliela p\u0101rliec\u012bba.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Neb\u0113d\u0101jies, ja Facebook par tevi vai tavu darbu run\u0101 negat\u012bvi. Ja run\u0101 Delfu koment\u0101ros. Ja Marozs run\u0101 grup\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Jo tas nav nekas personisks.<\/p>\n<p>Un vi\u0146i to vienk\u0101r\u0161i dara, lai g\u016btu vismaz kaut k\u0101du gandar\u012bjumu dz\u012bv\u0113. Atp\u016bsties p\u0113c darba. Lai izvair\u012btos no s\u0101p\u0113m uz visu atliku\u0161o m\u016b\u017eu.<\/p>\n<p>Un j\u016bs. Tu ar\u012b to dari.<\/p>\n<p>Bet aizmirsti. \u0160\u012bs vietas ir paredz\u0113tas, lai to izvilktu no jums. Tie nav paredz\u0113ti, lai labi pavad\u012btu laiku.<\/p>\n<p>Lab\u0101k ir v\u0113rst savu uzman\u012bbu tur, kur atrodas cilv\u0113ki... nu, veltot vi\u0146u uzman\u012bbu. Lai ar\u012b ne tik jautri un nekaun\u012bgi, bet noteikti lab\u0101ki k\u0101 cita m\u0113ma form\u0101t\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Lai gan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Ko tu dom\u0101?<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla-uzrasai-child\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Daniels\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ir divu veidu kritika.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14527,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[59,92,47,61],"class_list":{"0":"post-13686","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pamastymai","8":"tag-kurybiskumas","9":"tag-samoningumas","10":"tag-santykiai","11":"tag-soc-tinklai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13686","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13686"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13686\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14527"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13686"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13686"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13686"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}