{"id":4449,"date":"2014-10-20T12:00:57","date_gmt":"2014-10-20T10:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=4449"},"modified":"2021-10-06T01:30:38","modified_gmt":"2021-10-05T22:30:38","slug":"rasa-norbute","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/rasa-norbute\/","title":{"rendered":"Rasa Norbute: <i>Person\u012bbas uzlabo\u0161ana<\/br> apm\u0101c\u012bbu autors - &quot;L\u016b\u0161is&quot;.<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Rasa Norbut\u0117 (Venckut\u0117)<\/strong> \u2013 psihologs, kur\u0161 nodibin\u0101ja paz\u012bstamu lietuvie\u0161u pa\u0161att\u012bst\u012bbas kopienu: <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/lusis-parskats\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">&quot;l\u016bsis&quot;<\/a>. Bet nebaidies, ja nepaz\u012bsti L\u016bsi \u2013 Rasu, dr\u012bz vi\u0146u iepaz\u012bsi.<\/p>\n<p>Iepazinos ar Rasu, kad mans blogs v\u0113l bija mazs, nem\u0101c\u0113ju ne rakst\u012bt, ne run\u0101t, un p\u0113c tam, kad ieraudz\u012bju pazi\u0146ojumu par vi\u0146as gaid\u0101maj\u0101m apm\u0101c\u012bb\u0101m, pied\u0101v\u0101ju vi\u0146u interv\u0113t. \u0160\u012b intervija, kuru dr\u012bzum\u0101 var\u0113siet dzird\u0113t, ir mans pirmais intervijas m\u0113\u0123in\u0101jums.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026K\u0101p\u0113c es to saku? Ne t\u0101p\u0113c, ka v\u0113los piev\u0113rst sev uzman\u012bbu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Redziet, Rasa izveidoja apm\u0101c\u012bbas &quot;L\u016b\u0161ie&quot;, lai lietuvie\u0161iem, kuri v\u0113las uzs\u0101kt kaut ko jaunu, b\u016btu pamats: kopiena, kur\u0101 vi\u0146i var\u0113tu atkl\u0101ti sazin\u0101ties, dal\u012bties un atbalst\u012bt. J\u0101b\u016bt zin\u0101\u0161an\u0101m. Praktiski vingrin\u0101jumi. K\u0101pnes.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0113l\u0101k no Rasas p\u0101rkop\u0113ju da\u017eas savas m\u0101c\u012b\u0161anas metodes. Jo Rasas zin\u0101\u0161anas str\u0101d\u0101. Un t\u0101p\u0113c... Es jums pied\u0101v\u0101ju:<\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" data-id=\"16534\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/rasa-norbute-venckute-psichologe.jpg\" width=\"1250\" height=\"830\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Nevyniosiu: k\u0101 j\u016bs non\u0101c\u0101t psiholo\u0123ij\u0101?<\/h2>\n<p>Es uzaugu ciemat\u0101, vienk\u0101r\u0161\u0101 \u0123imen\u0113. Kad biju maza, p\u0101ris gadus pavad\u012bju sanatorij\u0101, varb\u016bt tur iem\u0101c\u012bjos nikni dom\u0101t un uzdot vis\u0101dus jaut\u0101jumus?<\/p>\n<p>Desmitaj\u0101 klas\u0113 tiku pie psiholo\u0123iskas gr\u0101matas, p\u0113c t\u0101s izlas\u012b\u0161anas uzreiz sapratu, ka vair\u0101k gribu b\u016bt psiholo\u0123e, nevis uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113ja. Da\u017eus gadus v\u0113l\u0101k, p\u0113c \u0161\u012bs gr\u0101matas izlas\u012b\u0161anas, es biju p\u0101rsteigts: ar ko t\u0101 man taj\u0101 laik\u0101 bija tik \u012bpa\u0161a? Ac\u012bmredzot pati gr\u0101mata nebija tik aizkustino\u0161a, ta\u010du t\u0101 par\u0101d\u012bja, ka tas, par ko es tik bie\u017ei dom\u0101ju, ir pla\u0161a zin\u0101tne.