{"id":3622,"date":"2017-09-05T21:47:36","date_gmt":"2017-09-05T18:47:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/?p=3622"},"modified":"2021-09-30T21:40:15","modified_gmt":"2021-09-30T18:40:15","slug":"emocine-laisve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/2017\/emotional-freedom\/","title":{"rendered":"What is emotional freedom?"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside>Goal of the day: <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/issukis-365\/\">2367 words<\/a>. Written: <b>333<\/b>.<\/aside>\n<p>Recently I thought - what is this emotional freedom anyway? I remember hearing the phrase &quot;emotional freedom&quot; a long time ago now and thinking that this is what I want.<\/p>\n<p>It used to seem that a person with emotional freedom is doing well, he gets everything he wants.<\/p>\n<p>He is brave, confident, relaxed. People approve of him, he approves of himself. But when I hear this phrase now, I hear it in a completely different way.<\/p>\n<h2>Those who seek emotional freedom face two poles of life.<\/h2>\n<p>On the one hand, we have endless attachments in this life, and on the other hand, we have endless things we don&#039;t like or want to experience, like jobs we don&#039;t like or fears.<\/p>\n<p>If a person only &quot;handles&quot; the things he does not like, sooner or later he begins to accept life as it is and begins to enjoy it.<\/p>\n<p>The amount of fear decreases, courage and confidence appear. And such a person usually dives into life and tries with all his might to be a successful person and fulfill all his wishes.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>But is it emotional freedom?<\/li>\n<li>Is it just an addiction to success and a beautiful life story?<\/li>\n<li>Will such a person ever stop pursuing goals and rest?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The other side of the coin is the things we love and are attached to. It&#039;s much easier for people to &quot;drop&quot; them than things we don&#039;t like.<\/p>\n<p>Many don&#039;t even want to see things they don&#039;t like or work with fears, anger, because it&#039;s not pleasant.<\/p>\n<p>If a person &quot;works&quot; with attachments, sooner or later he experiences various non-standard life experiences. Attachment to success and worldly desires falls away. There is freedom to think freely.<\/p>\n<p>People often fall into a trap where they can very easily drop the desire to pursue something instead of pursuing it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2026And does not see the hostility hidden in the background.<\/strong> This is one of the poles when you manage only attachments.<\/p>\n<p>The golden mean is to manage both attachments and antagonisms. Then you not only have the power to create and move in life, but also free from other people&#039;s wishes and aspirations imposed on you or the eternal pursuit of them.<\/p>\n<p>You are free even from your whole history. You are free even from the idea of &#039;I&#039;.<\/p>\n<p>This is the kind of freedom I am thinking about. And I think that this is the kind of freedom we should strive for. Still, it&#039;s a freedom worth fighting for.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<aside>Goal of the day: <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/issukis-365\/\">2367 words<\/a>. Written: <b>333<\/b>.<\/aside>\n<p>Recently I thought - what is this emotional freedom anyway? I remember hearing the phrase &quot;emotional freedom&quot; a long time ago now and thinking that this is what I want.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15228,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[2,86],"class_list":{"0":"post-3622","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pamastymai","8":"tag-365-tekstai","9":"tag-saves-pazinimas"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3622"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3622\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15228"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}