{"id":8596,"date":"2015-09-11T14:27:33","date_gmt":"2015-09-11T12:27:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=8596"},"modified":"2023-07-04T13:29:55","modified_gmt":"2023-07-04T10:29:55","slug":"kaip-liautis-melavus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/ka-beigt-melot\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101 p\u0101rtraukt melot sev?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u0113s visi dar\u0101m. Ne vienm\u0113r katru dienu, bet m\u0113s to dar\u0101m. No r\u012bta pamostoties, m\u016bs sagaida desmitiem un simtiem izv\u0113les...<\/p>\n<p>Bet t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai to piln\u012bb\u0101 izmantotu, m\u0113s sl\u0113pjam da\u017eus no saviem sap\u0146iem no sevis. T\u0101 k\u0101 m\u0113s baid\u0101mies, m\u0113s izvair\u0101mies no sliktaj\u0101m liet\u0101m, kas var\u0113tu notikt, un pl\u0101nojam, ka pirmdiena b\u016bs lab\u0101ks laiks.<\/p>\n<p>Hmm... S\u0101kot no pirmdienas noteikti b\u016bs lab\u0101ks laiks p\u0101rmai\u0146\u0101m - atmet\u012b\u0161u sm\u0113\u0137\u0113\u0161anu, s\u0101k\u0161u m\u0101c\u012bties eks\u0101meniem, atv\u0113r\u0161u to pa\u0161pal\u012bdz\u012bbas gr\u0101matu, ko jau sen ieg\u0101d\u0101jos, piezvan\u012b\u0161u tam puisim un pal\u016bg\u0161u vi\u0146u \u0101r\u0101, un nopirk\u0161u bi\u013ceti uz mana sap\u0146u pils\u0113ta...<\/p>\n<p>Pirmdien viss main\u012bsies.<\/p>\n<p>Kad pien\u0101k pirmdiena, protams, nekas autom\u0101tiski nemain\u0101s, un m\u0113s redzam, ka t\u0101 nebija t\u0101 diena. Nu, darbs, draugi, vienk\u0101r\u0161i slikts garast\u0101voklis... T\u0101p\u0113c lab\u0101k atst\u0101jam to uz otrdienu. ...Vai ned\u0113\u013cas nogalei. J\u0101, tagad nav laika \u0137erties kl\u0101t visiem \u0161iem darbiem, un ned\u0113\u013cas nogal\u0113 \u012bsti negribas atlikt sap\u0146us uz pirmdienu.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 m\u016bsu dz\u012bve \u0101tri p\u0101rv\u0113r\u0161as par b\u0113g\u0161anu no darb\u012bbas. Kav\u0113\u0161an\u0101s sp\u0113le. Cik ilgi v\u0113l var\u0113\u0161u atlikt savas v\u0113lmes un pusaud\u017ea gados lolotos sap\u0146us? V\u0113l m\u0113nesis? Viens gads? \u010cetrdesmit divi?<\/p>\n<p>...T\u0101 ir jautra sp\u0113le, vai ne?<\/p>\n<p>N\u0113? Nav smiekl\u012bgi? Vai nav jautri baid\u012bties, vilcin\u0101ties, b\u0113gt no iesp\u0113j\u0101m un dom\u0101t par to, ka m\u0113nesi p\u0113c m\u0113ne\u0161a vienk\u0101r\u0161i st\u0101vat uz vietas?<\/p>\n<p>[tcb-script] jQuery(function($){ $(window).scroll(function(e){ scrollTimeOut = true; if ($(&#039;#orodykle&#039;).length){ if($(window).scrollTop() + window.innerHeight &gt; $(&#039;1TP6Pointer&#039;).offset().top) { setTimeout(function(){ $(&#039;1TP6Pointer&#039;).addClass(&#039;onscreen&#039;); }, 750); } } }); } ); [\/tcb-script]<\/p>\n<h2>Vajadz\u0113tu iem\u0101c\u012bties teikt resnu &quot;es lieku&quot; un bie\u017e\u0101k nosp\u013cauties.<\/h2>\n<p style=\"font-size: 1em !important;\">Jo \u0161eit ir zi\u0146as: pasaule ir ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bga.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-size: 1em !important;\">T\u0101p\u0113c p\u0101rvariet to...<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-size: 1em !important;\">...Un iem\u0101c\u012bties sadz\u012bvot ar pasauli, nevis c\u012bn\u012bties ar to.