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160\u012b person\u012bg\u0101 pieredze man bie\u017ei atg\u0101dina, ka inform\u0101cijai nav oblig\u0101ti j\u0101b\u016bt ekskluz\u012bvai, jaunai un kvalitat\u012bvai. Da\u017ereiz pietiek tikai izlas\u012bt vienu domu vai non\u0101kt pareizaj\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101, un viss j\u016bsu pr\u0101t\u0101 uzplaukst ar apgaism\u012bbu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span> <\/span>Un k\u0101 rad\u0101s &quot;L\u016b\u0161ie&quot; treni\u0146\u0161? Vai j\u016bs dom\u0101j\u0101t, ka lietuvie\u0161iem pietr\u016bka \u0161\u0101das programmas, ja ir daudz da\u017e\u0101du ang\u013cu?<\/h3>\n<p>T\u0101pat k\u0101 \u0101boli atst\u0101j \u0101beli, kad tie ir nogatavoju\u0161ies, programma Lynx man rad\u0101s. S\u0101kums bija tad, kad man rad\u0101s doma izveidot \u0161\u0101du turpin\u0101juma programmu saviem kol\u0113\u0123iem. Tikai vi\u0146a bija dz\u012bva un \u0101tri reinkarn\u0113j\u0101s tie\u0161saistes &quot;Lush&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Pirms Lynx izlai\u0161anas mani p\u0101r\u0146\u0113ma daudzi jaut\u0101jumi:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>K\u0101 izveidot nep\u0101rvaramas strat\u0113\u0123ijas, kas ved uz p\u0101rmai\u0146\u0101m?&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li>Kas cilv\u0113kiem vajadz\u012bgs, lai \u0101tr\u0101k un viegl\u0101k k\u013c\u016btu stipr\u0101ki?<\/li>\n<li>K\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161ot \u0161o stiprin\u0101\u0161anu un p\u0101rv\u0113rst to par pat\u012bkamu sp\u0113li?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u0160\u0137iet, ka L\u016b\u0161a gars man sekoja, ieb\u0101zdams savu zi\u0146k\u0101r\u012bgo asti man\u0101s darb\u012bb\u0101s. Laika gait\u0101 es sapratu, ka v\u0113los izveidot autonomu t\u012bmek\u013ca r\u012bku, kas savienotu daudzus cilv\u0113kus, lai str\u0101d\u0101tu kop\u0101 un g\u016btu labumu no kopienas dziedino\u0161\u0101 efekta. T\u0101 rad\u0101s L\u016bsis.<\/p>\n<p>Nezinu, k\u0101 lietuvie\u0161iem pietr\u016bkst visvair\u0101k \u2013 laikam neesmu tik daudz ce\u013cojis, lai var\u0113tu veikt inteli\u0123entu sal\u012bdzin\u0101jumu. Un lietuvie\u0161i ir da\u017e\u0101di, k\u0101 da\u017e\u0101di \u0101boli no vienas \u0101beles. <strong>Ta\u010du daudziem pa\u0161apzi\u0146a ir svar\u012bgs \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis un vienlaikus m\u0113r\u0137is.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>...Pirms da\u017eiem gadiem veicu nelielu tie\u0161saistes aptauju, p\u0113c kuras rezult\u0101tiem p\u0101rliec\u012bba par sevi ir viena no m\u016bsu tautie\u0161u iek\u0101rojam\u0101kaj\u0101m \u012bpa\u0161\u012bb\u0101m, ta\u010du \u0161\u012bs kvalit\u0101tes nostiprin\u0101\u0161anai ac\u012bmredzot pietr\u016bkst laika un sagatavot\u012bbas .<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span> <\/span>Tad t\u0101p\u0113c pa\u0161apzi\u0146a? Nevis, teiksim, m\u0113r\u0137u sasnieg\u0161anu vai ko taml\u012bdz\u012bgu?<\/h3>\n<p>\u0160eit viss ir \u013coti saist\u012bts \u2013 s\u0101c stiprin\u0101t k\u0101du no person\u012bgaj\u0101m jom\u0101m, un citas s\u0101ks nostiprin\u0101ties. Person\u012bba ir k\u0101 p\u0101rkl\u0101jo\u0161u, krustojo\u0161u, pak\u0101rtotu \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbu t\u012bkls.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ta\u010du \u012bpa\u0161u uzman\u012bbu piev\u0113r\u0161u pa\u0161apzi\u0146ai.<\/strong> Es to sauktu par daudzu v\u0113lamo \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbu un paradumu avotu un b\u016btisku nosac\u012bjumu. Protams, rezult\u0101t\u0101...