Un v\u0113l bie\u017e\u0101k m\u0113s klaus\u0101mies, ko citi mums saka.<\/p>\n
\u2026 Bet \u0161eit ir probl\u0113ma: <\/strong>m\u0113s to dar\u0101m p\u0101r\u0101k bie\u017ei.<\/p>\n P\u0101r\u0101k bie\u017ei nododam savas dz\u012bves gro\u017eus cit\u0101s rok\u0101s un \u013caujamies citu noteiktajiem noteikumiem, nepat\u012bkam\u0101m robe\u017e\u0101m un, kas zina, v\u0113l k\u0101diem \u0161\u0137\u0113r\u0161\u013ciem.<\/p>\n Galu gal\u0101 visa m\u016bsu dz\u012bve p\u0101rv\u0113r\u0161as par vienu lielu "Saki man, ko dar\u012bt" fiestu.<\/p>\n Vai \u0161\u012bs bikses man der? Un ko teiks apk\u0101rt\u0113jie, ja es pamet\u012b\u0161u darbu bank\u0101, lai str\u0101d\u0101tu b\u0113rnud\u0101rz\u0101? Ko dar\u012bt, ja k\u0101dam nepat\u012bk mana matu kr\u0101sa? Un k\u0101 mani kol\u0113\u0123i rea\u0123\u0113s, ja es kop\u0101 ar vi\u0146iem atmet\u012b\u0161u sm\u0113\u0137\u0113\u0161anu?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Un tas ir nepat\u012bkami. Tas ir nogurdino\u0161i. Tas padara m\u016bs par viedok\u013cu vergiem. Jau tikai \u0161\u012bs rindkopas rakst\u012b\u0161ana man sag\u0101d\u0101 galvass\u0101pes. 1<\/a><\/p>\n Tas ir j\u0101p\u0101rtrauc. <\/strong>Mums j\u0101iem\u0101c\u0101s nost\u0101ties uz k\u0101j\u0101m, nokrat\u012bt putek\u013cus un pateikt pasaulei "N\u0113, ne vair\u0101k." Un t\u0101d\u0113j\u0101di atrodiet dz\u012bv\u0113 to laimi, ko m\u0113s vienm\u0113r esam mekl\u0113ju\u0161i.<\/p>\n Pasveicini Gr\u0113tu!<\/p>\n Bet at\u013caujiet, vispirms es do\u0161u v\u0101rdu m\u0101ko\u0146meitenei Blakus Misevi\u010di\u016btei<\/strong>, kura par \u0161\u012b raksta t\u0113mu past\u0101st\u012bs no savas puses ar gr\u0101matu "F**k it". P\u0101rskats par ide\u0101lo gar\u012bgo ce\u013cu.Br\u012bdin\u0101jums: <\/strong>Neuztraucieties, \u0161\u012b ir tikai raksta pirm\u0101 da\u013ca. Es atgriez\u012b\u0161os otraj\u0101 puslaik\u0101. Nododu mikrofonu Gr\u0113tai.<\/p>\n \u013baujiet man uzmin\u0113t. Tu gribi:<\/p>\n Protams, ka v\u0113laties.<\/p>\n Un k\u0101 es to zinu?<\/p>\n Nu es pats mekl\u0113ju, k\u0101 to pan\u0101kt. Tad es atradu D\u017eona K. P\u0101rkina revolucion\u0101ro gr\u0101matu \u201cF**k it\u201d. Ide\u0101ls gar\u012bgais ce\u013c\u0161." 2<\/a> Un es sapratu, ka domas, kas groz\u0101s man\u012b, tiek barotas ar\u012b citos.<\/p>\n Es ar\u012b to visu gribu. Un, kad es to nesa\u0146emu, es j\u016btos slinks, d\u012bkdienis, egoists, kur\u0161 neko nedara.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tom\u0113r \u0161\u012b gr\u0101mata krasi main\u012bja manu skat\u012bjumu. Gr\u0101matu lasot, ne reizi vien p\u0101r\u0146\u0113ma drebu\u013ci un saj\u016bsma. T\u0101ds uztraukums, kas rodas paties\u012bbas br\u012b\u017eos vai tad, kad no kaut k\u0101 baid\u0101ties, bet zinot, ka n\u0101kotn\u0113 viss uzlabosies. Lasot es jutu, ka mainos uz labo pusi.<\/p>\n Tikai vienai jaunai domai.