{"id":1092,"date":"2016-12-12T19:35:20","date_gmt":"2016-12-12T17:35:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danieliusg.lt\/?p=1092"},"modified":"2021-07-06T22:15:54","modified_gmt":"2021-07-06T19:15:54","slug":"kodel-neieskau-kitu-merginu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/2016\/why-do-not-look-for-other-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"<i>[Love letter]<\/i> Why am I not looking for other girls?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Goal of the day: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/issukis-365\/\">219 words<\/a>. Written: <b>557<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 1.15em;\"><strong>Why don't I look for other girls?<\/strong> I'm not sure if you're asking this as a joke or seriously. However, I will imagine that you are serious and the answer is really interesting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I really don't know.<\/p>\n<p>* Thinking, even though he thought for a good 6 minutes before starting to write *<\/p>\n<p>The answer is probably that... I don't want to look for more girls? However that may sound.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">I don't want to. I don't feel any desire.<\/p>\n<p>And your suggestion to do it, even jokingly, threw me for a loop. So would the suggestion to fly to Antarctica for two days. Or to buy a Ferrari.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">I don't feel like it because I don't see the benefit.<\/p>\n<p>\"Why should I do this?\" is the first question that comes to the back of my mind. And I don't get the feeling back. Just like today, when I was walking through the clothes shops and found a cheap but ugly jumper.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">I don't see the benefit. And I don't need it.<\/p>\n<p>I've never been a big boy. Or a big hoarder of things, for that matter, but maybe that's not the topic. Even in my peak girlie days, when I managed to go on three different dates with three different girls in a day, even then I wasn't the kind of person to hang on to several girls at once.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Here's a question: why should I look for a girl-not-a-friend to talk to when I can talk to you?<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Why should I look for another girlfriend when I already have more than I sometimes want?<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Why should I look for another hobby when I already have a bunch of hobbies that I like to do right now?<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Why should I buy a new car if my current one more than meets my needs?<\/p>\n<p>So that I can choose a better girl afterwards? A better girlfriend? A better car? ...Isn't that maniacal? What's it like - insurance? Like some girls do when they have a boyfriend and a lover at the same time?<\/p>\n<p>(Just don't tell me you're one of those girls.)<\/p>\n<p>No, I don't want to hang on to other girls. Because I don't feel any need to, if I can happily hook you up. Simple joys. Even more so - can you imagine two of you at once? One like you and the other, say, a book-reading kickboxer and a teacher of training seminars?<\/p>\n<p>I would go crazy!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>After writing this reply, however, I decided not to stop thinking.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">From that thought, I went to buy a cup of hot chocolate, which I simply adore.<\/p>\n<p>And as I descended in the elevator, I realised that the first answer is not the only one. As usual. I'm surprised how often people limit themselves to answering questions from only one position!<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">I was so confused, I guess because of another - simple - thing - I was afraid that you were serious.<\/p>\n<p>It's funny, but if you had suggested it in a serious voice, I guess I would have dropped it as a joke and forgotten about it after a few seconds. ...Another time you said it in jest. In the middle of a not-so-funny conversation.<\/p>\n<p>It is human not to enter into serious conversations at the first opportunity. That's what people do. I probably do it myself, although I can't remember a single time I did it now. But I am sure I have.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>I don't know. I'm confused. I got lost.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">This question, especially if the speech had not previously been on the level of jokes and ridiculous verbal flip-flopping, knocked me off my feet. And you were quick to notice.<\/p>\n<p>You have eyes, what else can I say.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">I don't want to hook up with other girls because... I don't want that.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody said I couldn't. Thanks to this <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/simtas-pazinciu-vienas-menesis\/\">100 People Challenge<\/a> I've met quite a few charming girls. But none of them I wanted to talk to for more than half an hour.<\/p>\n<p>I have to admit, even after writing this answer, I don't feel any stronger. It's a strange topic. And I only write a reply like this because I know that you like to pick other people's brains. That you like what I write. That I like writing myself. And that you, finally, like sincerity.<\/p>\n<p>My God - I'm going to kill myself with my sincerity someday. But hopefully not yet.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>And why don't you try to find other guys and hang on to them? What would your answer be? Write it down - I'm interested. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Confused and not looking,<br \/>\n<strong>Daniel<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">Goal of the day: <a style=\"border: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/uzrasai\/en\/issukis-365\/\">219 words<\/a>. 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