<\/p>\n<p>Ja uzticamies sev, daudz viegl\u0101k sasniedzam savus m\u0113r\u0137us, str\u0101d\u0101jam efekt\u012bv\u0101k, efekt\u012bv\u0101k risin\u0101m probl\u0113mas, cie\u0161\u0101k komunic\u0113jam ar citiem un sevi, m\u012blam un \u013caujamies b\u016bt m\u012bl\u0113tiem. J\u0101, pa\u0161apzi\u0146a m\u016bs pasarg\u0101 no nevesel\u012bgas pie\u0137er\u0161an\u0101s vai p\u0101rm\u0113r\u012bgas j\u016bt\u012bguma, kas liek mums mekl\u0113t tikai cilv\u0113kus, kuri pret mums izturas jauki.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&quot;Ko dar\u012bt, ja n\u0113 <strong>p\u0101rliec\u012bba<\/strong>, motiv\u0113 m\u016bs? Tikai tad, kad j\u016btamies stipri, m\u0113s varam p\u0101rst\u0101t baid\u012bties no visa veida liet\u0101m, kas, iesp\u0113jams, nekad nenotiks.&quot;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Rasa Norbute<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><span style=\"font-size: 1em;\">Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, cik rakstus vai spredi\u0137us m\u0113s absorb\u0113jam, tie mums nedos tik lielu labumu, cik var\u0113tu. Ja mums ir p\u0101r\u0101k maz p\u0101rliec\u012bbas par sevi, nek\u0101di veiksmes padomi nepal\u012bdz\u0113s. M\u0113s vienk\u0101r\u0161i nevar\u0113sim vi\u0146us uz\u0146emt\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Turkl\u0101t, kad j\u016btamies stipri, mums ir nepiecie\u0161ams daudz maz\u0101k pam\u0101c\u012bbu \u2013 m\u0113s dabiski atrodam risin\u0101jumus sav\u0101m probl\u0113m\u0101m un ce\u013cus uz saviem sap\u0146iem. Tiesa, j\u0101uzticas ne tikai sev, bet ar\u012b citiem.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Un ko stiprina tavs jaunais zv\u0113rs - Active Lynx?<\/h3>\n<p>&quot;Akt\u012bvais L\u016b\u0161is&quot; bag\u0101tin\u0101s aktivit\u0101tes un ikdienu. Interesantas aktivit\u0101tes un laim\u012bga ikdiena, protams, ved uz priek\u0161u. Tas ir neizsme\u013cams patiesas laimes un iedvesmas avots. Vi\u0146i mudina sap\u0146ot, pl\u0101not un m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t, l\u012bdz izdodas. Vi\u0146i iesaist\u0101s un nelai\u017e va\u013c\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Uzman\u012bba deta\u013c\u0101m, apzin\u0101t\u012bba, minim\u0101lisms, atkl\u0101jumi, v\u0113lamie ieradumi, ikdienas ritu\u0101li, tuv\u012bba ar sevi un citiem piepilda ikdienu ar prieku, piepild\u012bjumu un relaks\u0101ciju.<\/p>\n<p>Piem\u0113ram, daudzi veiksm\u012bgi cilv\u0113ki s\u0101k savu r\u012btu ar noz\u012bmi.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Bend\u017eamins Franklins <\/strong>agri pamosties (<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/anksti\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\" rel=\"noopener\">4 no r\u012bta<\/a>), akt\u012bvi jaut\u0101ja sev, kas vi\u0146am \u0161odien j\u0101dara.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Opra Vinfrija<\/strong> medit\u0113 20 min\u016btes, ak <strong>Arianna Hafingtone<\/strong> - uz pilnu pusstundu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ri\u010dards Brensons<\/strong> sportot un \u0113st vesel\u012bgas brokastis.<\/li>\n<li><strong>D\u017eo\u0161s Veickins<\/strong> (\u0161aha \u0123\u0113nijs un pasaules tai chi \u010dempions) uztur dienasgr\u0101matu, m\u0113\u0123inot izprast miega laik\u0101 izdar\u012btos zemapzi\u0146as atkl\u0101jumus.