<\/p>\n "Teikt "iet s\u016bd\u0101" ir \u013coti gar\u012bgi." - M\u0101c\u012bt\u0101js M. Tansendas, gr\u0101matas "\u0136ecera dienasgr\u0101mata" autors.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Kad tu saki \u201cgo f*ck\u201d, tu noliec savu \u201cneed\u201d, \u201cwat\u201d un \u201cmust\u201d viet\u0101 un atg\u0101dini sev, ka \u201cT\u0101 ir tikai dz\u012bve\u201d (vienas dziesmas v\u0101rdiem).<\/strong> Un tu saproti, ka vispirms es gribu, un tikai tad daru.<\/p>\n P\u0113c tam m\u0101c\u012bt\u0101js Marks Tansends piebilda: \u201cNu, sasod\u012bts, pietiek ar man\u0101m run\u0101m. Iej\u016btieties \u0113rti un sagatavojieties, lai nekad vairs neb\u016btu k\u0101 agr\u0101k."<\/p>\n Vai j\u016bs bie\u017ei dom\u0101jat, k\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs ap\u0113d\u0101t divus \u0161okol\u0101des k\u016bkas gabalus (ar sald\u0113jumu!), ja nevarat \u0113st saldumus nemaz?<\/p>\n P\u0113c tam saki "sasod\u012bts tie ierobe\u017eojumi". Un \u0113d, cik vien vari. \u0112d pietiekami daudz, p\u0101r\u0113dies un paskaties, kas notiks. 3<\/a><\/p>\n Un tas notiks \u0161\u0101di: <\/strong>Galu gal\u0101 visi saldumi j\u016bs aizr\u012bs un j\u016bs dabiski p\u0101riesiet uz putr\u0101m, zup\u0101m, aug\u013ciem, sal\u0101tiem, d\u0101rze\u0146u saut\u0113jumiem un biezpienu. Vai ko vien v\u0113lies, bet noteikti ne \u0161okol\u0101des k\u016bkas ar sald\u0113jumu, kas saslims un izsalkums nemazin\u0101sies.<\/p>\n Citiem v\u0101rdiem sakot, p\u0101rm\u0113r\u012bba par\u0101d\u012bs, ka p\u0101rm\u0113r\u012bba ir slikta.<\/strong><\/p>\n Galu gal\u0101, m\u0113\u0123inot ierobe\u017eot, atteikties, samazin\u0101t gardumu porcijas, visam tiks pie\u0161\u0137irta tikai liel\u0101ka noz\u012bme. Un j\u016bs tikai mudin\u0101siet sevi v\u0113l vair\u0101k dom\u0101t par p\u0101rtiku un kalorij\u0101m. Lai gan \u0161\u0137iet, ka grib\u0113tos padom\u0101t par ap\u0123\u0113rbu maz\u0101k\u0101 izm\u0113r\u0101!<\/p>\n Tr\u016bkums un tr\u016bkums tikai padzi\u013cin\u0101s probl\u0113mu un pie\u0161\u0137irs j\u016bsu k\u0101rdin\u0101jumiem noziegumam liel\u0101ku noz\u012bmi, v\u0113rt\u012bbu un baudu. Nekas labs.<\/p>\n Sakiet "b\u0101c" (vai "sasod\u012bts", "es to izsp\u013cauju" vai jebko citu, kas jums ir pie\u0146emams), lai sevi ierobe\u017eotu, ierobe\u017eotu un sevi izsmeltu. Jo ir viena paties\u012bba:<\/p>\n "J\u016bs sa\u0146emat to, ko v\u0113laties, tikai tad, kad zaud\u0113jat v\u0113lmi to ieg\u016bt."<\/strong><\/p>\n Dz\u012bvojot vienk\u0101r\u0161i, neko nevairojot un ner\u016bp\u0113joties, pat nepaman\u012bsi, k\u0101 liekais svars kaut kur pazud\u012bs. Un tav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 par\u0101d\u012bsies jauna darb\u012bba:<\/p>\n \u013baujiet man sniegt jums v\u0113l da\u017eus piem\u0113rus.<\/p>\n Nu nekustieties. Sakiet: "Pie velna ar vis\u0101m t\u0101m mu\u013c\u0137\u012bb\u0101m, es neko nedar\u012b\u0161u." Un nedari to.