{"id":6245,"date":"2015-11-07T10:50:42","date_gmt":"2015-11-07T08:50:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=6245"},"modified":"2020-12-26T16:33:37","modified_gmt":"2020-12-26T14:33:37","slug":"kaip-radau-draugu-lietuvoje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/ka-es-atradu-draugu-lietuva\/","title":{"rendered":"<i>Students saka:<\/i> K\u0101 es atradu draugus uz ielas un autobusos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lietuv\u0101 bez iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s tu esi nekas. Un iepaz\u012bties ir gandr\u012bz neiesp\u0113jami, jo viss notiek caur radiniekiem... Vai vismaz da\u017ei t\u0101 saka.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160os v\u0101rdus atcer\u0113j\u0101s \u0161\u012bs ned\u0113\u013cas interv\u0113t\u0101js Antanas. Vi\u0146\u0161 nol\u0113ma p\u0101rbaud\u012bt - <strong>vai ir iesp\u0113jams s\u0101kt satikties tikai uz ielas?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un j\u0101, \u0161\u012b izaicin\u0101juma darb\u012bba notiek Lietuv\u0101.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Antanas Bernatonis <\/strong>ir 17 gadus vecs students, kur\u0161 nezina, vai stud\u0113s, bet gras\u0101s uzs\u0101kt savu biznesu un dar\u012bt kaut ko traku un ar savu r\u012bc\u012bbu iedvesmot vienaud\u017eus.<\/p>\n<p>Klaus\u012bsimies, ko vi\u0146\u0161 saka par savu izaicin\u0101jumu.<\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"16971\" title=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/antanas-bernatonis-menesis-su-pazintimis.jpg\" width=\"955\" height=\"537\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Sveiks, Anton. Kas tu esi?<\/h2>\n<p>Esmu Antanas Bernatonis, jauns, laim\u012bgs, pa\u0161p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts cilv\u0113ks. Esmu dzimusi Austrij\u0101, iesp\u0113jams, t\u0101p\u0113c man tik \u013coti pat\u012bk kalni. Un kalni simboliz\u0113 piedz\u012bvojumus, t\u0101p\u0113c ar\u012b to man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 netr\u016bkst.<\/p>\n<p>Man pat\u012bk da\u017e\u0101di izaicin\u0101jumi, man nepat\u012bk s\u0113d\u0113t uz vietas, t\u0101p\u0113c past\u0101v\u012bgi piedalos da\u017e\u0101dos pas\u0101kumos, izst\u0101d\u0113s un citur. Es \u0161obr\u012bd str\u0101d\u0101ju <a href=\"http:\/\/saulesgraza.lt\/\" style=\"outline: none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ar saules ener\u0123iju Saulainaj\u0101 ielej\u0101<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> K\u0101du izaicin\u0101jumu tu pie\u0146\u0113mi?<\/h3>\n<p>Es uzst\u0101d\u012bju izaicin\u0101jumu \u0161\u0101di: <strong>3 m\u0113ne\u0161us p\u0113c k\u0101rtas katru ned\u0113\u013cu satiec vismaz 3 cilv\u0113kus.&nbsp;<\/strong>Noteikumi: iepazans tiek skaitta, ja esmu pirmais, kas tuvojas, runju ar cilvku un iegstu via kontaktus.<\/p>\n<p>Es biju ap\u0146\u0113m\u012bbas pilns, ja es to pan\u0101k\u0161u, katru ned\u0113\u013cu apbalvo\u0161u sevi ar k\u0101du cienastu. Ja n\u0113, nek\u0101du gardumu un n\u0101kamned\u0113\u013c j\u0101mekl\u0113 divreiz vair\u0101k pazi\u0146u.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Un k\u0101p\u0113c izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101ties \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu?<\/h3>\n<p>\u0160is izaicin\u0101jums nes daudz labumu: es varu izk\u0101pt no savas komforta zonas un neb\u016bt nosl\u0113gts sav\u0101 mazaj\u0101 \u0113rtaj\u0101 pasaul\u0113, man ir j\u0101piedal\u0101s, j\u0101k\u0101pj p\u0101ri sev. M\u0101c\u0101ties ar\u012b uzs\u0101kt sarunu, ieklaus\u012bties cilv\u0113kos un, non\u0101kot nepat\u012bkam\u0101s situ\u0101cij\u0101s, izk\u013c\u016bt no t\u0101m un improviz\u0113t.