<\/p>\n<p>Dz\u012bv\u0113 gad\u0101s da\u017e\u0101das nepatik\u0161anas: lidojot uz It\u0101liju atva\u013cin\u0101jum\u0101, visu ned\u0113\u013cu l\u012bst lietus, aizbraucot uz semin\u0101ru Vi\u013c\u0146\u0101 vai Klaip\u0113d\u0101, uzzini, ka tavs gaid\u012btais run\u0101t\u0101js p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i saslimis, un ned\u0113\u013cas nogali pavadot m\u0101j\u0101s. , uzzini, ka pils\u0113t\u0101 notika k\u0101ds jautrs pas\u0101kums, kur\u0101 bija visi tavi draugi.<\/p>\n<p>Ir reizes, kad, uzs\u0101kot uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113jdarb\u012bbu, saproti, ka tas nevienam nemaz nav vajadz\u012bgs, un gatavojoties vienk\u0101r\u0161i t\u0113r\u0113ji savu laiku un naudu. Da\u017ereiz p\u0113c 7\u00a0m\u0113ne\u0161u iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s j\u016bs saprotat, ka j\u016bs nemaz nev\u0113laties prec\u0113ties ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku.<\/p>\n<p>Es to saprotu. Da\u017ereiz patie\u0161\u0101m \u0161\u0137iet, ka pasaule v\u0113r\u0161as pret mums. Bet vai par to ir j\u0101dusmojas? Vai jums vajadz\u0113tu uztraukties par \u0161iem \u013caunumiem? Vai jums vajadz\u0113tu padoties pie pirm\u0101s neveiksmes vai katastrofas (pat autoav\u0101rijas ce\u013c\u0101 uz darbu) un pie\u0146emt to k\u0101 cietumu j\u016bsu apst\u0101k\u013cos?<\/p>\n<p>Es dom\u0101ju, ka nevajadz\u0113tu. Jo tas nav vesel\u012bgi.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Nav vesel\u012bgi katru dienu mekl\u0113t attaisnojumus, nevis mekl\u0113t risin\u0101jumus un atbildes.<\/li>\n<li>Nav vesel\u012bgi savu neapmierin\u0101t\u012bbu sl\u0113pt zem maskas &quot;Man viss k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, nerun\u0101 ar mani&quot;. Un ne tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka tas ir caursp\u012bd\u012bgs.<\/li>\n<li>Tas nav vesel\u012bgi, ja pien\u0101k tava k\u0101rta str\u0101d\u0101t un j\u0101grie\u017eas un j\u0101skrien tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka t\u0101 ir tava pirm\u0101 reize un tev ir tik bail.<\/li>\n<li>Nav vesel\u012bgi aps\u016bdz\u0113t pasauli, valsti, korpor\u0101cijas, bankas vai savus vec\u0101kus sazv\u0113rest\u012bb\u0101 pret jums tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka tas ir viegl\u0101k, nek\u0101 pateikt sev paties\u012bbu, ka j\u016bsu r\u012bc\u012bba ir atkar\u012bga no jums.<\/li>\n<li>Nav vesel\u012bgi tur\u0113t savas dusmas un bailes iepild\u012btas sav\u0101 sul\u0101, jo agri vai v\u0113lu tu t\u0101s uzv\u0101r\u012bsi un p\u0101rv\u0113rt\u012bsies par to dz\u012bvi neapmierin\u0101to, nekam neder\u012bgo pension\u0101ru, kur\u0161 sav\u0101 likten\u012b vaino visus, iz\u0146emot sevi.<\/li>\n<li>Nav vesel\u012bgi iedom\u0101ties kr\u0101\u0161\u0146os laikus, kad viss bija vai b\u016bs lab\u0101k, neko nedarot, lai labie laiki b\u016btu kl\u0101t. Un n\u0113 vec\u012bt no piekt\u0101 punkta, ar krievu nebija lab\u0101k un Lansber\u0123is nepirka tavas bailes c\u012bn\u012bties par sevi. J\u016bsu necil\u0101 pensija bija j\u016bsu (ne)p\u016b\u013cu rezult\u0101ts.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tas nav sasod\u012bti vesel\u012bgi.<\/p>\n<p>Vesel\u012bg\u0101k ir iem\u0101c\u012bties reiz\u0113m pateikt \"fuck it\" (vai \"fuck it\", \"fuck it\", \"fuck it\", \"fuck it\", \"fuck it\", \"sp\u013caut uz zemes\" vai k\u0101 vien v\u0113laties)... un piedot videi t\u0101s k\u013c\u016bdas, un pie\u0146emt to t\u0101du, k\u0101da t\u0101 ir.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;T\u0101pat k\u0101 m\u0113s piedodam tiem, kas pret mums p\u0101rk\u0101pu\u0161i.&quot; - L\u016bg\u0161ana &quot;M\u016bsu T\u0113vs&quot;, 8. pants.