Un j\u0101, \u0161\u012b izaicin\u0101juma darb\u012bba notiek Lietuv\u0101.<\/p>\n
Antanas Bernatonis <\/strong>ir 17 gadus vecs students, kur\u0161 nezina, vai stud\u0113s, bet gras\u0101s uzs\u0101kt savu biznesu un dar\u012bt kaut ko traku un ar savu r\u012bc\u012bbu iedvesmot vienaud\u017eus.<\/p>\n Klaus\u012bsimies, ko vi\u0146\u0161 saka par savu izaicin\u0101jumu.<\/p>\n Esmu Antanas Bernatonis, jauns, laim\u012bgs, pa\u0161p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts cilv\u0113ks. Esmu dzimusi Austrij\u0101, iesp\u0113jams, t\u0101p\u0113c man tik \u013coti pat\u012bk kalni. Un kalni simboliz\u0113 piedz\u012bvojumus, t\u0101p\u0113c ar\u012b to man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 netr\u016bkst.<\/p>\n Man pat\u012bk da\u017e\u0101di izaicin\u0101jumi, man nepat\u012bk s\u0113d\u0113t uz vietas, t\u0101p\u0113c past\u0101v\u012bgi piedalos da\u017e\u0101dos pas\u0101kumos, izst\u0101d\u0113s un citur. Es \u0161obr\u012bd str\u0101d\u0101ju ar saules ener\u0123iju Saulainaj\u0101 ielej\u0101<\/a>.<\/p>\n Es uzst\u0101d\u012bju izaicin\u0101jumu \u0161\u0101di: 3 m\u0113ne\u0161us p\u0113c k\u0101rtas katru ned\u0113\u013cu satiec vismaz 3 cilv\u0113kus. <\/strong>Noteikumi: iepazans tiek skaitta, ja esmu pirmais, kas tuvojas, runju ar cilvku un iegstu via kontaktus.<\/p>\n Es biju ap\u0146\u0113m\u012bbas pilns, ja es to pan\u0101k\u0161u, katru ned\u0113\u013cu apbalvo\u0161u sevi ar k\u0101du cienastu. Ja n\u0113, nek\u0101du gardumu un n\u0101kamned\u0113\u013c j\u0101mekl\u0113 divreiz vair\u0101k pazi\u0146u.<\/p>\n \u0160is izaicin\u0101jums nes daudz labumu: es varu izk\u0101pt no savas komforta zonas un neb\u016bt nosl\u0113gts sav\u0101 mazaj\u0101 \u0113rtaj\u0101 pasaul\u0113, man ir j\u0101piedal\u0101s, j\u0101k\u0101pj p\u0101ri sev. M\u0101c\u0101ties ar\u012b uzs\u0101kt sarunu, ieklaus\u012bties cilv\u0113kos un, non\u0101kot nepat\u012bkam\u0101s situ\u0101cij\u0101s, izk\u013c\u016bt no t\u0101m un improviz\u0113t.<\/p>\n Ar\u012b pa\u0161i randi\u0146i ir p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161i. Da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki \u017e\u0113lojas, ka, ja vi\u0146i v\u0113las kaut ko sasniegt vai ieg\u016bt darbu, tad tikai caur pazi\u0146\u0101m...<\/p>\n ...Kam\u0113r citi raud, j\u016bs varat to izmantot, jo, jo vair\u0101k tiekaties, jo vair\u0101k iesp\u0113ju paveras da\u017e\u0101d\u0101s jom\u0101s, un j\u016bs varat izv\u0113l\u0113ties, kurai no t\u0101m piev\u0113rsties.<\/p>\n Ar\u012b pa\u0161i cilv\u0113ki ir \u013coti da\u017e\u0101di, t\u0101p\u0113c g\u016bsti jaunu pieredzi, jaunas zin\u0101\u0161anas no da\u017e\u0101du jomu ekspertiem. Uzzinot, k\u0101 manevr\u0113t t\u0113mas, lai interv\u0113t\u0101js b\u016btu ieinteres\u0113ts, j\u016bs s\u0101kat atpaz\u012bt atk\u0101rtotas person\u012bbas iez\u012bmes.<\/p>\n Kad tev tuvojas sve\u0161inieks, katrs rea\u0123\u0113 sav\u0101d\u0101k, bet da\u017eas lietas atk\u0101rtojas. J\u016bs atpaz\u012bstat \u0161\u012bs lietas un izmantojat t\u0101s, lai veidotu savstarp\u0113ju uztic\u0113\u0161anos un baud\u012btu sazi\u0146u.<\/p>\n Kad es s\u0101ku izaicin\u0101jumu, tas, protams, bija gr\u016bti. Tuvin\u0101ties cilv\u0113kam bez iemesla lik\u0101s bied\u0113jo\u0161i, d\u012bvaini, nezin\u0101ju, k\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 var\u0113tu rea\u0123\u0113t. Un jebkur\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 es jutu diskomfortu. T\u0101p\u0113c zemapzi\u0146a s\u0101ka mekl\u0113t attaisnojumus, k\u0101p\u0113c to nedar\u012bt, t\u0101p\u0113c jau otro ned\u0113\u013cu neatradu 3 pazi\u0146as.<\/p>\n Es dom\u0101ju, ka varb\u016bt beig\u0161u izaicin\u0101jumu, bet tad satv\u0113ru sevi un teicu sev, ka nok\u0101rto\u0161u to l\u012bdz galam.<\/p>\n Es s\u0101ku run\u0101t, s\u0101ku staig\u0101t, un es to redz\u0113ju liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca cilv\u0113ku ir labi<\/strong>un laim\u012bgi s\u0101k komunic\u0113t. <\/strong>Sa\u0146\u0113mu drosmi, sajutu prieku un s\u0101ku veidot pazi\u0146as, kur vien var\u0113ju.<\/p>\n Iepazinu \u013coti da\u017e\u0101dus cilv\u0113kus: s\u0101kot ar uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113jiem kafejn\u012bc\u0101s un semin\u0101ros, beidzot ar pedofilu autobus\u0101, kur\u0161 v\u0113l\u0101k vair\u0101kus m\u0113ne\u0161us mani vaj\u0101 virtu\u0101laj\u0101 telp\u0101.