<\/p>\n<p>Ar\u012b pa\u0161i randi\u0146i ir p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161i. Da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki \u017e\u0113lojas, ka, ja vi\u0146i v\u0113las kaut ko sasniegt vai ieg\u016bt darbu, tad tikai caur pazi\u0146\u0101m...<\/p>\n<p>...Kam\u0113r citi raud, j\u016bs varat to izmantot, jo, jo vair\u0101k tiekaties, jo vair\u0101k iesp\u0113ju paveras da\u017e\u0101d\u0101s jom\u0101s, un j\u016bs varat izv\u0113l\u0113ties, kurai no t\u0101m piev\u0113rsties.<\/p>\n<p>Ar\u012b pa\u0161i cilv\u0113ki ir \u013coti da\u017e\u0101di, t\u0101p\u0113c g\u016bsti jaunu pieredzi, jaunas zin\u0101\u0161anas no da\u017e\u0101du jomu ekspertiem. Uzzinot, k\u0101 manevr\u0113t t\u0113mas, lai interv\u0113t\u0101js b\u016btu ieinteres\u0113ts, j\u016bs s\u0101kat atpaz\u012bt atk\u0101rtotas person\u012bbas iez\u012bmes.<\/p>\n<p>Kad tev tuvojas sve\u0161inieks, katrs rea\u0123\u0113 sav\u0101d\u0101k, bet da\u017eas lietas atk\u0101rtojas. J\u016bs atpaz\u012bstat \u0161\u012bs lietas un izmantojat t\u0101s, lai veidotu savstarp\u0113ju uztic\u0113\u0161anos un baud\u012btu sazi\u0146u.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Vai tas bija gr\u016bti?<\/h3>\n<p>Kad es s\u0101ku izaicin\u0101jumu, tas, protams, bija gr\u016bti. Tuvin\u0101ties cilv\u0113kam bez iemesla lik\u0101s bied\u0113jo\u0161i, d\u012bvaini, nezin\u0101ju, k\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 var\u0113tu rea\u0123\u0113t. Un jebkur\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 es jutu diskomfortu. T\u0101p\u0113c zemapzi\u0146a s\u0101ka mekl\u0113t attaisnojumus, k\u0101p\u0113c to nedar\u012bt, t\u0101p\u0113c jau otro ned\u0113\u013cu neatradu 3 pazi\u0146as.<\/p>\n<p>Es dom\u0101ju, ka varb\u016bt beig\u0161u izaicin\u0101jumu, bet tad satv\u0113ru sevi un teicu sev, ka nok\u0101rto\u0161u to l\u012bdz galam.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Es s\u0101ku run\u0101t, s\u0101ku staig\u0101t, un es to redz\u0113ju <strong>liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca cilv\u0113ku ir labi<\/strong><strong>un laim\u012bgi s\u0101k komunic\u0113t. <\/strong>Sa\u0146\u0113mu drosmi, sajutu prieku un s\u0101ku veidot pazi\u0146as, kur vien var\u0113ju.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"width: 100%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" title=\"P\u0113di\u0146as_att\u0113ls_03\" data-id=\"41605\" src=\"\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/tcb_content_templates\/contentblock\/images\/Quotation_marks_image_03.png\" style=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"137\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Iepazinu \u013coti da\u017e\u0101dus cilv\u0113kus: s\u0101kot ar uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113jiem kafejn\u012bc\u0101s un semin\u0101ros, beidzot ar pedofilu autobus\u0101, kur\u0161 v\u0113l\u0101k vair\u0101kus m\u0113ne\u0161us mani vaj\u0101 virtu\u0101laj\u0101 telp\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Un t\u0101 p\u0113c 3 un nedaudziem m\u0113ne\u0161iem es biju paz\u012bstams ar 134 cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Kas tevi visvair\u0101k trauc\u0113ja?<\/h3>\n<p>Liel\u0101kais \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis m\u0113r\u0137a sasnieg\u0161anai bija smadzenes. Jo vair\u0101k dom\u0101ju par tuvo\u0161anos, jo bied\u0113jo\u0161\u0101k k\u013cuva. V\u0113l\u0101k sapratu, ka j\u0101r\u012bkojas <strong>nevis dom\u0101jot, bet improviz\u0113jot,<\/strong> un \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis da\u013c\u0113ji pavirz\u012bj\u0101s mal\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0113c pirm\u0101s izaicin\u0101juma ned\u0113\u013cas es savos pierakstos atz\u012bm\u0113ju, k\u0101p\u0113c es pie\u0146\u0113mu \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu. Kad gaita k\u013cuva gr\u016bta un es grib\u0113ju beigt, es atv\u0113ru piez\u012bmes, izlas\u012bju, k\u0101p\u0113c man tas bija j\u0101pabeidz, un turpin\u0101ju. Es to daru ar liel\u0101ko da\u013cu izaicin\u0101jumu \u2014 \u013coti pal\u012bdz.