<\/p>\n<p>Jo, kad tu atbr\u012bvojies no vainas apzi\u0146as, atbr\u012bvo bailes no vi\u0146u darbiem sav\u0101 sird\u012b, atbr\u012bvo saspringtos tic\u012bbas musku\u013cus un atsl\u0101binies, notiek br\u012bnumi. Tajos br\u012b\u017eos notiek re\u0101las p\u0101rmai\u0146as. Tajos br\u012b\u017eos notiek kas t\u0101ds, kas nekad nenotiktu atsl\u0101bin\u0101ties nesp\u0113jo\u0161a cilv\u0113ka dz\u012bv\u0113.<\/p>\n<p>Bet es to lab\u0101k par\u0101d\u012b\u0161u ar piem\u0113riem. \u0160eit ir da\u017eas dz\u012bves jomas, kur\u0101s jums var pal\u012bdz\u0113t neliels &quot;dey&quot;, kur lab\u0101k palikt kust\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media1.tenor.com\/images\/b1999494517586c5aba81c2207b3e76f\/tenor.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"643\" height=\"804\" data-init-width=\"256\" data-init-height=\"320\" data-width=\"643\" data-height=\"804\" \/><\/figure>\n<h3><em>Pirmk\u0101rt: <\/em>Str\u012bdos ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem.<\/h3>\n<p>\u0136\u012bnie\u0161iem ir \u0161\u0101ds teiciens: &quot;Upes \u016bdens nem\u0113\u0123ina run\u0101t p\u0101r akmeni, upes \u016bdens pl\u016bst ap to&quot;. Un iedom\u0101jieties, ka esat sastr\u012bd\u0113ju\u0161ies ar kaut k\u0101du rupju, nepat\u012bkamu un nedraudz\u012bgu cilv\u0113ku. Varb\u016bt pat ar radinieku vai (gandr\u012bz) m\u012b\u013coto cilv\u0113ku.<\/p>\n<p>J\u0101, j\u016bs varat str\u012bd\u0113ties un pier\u0101d\u012bt savas paties\u012bbas. Var m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t, izraut matus no galvas, pier\u0101d\u012bt, ka tev ir taisn\u012bba, un tav\u0101 priek\u0161\u0101 eso\u0161ais &quot;gr\u0113cinieks&quot; k\u013c\u016bd\u0101s...<\/p>\n<p>...Vai ar\u012b varat sev teikt \"es to dar\u012bju\". Un piedot. \u013baujiet mu\u013c\u0137im.<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs varat b\u016bt dusm\u012bgs. Vai ar\u012b j\u016bs varat piedot. Nosp\u013cauties uz citu str\u012bdiem, dusm\u0101m un pat m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t izprast vi\u0146u viedokli un iem\u0101c\u012bties dz\u012bvot mier\u012bg\u0101k. Beig\u0101s j\u016bs pat var\u0113tu saprast, ka str\u012bdu izrais\u012bj\u0101t j\u016bs.<\/p>\n<p>Tu vari dusmoties, ka tava draudzene (vai draugs) tevi pametusi, apzagusi vai apzagusi ar k\u0101du seks\u012bgu ebreju no Telavivas... Vai ar\u012b vari teikt \"f*ck it, tas ir par daudz\" un priec\u0101ties, ka visu savu dz\u012bvi neaiz\u0161\u0137\u0113rd\u0113ji ar nepareizu cilv\u0113ku.<\/p>\n<p>(Starp citu, tie\u0161i t\u0101 notika ar mani. Var\u0113ju nojaust, ka kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, kad vi\u0146a teica &quot;Daniel, man ir kaut kas j\u0101atz\u012bstas&quot;. \ud83d\ude09 )<\/p>\n<p>Un kas tie\u0161\u0101m ir lab\u0101ks? Vai turpin\u0101t bezj\u0113dz\u012bgi str\u012bd\u0113ties, lai tikai saboj\u0101tu savu &quot;pretinieka&quot; dienu un p\u0113c uzvaras kauj\u0101 sajustu niec\u012bgu &quot;uzvaru&quot;? Vai varb\u016bt nosp\u013cauties, rast kompromisu vai pie\u0146emt darb\u012bbas bez citu cilv\u0113ku ietekmes, sav\u0101 veid\u0101?<\/p>\n<p>Es uzskatu, ka nav j\u0101uzvar vis\u0101s c\u012b\u0146\u0101s, lai b\u016btu \u012bsts uzvar\u0113t\u0101js. T\u0101pat k\u0101 sen\u0101s \u0136\u012bnas imp\u0113rijas nec\u012bn\u012bj\u0101s ar tolaik neuzvaramaj\u0101m mongo\u013cu armij\u0101m, bet vienk\u0101r\u0161i izlaida t\u0101s pa v\u0101rtiem un uzpirka ar savu civiliz\u0101ciju, ar\u012b j\u016bs varat.<\/p>\n<h3><em>Otrk\u0101rt: <\/em>Darbos, kurus tu slepeni ien\u012bsti.