Tas bija viens no vi\u0146a neiesp\u0113jami gadi<\/a> p\u0101rbaud\u012bjumus, kad vi\u0146\u0161, stud\u0113jot Erasmus \u010cehij\u0101, uzdeva drauga joku-ieteikumu un viena m\u0113ne\u0161a laik\u0101 v\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s iepaz\u012bt 100 viet\u0113jos iedz\u012bvot\u0101jus.<\/p>\n K\u0101 vi\u0146am veic\u0101s?<\/p>\n Nu... 87. cilv\u0113ka 27. dien\u0101 vi\u0146am beidz\u0101s paciet\u012bba. Bet ar to pietika, lai vi\u0146am k\u0101 introvertam m\u0113les vicin\u0101\u0161ana vairs neb\u016btu probl\u0113ma.<\/p>\n Bet parun\u0101sim ar pa\u0161u Danielu!<\/p>\n \u0160odien interv\u0113jamais ir Daniels! V\u0113l nav \u016bsu.<\/p>\n Es esmu Daniels, 24 gadus vecs jaunietis, kur\u0161 pirms diviem gadiem m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ja rakst\u012bt... Un tad ieraudz\u012bja, ka manas neliel\u0101s idejas p\u0101rtapa \u0161aj\u0101 kopien\u0101, ko j\u016bs tagad redzat. M\u0101ko\u0146u kopiena.<\/p>\n Es ofici\u0101li pieteicu sevi k\u0101 izaicin\u0101jumu fan\u0101ti\u0137i un rakstnieku. Bet tas ir tikai z\u012bmols \u2013 kaut kas, kas piesaista aci un ausi. Es tie\u0161\u0101m esmu tikai za\u013c\u0101s t\u0113jas pr\u0101ta v\u0113tra. Es kr\u0101ju idejas un pasniedzu t\u0101s \u0161aj\u0101 emu\u0101r\u0101.<\/p>\n Man bija m\u0113r\u0137is oktobra m\u0113nes\u012b satikt 100 cilv\u0113kus. <\/p>\n Es taj\u0101 laik\u0101 dz\u012bvoju \u010cehijas pils\u0113t\u0101 Brno, 1<\/a> kur diem\u017e\u0113l \u010dehi ne p\u0101r\u0101k labi run\u0101 angliski. Ja visp\u0101r maks\u0101.<\/span><\/p>\n Papildu noteikumi: <\/strong><\/p>\n Un \u0161ie apst\u0101k\u013ci padar\u012bja lietas nedaudz gr\u016bt\u0101kas, nek\u0101 biju pl\u0101nojis. Labi, ka es neko negaid\u012bju, jo varb\u016bt b\u016btu padevusies.<\/p>\n Uz Erasmus studij\u0101m aizbraucu p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b - kursa priek\u0161p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 semestr\u012b. Es ar\u012b iesniedzu dokumentus p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 dien\u0101. 2<\/a> Un, visbeidzot, es devos ce\u013c\u0101, nezinot, kurp dodos, k\u0101 nok\u013c\u016b\u0161u no autoostas l\u012bdz studentu kazarm\u0101m un taml\u012bdz\u012bgi. 3<\/a><\/p>\n \u0160is bija mans piedz\u012bvojums: ce\u013cojums bez cer\u012bb\u0101m, pl\u0101niem un idej\u0101m. Jo kas ir \u013caun\u0101kais, kas var notikt? Varb\u016bt vienk\u0101r\u0161i s\u0101p\u0113ja. Un s\u0101pes p\u0101riet.<\/p>\n ...T\u0101p\u0113c oktobr\u012b, kad p\u0113c m\u0113ne\u0161a \u010cehij\u0101 man k\u013cuva garlaic\u012bgi, es pajaut\u0101ju savam draugam Taurus, ko es var\u0113tu dar\u012bt. Vi\u0146\u0161 jokojot ieteica 100 singlu m\u0113nes\u012b.<\/p>\n Toreiz es nezin\u0101ju, ka vi\u0146\u0161 joko. Es taj\u0101 iesaist\u012bjos un pie\u0146\u0113mu \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu kop\u0101 ar visiem cilv\u0113kiem, nedom\u0101jot par to, k\u0101 es to p\u0101rvar\u0113\u0161u.<\/p>\n Da\u017ei pazi\u0146as ir dzimu\u0161i t\u0113jn\u012bc\u0101s, piem\u0113ram, labaj\u0101 pus\u0113. Alternat\u012bvu vietu sp\u0113ks!