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Lady Gaga<\/strong> nodarbojoties ar jogu un pozit\u012bviem apgalvojumiem.<\/li>\n<li><strong>St\u012bvs D\u017eobss<\/strong> paskat\u012bj\u0101s uz sevi spogul\u012b un jaut\u0101ja, vai \u0161odien ir vi\u0146a p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 dz\u012bves diena, vai vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113l\u0113tos dar\u012bt to, ko bija pl\u0101nojis, un, ja atbilde vair\u0101kas dienas p\u0113c k\u0101rtas bija n\u0113, vi\u0146\u0161 veica nopietnas izmai\u0146as.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tikm\u0113r ko 80 procenti cilv\u0113ku dara pirmaj\u0101s 15 min\u016bt\u0113s no r\u012bta? Vi\u0146i p\u0101rbauda savus t\u0101lru\u0146us! T\u0101p\u0113c es uzskatu, ka saisto\u0161s, interesants darbs un iedvesmojo\u0161a rut\u012bna var dzied\u0113t lab\u0101k nek\u0101 psihologs, pa\u0161pal\u012bdz\u012bbas gr\u0101matas vai vienk\u0101r\u0161i cita apm\u0101c\u012bba.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Kas tad tajos &quot;L\u016b\u0161os&quot; notiek? Dro\u0161i vien nopietna pirts?<\/h3>\n<p>Notiek sec\u012bga reinkarn\u0101cija L\u016bs\u012b. Dal\u012bbnieks re\u0123istr\u0113jas k\u0101dai neskaidrai programmai, p\u0113c tam iziet garu atlasi un v\u0113l gar\u0101ku ce\u013cu l\u012bdz programmas s\u0101kumam. Programmu telp\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 atrod visu nepiecie\u0161amo, lai s\u0101ktu savu maniak\u0101lo att\u012bst\u012bbu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pirmk\u0101rt, tie ir \u013coti da\u017e\u0101di uzdevumi. <\/strong>Tie at\u0161\u0137iras p\u0113c sare\u017e\u0123\u012bt\u012bbas, iesaist\u012b\u0161an\u0101s, t\u0113mas. Vienu dienu l\u016b\u0161i m\u0113\u0123ina pirkt r\u012bsus bank\u0101, n\u0101kamaj\u0101 dien\u0101 vi\u0146i analiz\u0113 un gl\u0101sta savas bailes uz pap\u012bra, n\u0101kamaj\u0101 dien\u0101 vi\u0146iem ir atkl\u0101ta saruna ar draugu, bet n\u0101kamaj\u0101 dien\u0101 vi\u0146i strauji papla\u0161ina savu dom\u0101\u0161anu un probl\u0113mu risin\u0101\u0161anas sp\u0113jas.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Da\u017ei uzdevumi tiek veikti katru dienu<\/strong> - t\u0101 veidojas ieradumi.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0113l viena uzdevumu da\u013ca ir iek\u013cauta ikdienas aktivit\u0101t\u0113s<\/strong> - tas ne tikai ietaupa dal\u012bbnieku laiku, bet ar\u012b stiprina vi\u0146u izpratni, sp\u0113ju nov\u0113rot sevi un main\u012bt savu uzved\u012bbu re\u0101llaik\u0101: \u0161eit un tagad.<\/li>\n<li><strong>P\u0101r\u0113jiem uzdevumiem ir tr\u012bs gr\u016bt\u012bbas pak\u0101pes un tie atbilst ierastajai uzdevumu uztverei<\/strong> - tie ir pa\u0161p\u0101rbaudes vai darb\u012bbas uzdevumi, kas aiz\u0146em vair\u0101k laika. T\u0101d\u0113j\u0101di L\u016b\u0161i iebr\u016bk L\u016b\u0161u iek\u0161ien\u0113 no vis\u0101m front\u0113m un maina vi\u0146u dz\u012bvi katru tagadnes mirkli.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Veicot uzdevumus, dal\u012bbnieki iev\u0113ro noteiktus likumus, kas nodro\u0161ina efekt\u012bvu att\u012bst\u012bbu, v\u0101jina psiholo\u0123isk\u0101s aizsardz\u012bbas meh\u0101nismus, pal\u012bdz sadraudz\u0113ties ar citiem dal\u012bbniekiem un ietver tiek\u0161anos l\u012bdz astes galam. P\u0101rmai\u0146as pal\u012bdz sasniegt ar\u012b sp\u0113lei l\u012bdz\u012bga, unik\u0101la, ikdienas progresa uzraudz\u012bba, vad\u012bba un sistem\u0101tiska pa\u0161refleksija.