<\/p>\n Samaks\u0101 kaimi\u0146a mazulim, lai vi\u0146\u0161 pastaig\u0101jas ar tavu suni. Tikm\u0113r guliet uz d\u012bv\u0101na un skatieties filmu, lasiet gr\u0101matu vai nedariet nevienu no tiem. Pagaidiet, kam\u0113r atn\u0101ks iek\u0161\u0113jais gr\u016bdiens.<\/p>\n Un j\u016bs pat nepaman\u012bsiet, k\u0101 j\u016bs s\u0101kat kaut ko dar\u012bt. <\/strong>Varb\u016bt pat dosies pastaig\u0101ties pa m\u0101ju vai pastaig\u0101ties pa parku, jo staig\u0101t ir lab\u0101k nek\u0101 gul\u0113t garlaikot\u0101 d\u012bv\u0101n\u0101.<\/p>\n Vakar tik \u013coti atliku p\u0101rvieto\u0161anos l\u012bdz 22:00... Un tad teicu "N\u0113, es vairs nevaru!", piec\u0113los, pametu datoru un s\u0101ku vingrot p\u0113c pa\u0161a v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s. Un ar t\u0101du ener\u0123iju un degsmi, ka s\u0101kum\u0101 bija gr\u016bti notic\u0113t!Un r\u012bt, kas pats interesant\u0101kais, t\u0101 apbr\u012bnojami lab\u0101 ener\u0123ija, kas iesprostota iek\u0161\u0101, mudin\u0101ja atk\u0101rtot \u0137erme\u0146a programmu. Es vienk\u0101r\u0161i nevar\u0113ju mier\u012bgi nos\u0113d\u0113t un atst\u0101t savus kaulus mier\u0101!<\/p>\n Cita starp\u0101, run\u0101jot par vingrojumu programm\u0101m, es \u013coti iesaku Cassey. 4<\/a> Man tas \u013coti pat\u012bk, un dom\u0101ju, ka ar\u012b j\u016bs, pui\u0161i, b\u016bs ieinteres\u0113ti to izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101t. Skatiet, cik iztur\u012bgs j\u016bs esat un vai varat p\u0101rsp\u0113t Keisiju.<\/p>\n Sakiet "sasod\u012bts", piezvaniet slimam, nop\u0113rciet v\u012bnu (vai gardu sald\u0113jumu), palieciet \u0101rpus gultas un izliecieties, ka raud\u0101t. P\u0101rbaudiet savus ierobe\u017eojumus, cik ilgi j\u016bs varat palikt \u0101rpus tiem.<\/p>\n Jo iesp\u0113jams, ka "slim\u0101s" ned\u0113\u013cas laik\u0101:<\/p>\n Gr\u0101matas par darbu un t\u0101 atst\u0101\u0161anu autore atz\u012bm\u0113, ka par \u0161o milz\u012bgo dz\u012bves aktivit\u0101ti visizplat\u012bt\u0101k\u0101 atbilde ir \u201cNu, es v\u0113l neesmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ko v\u0113los dar\u012bt...\u201d.<\/p>\n Ta\u010du \u0161\u0101da atbilde tie\u0161\u0101m noz\u012bm\u0113 iek\u0161\u0113ju saj\u016btu, ka "es sevi labi nepaz\u012bstu, bet j\u016btu, ka kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101."<\/strong><\/p>\n J\u016bsu v\u0113lmju izsij\u0101\u0161ana var b\u016bt sare\u017e\u0123\u012bta, ta\u010du, kad j\u016bs sak\u0101t "elle", p\u0101rpratumi, steiga, spriedze, aklas v\u0113lmes un visp\u0101r\u0113ja panika p\u0101rst\u0101j past\u0101v\u0113t. Un taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 laik\u0101 trauc\u0113jumi apst\u0101jas.