<\/p>\n Iedom\u0101jies: tu nekad dz\u012bv\u0113 neesi m\u0113\u0123in\u0101jis doties uz randi\u0146u... Un tad tevi izmet nezin kur un saka: \"Ej un dari to\". Ko dar\u012bt?<\/p>\n Pirmaj\u0101 dien\u0101 nesatiku nevienu cilv\u0113ku. <\/strong>Jo es s\u0113d\u0113ju sav\u0101 barakas istab\u0101. Taj\u0101 vakar\u0101 es guvu savu pirmo m\u0101c\u012bbu: tu nevienu nesatiksi, ja neiziesi no m\u0101jas.<\/p>\n T\u0101tad, es devos uz lekcij\u0101m otraj\u0101 dien\u0101. Un p\u0113c viena \u2013 ejam!<\/strong> Es pa\u0146\u0113mu meiteni no \u010cehijas ar kaut k\u0101du v\u0101rdu, kas s\u0101kas ar burtu A. 4<\/a> Run\u0101j\u0101m par studij\u0101m, augstskolu, liel\u0101kaj\u0101m v\u0113lm\u0113m un n\u0101kotnes pl\u0101niem p\u0113c skolas beig\u0161anas. Un saruna norit\u0113ja labi.<\/p>\n Bet vi\u0146a bija vien\u012bg\u0101 persona taj\u0101 dien\u0101... P\u0101r\u0101k maz.<\/p>\n Mana otr\u0101 nodarb\u012bba: <\/strong>"Ja j\u016bs sperat vienu soli, j\u016bs varat spert v\u0113l divus."<\/p>\n Nu, labi, varb\u016bt tas neizklaus\u0101s p\u0113c pam\u0101c\u012bbas. Bet \u0161os v\u0101rdus es uzrakst\u012bju uz lapi\u0146as tre\u0161\u0101s dienas r\u012btam. Taj\u0101 dien\u0101 es nosp\u013c\u0101vu, gul\u0113ju un nol\u0113mu komunic\u0113t vair\u0101k!<\/p>\n (Jo esmu atpalicis no grafika. Ar vienu cilv\u0113ku nepietiek.)<\/p>\n Tre\u0161aj\u0101 dien\u0101 devos pastaig\u0101ties pa pils\u0113tu.<\/strong> Centrs. ...Un pils\u0113t\u0101, izr\u0101d\u0101s, notiek daudz interesant\u0101kas lietas, nek\u0101 gaid\u012bts. Tas ir l\u012bdz\u012bgi k\u0101 Kau\u0146\u0101, kur esmu nodz\u012bvojis visu savu m\u016b\u017eu, bet joproj\u0101m katru reizi atkl\u0101ju jaunas vietas un kopienas. T\u0101 es atradu kafejn\u012bcu. Pilna ar cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n Mans pirmais m\u0113r\u0137is ir puisis, kas kaut ko raksta dator\u0101. T\u0101 k\u0101 mani interes\u0113 rakst\u012b\u0161ana, es vi\u0146am pajaut\u0101ju, ko vi\u0146\u0161 raksta. Sekoja saruna. Izr\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s, ka vi\u0146\u0161 gatavojas rakst\u012b\u0161anas konkursam Nanowrimo... Un novembr\u012b es dal\u012bjos kop\u0101<\/a>!<\/p>\n ...Taj\u0101 dien\u0101 es iepazinos ar diviem jauniem cilv\u0113kiem dienas laik\u0101 un pieciem vakar\u0101, jo v\u0113l\u0101k kafejn\u012bc\u0101 notika galda sp\u0113\u013cu kluba tik\u0161an\u0101s. Negaid\u012bti! Es sapratu, ka varu ieg\u016bt draugus un vienk\u0101r\u0161i parun\u0101ties par liet\u0101m, kas mani interes\u0113.<\/p>\n V\u0113l\u0101k viss bija daudz viegl\u0101k. Katru dienu s\u0101ku mekl\u0113t vietas, kur pa\u0161am b\u016btu jautri. Un tur es biju.<\/p>\n Es izsekoju progresam neliel\u0101 sarkan\u0101 piez\u012bmju gr\u0101mati\u0146\u0101. Es \u0161eit uzrakst\u012bju nedaudz par katru cilv\u0113ku.<\/p>\n T\u0101s bija vair\u0101kas lietas:<\/p>\n Bet tas bija liel\u0101kais \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis tikai s\u0101kum\u0101. M\u0113ne\u0161a otraj\u0101 pus\u0113 s\u0101ku paman\u012bt, ka b\u0101ri un da\u017e\u0101di klubi ir lab\u0101k\u0101 vieta pazi\u0146\u0101m. Ja es b\u016btu palikusi vien\u0101 viet\u0101, diez vai tas b\u016btu bijis viegli.<\/p>\n Pat\u012bk m\u0113nesis bez interneta<\/a> laik\u0101, gr\u016bt\u0101kais bija s\u0101kum\u0101.