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span> Ko tu iem\u0101c\u012bjies?<\/h3>\n<p>Izaicin\u0101juma laik\u0101 sapratu, ka visi cilv\u0113ki ir draudz\u012bgi. Neviens tev nev\u0113las sliktu, galu gal\u0101 ar\u012b tev ir pat\u012bkami, ja smaid\u012bgs cilv\u0113ks pieiet pie tevis un ar tevi run\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Ar\u012b man rad\u0101s p\u0101rliec\u012bba, ka paz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ir \u013coti svar\u012bga: m\u0113s varam daudz m\u0101c\u012bties, paveras vair\u0101k iesp\u0113ju. Un vienalga, ir jautri satikties un parun\u0101ties, pastaig\u0101joties pa pils\u0113tu.<\/p>\n<p>Reiz\u0113m joproj\u0101m gribas cilv\u0113kam nepieiet kl\u0101t, s\u0113d\u0113t sav\u0101 komforta zon\u0101, bet, kad s\u0101c, ir daudz viegl\u0101k pieiet kl\u0101t un run\u0101t ar vi\u0146u. J\u016bs j\u016btaties lab\u0101k, kad saprotat, ka esat ieguvu\u0161i v\u0113l vienu br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgu pazi\u0146u, kas var main\u012bt j\u016bsu dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Vai jums ir k\u0101ds padoms cilv\u0113kiem, kuri v\u0113las j\u016bs apdz\u012bt?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ja k\u0101ds nolemj izaicin\u0101jumu atk\u0101rtot, iesaku pacelt lati\u0146u:<\/strong> ne tr\u012bs cilv\u0113ki ned\u0113\u013c\u0101, <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/simtas-pazinciu-vienas-menesis\/\">un katru dienu jauna pazi\u0146a<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101pat ar\u012b praktisks padoms: pieejot pie cilv\u0113ka, sarunu vislab\u0101k s\u0101kt ar komplimentu, piem\u0113ram, pasakot v\u012brietim: &quot;Tu valk\u0101 lielisku jaku!&quot; Kur t\u0101du var nopirkt?&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 cilv\u0113kam uzreiz b\u016bs lab\u0101ka attieksme pret tevi. T\u0101 ir taisn\u012bba, ir svar\u012bgi tikai b\u016bt god\u012bgam.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Paldies, Anton!<\/h2>\n<p>Redziet, man t\u0101 \u0161\u0137ita, ka Lietuv\u0101 ar\u012b ir viegli satikt cilv\u0113kus vienk\u0101r\u0161i uz ielas! Ja v\u0113lies \u0161\u012bs pazi\u0146as!<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u0113l\u0101k es atk\u0101rtoju \u0161o izaicin\u0101jumu:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/simtas-pazinciu-vienas-menesis\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">\u010cehij\u0101 es m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju satikt 100 jaunus cilv\u0113kus viena m\u0113ne\u0161a laik\u0101<\/a>. Es ticu, ka j\u016bs varat pie\u0146emt l\u012bdz\u012bgu izaicin\u0101jumu! Ko dar\u012bt, ja ned\u0113\u013c\u0101 izsaka komplimentu vismaz vienam sve\u0161iniekam?<\/p>\n<p>(<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/kaip-ismokti-bendrauti\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">Jo k\u0101 gan cit\u0101di iem\u0101c\u012bsies komunic\u0113t? Hmm?<\/a>)<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Daniels\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lietuvoje be pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 esi niekas. O pa\u017eintis u\u017emegzti \u2013 beveik ne\u012fmanoma, nes viskas tik per gimines&#8230; Ar bent taip teigia kai kurie \u017emon\u0117s. \u0160ios savait\u0117s pa\u0161nekovui Antanui \u0161ie \u017eod\u017eiai \u012fsimin\u0117. Jis nusprend\u0117 patikrinti \u2013 ar \u012fmanoma prad\u0117ti pa\u017eintis tiesiog gatv\u0117je? Ir taip, \u0161io&nbsp;i\u0161\u0161\u016bkio&nbsp;veiksmas vyksta Lietuvoje. Antanas Bernatonis yra 17-metis moksleivis, kuris ne\u017eino, ar studijuos, ta\u010diau [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16971,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","tve_updated_post":"<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>Lietuvoje be pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 esi niekas. O pa\u017eintis u\u017emegzti \u2013 beveik ne\u012fmanoma, nes viskas tik per gimines... Ar bent taip teigia kai kurie \u017emon\u0117s.