{"id":10484,"date":"2021-10-23T11:50:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-23T08:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=10484"},"modified":"2021-07-24T14:52:59","modified_gmt":"2021-07-24T11:52:59","slug":"mylintis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/2021\/miloss\/","title":{"rendered":"<i>Gads bez attiec\u012bb\u0101m:<\/i> Ko es uzzin\u0101ju par sevi p\u0113c atteik\u0161an\u0101s no sieviet\u0113m uz gadu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Izaicin\u0101jums, kas, iesp\u0113jams, tev nemaz nav svar\u012bgs. Vai vismaz t\u0101 es dom\u0101ju. Es m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju gadu b\u016bt viena. Pareiz\u0101k sakot, bez meiten\u0113m, kuras tik bie\u017ei iekrita man\u0101 ac\u012bs, pr\u0101t\u0101, sird\u012b un pen\u012b.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Paturi pr\u0101t\u0101:<\/strong> Es ar\u012b uzskatu, ka \u0161is izaicin\u0101jums ir neveiksm\u012bgs. K\u0101p\u0113c? <strong>Es vienk\u0101r\u0161i nezinu, ko es no vi\u0146a sa\u0146\u0113mu, un viss.<\/strong> Lai gan tas bija diezgan jautri.<\/p>\n<p>Es sniedzu piez\u012bmes, ja t\u0101s sniedz jums idejas un pal\u012bdz\u0113s.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>\u013bauj man paskaidrot.<\/h2>\n<p>Iedom\u0101jieties, ka esat 19 gadus vecs jaunietis, kur\u0161 p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101s 14 sp\u0113les ir pavad\u012bjis, sp\u0113l\u0113jot videosp\u0113les. <a href=\"#footnote-1-10484\" id=\"note-1-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">1<\/a> Tavi mati ir taukaini, dr\u0113bes nobru\u017e\u0101tas un net\u012bras, un galv\u0101 p\u016b\u0161 v\u0113ji.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&quot;Ku\u0161,&quot; v\u0113j\u0161 kliedz. Un tu klus\u0113, jo tev nav ko vi\u0146am atbild\u0113t.<\/p>\n<p>Br\u012bvaj\u0101 laik\u0101 p\u0113c sirds patikas apmekl\u0113jat aizdom\u012bgas lapas, <a href=\"#footnote-2-10484\" id=\"note-2-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">2<\/a> skatoties porno un lasot zin\u0101tnisk\u0101s fantastikas gr\u0101matas. Reiz\u0113m ej uz skolu \u2013 dr\u012bz b\u016bs gala eks\u0101meni!<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0101du dienu tu satiec meiteni. <\/strong>Run\u0101t\u012bgs, drosm\u012bgs, sp\u0113ka un ideju pilns, un tik skaists! Kam ir viss, ar ko nevar lepoties. J\u016bs iesak\u0101t doties uz randi\u0146u. \u0160\u012b ir pirm\u0101 meitene, kas j\u016bs atst\u0101jusi iespaidu 19 gadu laik\u0101.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&quot;Atvainojiet,&quot; vi\u0146a saka, &quot;lab\u0101k, ja m\u0113s vienk\u0101r\u0161i paliksim draugi.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Jums b\u016bs skumji. Visu \u0161o gadu laik\u0101, sp\u0113l\u0113jot videosp\u0113les, j\u016bs neesat pieradis sp\u0113l\u0113t t\u0101, lai zin\u0101tu, k\u0101 zaud\u0113t. \u0160is zaud\u0113jums \u0161\u0137iet k\u0101 pasaules gals. <strong>Raudi, kad p\u0101rn\u0101k m\u0101j\u0101s.<\/strong><br \/>\nJ\u016bs s\u0113\u017eat internet\u0101 un mekl\u0113jat &quot;K\u0101 atst\u0101t draugu zonu?&quot;.<br \/>\nP\u0113c m\u0113ne\u0161a j\u016bs satiekat citu meiteni. Uzaicin\u0101jis vi\u0146u ar\u012b uz randi\u0146u, ta\u010du \u0161oreiz izliekoties drosm\u012bg\u0101ku, uzklaus\u012bjis padomus internet\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u0146a piekr\u012bt. <strong>Un jums ir viena br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bga vasara. <\/strong>Pirmie randi\u0146i, pirmie apsk\u0101vieni, pirmie sk\u016bpsti, pirmie... Lietas gult\u0101.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&quot;U\u016b\u016b\u016b,&quot; vi\u0146\u0161 kliedz. Bet \u0161oreiz tas nav v\u0113j\u0161, bet gan augsta spiediena asinis j\u016bsu smadzen\u0113s. V\u0113las vair\u0101k!