{"id":13622,"date":"2019-03-13T16:55:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-13T13:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=13622"},"modified":"2021-09-21T17:45:56","modified_gmt":"2021-09-21T14:45:56","slug":"kaip-bendrauti-su-negatyviu-zmogumi-kaip-nepasinerti-i-pesimizma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2019\/ka-sazinaties-ar-negativu-cilveku-ka-negrimt-pesimisma\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101 sazin\u0101ties ar negat\u012bvu cilv\u0113ku? Un k\u0101 neienirt pesimism\u0101?<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sa\u0146\u0113mu jaut\u0101jumu no m\u0101ko\u0146meitenes:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sveiki, Daniel, es rakstu jums, jo j\u016bsu padoms vienm\u0113r ir noder\u012bgs. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

Situ\u0101cija ir t\u0101da, es m\u0101cos un man ir draugs ar kuru m\u0113s esam istabas biedri, vi\u0146a ir tikai nek\u0101rt\u012bba, vi\u0146a past\u0101v\u012bgi nervoz\u0113, vi\u0146ai vienm\u0113r kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, vi\u0146a nav apmierin\u0101ta ar visu un tas ietekm\u0113 mani, es j\u016btu, ka k\u013c\u016bstu \u012bsts ka\u0161\u0137\u012bgs un ar\u012b nervozs, pesimists. Cen\u0161os nepiev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu vi\u0146as teiktajam, bet bez str\u012bdiem neiztikt, ar\u012b es nezinu k\u0101 ar vi\u0146u izvair\u012bties, jo redzamies katru dienu, dz\u012bvojam kop\u0101.<\/p>\n

K\u0101du padomu j\u016bs dotu, k\u0101 sazin\u0101ties ar \u0161\u0101du cilv\u0113ku? K\u0101 neiegrimt taj\u0101 pesimism\u0101...? -_-<\/p>\n

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Daniela atbilde:<\/h3>\n

Sveiki!<\/p>\n

Pirmk\u0101rt, ar br\u012bvdien\u0101m! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

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  • Otrk\u0101rt, k\u0101 j\u016bs dom\u0101jat - vai starp jums ir k\u0101ds, kur\u0161 b\u016btu taisn\u012bg\u0101ks?<\/li>\n
  • Vai ir j\u0101b\u016bt vienam skat\u012bjumam uz pasauli?<\/li>\n
  • Un vai vi\u0146iem visiem j\u0101b\u016bt vien\u0101diem?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Es to jaut\u0101ju, jo es pal\u012bdzu sev. Man\u0101 vid\u0113 ir ar\u012b da\u017ei negat\u012bvi cilv\u0113ki. Bet... Reakcija CHOKE NEGATIVITY ir vi\u0146u vaina - vi\u0146i lika jums t\u0101 justies, vai ar\u012b j\u016bs pats r\u016bp\u0113jaties par sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m?<\/p>\n

    Ko dar\u012bt, ja tava draudzene ir k\u0101 mazs t\u0101rps, kas dz\u012bvo m\u0113slos? Vai tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146a ir slikta un vi\u0146ai nevajadz\u0113tu past\u0101v\u0113t, un vi\u0146as domas\/darb\u012bba ir nepareiza? Bet k\u0101 tad t\u0101s kakas p\u0101rv\u0113r\u0161as augsn\u0113? T\u0101tad, k\u0101 izt\u012br\u012bt nej\u0113dz\u012bgos \u0137\u012bmiskos l\u012bdzek\u013cus (noraid\u012bt to, kas par vainu), ja nav t\u0101rpu, ko tos paman\u012bt, br\u012bdin\u0101t, izvilkt?<\/p>\n

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    • Varb\u016bt tev piem\u012bt supersp\u0113ja paman\u012bt lab\u0101s lietas, bet vi\u0146a pamana slikt\u0101s?<\/strong><\/li>\n
    • Vai tas padara k\u0101du no jums taisn\u012bg\u0101ku?<\/li>\n
    • T\u0101tad, vai \u0161eit ir pat konflikts, kas nav tikai j\u016bsu \/ j\u016bsu \/ m\u016bsu galv\u0101?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Ko tu dom\u0101?<\/p>\n

      \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n <\/svg>\n <\/div>\n \"Daniels\"<\/noscript>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      Sa\u0146\u0113mu jaut\u0101jumu no m\u0101ko\u0146meitenes:<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14727,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[66,52,47],"class_list":{"0":"post-13622","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-laiskai","8":"tag-atsakymai-i-klausimus","9":"tag-pozityvumas","10":"tag-santykiai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13622"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13622\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14727"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}