<\/p>\n Toreiz pal\u012bdz\u0113ja tas, ka par m\u0113r\u0137i biju past\u0101st\u012bjusi tuv\u0101kajiem draugiem. Es to nepublic\u0113ju visiem p\u0113c k\u0101rtas, jo to dar\u012bt b\u016btu bijis visliel\u0101kais nepr\u0101ts<\/a>, un es izv\u0113l\u0113jos pareiz\u0101s ausis.<\/p>\n Pal\u012bdz\u0113ja ar\u012b tas, ka v\u0101rti mani vienk\u0101r\u0161i saj\u016bsmin\u0101ja. Ar t\u0101diem v\u0101rtiem ir visviegl\u0101k, jo, ja tie mani nenestu, es varb\u016bt pa vidu b\u016btu padevies.<\/p>\n Neskatoties uz to, ka es izvirz\u012bju m\u0113r\u0137i ieg\u016bt 100 jaunas pazi\u0146as 31 dienas laik\u0101, m\u0113ne\u0161a beig\u0101s es biju sav\u0101 mazaj\u0101 sarkanaj\u0101 gr\u0101mat\u0101 87<\/strong> jauni cilv\u0113ki. Es ieguvu tik daudz pazi\u0146u.<\/p>\n Bet jautr\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca: Es sasniedzu savu m\u0113r\u0137i. <\/strong>Tas nebija glu\u017ei tas, ko biju iecer\u0113jis dar\u012bt, bet ar to pietika. P\u0113d\u0113j\u0101s dien\u0101s tikai t\u0101 veiksme trauc\u0113ja - sasniedzot 87 cilv\u0113kus no 100, es jau biju t\u0101d\u0101 orgasma st\u0101vokl\u012b, ka gandr\u012bz nokritu zem\u0113 un putoju. (Es varb\u016bt nedaudz p\u0101rsp\u012bl\u0113ju.)<\/p>\n 4 dienas pirms m\u0113ne\u0161a beig\u0101m p\u0113c p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 galda sp\u0113\u013cu vakara un 12 jaun\u0101m pazi\u0146\u0101m burtiski l\u0113k\u0101ju aiz prieka. Man tas bija neticami.<\/p>\n Es noteikti var\u0113ju turpin\u0101t un \u0161aj\u0101s dien\u0101s izveidot p\u0101r\u0113jos 13, kas neb\u016btu bijis gr\u016bti, jo esmu jau pieredz\u0113jis, ka dien\u0101 nav gr\u016bti izveidot tik daudz kontaktu, pat ja ar katru cilv\u0113ku sarun\u0101jies tikai 20-30 min\u016btes...<\/p>\n ...Bet es teicu, lai iet pie velna. Man pietiek.<\/strong> Biju nogurusi un grib\u0113ju atp\u016bsties.<\/p>\n Novembr\u012b no noguruma es s\u0101ku audz\u0113t \u016bsas (nu, nevis sk\u016bt...), un es p\u0101rtraucu rakst\u012b\u0161anu. vi\u0146a pirmais rom\u0101ns<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u0160eit ir da\u017ei:<\/p>\n 1<\/strong><\/p>\n Izr\u0101d\u0101s, ka esam p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161i l\u012bdz\u012bgi.<\/p>\n Piem\u0113ram, izaicin\u0101juma laik\u0101 es jaut\u0101ju cilv\u0113kiem, kurus satiku, ko vi\u0146i dar\u012btu, ja var\u0113tu dar\u012bt jebko... un gandr\u012bz ceturt\u0101 da\u013ca no vi\u0146iem atbild\u0113ja, ka v\u0113l\u0113tos apce\u013cot pasauli. Kad \u0161o pa\u0161u jaut\u0101jumu uzdeva Lietuv\u0101, ceturt\u0101 da\u013ca atbild\u0113ja tie\u0161i t\u0101pat. Vien\u012bg\u0101 at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba ir t\u0101da, ka lietuvie\u0161i ce\u013cojumiem izv\u0113las autobusus, bet \u010dehi - velosip\u0113dus. Citas bie\u017e\u0101k\u0101s atbildes bija \"dar\u012bt to, ko es daru tagad\" vai \"pal\u012bdz\u0113t cilv\u0113cei\". Kas ar\u012b neat\u0161\u0137iras no Lietuvas. Interesanti! 5<\/a><\/p>\n T\u0101p\u0113c, ja v\u0113laties ieg\u016bt draugus \u0101rzem\u0113s - nej\u016btieties k\u0101 sve\u0161inieks.