<\/p>\n<p>Tom\u0113r, lai vi\u0146iem b\u016btu viegl\u0101k un jautr\u0101k, visa programma atg\u0101dina jaunu dz\u012bvi ar jauniem draugiem. L\u016b\u0161i viens otru atbalsta, sam\u012b\u013co un reiz\u0113m unison\u0101 pasmejas par otru vai mani.<\/p>\n<p>L\u016bsis man atg\u0101dina pa\u0101trin\u0101tu dz\u012bvi: veiksmes un neveiksmes, laime un asaras, izaicin\u0101jumi un miers, draudz\u012bba un konkurence, br\u012bv\u012bba un pien\u0101kums past\u0101v l\u012bdz\u0101s l\u016b\u0161iem. L\u016bs\u012b ir dro\u0161\u0101k nek\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113, t\u0101p\u0113c \u0161eit var dro\u0161\u0101k eksperiment\u0113t ar sevi un savu uzved\u012bbu.<\/p>\n<p>Gandr\u012bz visas dal\u012bbnieku atsauksmes ir \u013coti labas vai izcilas. Sav\u0101d\u0101k nemaz nevar b\u016bt, jo l\u016b\u0161i ir \u013coti pie\u0137\u0113ru\u0161ies savam ka\u017eokam un pa\u0161i visu sasniedz ar nagiem. Tir\u0101ni sasniedz maz\u0101k, kas ir gandar\u012bjums gan vi\u0146iem, gan man. Ne visiem ir laiks un ener\u0123ija intens\u012bvai att\u012bst\u012bbai, un programma tam piel\u0101gojas. T\u0101tad \u2013 ko s\u0113j, to p\u013caus.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0101 man (joproj\u0101m) st\u0101sta mana vecm\u0101mi\u0146a - ko s\u0113si, to p\u013causi:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"16581\" title=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/kaip-pasitiketi-savimi-lusis-debesyla.jpg\" width=\"955\" height=\"601\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Apm\u0101c\u012bbu blog\u0101 esat min\u0113jis, ka past\u0101v\u012bgi las\u0101t gr\u0101matas un apmekl\u0113jat semin\u0101rus. Kuras gr\u0101matas un pasniedz\u0113ji j\u016bs visvair\u0101k ietekm\u0113ju\u0161i?<\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">Man jau bija apniku\u0161as citu gudr\u012bbas. Kad s\u0101c klaus\u012bties v\u0113j\u0101 sav\u0101 galv\u0101, s\u0101k pietikt pa\u0161a izt\u0113les. Bet \u0161obr\u012bd mani v\u0113ji ir norimu\u0161i, t\u0101p\u0113c s\u0101ku klaus\u012bties sve\u0161os cilv\u0113kos \u2013 atkal esmu atgriezies pie gr\u0101mat\u0101m.<\/p>\n<p>Mani ietekm\u0113ja ne viena vien gr\u0101mata. Pusaud\u017ea gados ar lielu atdevi k\u0101du laiku atdarin\u0101ju gr\u0101matas varo\u0146u uzved\u012bbu - \u012bpa\u0161i patika kop\u0113t gr\u0101matas &quot;Krustt\u0113vs&quot; galveno varoni.<\/p>\n<p>Man\u012b iezag\u0101s ar\u012b da\u017eas popul\u0101ras psiholo\u0123ijas gr\u0101matas. Agr\u0101k biez\u0101 dienasgr\u0101mat\u0101 rakst\u012bju da\u017e\u0101dus padomus. V\u0113l\u0101k es s\u0101ku tos veidot pats. Tad es las\u012btu un mekl\u0113tu pretrun\u012bgo, stulbo un naivo.<\/p>\n<p>Kopum\u0101 es lasu tikai gr\u0101matas par psiholo\u0123iju, psihoterapiju, vesel\u012bgu dz\u012bvesveidu, lo\u0123iku un da\u017ereiz ar\u012b medic\u012bnu. Dai\u013cliterat\u016bra man atg\u0101dina, ka dz\u012bvoju k\u0101da cita dz\u012bvi \u2013 un es \u013coti koncentr\u0113jos uz savu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&quot;Un p\u0101r\u0113jiem man nav ko ieteikt, jo nezinu, kur\u0101 jom\u0101 vi\u0146i ir jauni - dz\u012bv\u0113 noteikti n\u0113?