A challenge that probably doesn't matter to you at all. Or so I guess. I tried to be alone for a year. Or rather, without the girls who so often caught my eye, my mind, my heart and my cock.<\/p>\n
Keep in mind:<\/strong> I also consider this challenge a failure. Why? I just don't know what I got out of it, that's all.<\/strong> It was quite fun, though.<\/p>\n I'm putting the notes here in case they give you ideas and help you.<\/p>\n Imagine you are a 19-year-old who has spent the last 14 years playing video games. 1<\/a> Your hair is greasy, your clothes are dingy and dirty, and the wind is in your head.<\/p>\n And you are silent, because you have nothing to say to him.<\/p>\n In your spare time, you visit suspicious sites in abundance, 2<\/a> watching porn and reading science fiction books. Sometimes you go to school - it's final exams!<\/p>\n One day you meet a girl. <\/strong>Loud, brave, full of strength and ideas, and so beautiful! With everything you can't boast. You ask to go on a date. This is the first girl you've been attracted to in 19 years.<\/p>\n - I'm sorry,\" she says, \"it's better to just be friends.<\/p>\n You are sad. All these years of playing video games, you haven't got used to playing in a way that makes you know how to lose. This defeat feels like the end of the world. When you get home, you cry.<\/strong> She agrees. And you have one amazing summer. <\/strong>First dates, first hugs, first kisses, first... Things in bed.<\/p>\n - Oooooh,\" he shouts. But this time it's not the wind, it's the high-pressure blood in your brain. You want more!<\/p>\n However, you break up with your first love. <\/strong>Because... You get tired of building relationships. You're scared. Sincerely. You're so scared of having a relationship that you don't admit it to yourself for six years after the first break-up! Randi. Get excited.<\/p>\n It's an easy way to hook a girl.<\/a>\u00a05<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n During these 6 <\/strong>for a year, they fall in love:<\/p>\n ...And a few dozen more muses I've known for a short time.<\/p>\n You write them love letters.<\/a><\/p>\n After our last encounter, after this homely, courageous, once out of the drug swamp, extreme, after her amazing beauty, her life story and all the wonderful time together...<\/p>\n ...You feel like a stump. Like a decaying autumn stump.<\/p>\n You've just met a woman of the most stunning looks, manner and achievements. But you broke up because your views on Lithuania, morality and the ideal family didn't match.<\/p>\n You ask yourself what is going on. What's going on here?<\/strong><\/p>\n You realise that you can no longer trust the internet and its advice. You contact psychotherapist Tim Petraitis.<\/a>\u00a0You meet.<\/p>\n Read a book by Brenda Shaeffer \"What is love or addiction?\"<\/a>\u00a0 You realise that all these years the wind has been blowing in your head.<\/p>\n \u2013 \u016a\u016b\u016b\u016b\u016b, \u2013 spiegia galvos tarpeklius skrod\u017eiantis v\u0117jas.<\/p>\n And you considered this wind as love. It is ironic that I have given so little time to the person I know best. I've been looking for a date that... Well, you know all that. 6<\/a><\/p>\n So\u2026<\/p>\n I'm still trying to understand what is going on. I am still living.<\/p>\n ...So that's my challenge for 2017!<\/p>\n And what do you say?\u00a0What good should I do this year?\u00a0<\/strong>And who would help me find my answers?<\/p>\n confused,<\/p>\n
\nLet me explain.<\/h2>\n
\nYou're sitting in front of the internet, looking for \"How do I get out of the friend zone?\".
\nA month later, you meet another girl. You ask her out too, but this time pretending to be braver, after taking advice from the internet.<\/p>\n
\nLooking for another girl.
\nOn Tinder, on dating sites, in clubs and on the streets. 3<\/a><\/p>\nHow to hang a girl easily?<\/h3>\n
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\nSo you sit and think.<\/p>\nI need at least one year to be with myself.<\/h2>\n
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Here's how I'm doing.<\/h3>\n
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