<\/p>\n "Saki "b\u0101c" un atrodiet drosmi sevi notvert." - Gr\u0101matas autors<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Gr\u0101matas autore piebilst: "Es dom\u0101ju, ka j\u016bsu gr\u016bt\u0101 situ\u0101cija neat\u0161\u0137iras no t\u0101m, ar kur\u0101m mums visiem j\u0101saskaras: m\u016bsos darbojas un sacen\u0161as daudzi sp\u0113ki, kuriem m\u0113s da\u017ereiz nesp\u0113jam pretoties."<\/p>\n Un turpina domu:<\/p>\n \u00abTom\u0113r m\u016bsu sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 viss uzsteidzas, vairs nav laika dom\u0101t \u2013 vajag dar\u012bt. T\u0101p\u0113c jums ir j\u0101iem\u0101c\u0101s da\u017ereiz pateikt "elle" un saprast, ko j\u016bs patie\u0161\u0101m v\u0113laties."<\/p>\n \u0160\u012b lama jau ir atradusi savu \u012bsto aicin\u0101jumu \u2013 b\u016bt par modeli.<\/p>\n Jo dz\u012bve uz\u0146emas pilnu atbild\u012bbu par mums. Galu gal\u0101 tas nav atkar\u012bgs no mums, kur, kad un kur\u0101 laik\u0101 piedzimstam, k\u0101di b\u016bs r\u012bt laikapst\u0101k\u013ci, ko \u0161odien negaid\u012bti satiksim un k\u0101 tas main\u012bs m\u016bsu turpm\u0101ko dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n M\u0113s varam sap\u0146ot par vienu lietu, bet tas viss var izr\u0101d\u012bties kaut kas cits.<\/p>\n Piem\u0113ram, kaimi\u0146a b\u0113rns pied\u0101v\u0101s pastaig\u0101ties ar kuc\u0113nu j\u016bsu viet\u0101, un \u0123imenes locek\u013ci piln\u012bb\u0101 aizmirs\u012bs j\u016bsu dzim\u0161anas dienu. Un ar ko tu taj\u0101 nodarbojies? Ce\u013cot atpaka\u013c laika ma\u0161\u012bn\u0101 un main\u012bt pag\u0101tni? Vai ar\u012b tu uztrauksies un pakav\u0113sies pie t\u0101, ko nevar main\u012bt? 6<\/a><\/p>\n N\u0113. Lab\u0101k saki "b\u0101c", "pietiek" vai "s\u016bdi". Un pie\u0146emt dz\u012bvi t\u0101du, k\u0101da t\u0101 ir.<\/strong> Atkl\u0101jot dz\u012bvi, kas mums ir, bet kuru m\u0113s neredzam.<\/p>\n "Atlaidiet dz\u012bves ratu un paskatieties, kas notiks. Un, lai padar\u012btu dz\u012bvi v\u0113l interesant\u0101ku, nolaidiet \u0101truma ierobe\u017eojumu l\u012bdz galam." - Gr\u0101matas autors<\/p><\/blockquote>\n J\u016bs varat raud\u0101t un ien\u012bst sevi par daudz\u0101m liet\u0101m, past\u0101v\u012bgi ties\u0101t sevi, dusmoties nepareizas darb\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c...<\/p>\n Arbaaaa - tu vari teikt "fuck you" uz sav\u0101m bail\u0113m, sevis nomelno\u0161anu, nezin\u0101\u0161anu, slinkumu un motiv\u0101cijas tr\u016bkumu. Tad tu jut\u012bsies atvieglots un var\u0113si turpin\u0101t mier\u012bgi dz\u012bvot savu nepiln\u012bgi perfekto dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n T\u0101 ir tava izv\u0113le.<\/p>\n Ar laba v\u0113l\u0113jumiem,Blakus<\/strong><\/p>\n Daniels: <\/strong>Paldies, Gr\u0113ta! Es p\u0101r\u0146em\u0161u no \u0161ejienes. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n (J\u0101, es zinu, ka fr\u0101ze ar "b" izklaus\u0101s lab\u0101k nek\u0101 Gr\u0113tas "go sh*kt". Bet es ieliku b*b - t\u0101 es run\u0101ju. Un ja jums nepat\u012bk \u0161\u012b fr\u0101ze - j\u016bs dr\u012bz saprat\u012bsi, k\u0101p\u0113c tas ir v\u0113l lab\u0101k).