<\/h3>\n<p>Es nekad neesmu sapratis, k\u0101p\u0113c da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki cen\u0161as dar\u012bt lietas, ko vi\u0146i ien\u012bst (vai v\u0113l \u013caun\u0101k, ien\u012bst un kas vi\u0146iem nav \u012bsti vienalga). Un, ja tu to nedari, tu k\u013c\u016bsti nervozs.<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs zin\u0101t, par k\u0101diem cilv\u0113kiem un k\u0101diem darbiem es run\u0101ju. \u0160ie ir:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Centieni tikt pie desmitnieka matem\u0101tikas vai dieva aizmirst\u0101s lietuvie\u0161u valodas skol\u0101, lai gan tavs vid\u0113jais jau ir augst\u0101kais klas\u0113.<\/li>\n<li>Raud\u0101\u0161ana p\u0113c vidusskolas beig\u0161anas eks\u0101meniem, p\u0113c 97 punktu ieg\u016b\u0161anas 100 viet\u0101, kas tie\u0161\u0101m bija piln\u012bgi traki un vajadz\u0113ja main\u012bt visu atliku\u0161o dz\u012bvi un visu Lietuvas valsti.<\/li>\n<li>Gr\u016bt\u012bbas iesai\u0146ot ide\u0101lo Ziemassv\u0113tku d\u0101vanu mammai vai vecvec\u0101kiem, lai gan tas, kas atrodas iepakojum\u0101 (vai v\u0101rdi, to pieg\u0101d\u0101jot), ir svar\u012bg\u0101ks par to, k\u0101d\u0101 kr\u0101s\u0101 ir pap\u012brs.<\/li>\n<li>Vai ar\u012b t\u0113r\u0113t pusstundu, rakstot v\u0113stuli savam priek\u0161niekam, ka tualet\u0113s p\u0113c p\u0113rkona negaisa ir beidzies tualetes pap\u012brs.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Atbildiet god\u012bgi - k\u0101p\u0113c m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t T\u0100DU darbu paveikt perfekti?<\/p>\n<p>Vai tas ir t\u0101p\u0113c, lai apmierin\u0101tu da\u017eus v\u0113rt\u0113t\u0101jus, kuri dz\u012bves beig\u0101s (un varb\u016bt ar\u012b Ziemassv\u0113tkos) visus z\u0113nus, meitenes un visus p\u0101r\u0113jos iedala \"lab\u0101 darb\u0101\" un \"slikt\u0101 darb\u0101\"? ...L\u016bdzu, ap\u017e\u0113lojieties par sevi un nedariet to.<\/p>\n<p>Jo ticiet man, ja zin\u0101tnieki un citi izstr\u0101d\u0101t\u0101ji vienm\u0113r b\u016btu m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju\u0161i rad\u012bt kaut ko perfektu, vai vi\u0146i b\u016btu rad\u012bju\u0161i antibiotikas (kas nejau\u0161i piedzima aizmirst\u0101 pel\u0113juma pl\u0101ksn\u0113) vai m\u016bsu datorprogrammu pamatus, ko lietojam ikdien\u0101?<\/p>\n<p>Z\u0101les, datori, pat Ferrari vai z\u012bdai\u0146i nav ide\u0101li. Ta\u010du ide\u0101lisms nav vajadz\u012bgs \u2013 galvenais, lai darbs b\u016btu padar\u012bts. Un ka tagad vi\u0146\u0161 var padar\u012bt pasauli laim\u012bgu.<\/p>\n<p>Past\u0101v \u0161\u0101ds Pareto princips: &quot;20 % darba rada 80 % v\u0113rt\u012bbas&quot;<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 viet\u0101, lai m\u0113\u0123in\u0101tu paveikt darbu perfekti (vai v\u0113l \u013caun\u0101k, baid\u012bties k\u013c\u016bd\u012bties un pat nes\u0101kt), lab\u0101k ieklausieties ekonomistu, uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113ju un m\u0101kslinieku dom\u0101s, kuriem \u0161is noteikums pat\u012bk. Un bie\u017e\u0101k at\u013caujiet sev teikt &quot;ak s\u016bdi, tas notiks&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Jo t\u0113r\u0113t ener\u0123iju nev\u0113rt\u012bgiem darbiem ir mu\u013c\u0137\u012bba un ir pien\u0101cis laiks beigt dom\u0101t, ka tikai perfekti darbi sasniedz m\u0113r\u0137i.<\/p>\n<p>Pietiek atbr\u012bvot pietiekami labu darbu, lai g\u016btu pe\u013c\u0146u un iepriecin\u0101tu savus draugus, un tiek\u0161an\u0101s p\u0113c perfekcionisma un perfekcionisma tikai kav\u0113 person\u012bgo izaugsmi un iesp\u0113ju m\u0101c\u012bties<\/p>\n<h3><em>Tre\u0161ais: <\/em>Sava dz\u012bvesveida un aicin\u0101juma mekl\u0113jumos.