<\/p>\n 2<\/strong><\/p>\n ...Lai turpin\u0101tu ar kaut ko, ko j\u016bs vienk\u0101r\u0161i v\u0113laties pateikt.<\/p>\n Piem\u0113ram, es interv\u0113ju k\u0101du satikto rakstnieku, jaut\u0101jot, ko vi\u0146\u0161 raksta. Izteicu komplimentu satiktajai zilmatainai sievietei un p\u0113c tam uzdevu jaut\u0101jumus par to, k\u0101 citi cilv\u0113ki rea\u0123\u0113 uz vi\u0146as matu kr\u0101su. 6<\/a> Vienk\u0101r\u0161i sazinies. J\u016bs varat uzreiz pateikt, ka jums ir iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s izaicin\u0101jums un v\u0113laties veikt mikrointerviju par vi\u0146u dz\u012bvesveidu un slepenajiem sap\u0146iem. Es ar\u012b izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju \u0161o metodi.<\/p>\n Lai ko tu dar\u012btu, neizliecies. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i sakiet to, ko v\u0113laties teikt. Sirsn\u012bba un atkl\u0101t\u012bba ir komunik\u0101cijas pamat\u0101<\/a>.<\/p>\n 3<\/strong><\/p>\n Run\u0101jiet k\u0101 iet. Jaut\u0101jiet, ko v\u0113laties. Dariet to, kas taj\u0101 laik\u0101 \u0161\u0137iet vislab\u0101kais. Varb\u016bt vi\u0146\u0161 s\u0101kum\u0101 nezin\u0101ja, k\u0101 saprast citus cilv\u0113kus, bet komunik\u0101ciju iem\u0101c\u0101s tikai sazinoties<\/a>.<\/p>\n Galu gal\u0101 pasaul\u0113 ir daudz vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku, nek\u0101 j\u016bs dom\u0101jat. Pat ja j\u016bs apmuls\u012bsit, vai atceraties visus d\u012bvainos cilv\u0113kus, kas j\u016bs aicin\u0101ju\u0161i \u0101r\u0101? Tikpat labi vi\u0146i vienk\u0101r\u0161i m\u0101c\u0101s run\u0101t. T\u0101pat k\u0101 m\u0113s visi.<\/p>\n Ak, un jebkur\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101... Sazi\u0146ai nav noteikumu.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pat ja k\u0101dam tas nepat\u012bk - ir citi cilv\u0113ki, kuriem tu patiksi<\/a>. T\u0101 man pat\u012bk d\u012bvaini cilv\u0113ki, kuri eksperimenta prieka p\u0113c izvirza sev stulb\u0101kos izaicin\u0101jumus.<\/p>\n Pa\u0161laik izm\u0113\u0123inu jaunu produktivit\u0101tes un darba efektivit\u0101tes izaicin\u0101jumu s\u0113riju. Piem\u0113ram, es p\u0101rbaudu savu darba efektivit\u0101ti, str\u0101d\u0101jot agri no r\u012bta, v\u0113lu vakar\u0101, \u0113dot tikai veg\u0101nu p\u0101rtiku vai m\u0113\u0123inot ieg\u016bt k\u0101dus produktivit\u0101tes r\u0101d\u012bt\u0101jus.<\/p>\n Tie nav tradicion\u0101li izaicin\u0101jumi. Bet tom\u0113r es to nedaru liel\u0101kai auditorijai (jo var\u0113tu uz m\u0113nesi aizbraukt uz \u0100ziju un uztais\u012bt Instagram kalnu fotogr\u0101fiju), bet tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka cen\u0161os rast kaut k\u0101du produktivit\u0101tes atbildi. \u0101r\u0161tata darbs. Paskat\u012b\u0161os, ko dab\u016b\u0161u.<\/p>\n Un aptuveni gadu p\u0113c \u0161\u012bs intervijas, 2015. gada ruden\u012b, Daniels sa\u0146\u0113ma gr\u0101matu "Slinkais manifests<\/a>", kur vi\u0146\u0161 apkopoja savu pieredzi un atkl\u0101jumus. Vi\u0146am ir ar\u012b gr\u0101mata lika dzird\u0113t savu balsi<\/a>.<\/p>\n Nu ko lai saka - bija prieks ar tevi parun\u0101t! Un vai jums ir v\u0113l jaut\u0101jumi \u0161odienas interv\u0113t\u0101jam? Jaut\u0101jiet zem\u0101k eso\u0161ajos koment\u0101ros!