&quot;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"width: 100%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" title=\"P\u0113di\u0146as_att\u0113ls_03\" data-id=\"41605\" src=\"\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/tcb_content_templates\/contentblock\/images\/Quotation_marks_image_03.png\" style=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"137\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1em;\">Jums ir sava konkr\u0113ta probl\u0113ma vai tieksme \u2013 lasiet \u0161\u0101das gr\u0101matas. <strong>Pat ja uzn\u0101k k\u0101ds maz\u0101k v\u0113rt\u012bgs, tas ar\u012b rosin\u0101s dom\u0101t un mekl\u0113t atbildes<\/strong> - da\u017ereiz tas nes vair\u0101k aug\u013cu nek\u0101 &quot;kvalitat\u012bva&quot; inform\u0101cija.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dom\u0101ju, ka \u0161obr\u012bd daudzi, \u012bpa\u0161i jaunie\u0161i, kas mekl\u0113 sevi, visp\u0101r p\u0101rv\u0113rt\u0113 inform\u0101cijas, gr\u0101matu, apm\u0101c\u012bbu, semin\u0101ru noz\u012bmi. <strong>Svar\u012bg\u0101ka par kvalitat\u012bvu inform\u0101ciju ir \u0161\u012bs inform\u0101cijas praktiska pielieto\u0161ana,<\/strong> ikdienas zin\u0101tk\u0101re, past\u0101v\u012bga interese, p\u0101rdz\u012bvojumu p\u0101rpiln\u012bba.<\/p>\n<p>Ir v\u0113rt\u012bgi ar vienaldz\u012bgu un augstpr\u0101t\u012bgu skatienu iziet cauri popul\u0101riem padomiem, piem\u0113ram, &quot;dz\u012bvo \u0161eit un tagad&quot;, &quot;vienlaik\u0101 dari tikai vienu darbu&quot;, &quot;m\u012bli sevi&quot;, &quot;iziet no komforta zonas&quot; ar vienaldz\u012bgu un augstpr\u0101t\u012bgu skatienu - m\u0113\u0123iniet r\u012bkoties pret\u0113ji. . \u013boti jautri.<\/p>\n<p>Un visbeidzot, man \u0161\u0137iet, ka ir pien\u0101cis laiks aizmirst, ka k\u0101ds cits \u2014 no gr\u0101matas, interneta vai d\u012bv\u0101na kreis\u0101s puses \u2014 lab\u0101k zina, k\u0101 tev j\u0101dz\u012bvo. Tici sev, sav\u0101m dom\u0101m un padomiem sev, un tava dz\u012bve tev tic\u0113s.<\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"16584\" title=\"lusis-k\u0101-sasniegt-m\u0113r\u0137us\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/lusis-kaip-pasiekti-tikslus.jpg\" width=\"955\" height=\"619\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Beidzot man t\u0101ds egoistisks jaut\u0101jums - da\u017ei m\u0101ko\u0146u iem\u012btnieki <em>(Sa\u0146emiet to, es ar\u012b...)<\/em>&nbsp;sap\u0146ot pa\u0161iem veidot apm\u0101c\u012bbas, programmas vai citus darbus... Ko j\u016bs ieteiktu?<\/h3>\n<p>Kad pien\u0101ks laiks, l\u012bnija \u0161\u0137\u0113rso pati sevi. Tas ir k\u0101 b\u0113rna piedzim\u0161ana. Par ideju ir j\u0101r\u016bp\u0113jas no t\u0101s pirms\u0101kumiem, j\u0101veido ar to cie\u0161as attiec\u012bbas, j\u0101att\u012bsta un j\u0101izj\u016bt. Tad seko gr\u016btais, bet pat\u012bkamais idejas ne\u0161anas posms, r\u016bpes par to. Kad ideja nobriest, t\u0101 dzimst.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Laba ideja ir t\u0101 s\u0101p\u012bg\u0101 doma, kas tev nemit\u012bgi ien\u0101k galv\u0101.&nbsp;<\/strong>Varb\u016bt ik pa laikam dom\u0101, ka cilv\u0113kiem kaut k\u0101 pietr\u016bkst un zini, k\u0101 to nodro\u0161in\u0101t? Varb\u016bt j\u016bs redzat k\u0101du probl\u0113mu sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 vai sav\u0101 tuv\u0101kaj\u0101 vid\u0113, ko neviens nerisina?<\/p>\n<p>Mekl\u0113jiet s\u0101p\u012bgas vietas - tur ir potenci\u0101ls.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Paldies par god\u012bgumu, Rasa!