<\/h3>\n<p>T\u0101d\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 veid\u0101 j\u016bs varat uzklaus\u012bt citu, varb\u016bt pat piln\u012bgi nezino\u0161u cilv\u0113ku ieteikumus un dz\u012bvot vi\u0146u ieteikto dz\u012bvi. Klaus\u012bties vecvec\u0101kus, vec\u0101kus, negl\u012bto vecm\u0101mi\u0146as kaimi\u0146u, skolot\u0101jus skol\u0101 vai gar\u0101mg\u0101j\u0113jus uz ielas.<\/p>\n<p>Galu gal\u0101 \u0161eit, Lietuv\u0101, da\u017eiem cilv\u0113kiem pat\u012bk nosod\u012bt citus un izteikt savas pesimistisk\u0101s prognozes...<\/p>\n<p>Vai ar\u012b varat pateikt &quot;Es to iedom\u0101jos&quot; un joproj\u0101m dar\u012bt, ko v\u0113laties. Nosp\u013cauties uz depres\u012bviem koment\u0101riem un pier\u0101d\u012bt, ka to, ko gribi, var izdar\u012bt.<\/p>\n<p>Jo pasaule neatcer\u0113sies cilv\u0113kus, kuri baid\u0101s no saviem sap\u0146iem.<\/p>\n<p>Vai k\u0101ds atceras Deividu Bagdonavi\u010du, kur\u0161 21 gada vecum\u0101 sav\u0101 person\u012bgaj\u0101 laboratorij\u0101 izstr\u0101d\u0101ja z\u0101les bit\u0113m, kas cietu\u0161as no \u0137\u012bmisk\u0101 pies\u0101r\u0146ojuma? Vai k\u0101ds atceras Rasu U\u017ebovieni, kura pusaud\u017ea gados fotograf\u0113ja Lietuvas skaisto dabu un savas dz\u012bves laik\u0101 uz\u0146\u0113ma fotogr\u0101fijas, ar kur\u0101m pati Lielbrit\u0101nijas karaliene Elizabete rot\u0101ja kara\u013cnama sienas? Vai k\u0101ds atceras...<\/p>\n<p>N\u0113. Vi\u0146\u0161 neatceras. Neviens neatceras vi\u0146us un simtiem citu cilv\u0113ku - jo vi\u0146i baid\u012bj\u0101s no saviem sap\u0146iem. Vi\u0146iem rad\u0101s neticamas idejas, vi\u0146i sajuta sird\u012b neatk\u0101rtojamu uguni...<\/p>\n<p>...Bet vi\u0146i nobij\u0101s un neko nedar\u012bja.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0101vidu un Rasu, starp citu, neatceras, jo vi\u0146i ir tikai iedom\u0101ti cilv\u0113ki. Es tikko izdom\u0101ju \u0161os st\u0101stus. Un t\u0101 ir tikai v\u0113l viena z\u012bme \u2013 k\u0101d\u0101 pasaul\u0113 m\u0113s dz\u012bvojam, ja n\u0101kas izdom\u0101t \u0161\u0101dus st\u0101stus? K\u0101p\u0113c da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki (varb\u016bt j\u016bs?) bied\u0113jat sevi?<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs varat c\u012bn\u012bties. J\u016bs varat iesp\u013caut bail\u0113m sej\u0101 un ie\u0146emt savu vietu pasaul\u0113.<\/p>\n<p>Jo bez bulci\u0146u cep\u0113jiem neviens nevar\u0113s baud\u012bt bulci\u0146as. Jo bez inform\u0101cijas sist\u0113mu administratoriem bankas dro\u0161i vien nestr\u0101d\u0101tu. Jo bez apkop\u0113j\u0101m tualetes augstskol\u0101s un bibliot\u0113k\u0101s smird\u0113tu k\u0101 kolhozu \u0161\u0137\u016b\u0146i.<\/p>\n<p>Un kas, kas tev k\u0101 puisim ir neparasts str\u0101d\u0101t par manik\u012bra meistaru vai neparasts tev k\u0101 meitenei b\u016bt par b\u016bvin\u017eenieri? Ko dar\u012bt, ja j\u016bsu augums ir neparasts vai j\u016bs run\u0101jat ar stost\u012b\u0161anos? Kas tas ir? T\u0101s nav probl\u0113mas \u2013 t\u0101s ir tikai priek\u0161roc\u012bbas, kas pal\u012bdz\u0113s jums izveidot rekl\u0101mu j\u016bsu pakalpojumiem.<\/p>\n<p>Atcerieties, ka vislab\u0101k\u0101 rekl\u0101ma s\u0101kas ar \"Neviens man netic\u0113ja... Un vi\u0146i bija aplami\".<\/p>\n<h3>Un \u0161eit ir v\u0113l citas idejas....<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>L\u0113k\u0161ana no viena atrasta piek\u0101rta 15 metrus virs otra.