<\/p>\n - Siv\u0113ns Antanas<\/strong><\/p>\n Otra liel\u0101k\u0101 pils\u0113ta ar daudz\u0101m universit\u0101t\u0113m. Citiem v\u0101rdiem sakot, \u010cehijas Kau\u0146a.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li> Atceros, ka t\u0101 bija reta diena, kad n\u0101cu uz lekcij\u0101m. Lekcijas laik\u0101 katedras dek\u0101ne jaut\u0101ja, k\u0101p\u0113c neviens nav pierakst\u012bjies Erasmus studij\u0101m, \u0161odien ir p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 diena, un j\u016bs neizmantoj\u0101t iesp\u0113ju. P\u0113c lekcijas devos uz ofisu un 20 min\u016bt\u0113s aizpild\u012bju dokumentus.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li> Pa ce\u013cam pa\u0146\u0113mu da\u017eus eiro. Jo dom\u0101ju, ka \u010cehija k\u0101 norm\u0101la ES valsts izmanto eiro. Izr\u0101d\u0101s, ka n\u0113 \u2013 vi\u0146iem ir savi Kro\u0146i.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li> God\u012bgi sakot, es neatceros... Tom\u0113r es nevaru atcer\u0113ties v\u0101rdus.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li> Gan \u010cehij\u0101, gan Lietuv\u0101 atbildes "radi \u0123imeni un r\u016bp\u0113jieties par to" neat\u0161\u0137\u012br\u0101s. Aptuveni 5 procenti no satiktajiem uz to atbild\u0113ja ar pirmo pieteikumu.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li>![\"\"](\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/menu-cekijoje-kaip-susipazinau-su-simtu-zmoniu.jpg\" "\\"\\"")
<\/span><\/p>\n\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Daniel, kas tu esi?<\/h2>\n
\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> K\u0101di bija izaicin\u0101juma noteikumi?<\/h3>\n
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\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Un k\u0101p\u0113c izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101ties \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu?<\/h3>\n
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<\/span><\/p>\n\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> T\u0101tad, k\u0101 jums izdev\u0101s sasniegt savu m\u0113r\u0137i?<\/h3>\n
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<\/span><\/p>\n\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Kas tevi visvair\u0101k trauc\u0113ja?<\/h3>\n
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\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Ko j\u016bs dar\u012bj\u0101t, kad grib\u0113j\u0101t to visu izmest?<\/h3>\n
\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Vai sasniedz\u0101t to, ko gaid\u012bj\u0101t?<\/h3>\n
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\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Vai jums ir k\u0101ds padoms cilv\u0113kiem, kuri v\u0113las atk\u0101rtot vai p\u0101rsp\u0113t j\u016bsu piedz\u012bvojumu?<\/h3>\n
Citu valstu iedz\u012bvot\u0101ji ne ar ko neat\u0161\u0137iras no lietuvie\u0161iem.<\/h4>\n
Visvienk\u0101r\u0161\u0101kais veids, k\u0101 s\u0101kt sarunu, ir pateikt \"Sveiks\" un...<\/h4>\n
Nebaidieties izskat\u012bties d\u012bvaini.<\/h4>\n
\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Taaaaiiiii... K\u0101du izaicin\u0101jumu tu uz\u0146emsies tagad?<\/h3>\n
Atjaunots!<\/strong><\/h3>\n
\ud83e\udd1d<\/span> Liels paldies, Daniel!<\/h2>\n