<\/p>\n Jaunumi: <\/strong>Pasaule ir ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bga.<\/p>\n Tiec tam p\u0101ri. Un iem\u0101c\u012bties sadz\u012bvot ar pasauli.<\/p>\n Dz\u012bv\u0113 ir da\u017e\u0101das probl\u0113mas: aizbraucot uz j\u016brmalu uz ned\u0113\u013cas nogali s\u0101k l\u012bt lietus, pie ezera saproti, ka sapl\u012bsusi piep\u016b\u0161am\u0101 laiva, un, kad s\u0113di m\u0101j\u0101s - ka esi palaidis gar\u0101m k\u0101du jautru notikumu pils\u0113t\u0101. .<\/p>\n T\u0101tad ko tu dari?<\/p>\n Vai j\u016bs c\u012bn\u0101ties? Vai j\u016bs p\u0101rmetat Naglim \u0160ulijai, ka vi\u0146\u0161 nav zi\u0146ojis, ka l\u012bs, lai gan tas ir divreiz kod\u0113ts vi\u0146a v\u0101rd\u0101? Vainot citus par steigu, jo j\u016bs pa\u0146\u0113m\u0101t laivu, nevis l\u012bmlenti? Visp\u0101r tu vienm\u0113r vaino vidi, un pats kak\u0101 un p\u013cauk\u0101? 7<\/a><\/p>\n Nu nevajag. Tas nav vesel\u012bgi.<\/p>\n Tas nav sasod\u012bti vesel\u012bgi.<\/p>\n Vesel\u012bg\u0101k ir iem\u0101c\u012bties reiz\u0113m pateikt "es izdr\u0101zju" vai ko citu, kas tev ir pie\u0146emams... Un piedodot videi t\u0101s vainas, pie\u0146em to t\u0101du, k\u0101da t\u0101 ir.<\/p>\n "T\u0101pat k\u0101 m\u0113s piedodam tiem, kas pret mums p\u0101rk\u0101pu\u0161i." - L\u016bg\u0161ana "M\u016bsu T\u0113vs", 8. pants.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Bet \u013caujiet man sniegt jums v\u0113l da\u017eus piem\u0113rus, kurus Gr\u0113ta nemin\u0113ja, kur vienk\u0101r\u0161s "b*b" var main\u012bt j\u016bsu dz\u012bvi uz labo pusi. Un simtiem rei\u017eu laim\u012bg\u0101ki.<\/p>\n \u0160eit \u0161\u012b filozofija attiecas uz attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Un es zinu, ka tev r\u016bp; vair\u0101k vai maz\u0101k piekt\u0101 da\u013ca Debes\u012b iedz\u012bvot\u0101ju, kuri atbild uz jaut\u0101jumu, kas ir liel\u0101k\u0101 vi\u0146us nom\u0101co\u0161\u0101 probl\u0113ma, min attiec\u012bbas ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n T\u0101tad, iedom\u0101jieties, ka esat sastr\u012bd\u0113jies ar k\u0101du rupju, nepat\u012bkamu un nedraudz\u012bgu cilv\u0113ku. Varb\u016bt pat radinieks vai (\u0161\u0137iet) m\u012b\u013cotais cilv\u0113ks.<\/p>\n J\u0101, j\u016bs varat str\u012bd\u0113ties un pier\u0101d\u012bt savas paties\u012bbas. Var m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t, izraut matus no galvas, pier\u0101d\u012bt, ka tev ir taisn\u012bba, un tav\u0101 priek\u0161\u0101 eso\u0161ais "gr\u0113cinieks" k\u013c\u016bd\u0101s...<\/p>\n \u2026Vai ar\u012b j\u016bs varat to teikt \u0161\u0101di, hmm\u2026 Jauns cilv\u0113ks.<\/p>\n Un piedod. Dodiet mu\u013c\u0137im ce\u013cu.