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tom\u0113r vi\u0146\u0161 iz\u0161\u0137\u012br\u0101s ar savu pirmo m\u012blest\u012bbu. <\/strong>Jo... J\u016bs baid\u0101ties veidot attiec\u012bbas. Tev ir bail. Ar cie\u0146u. Tu tik \u013coti baidies uzs\u0101kt attiec\u012bbas, ka se\u0161us gadus p\u0113c pirm\u0101s \u0161\u0137ir\u0161an\u0101s neatz\u012bsti sev to!<br \/>\nMekl\u0113ju citu meiteni.<br \/>\nTinder\u0101, iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s port\u0101los, klubos un cit\u0101di uz iel\u0101m. <a href=\"#footnote-3-10484\" id=\"note-3-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">3<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Randi. Aizrauj.<\/p>\n<div class=\"highlight-2\">\n<h3>K\u0101 viegli pie\u0137ert meiteni?<\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Izveidojiet unik\u0101lu sevi. <\/strong>S\u0101c rakst\u012bt, z\u012bm\u0113t kartes, rad\u012bt m\u0101kslu, rado\u0161u biznesu. Izplatiet v\u0101rdu un dalieties taj\u0101. Drosm\u012bgi dz\u012bvojiet ar saviem izaicin\u0101jumiem un bezj\u0113dz\u012bgo stilu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Lepojaties ar saviem sasniegumiem. <\/strong>Ne jau meitenei, bet citiem. Par\u0101di pasaulei, ko dari! Lepojaties, esiet superzvaigzne!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Negaid\u012bti t\u0113rz\u0113jiet. <\/strong>It k\u0101 tev b\u016btu vienalga \u2013 par politiku un laikapst\u0101k\u013ciem, par m\u0101kslu un vi\u0146as vismaz\u0101k iecien\u012btaj\u0101m gr\u0101mat\u0101m.<\/li>\n<li><strong>P\u0113c da\u017e\u0101m dien\u0101m uzaicini mani uz randi\u0146u. <\/strong>Sav\u0101 iecien\u012bt\u0101kaj\u0101 &quot;Green cafe&quot; kafejn\u012bc\u0101. <a href=\"#footnote-4-10484\" id=\"note-4-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">4<\/a> J\u016bs joproj\u0101m tur str\u0101d\u0101siet, lai j\u016bs var\u0113tu satikties.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Apbr\u012bno vi\u0146u. <\/strong>Skatieties, k\u0101 vi\u0146as auskari kustas. Klausieties vi\u0146as st\u0101stus. Elpojiet vi\u0146as izelpoto gaisu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Atgriezieties sav\u0101s m\u0101j\u0101s. <\/strong>Nav seksa! Sp\u0113l\u0113jiet galda sp\u0113les, pa\u0113diet pusdienas, dodieties sav\u0101s gait\u0101s.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Otro reizi - jau ar seksu. <\/strong>Galu gal\u0101 pirmais bija paredz\u0113ts tikai nomierin\u0101\u0161anai. T\u0101pat k\u0101 viss \u0161is karnev\u0101ls.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Not\u012briet sevi no putek\u013ciem. <\/strong>Daudz. Bie\u017ei. Katru reizi, kad tiekamies.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ja attiec\u012bbas iet labi \u2013 turpini. <\/strong>Mans ilg\u0101kais ilga 10 m\u0113ne\u0161us. Ja viss iet slikti, vienk\u0101r\u0161i k\u013c\u016bstiet par draugiem.<\/li>\n<li><strong>elpot <\/strong>Pa\u0146emiet m\u0113nesi atva\u013cin\u0101jumu. Viss notiek, j\u016bs joproj\u0101m atrad\u012bsit savu M\u012blest\u012bbu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Iem\u012bl\u0113ties cit\u0101 meiten\u0113. <\/strong>Tagad ir sav\u0101d\u0101k.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/pickup\/\">Tas ir vienk\u0101r\u0161s veids, k\u0101 piesaist\u012bt meiteni.<\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"#footnote-5-10484\" id=\"note-5-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">5<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Caur \u0161iem <strong>6 <\/strong>apbr\u012bnot gadu:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Redhead <\/strong>tu esi nevain\u012bgs;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Lielas kr\u016btis <\/strong>m\u0101kslas p\u0113tnieks;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ce\u013co\u0161ana<\/strong>, z\u0113niska blond\u012bne;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rota\u013c\u012bgs <\/strong>b\u0113rnu te\u0101tra aktrise;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nimfom\u0101ne <\/strong>biezoknis;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Smiekl\u012bgi <\/strong>juvelierizstr\u0101d\u0101jumu m\u0101kslinieks;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Zin\u0101tniski <\/strong>fantastikas rakstnieks;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Cirtaini <\/strong>uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113ja;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Glob\u0101li <\/strong>l\u012bme\u0146a foto modelis;<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u0122imenei draudz\u012bgs <\/strong>ekstr\u0113ms\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>...Un desmitiem maz\u0101k zin\u0101mu m\u016bzu.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/temos\/laiskai\/\">J\u016bs rakst\u0101t vi\u0146iem m\u012blest\u012bbas v\u0113stules.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P\u0113c p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101s iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s, p\u0113c \u0161\u012bs \u0123imenes, drosm\u012bg\u0101, reiz izk\u0101pusi no narkotiku purva, ekstr\u0113ma, p\u0113c sava apbr\u012bnojam\u0101 skaistuma, dz\u012bves st\u0101sta un visa br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bg\u0101 kop\u0101 pavad\u012bt\u0101 laika...<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u2026Tu j\u016bties k\u0101 celms. K\u0101 p\u016bsto\u0161s rudens celms.<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs tikko satik\u0101t sievieti ar visbr\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bg\u0101ko izskatu, manier\u0113m un sasniegumiem. Ta\u010du j\u016bs iz\u0161\u0137\u012br\u0101ties, jo j\u016bsu uzskati par Lietuvu, mor\u0101li un ide\u0101lo \u0123imeni nek\u0101di nesakrita.<\/p>\n<p><strong>J\u016bs jaut\u0101jat sev, kas \u0161eit notiek. Kas notiek?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs saprotat, ka vairs nevarat uztic\u0113ties internetam un vi\u0146u padomiem. <a href=\"http:\/\/timas.lt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sazinieties ar psihoterapeitu Timu Petrai\u010diusu.<\/a>\u00a0Tu satiec.<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs las\u012bj\u0101t Brendas \u0160eferes gr\u0101matu <a href=\"http:\/\/psichika.eu\/blog\/kas-tai-meile-ar-priklausomybe\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&quot;Kas ir m\u012blest\u012bba vai atkar\u012bba?&quot;.<\/a>\u00a0 Tu saproti, ka visus \u0161os gadus tav\u0101 galv\u0101 p\u016bta v\u0113j\u0161.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&quot;Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu nu nu uuuuuuuuuu&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Un tu \u0161o v\u0113ju uztv\u0113ri k\u0101 m\u012blest\u012bbu.<br \/>\nT\u0101tad tu s\u0113di un dom\u0101.<\/p>\n<h2>Man vajag b\u016bt ar sevi vismaz vienu gadu.<\/h2>\n<p>Ironiski, ka tik maz laika velt\u012bju cilv\u0113kam, kuru paz\u012bstu vislab\u0101k. Es mekl\u0113ju randi\u0146us, lai... Nu, tu to visu zini. <a href=\"#footnote-6-10484\" id=\"note-6-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">6<\/a><\/p>\n<p>T\u0101tad\u2026<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Vienatn\u0113 <\/strong>gad\u0101.<\/li>\n<li>Bez <strong>romantisks <\/strong>pazi\u0146as.<\/li>\n<li>Kam\u0113r p\u0113ta <strong>pa\u0161u <\/strong>cilv\u0113ce.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Elpo\u0161ana.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h3>L\u016bk, k\u0101 man iet.<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>decembris: <\/strong>Pavad\u012bju laiku pie psihoterapeita.<\/li>\n<li><strong>janv\u0101ris: <\/strong>Es sapratu, ka lietoju \u0161o.<\/li>\n<li><strong>febru\u0101ris: <\/strong>Mier\u012bgs.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Marts: <\/strong>Mier\u012bgs.<\/li>\n<li><strong>apr\u012blis:<\/strong>\u00a0Es satiku meiteni. Es neuzbruku. Es jutos laim\u012bg\u0101ka. <a href=\"#footnote-7-10484\" id=\"note-7-10484\" class=\"footnote-link\">7<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>maijs:<\/strong>\u00a0Es v\u0113roju sevi.