<\/p><p>\u0160ios savait\u0117s pa\u0161nekovui Antanui \u0161ie \u017eod\u017eiai \u012fsimin\u0117. Jis nusprend\u0117 patikrinti \u2013 <strong>ar \u012fmanoma prad\u0117ti pa\u017eintis tiesiog gatv\u0117je?<\/strong><\/p><p>Ir taip, \u0161io&nbsp;i\u0161\u0161\u016bkio&nbsp;veiksmas vyksta Lietuvoje.<\/p><p><strong>Antanas Bernatonis <\/strong>yra 17-metis moksleivis, kuris ne\u017eino, ar studijuos, ta\u010diau ruo\u0161iasi sukurti savo versl\u0105 bei nuveikti ka\u017ek\u0105 beproti\u0161ko ir savo veiksmais \u012fkv\u0117pti savo bendraam\u017eius.<\/p><p>Paklausykime, k\u0105 jis papasakos apie savo i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f862bfc\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img class=\"tve_image wp-image-16971\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"16971\" title=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/antanas-bernatonis-menesis-su-pazintimis.jpg\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f862c00\" width=\"955\" height=\"537\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element tve-froala fr-box fr-basic\"><h2 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Labas, Antanai. Kas tu?<\/h2><p>Esu Antanas Bernatonis, jaunas, laimingas, savimi pasitikintis \u017emogus. Gimiau Austrijoje, tikriausiai tod\u0117l labai m\u0117gstu kalnus. O kalnai simbolizuoja nuotykius, tad j\u0173 mano gyvenime taip pat netr\u016bksta.<\/p><p>Man patinka \u012fvair\u016bs i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai, nem\u0117gstu s\u0117d\u0117ti vietoje, tod\u0117l nuolatos dalyvauju \u012fvairiuose renginiuose, parodose ir kitur. \u0160iuo metu dirbu <a class=\"tve-froala\" href=\"http:\/\/saulesgraza.lt\/\" style=\"outline: none;\" target=\"_blank\">su saul\u0117s energetika Saul\u0117tekio sl\u0117nyje<\/a>.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Kokio i\u0161\u0161\u016bkio \u0117meisi?<\/h3><p>I\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f i\u0161sik\u0117liau tok\u012f: <strong>3 m\u0117nesius i\u0161 eil\u0117s, kiekvien\u0105 savait\u0119 susipa\u017einti bent su 3 \u017emon\u0117mis.&nbsp;<\/strong>Taisykl\u0117s: pa\u017eintis u\u017eskaityta, jeigu a\u0161 pirmas prieinu, u\u017ekalbinu \u017emog\u0173 ir gaunu jo kontaktus.<\/p><p>Buvau pasiry\u017e\u0119s, jeigu tai \u012fvykdau \u2013 kiekvien\u0105 savait\u0119 save apdovanoju kokiu nors skan\u0117stu. Jeigu ne \u2013 joki\u0173 skanumyn\u0173 ir sekan\u010di\u0105 savait\u0119 turiu ie\u0161koti dvigubai daugiau pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> O kod\u0117l pasirinkai \u0161\u012f i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f?<\/h3><p>\u0160is i\u0161\u0161\u016bkis duoda daug naudos: galiu i\u0161eiti i\u0161 komforto zonos ir neb\u016bti u\u017esidar\u0119s savo ma\u017eame patogiame pasaul\u0117lyje, turiu dalyvauti, perlipti per save. Taip pat i\u0161mokstama u\u017emegzti pokalb\u012f, klausytis \u017emoni\u0173, o patekus \u012f nemalonias situacijas \u2013 suktis i\u0161 j\u0173 ir improvizuoti.<\/p><p>Pa\u010dios pa\u017eintys taip pat nuostabu. Kai kurie verkia, kad jei nori k\u0105 nors pasiekti ar susirasti darb\u0105 \u2013 tai tik per pa\u017e\u012fstamus...<\/p><p>...Kol kiti verkia \u2013 galima tuo naudotis, nes kuo daugiau pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173, tuo daugiau galimybi\u0173 atsiveria skirtingose srityse ir tu gali rinktis, kuri\u0105 toliau pl\u0117toti.