<\/strong><\/p>\n J\u016bs varat b\u016bt dusm\u012bgs. Vai ar\u012b j\u016bs varat piedot. Nosp\u013cauties uz citu cilv\u0113ku str\u012bdiem, dusm\u0101m un varb\u016bt pat m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t saprast vi\u0146u viedokli un iem\u0101c\u012bties dz\u012bvot mier\u012bg\u0101k<\/a>. Beig\u0101s j\u016bs pat var\u0113tu saprast, ka str\u012bdu izrais\u012bj\u0101t j\u016bs.<\/p>\n Vari dusmoties, ka tava draudzene (vai draugs) tevi pameta, nozaga vai pat pirms tam aizsl\u0113dza ragus ar k\u0101du seks\u012bgu ebreju no Telavivas... Vai ar\u012b tu vari pateikt "b\u0101c, tas ir par daudz" un beidzot b\u016bt laim\u012bgam. ka tu net\u0113r\u0113ji to visu m\u016b\u017eu ar nepareizo cilv\u0113ku.<\/p>\n Visticam\u0101k, ka vi\u0146a atvainosies p\u0113c 2 gadiem, un tu b\u016bsi visu piedevusi!Starp citu, man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 notika p\u0113d\u0113jais st\u0101sts. Es sapratu, ka kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101, kad vi\u0146a p\u0113c ilgas klus\u0113\u0161anas teica: "Daniel, man tev ir kaut kas j\u0101atz\u012bstas."<\/p>\n T\u0101d\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 veid\u0101 ir iesp\u0113jams uzklaus\u012bt citu, varb\u016bt pat piln\u012bgi nezino\u0161u cilv\u0113ku ieteikumus un dz\u012bvot vi\u0146u ieteikto dz\u012bvi. Klaus\u012bties vecvec\u0101kus, vec\u0101kus, negl\u012bto vecm\u0101mi\u0146as kaimi\u0146u, skolot\u0101jus skol\u0101 vai gar\u0101mg\u0101j\u0113jus uz ielas.<\/p>\n Galu gal\u0101 \u0161eit, Lietuv\u0101, da\u017eiem aktieriem pat\u012bk nolikt citus un izteikt savas pesimistiskas prognozes...<\/p>\n \u2026Vai ar\u012b j\u016bs varat teikt: "Es pabr\u012bn\u012bjos par j\u016bsu viedokli" un joproj\u0101m dariet to, ko v\u0113laties. Nosp\u013cauties uz depres\u012bviem koment\u0101riem un pier\u0101d\u012bt, ka to, ko gribi, var izdar\u012bt.<\/strong><\/p>\n Jo pasaule neatcer\u0113sies cilv\u0113kus, kuri baid\u0101s no saviem sap\u0146iem.<\/p>\n Tomam bija iesp\u0113ja lidot ar sarkaniem baloniem, vai j\u016bs izmantotu \u0161o iesp\u0113ju?<\/p>\n Es nekad neesmu sapratis, k\u0101p\u0113c da\u017ei cilv\u0113ki cen\u0161as dar\u012bt lietas, kuras vi\u0146iem nepat\u012bk. 8<\/a> Un, ja tu to nedari, tu k\u013c\u016bsti nervozs.<\/p>\n J\u016bs zin\u0101t cilv\u0113kus un darbus, par kuriem es run\u0101ju. \u0160ie ir:<\/p>\n Atbildi god\u012bgi - k\u0101da velna p\u0113c T\u0100DU darbu cen\u0161as izdar\u012bt perfekti?<\/p>\n Vai tas ir t\u0101p\u0113c, lai apmierin\u0101tu da\u017eus v\u0113rt\u0113t\u0101jus, kuri dz\u012bves beig\u0101s (un varb\u016bt ar\u012b Ziemassv\u0113tkos) visus z\u0113nus un meitenes sadala "lab\u0101 darb\u0101" un "sliktaj\u0101 darb\u0101"?<\/p>\n \u2026L\u016bdzu, ap\u017e\u0113lojies par sevi un nedari t\u0101.<\/p>\n Jo, ticiet man, ja es b\u016btu m\u0113\u0123in\u0101jis perfekti izpl\u0101not un izskait\u013cot savus kursa projektus (vai savu bakalaura darbu), es gal\u012bgi neb\u016btu pabeidzis savu \u010detru gadu epopeju.