<\/strong> Pirms da\u017e\u0101m ned\u0113\u013c\u0101m apmekl\u0113ju L\u0101\u010da p\u0113du net\u0101lu no Kau\u0146as, piedz\u012bvojumu parku ar da\u017e\u0101diem piek\u0101rtiem k\u0101p\u0161anas mar\u0161rutiem. \u0160eit, visgr\u016bt\u0101kaj\u0101 tras\u0113, man tr\u012bc\u0113ja loc\u012btavas. Rokas tr\u012bc\u0113ja. Sirds, \u0161\u0137iet, grib\u0113ja atgriezties m\u0101j\u0101s p\u0113c tam, kad pameta \u0137ermeni, kas kar\u0101j\u0101s uz virv\u0113m, kaut kur starp div\u0101m pried\u0113m, 15 metru augstum\u0101. Un es var\u0113tu baid\u012bties \u2013 vai es var\u0113tu dejot. Es sp\u013c\u0101vu, uztic\u0113jos sav\u0101m k\u0101j\u0101m un virv\u0113m un dejoju. Trasi \u0161\u0137\u0113rsoju veiksm\u012bgi.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Izv\u0113loties dz\u012bves partneri.<\/strong> Pirms se\u0161iem m\u0113ne\u0161iem viens no maniem draugiem sarun\u0101ja man aklo randi\u0146u ar citu meiteni. Vi\u0146a teica, ka man t\u0101 var\u0113tu patikt. Un... P\u0113c stundu ilgas saskarsmes ar manu iesp\u0113jamo n\u0101kamo sievu es sapratu, ka n\u0113 - tas neb\u016bs labi. Valdon\u012bga, kapr\u012bzs un aizkaitin\u0101ms - ne t\u0101da meitene, ar kuru man patiktu b\u016bt kop\u0101. T\u0101p\u0113c es p\u0101rtraucu randi\u0146u v\u0113l p\u0113c 10 min\u016bt\u0113m un koncentr\u0113jos uz meiten\u0113m, kas ir manas uzman\u012bbas v\u0113rtas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Gr\u0101matu las\u012b\u0161ana. <\/strong>J\u016bs varat izlas\u012bt visu, ko j\u016bsu draugi ir ieteiku\u0161i, un sp\u012bdzin\u0101t sevi, to darot. Vai ar\u012b varat beigt skait\u012bt mu\u013c\u0137\u012bbas, izlas\u012bt 50 lappuses, redz\u0113t, vai t\u0101s joproj\u0101m ir mu\u013c\u0137\u012bbas - un, ja t\u0101, tad pamest un las\u012bt kaut ko pat\u012bkam\u0101ku, jautr\u0101ku un interesant\u0101ku jums person\u012bgi. J\u016bsu draugi nev\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s j\u016bs sp\u012bdzin\u0101t, t\u0101p\u0113c esiet ar vi\u0146iem piln\u012bgi atkl\u0101ti.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Izv\u0113loties, kuru picu pas\u016bt\u012bt.<\/strong> Restor\u0101n\u0101 var atv\u0113rt \u0113dienkarti un stund\u0101m ilgi dom\u0101t, ko izv\u0113l\u0113ties. Vai ar\u012b varat izv\u0113l\u0113ties kaut ko, kas ir vismaz nedaudz interesants \u2013 un vienk\u0101r\u0161i nogar\u0161ot. Nogar\u0161ot picu, nevis to apprec\u0113t.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>...Un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k!<\/p>\n<h2>\u0160eit ir da\u017eas atbildes uz bie\u017ei uzdotajiem jaut\u0101jumiem.<\/h2>\n<h3>Bet vai \u0161\u0101da pieeja dz\u012bvei un filozofija m\u016bs nepadara par vienaldz\u012bgus briesmo\u0146us, kuriem nosp\u013cauties uz visu?<\/h3>\n<p>\u012asa atbilde: t\u0101 nav. Jo es atsaucos uz iedarbin\u0101\u0161anu k\u0101 &quot;bie\u017e\u0101k&quot; lab\u0101ku praksi, nevis &quot;vienm\u0113r&quot;. Un tas padara visu at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bbu. Sal\u012bdzin\u0101t:<\/p>\n<p><strong>A) Dz\u012bve, kur\u0101 tev nekas ner\u016bp.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kur tu guli piedz\u0113ries un gr\u016bti nopeln\u012bjis sav\u0101 gult\u0101 un nev\u0113lies neko no dz\u012bves, k\u0101 tikai profilaktiski atrun\u0101t savus b\u0113rnus, dzert &quot;\u012bstu v\u012brie\u0161u alu&quot;, salabot savu sievu\/v\u012bru, izr\u0101d\u012bt m\u012blest\u012bbu pret Putinu Delfos un laiku pa laikam balsot par darbu. ball\u012bte, jo dab\u016bsi 10 eiro.