<\/p><p>Patys \u017emon\u0117s taip pat labai skirtingi, tod\u0117l \u012fgauni nauj\u0173 patir\u010di\u0173, nauj\u0173 \u017eini\u0173 i\u0161 skirting\u0173 sri\u010di\u0173 ekspert\u0173. I\u0161moksti laviruoti temomis, kad pa\u0161nekovui b\u016bt\u0173 \u012fdomu, pradedi atpa\u017einti pasikartojan\u010dius asmenybi\u0173 bruo\u017eus.<\/p><p>Kai pri\u0117j\u0119s nepa\u017e\u012fstamas tave u\u017ekalbina, kiekvienas reaguoja skirtingai, bet kai kurie dalykai kartojasi. Atpa\u017e\u012fsti tuos dalykus ir naudojiesi, kad atsirast\u0173 abipusis pasitik\u0117jimas ir b\u016bt\u0173 malonu bendrauti.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Ar buvo sunku?<\/h3><p>Kai prad\u0117jau vykdyti i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f, \u017einoma, buvo sunkoka. Be prie\u017easties prieiti prie \u017emogaus atrod\u0117 baisu, keista, ne\u017einojau, kaip jis gali sureaguoti. Ir \u0161iaip, jau\u010diau diskomfort\u0105. Tod\u0117l pas\u0105mon\u0117 prad\u0117jo ie\u0161koti pasiteisinim\u0173, kod\u0117l to nedaryti, tad jau antr\u0105 savait\u0119 neradau 3 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173.<\/p><p>Galvojau, galb\u016bt nutraukti i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f, bet tuomet su\u0117miau save \u012f rankas ir pasakiau, kad pabaigsiu iki galo.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv-content-block tcb-local-vars-root thrv_wrapper\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f80388d\" tcb-template-name=\"Quote 01\" tcb-template-id=\"41598\" tcb-template-pack=\"137\" data-keep-css_id=\"1\"><div class=\"thrive-group-edit-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_group_edit__{\"jusikoti\":{\"name\":\"Quote\",\"singular\":\"-- Text %s\"},\"jusikwfb\":{\"name\":\"Quotation Marks\",\"singular\":\"-- Image %s\"},\"jusil3f2\":{\"name\":\"Quote Box\",\"singular\":\"-- Content Box %s\"},\"jusilagm\":{\"name\":\"Quote Block\",\"singular\":\"-- Content Box %s\"}}__CONFIG_group_edit__<\/div><div class=\"thrive-local-colors-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_local_colors__{\"colors\":{\"5815c\":\"Border\",\"ab96e\":\"Accent Colour\"},\"gradients\":{}}__CONFIG_local_colors__<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box dynamic-group-jusilagm\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f80388f\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f803890\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f803891\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box dynamic-group-jusil3f2\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f803892\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f803893\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element dynamic-group-jusikoti\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f803894\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-1701f803895\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Prad\u0117jau kalb\u0117ti, prad\u0117jau eiti ir pama\u010diau, jog <strong>dauguma \u017emoni\u0173 yra geri<\/strong>\n<strong>ir mielai pradeda bendrauti. <\/strong>\u012esidr\u0105sinau, pajutau malonum\u0105 ir prad\u0117jau megzti pa\u017eintis kur tik galiu.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption dynamic-group-jusikwfb\" data-css=\"tve-u-1701f803896\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\" style=\"width: 100%;\"><img class=\"tve_image wp-image-41605\" alt=\"\" title=\"Quotation_marks_image_03\" data-id=\"41605\" src=\"\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/tcb_content_templates\/contentblock\/images\/Quotation_marks_image_03.png\" style=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"137\"><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element tve-froala fr-box fr-basic\"><p>Teko susipa\u017einti su labai \u012fvairiais \u017emon\u0117mis: pradedant verslininkais kavin\u0117se ir seminaruose, baigiant pedofilu autobuse, kuris v\u0117liau per\u00adsekiojo mane virtualioje erdv\u0117je kelis m\u0117nesius.