<\/p>\n Cik rei\u017eu savos \u010detros gados, j\u016bsupr\u0101t, esmu teicis "b\u0101c"? Padoms: gandr\u012bz katr\u0101 darb\u0101. Un diplomu sa\u0146\u0113mu ar 9. klasi. 11<\/a><\/p>\n "20 procenti Tiek rad\u012bti 80 procenti darba. v\u0113rt\u012bbas.\u201d \u2013 Pareto princips<\/p><\/blockquote>\n T\u0101 viet\u0101, lai m\u0113\u0123in\u0101tu paveikt darbu perfekti (vai v\u0113l \u013caun\u0101k, tev b\u016btu bail k\u013c\u016bd\u012bties un pat nes\u0101kt<\/a>), lab\u0101k paklausies Pareto princips<\/a>. Un bie\u017e\u0101k at\u013caujiet sev teikt "ak s\u016bdi, tas notiks".<\/p>\n Jo t\u0113r\u0113t ener\u0123iju nev\u0113rt\u012bgiem darbiem ir mu\u013c\u0137\u012bba un ir pien\u0101cis laiks beigt dom\u0101t, ka tikai perfekti darbi sasniedz m\u0113r\u0137i.<\/strong><\/p>\n (Ja Apple t\u0101lru\u0146i, BMW automa\u0161\u012bnas vai Snowflake ledusskapji b\u016btu ide\u0101li, vai m\u0113s joproj\u0101m sa\u0146emtu atjaunin\u0101jumus un labojumus? Lai gan tiem ir tr\u016bkumi, tie joproj\u0101m ir vieni no lab\u0101kajiem pasaul\u0113.)<\/p>\n \u0160im ka\u0137im ir viss. Vi\u0146\u0161 ir k\u0101 D\u017eeimss Bonds, bet maig\u0101ks un prot murr\u0101t.]<\/p>\n \u012asa atbilde: t\u0101 nav. Jo tu izlas\u012bji raksta nosaukumu? Es taj\u0101 pieminu "bie\u017e\u0101k", nevis "vienm\u0113r".<\/p>\n Un tas padara visu at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bbu. Sal\u012bdzin\u0101t:<\/p>\n A) Dz\u012bve, kur\u0101 tev nekas ner\u016bp.<\/strong><\/p>\n Kur tu guli gult\u0101 piedz\u0113ries un grim\u0113jies un neko no dz\u012bves nev\u0113lies, iz\u0146emot laiku pa laikam paglaud\u012bt savus b\u0113rnus, iedzert "\u012bstu v\u012brie\u0161u alu", salabot sievu\/v\u012bru, izr\u0101d\u012bt m\u012blest\u012bbu pret Putinu Delfos un balsot par darba partija, jo dab\u016bsi 10 eiro.<\/p>\n \u2026Vai\u2026<\/p>\n B) Dz\u012bve, kur\u0101 tev r\u016bp viss, iz\u0146emot to, kas nav svar\u012bgs.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0160\u012b ir dz\u012bve, kur\u0101 j\u016bs varat piev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu r\u016bgu\u0161pienam ledusskap\u012b un idiotam no pirm\u0101 varianta... Bet j\u016bs izv\u0113laties to nedar\u012bt. Un svar\u012bgas lietas - m\u012blest\u012bba, cie\u0146a, j\u016bsu \u0123imene - joproj\u0101m ir vissvar\u012bg\u0101k\u0101 dz\u012bves sast\u0101vda\u013ca.<\/p>\n T\u0101 ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba starp piln\u012bgu vienaldz\u012bbu, kas ir briesm\u012bga, un dz\u012bvo\u0161anu vienam ar otru "t\u0101 uz elli", kas \u013cauj jums izv\u0113l\u0113ties vissvar\u012bg\u0101k\u0101s dz\u012bves da\u013cas no piln\u012bgi, absol\u016bti nesvar\u012bg\u0101m.<\/p>\n N\u0113, t\u0101 nevajadz\u0113tu. Bet jums tas dabiski vajadz\u0113tu justies.