<\/p>\n Un t\u0101 p\u0113c 3 un nedaudziem m\u0113ne\u0161iem es biju paz\u012bstams ar 134 cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n Liel\u0101kais \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis m\u0113r\u0137a sasnieg\u0161anai bija smadzenes. Jo vair\u0101k dom\u0101ju par tuvo\u0161anos, jo bied\u0113jo\u0161\u0101k k\u013cuva. V\u0113l\u0101k sapratu, ka j\u0101r\u012bkojas nevis dom\u0101jot, bet improviz\u0113jot,<\/strong> un \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis da\u013c\u0113ji pavirz\u012bj\u0101s mal\u0101.<\/p>\n P\u0113c pirm\u0101s izaicin\u0101juma ned\u0113\u013cas es savos pierakstos atz\u012bm\u0113ju, k\u0101p\u0113c es pie\u0146\u0113mu \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu. Kad gaita k\u013cuva gr\u016bta un es grib\u0113ju beigt, es atv\u0113ru piez\u012bmes, izlas\u012bju, k\u0101p\u0113c man tas bija j\u0101pabeidz, un turpin\u0101ju. Es to daru ar liel\u0101ko da\u013cu izaicin\u0101jumu \u2014 \u013coti pal\u012bdz.<\/p>\n Izaicin\u0101juma laik\u0101 sapratu, ka visi cilv\u0113ki ir draudz\u012bgi. Neviens tev nev\u0113las sliktu, galu gal\u0101 ar\u012b tev ir pat\u012bkami, ja smaid\u012bgs cilv\u0113ks pieiet pie tevis un ar tevi run\u0101.<\/p>\n Ar\u012b man rad\u0101s p\u0101rliec\u012bba, ka paz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ir \u013coti svar\u012bga: m\u0113s varam daudz m\u0101c\u012bties, paveras vair\u0101k iesp\u0113ju. Un vienalga, ir jautri satikties un parun\u0101ties, pastaig\u0101joties pa pils\u0113tu.<\/p>\n Reiz\u0113m joproj\u0101m gribas cilv\u0113kam nepieiet kl\u0101t, s\u0113d\u0113t sav\u0101 komforta zon\u0101, bet, kad s\u0101c, ir daudz viegl\u0101k pieiet kl\u0101t un run\u0101t ar vi\u0146u. J\u016bs j\u016btaties lab\u0101k, kad saprotat, ka esat ieguvu\u0161i v\u0113l vienu br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgu pazi\u0146u, kas var main\u012bt j\u016bsu dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n Ja k\u0101ds nolemj izaicin\u0101jumu atk\u0101rtot, iesaku pacelt lati\u0146u:<\/strong> ne tr\u012bs cilv\u0113ki ned\u0113\u013c\u0101, un katru dienu jauna pazi\u0146a<\/a>.<\/p>\n T\u0101pat ar\u012b praktisks padoms: pieejot pie cilv\u0113ka, sarunu vislab\u0101k s\u0101kt ar komplimentu, piem\u0113ram, pasakot v\u012brietim: "Tu valk\u0101 lielisku jaku!" Kur t\u0101du var nopirkt?".<\/p>\n T\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 cilv\u0113kam uzreiz b\u016bs lab\u0101ka attieksme pret tevi. T\u0101 ir taisn\u012bba, ir svar\u012bgi tikai b\u016bt god\u012bgam.<\/p>\n Redziet, man t\u0101 \u0161\u0137ita, ka Lietuv\u0101 ar\u012b ir viegli satikt cilv\u0113kus vienk\u0101r\u0161i uz ielas! Ja v\u0113lies \u0161\u012bs pazi\u0146as!<\/p>\n V\u0113l\u0101k es atk\u0101rtoju \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu:<\/strong>\u010cehij\u0101 es m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju satikt 100 jaunus cilv\u0113kus viena m\u0113ne\u0161a laik\u0101<\/a>. Es ticu, ka j\u016bs varat pie\u0146emt l\u012bdz\u012bgu izaicin\u0101jumu! Ko dar\u012bt, ja ned\u0113\u013c\u0101 izsaka komplimentu vismaz vienam sve\u0161iniekam?<\/p>\n (Jo k\u0101 gan cit\u0101di iem\u0101c\u012bsies komunic\u0113t? Hmm?<\/a>)<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/antanas-bernatonis-menesis-su-pazintimis.jpg\" "\\"\\"")
<\/span><\/p>\n\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Sveiks, Anton. Kas tu esi?<\/h2>\n
\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> K\u0101du izaicin\u0101jumu tu pie\u0146\u0113mi?<\/h3>\n
\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Un k\u0101p\u0113c izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101ties \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu?<\/h3>\n
\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Vai tas bija gr\u016bti?<\/h3>\n
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<\/span><\/p>\n\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Kas tevi visvair\u0101k trauc\u0113ja?<\/h3>\n
\ud83d\udc4b<\/span> Ko tu iem\u0101c\u012bjies?<\/h3>\n
\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Vai jums ir k\u0101ds padoms cilv\u0113kiem, kuri v\u0113las j\u016bs apdz\u012bt?<\/h3>\n
\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Paldies, Anton!<\/h2>\n