<\/h2>\n<p>Ko es varu \u0161eit pievienot? Ja jums ir k\u0101di papildu jaut\u0101jumi Rasai, sazinieties ar mani, jo es aicinu vi\u0146u atbild\u0113t \u0161eit, koment\u0101ru sada\u013c\u0101. Ak un\u2026 <a href=\"https:\/\/dziaugiuosisavimi.lt\/\" style=\"outline: currentcolor none medium;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Aicinu pievienoties, izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101t &quot;L\u016b\u0161i&quot;!<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Daniels\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rasa Norbut\u0117 (Venckut\u0117) \u2013 psicholog\u0117, \u012fkur\u016bsi lietuvi\u0161k\u0105 ir \u017einom\u0105 saviugdos bendruomen\u0119: \u201eL\u016b\u0161\u012f\u201c. Bet nebijok, jei L\u016b\u0161ies nepa\u017e\u012fsti \u2013 su ja, Rasa, tuojau ir susipa\u017einsi. Su Rasa susitikau dar tuomet kai mano tinklara\u0161tis buvo ma\u017eiukas, nemok\u0117jau ra\u0161yti, kalb\u0117ti ir, pamat\u0119s skelbim\u0105 apie jos pasirodysian\u010dius mokymus, pasisi\u016bliau paimti i\u0161 jos interviu. \u0160is pokalbis, kur\u012f tuojau gal\u0117si i\u0161girsti [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16534,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","tve_updated_post":"<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element tve-froala fr-box fr-basic\"><p><strong>Rasa Norbut\u0117 (Venckut\u0117)<\/strong> \u2013 psicholog\u0117, \u012fkur\u016bsi lietuvi\u0161k\u0105 ir \u017einom\u0105 saviugdos bendruomen\u0119: <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lusis-apzvalga\/\" class=\"tve-froala fr-basic\" style=\"outline: none;\">\u201eL\u016b\u0161\u012f\u201c<\/a>. Bet nebijok, jei L\u016b\u0161ies nepa\u017e\u012fsti \u2013 su ja, Rasa, tuojau ir susipa\u017einsi.<\/p><p>Su Rasa susitikau dar tuomet kai mano tinklara\u0161tis buvo ma\u017eiukas, nemok\u0117jau ra\u0161yti, kalb\u0117ti ir, pamat\u0119s skelbim\u0105 apie jos pasirodysian\u010dius mokymus, pasisi\u016bliau paimti i\u0161 jos interviu. \u0160is pokalbis, kur\u012f tuojau gal\u0117si i\u0161girsti \u2013 mano pirmasis bandymas kalbinti.<\/p><p>...Kod\u0117l tai sakau? Ne d\u0117l to, kad noriu nukreipti d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f save.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Matai, Rasa suk\u016br\u0117 \u201eL\u016b\u0161ies\u201c mokymus tam, kad Lietuvos \u017emon\u0117s, norintys prad\u0117ti ka\u017ek\u0105 naujo, tur\u0117t\u0173 pagrind\u0105: bendruomen\u0119, kurioje gal\u0117t\u0173 atvirai bendrauti, dalintis, palaikyti. Tur\u0117t\u0173 \u017einias. Prakti\u0161kus pratimus. Laiptelius.<\/p><p>V\u0117liau dal\u012f savo mokym\u0173 technik\u0173 kopijavau nuo Rasos. Nes Rasos \u017einios veikia. Ir b\u016btent tod\u0117l... Pristatau tau:<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-16e80ae1f86\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img class=\"tve_image wp-image-16534\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" data-id=\"16534\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/doc-root\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/rasa-norbute-venckute-psichologe.jpg.webp\" data-css=\"tve-u-16e80ae1f8a\" width=\"1250\" height=\"830\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h2 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Nevyniosiu: kaip atsid\u016brei psichologijoje?