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Vai\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>B) Dz\u012bve, kur\u0101 tev r\u016bp viss, iz\u0146emot to, kas nav svar\u012bgs.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 ir dz\u012bve, kur\u0101 tu vari piev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu pienam, kas ledusskap\u012b ir saboj\u0101jies, un idiotam no pirm\u0101 varianta... Bet tu izv\u0113lies to nedar\u012bt. Un svar\u012bg\u0101k\u0101s lietas - m\u012blest\u012bba, cie\u0146a, tava \u0123imene - paliek svar\u012bg\u0101k\u0101 dz\u012bves da\u013ca.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101 ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba starp piln\u012bgu vienaldz\u012bbu un sadz\u012bvo\u0161anu vienam ar otru, kas \u013cauj jums izv\u0113l\u0113ties vissvar\u012bg\u0101k\u0101s dz\u012bves da\u013cas no piln\u012bgi, absol\u016bti nesvar\u012bg\u0101s.<\/p>\n<h3>Un ko es varu teikt, lai atbr\u012bvotos no savas negat\u012bv\u0101s p\u0101rliec\u012bbas?<\/h3>\n<p>Jums tie\u0161\u0101m nekas nav j\u0101saka. Es, piem\u0113ram, vairs neko nesaku - vienk\u0101r\u0161i ieelpoju, izelpoju un... aizmirstu. Bet, kam\u0113r tu tikai s\u0101c atlaist, tad saki to, kas tev ir pie\u0146emams. \u0160eit nav stingru noteikumu, jo tas ir tikai princips.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160eit ir da\u017eas iesp\u0113jas:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Tas iet uz elli;<\/li>\n<li>Nu, pie velna;<\/li>\n<li>Es ieliku b*by;<\/li>\n<li>Lai notiek;<\/li>\n<li>Ak s\u016bds<\/li>\n<li>Nu, tas ar\u012b viss;<\/li>\n<li>es sp\u013c\u0101vu;<\/li>\n<li>Nu iet naaa-mo.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Vai ar\u012b varat dzi\u013ci elpot, da\u017eus mirk\u013cus aiztur\u0113t elpu un p\u0113c tam l\u0113n\u0101m izelpot. Tad aizmirsti savas nepatik\u0161anas un sav\u0101c visu drosmi dar\u012bt to, ko v\u0113l\u0113jies dar\u012bt iepriek\u0161.<\/p>\n<h3>Ko dar\u012bt, ja man ir gr\u016bti pateikt m\u012b\u013cotajam, ka esmu dzird\u0113jis vi\u0146u viedokli, bet es tam nedom\u0101ju piev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu? Ko dar\u012bt, ja man nekad nav bijis drosmes c\u012bn\u012bties par saviem sap\u0146iem, bet es to v\u0113l\u0113jos?<\/h3>\n<p>Tad ir pien\u0101cis laiks apg\u016bt jaunu dz\u012bvesveidu. Aizveriet acis, ieelpojiet un izelpojiet. Tad nosp\u013cauties uz visu un spert pirmo soli.<\/p>\n<p>Jo, ja tev ir gr\u016bti, necenties piln\u012bb\u0101 atv\u0113rties. Dievs, tas ir t\u0101pat k\u0101 iem\u0101c\u012bties peld\u0113t \u2013 nem\u0113\u0123iniet ienirt ar galvu pa priek\u0161u. Lab\u0101k vienk\u0101r\u0161i ieb\u0101z vienu mazo pirksti\u0146u. Un redz\u0113t, kas notiek.<\/p>\n<p>Es garant\u0113ju, ka beig\u0101s ar jums nenotiks nekas slikts.<\/p>\n<p>J\u016bs netiksiet ap\u0113sts dz\u012bvs, un neviens ar cirvi j\u016bs nenogalin\u0101s (un, ja tas notiks, lab\u0101k dr\u012bz zvaniet 112). J\u0101, vi\u0146us var mazliet kaitin\u0101t tas, ka j\u016bs p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i uzdro\u0161in\u0101ties p\u0101rst\u0101t b\u016bt mezgls...<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Tom\u0113r n\u0101kamreiz jums nevajadz\u0113s atk\u0101rtot savu pieeju, jo nekas j\u016bs vairs neaptur\u0113s. J\u016bs pamaz\u0101m iem\u0101c\u012bsities nirt.<\/p>\n<h3>Un kas notiks, ja visi tik viegli s\u0101ks run\u0101t, dz\u012bvot un dar\u012bt? Kas tad notiks ar pasauli?<\/h3>\n<p>Tad pasaule b\u016bs br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bga.