<\/p><p>Ir taip po 3 su trupu\u010diu m\u0117nesio buvau susipa\u017ein\u0119s su 134 \u017emon\u0117mis.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Kas labiausiai trukd\u0117?<\/h3><p>Labiausiai tikslo siekti trukd\u0117 smegenys. Kuo daugiau galvodavau, ar prieiti, tuo baisiau darydavosi. V\u0117liau supratau, kad reikia veikti <strong>ne galvojant, o improvizuojant,<\/strong> ir kli\u016btis i\u0161 dalies pasitrauk\u0117 \u012f \u0161on\u0105.<\/p><p>Po pirmosios i\u0161\u0161\u016bkio savait\u0117s u\u017era\u0161uose pasi\u017eym\u0117jau, kod\u0117l \u0117miausi \u0161io i\u0161\u0161\u016bkio. Kai pasidarydavo sunku ir jau nor\u0117davau j\u012f mesti \u2013 atsivers\u00adda\u00advau u\u017era\u0161us, perskaitydavau, kod\u0117l turiu j\u012f u\u017ebaigti, ir t\u0119sdavau toliau. Taip darau su dauguma i\u0161\u0161\u016bki\u0173 \u2013 labai padeda.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span> K\u0105 naujo i\u0161mokai?<\/h3><p>I\u0161\u0161\u016bkio metu supratau, jog visi \u017emon\u0117s yra nusiteik\u0119 draugi\u0161kai. Niekas tau nelinki blogo, juk ir patiems malonu, kai prieina besi\u0161ypsantis \u017emogus ir u\u017ekalbina.<\/p><p>Taip pat \u012fsitikinau, jog pa\u017eintys yra labai svarbios: galime daug i\u0161mokti, atsiveria daugiau galimybi\u0173. Ir \u0161iaip smagu einant miestu susitikti ir pasikalb\u0117ti.<\/p><p>Kartais vis dar norisi neprieiti prie \u017emogaus, pas\u0117d\u0117ti savo komforto zonoje, bet jau prad\u0117jus, \u00addaug lengviau ir prieiti, ir u\u017ekalbinti. Pats geriau jautiesi, kai supranti, kad u\u017emezgei dar vien\u0105 nuostabi\u0105 pa\u017eint\u012f, kuri gali pakeisti tavo gyvenim\u0105.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> Ar turi patarim\u0173 \u017emon\u0117ms, kurie nor\u0117t\u0173 aplenkti tave?<\/h3><p><strong>Jei kas nors sugalvos kartoti i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f, patariu kelti kartel\u0119 auk\u0161tyn:<\/strong> ne trys \u017emon\u0117s per savait\u0119, <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/simtas-pazinciu-vienas-menesis\/\">o kiekvien\u0105 dien\u0105 po nauj\u0105 pa\u017eint\u012f<\/a>.<\/p><p>Taip pat, \u0161tai vienas praktinis patarimas: pri\u0117jus prie \u017emogaus, geriausia pokalb\u012f prad\u0117ti komplimentu, pavyzd\u017eiui, vyrui pasakyti \u201eD\u0117vite nuostab\u0173 \u0161vark\u0105! Kur gal\u0117\u010diau tok\u012f \u012fsigyti?\u201c.<\/p><p>Taip \u017emogus i\u0161kart bus geriau nusiteik\u0119s j\u016bs\u0173 at\u017evilgiu. Tiesa, tik svarbu b\u016bti nuo\u0161ird\u017eiam.<\/p><h2 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc4b<\/span><\/span> A\u010di\u016b, Antanai!<\/h2><p>Matai, o a\u0161 taip ir maniau, kad Lietuvoje irgi nesunku susipa\u017einti su \u017emon\u0117mis tiesiog gatv\u0117je! Jei \u0161i\u0173 pa\u017ein\u010di\u0173 trok\u0161ti!<\/p><p><strong>\u0160\u012f i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f v\u0117liau pakartojau ir a\u0161:<\/strong>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/simtas-pazinciu-vienas-menesis\/\" class=\"tve-froala fr-basic\" style=\"outline: none;\">\u010cekijoje band\u017eiau susipa\u017einti su 100 nauj\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 per vien\u0105 m\u0117nes\u012f<\/a>. Tikiu, kad pana\u0161\u0173 i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f gali i\u0161sikelti ir tu! K\u0105 jei bent vienam nepa\u017e\u012fstamam \u017emogui per savait\u0119 pasakyti kompliment\u0105?<\/p><p>(<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/kaip-ismokti-bendrauti\/\" class=\"tve-froala fr-basic\" style=\"outline: none;\">Nes kaip gi kitaip i\u0161moksi bendrauti? 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