<\/p>\n Jo katram no mums ir principi, kas mums ir svar\u012bgi... Un principi, kas ir svar\u012bgi tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka tie ir svar\u012bgi apk\u0101rt\u0113jiem. Vai ar\u012b tas nevienam visp\u0101r nav svar\u012bgi, bet neviens neuzdro\u0161in\u0101j\u0101s to p\u0101rbaud\u012bt.<\/p>\n Neb\u016btu viet\u0101 visu s\u016bt\u012bt pa v\u0113ju, jo ja visu s\u016bt\u012bsi - kas tad b\u016bs rok\u0101s? Vienaldz\u012bba?<\/p>\n Principa "Nu, tas iet s\u016bd\u0101" b\u016bt\u012bba ir nek\u013c\u016bt vienaldz\u012bgam. <\/strong>T\u0101s b\u016bt\u012bba ir noteikt robe\u017eas liet\u0101m, kas jums ir piln\u012bgi nesvar\u012bgas. Papla\u0161iniet savas robe\u017eas un k\u013c\u016bstiet br\u012bv\u0101ks, laim\u012bg\u0101ks un vienk\u0101r\u0161\u0101ks.<\/p>\n Un j\u016bs patie\u0161\u0101m nev\u0113laties k\u013c\u016bt par ap\u0101tisku hronisku vai narkom\u0101nu.<\/p>\n Un j\u0113ga paliek baud\u012bt savu dz\u012bvi. Tava dzive.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/greta-miseviciute.jpg\" "\\"blakus")
<\/figure>\nK\u0101 k\u013c\u016bt laim\u012bgam, sakot "s\u016bdi"?<\/h2>\n
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\u012ass piem\u0113rs:<\/em> K\u0101 tas darbojas?<\/h3>\n
T\u0101tad, ko dar\u012bt?<\/h2>\n
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A) P\u0101r\u0101k slinks, lai kust\u0113tos un nodarbotos ar sportu?<\/h3>\n
B) Nev\u0113lies iet uz darbu?<\/h3>\n
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![\"\"](\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kvieskite-policija.jpg\" "\\"zvani")
<\/figure>\nNav v\u0113rts m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t dz\u012bvi p\u0101rv\u0113rst veiksmes st\u0101st\u0101.<\/h3>\n
T\u0101p\u0113c mums vajadz\u0113tu iem\u0101c\u012bties pateikt pasaulei "Piedod" un piedot tai nepatik\u0161anas.<\/h2>\n
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C) attiec\u012bb\u0101s ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem.<\/h3>\n
D) Sava dz\u012bves ce\u013ca un aicin\u0101juma izv\u0113le.<\/h3>\n
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/gyvenk-taip-kaip-nori-gyventi-spjauk-ant-kitu-nuomones.jpg\" "\\"dz\u012bvo-k\u0101-gribi-dz\u012bvot-uzsp\u013caut-par-citu")
<\/figure>\nE) naid\u012bgu (vai nesvar\u012bgu) darbu veik\u0161ana.<\/h3>\n
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![\"\"](\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/velniop-tai-neturiu-tam-laiko.jpg\" "\\"sasod\u012bts,")
<\/figure>\nDa\u017ei bie\u017ei uzdotie jaut\u0101jumi un god\u012bgas atbildes uz tiem.<\/h2>\n
1) Bet vai \u0161\u012b pieeja dz\u012bvei un filozofijai m\u016bs nepadara par vienaldz\u012bgus briesmo\u0146us, kuriem nosp\u013cauties uz visu?<\/h3>\n
2) Bet vai \u0161\u0101das fr\u0101zes ir j\u0101atk\u0101rto visos dz\u012bves gad\u012bjumos? Kas notiks, ja es to izdar\u012b\u0161u?<\/h3>\n
3) Un k\u0101da j\u0113ga tad censties, kaut ko rad\u012bt un dz\u012bvot, ja visu var vienk\u0101r\u0161i \u0146emt un mest ell\u0113?<\/h3>\n