<\/li>\n<li><strong>J\u016bnijs:\u00a0<\/strong>Atkal mier\u012bgs.<\/li>\n<li><strong>J\u016blijs:\u00a0<\/strong>\u010ciki. Vasara!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Augusts:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/meile\/\">S\u0101ku saprast(?), ka attiec\u012bbu j\u0113ga ir baud\u012bt, nevis \u0146emt vai dot. Un svar\u012bgi ir necer\u0113t.<\/a>\u00a0Ja es saboj\u0101ju, past\u0101stiet man.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Septembris:\u00a0<\/strong>Es satiku meiteni.<\/li>\n<li><strong>oktobris:\u00a0<\/strong>Varb\u016bt j\u0113ga nav romantik\u0101, bet gan draudz\u012bb\u0101?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Es joproj\u0101m m\u0113\u0123inu saprast, kas notiek. Es joproj\u0101m dz\u012bvoju.<\/p>\n<p>...Nu tas ir mans 2017. gada izaicin\u0101jums!<\/p>\n<p>ko tu saki?\u00a0<strong>Kas man b\u016btu labs \u0161ogad?\u00a0<\/strong>Un kas man pal\u012bdz\u0113tu atrast atbildes?<\/p>\n<p>apjucis,<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla-uzrasai-child\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Daniels\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>\n<div class=\"footnotes\"><hr \/><ol><li id=\"footnote-1-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Runescape, Lineage 2, Silk Road, World of Warcraft un daudzas MMORPG, RPG un strat\u0113\u0123ijas \u017eanra klasikas.<a href=\"#note-1-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-1.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-2-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>T\u0101pat k\u0101 4chan.<a href=\"#note-2-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-2.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-3-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Tu lo\u017e\u0146\u0101 k\u0101 vilks un skaties apk\u0101rt.<a href=\"#note-3-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-3.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-4-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Kau\u0146as Laisv\u0117s av\u0113nija.<a href=\"#note-4-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-4.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-5-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Br\u012bdin\u0101jums: sat\u012bra.<a href=\"#note-5-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-5.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-6-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Apsk\u0101vieni, sk\u016bpsti, sekss, r\u016bpes, sap\u0146i par \u0123imeni...<a href=\"#note-6-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-6.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-7-10484\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Arvien detaliz\u0113t\u0101k \u2013 gada beig\u0101s.<a href=\"#note-7-10484\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-7.footnote--><\/ol><\/div><!--\/#footnotes-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Izaicin\u0101jums, kas, iesp\u0113jams, tev nemaz nav svar\u012bgs. Vai vismaz t\u0101 es dom\u0101ju. Es m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju gadu b\u016bt viena. Pareiz\u0101k sakot, bez meiten\u0113m, kuras tik bie\u017ei iekrita man\u0101 ac\u012bs, pr\u0101t\u0101, sird\u012b un pen\u012b. Paturiet pr\u0101t\u0101: es ar\u012b uzskatu, ka \u0161is izaicin\u0101jums ir neveiksm\u012bgs. K\u0101p\u0113c? Es vienk\u0101r\u0161i nezinu, ko es no vi\u0146a sa\u0146\u0113mu, un viss. Lai gan tas bija diezgan jautri. Es sniedzu piez\u012bmes, ja \u0161\u012bs [...]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16739,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[48,47],"class_list":{"0":"post-10484","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-issukiai","8":"tag-nepavyke-issukiai","9":"tag-santykiai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10484\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}