<\/p>\n<p>Neb\u016bs vairs dusmas, ka kasiere aizmirsusi atdot sant\u012bmu. Neviens nesaboj\u0101s garast\u0101vokli citiem un sev, ja ugunskur\u0101 degs desi\u0146as. Var\u0113si tiekties p\u0113c saviem sap\u0146iem. Un visi dz\u012bvos laim\u012bgi l\u012bdz m\u016b\u017ea galam.<\/p>\n<p>Jo, jo maz\u0101k piev\u0113rs\u012bsi uzman\u012bbu nenoz\u012bm\u012bg\u0101m liet\u0101m, jo maz\u0101k audzin\u0101si dusmas un neieciet\u012bbu, jo lab\u0101k tev kl\u0101sies. Un t\u0101 b\u016bs lab\u0101k visiem apk\u0101rt\u0113jiem.<\/p>\n<p>Un es god\u012bgi saku \u2013 man \u013coti patiktu, ja m\u0113s, lietuvie\u0161i, iem\u0101c\u012btos bie\u017e\u0101k visu pievilt. Un dz\u012bvo mier\u012bgaj\u0101 Marijas zem\u0113.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"Vietturis\" src=\"https:\/\/media1.tenor.com\/images\/27610e2b4a925c9677ee09cce97372d6\/tenor.gif\" alt=\"Atlasiet Dinamiskais lauks\" width=\"643\" height=\"643\" data-init-width=\"498\" data-init-height=\"498\" data-width=\"643\" data-height=\"643\" \/><\/figure>\n<p style=\"font-size: 1em !important;\">Galu gal\u0101 ir daudz pat\u012bkam\u0101k peld\u0113ties \u0161\u013cakat\u0101s, nek\u0101 skumt par \u016bdens l\u0101s\u0113m. Vai n\u0113? Un t\u0101p\u0113c mums vajadz\u0113tu iem\u0101c\u012bties bie\u017e\u0101k teikt &quot;es dar\u012bju&quot;. Jo tas padar\u012bs m\u016bsu dz\u012bvi br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bg\u0101ku, laim\u012bg\u0101ku un cit\u0101di lab\u0101ku.<\/p>\n<p>Saka &quot;es dar\u012bju&quot; da\u017ereiz var b\u016bt lab\u0101kais, ko varam dar\u012bt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nu, un tagad tev, ONBO varo\u0146i, uzdevums. <\/strong>Atbildiet t\u0101l\u0101k koment\u0101ros, jo citi dal\u012bbnieki jau ir atbild\u0113ju\u0161i:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Kas j\u016bs p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 laik\u0101 ir padar\u012bjis trauksmainu, dusm\u012bgu, nervozu un satrauktu? Un turpm\u0101k bie\u017e\u0101k s\u0101ksi izmantot principu &quot;es devu&quot;, lai tas neatk\u0101rtotos?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Nu?<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Daniels\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u0113s visi to dar\u0101m. Ne vienm\u0113r katru dienu, bet m\u0113s to dar\u0101m. Kad no r\u012bta pamostamies, m\u016bs sagaida desmitiem un simtiem izv\u0113les iesp\u0113ju... Bet t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai t\u0101s izmantotu, m\u0113s sl\u0113pjam no sevis da\u017eus no saviem sap\u0146iem. Jo baid\u0101mies, izvair\u0101mies no sliktaj\u0101m liet\u0101m, kas var\u0113tu notikt, un pl\u0101nojam, ka pirmdien b\u016bs lab\u0101k. Oh. Pirmdiena noteikti b\u016bs lab\u0101ks laiks p\u0101rmai\u0146\u0101m - es p\u0101rtraucu sm\u0113\u0137\u0113t, s\u0101k\u0161u [...]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17807,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8596","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kita"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8596","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8596"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8596\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17807"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8596"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8596"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8596"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}