<\/h2><p>Augau kaime, paprastoje \u0161eimoje. B\u016bdama ma\u017ea por\u0105 met\u0173 gul\u0117jau sanatorijoje, galb\u016bt ten i\u0161mokau \u012fnirtingai m\u0105styti ir kelti visokius klausimus?<\/p><p>De\u0161imtoje klas\u0117je pasitaik\u0117 psichologin\u0117 knyga, kuri\u0105 perskai\u010diusi i\u0161kart supratau, kad labiau nei verslininke noriu b\u016bti psichologe. Po keleri\u0173 met\u0173 pavar\u010diusi t\u0105 knyg\u0105 nustebau: kuo ji tuo metu man pasirod\u0117 tokia ypatinga? Matyt, ne pati knyga buvo tokia i\u0161judinanti, bet ji parod\u0117, jog tai, apie k\u0105 a\u0161 taip da\u017enai m\u0105stau, yra platus mokslas.<\/p><p>\u0160i asmenin\u0117 patirtis man da\u017enai primena, jog neb\u016btinai informacija turi b\u016bti i\u0161skirtin\u0117, nauja ir itin kokybi\u0161ka. Kartais u\u017etenka tiesiog perskaityti vien\u0105 mint\u012f ar pakli\u016bti \u012f reikiam\u0105 situacij\u0105 ir viskas galvoje pra\u017eysta nu\u0161vitimu.&nbsp;<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span> <\/span>O kaip atsirado \u201eL\u016b\u0161ies\u201c mokymai? Manei, kad lietuviams tr\u016bko tokios programos, kai yra daug \u012fvairiausi\u0173 angli\u0161k\u0173?<\/h3><p>Taip, kaip obuoliai sunok\u0119 palieka obel\u012f, taip ir L\u016b\u0161ies programa u\u017egim\u0117 pas mane. Prad\u017eia buvo tuomet, kai sugalvojau kolegoms sukurti toki\u0105 t\u0119stin\u0119 program\u0105. Tik ji buvo gyva ir greitai reinkarnavosi \u012f internetin\u0119 \u201eL\u016b\u0161\u012f\u201c.<\/p><p>Prie\u0161 paleid\u017eiant L\u016b\u0161\u012f laisv\u0117n, mane buvo u\u017evald\u0119 daugyb\u0117 klausim\u0173:<\/p><ol class=\"\"><li class=\"\">Kaip sukurti nepalau\u017eiamas, poky\u010di\u0173 link vedan\u010dias strategijas?&nbsp;<\/li><li>Ko reikia, kad \u017emon\u0117s grei\u010diau ir lengviau sustipr\u0117t\u0173?<\/li><li>Kaip t\u0105 stipr\u0117jim\u0105 supaprastinti ir paversti maloniu \u017eaidimu?<\/li><\/ol><p>Rodos, kad paskui mane sekiodavo L\u016b\u0161ies dvasia, kai\u0161iodavo savo smalsi\u0105 uodeg\u0105 \u012f mano veiklas. Su laiku supratau, jog noriu sukurti savaranki\u0161k\u0105 internetu valdom\u0105 \u012frank\u012f, jungiant\u012f daug \u017emoni\u0173, kurie darbuot\u0173si kartu, pasinaudot\u0173 gydan\u010diu bendruomen\u0117s poveikiu. Taip ir gim\u0117 L\u016b\u0161is.<\/p><p>Ko labiausiai tr\u016bksta lietuviams, a\u0161 ne\u017einau \u2013 turb\u016bt esu per ma\u017eai keliavusi, kad gal\u0117\u010diau protingai palyginti. O ir lietuviai skirtingi, kaip skirtingi tos pa\u010dios obels obuoliai. <strong>Bet pasitik\u0117jimas savimi daugeliui yra svarbus kliuvinys ir kartu siekinys.<\/strong><\/p><p>...Prie\u0161 kelet\u0105 met\u0173 atlikau nedidel\u012f internetin\u012f tyrim\u0105, anot kurio rezultat\u0173, pasitik\u0117jimas savimi yra viena i\u0161 geid\u017eiamiausi\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 tautie\u010di\u0173 savybi\u0173, ta\u010diau \u0161i\u0105 savyb\u0119 stiprinti, neva, tr\u016bksta laiko ir prisiruo\u0161imo.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span> <\/span>Taigi b\u016btent tod\u0117l ir pasitik\u0117jimas savimi? O ne, tarkim, tiksl\u0173 siekimas ar ka\u017ekas pana\u0161aus?<\/h3><p>Viskas \u010dia labai susij\u0119 \u2013 imk stiprinti bet kuri\u0105 i\u0161 asmenini\u0173 sri\u010di\u0173 ir ims stipr\u0117ti kitos. Asmenyb\u0117 \u2013 &nbsp;tai tarsi persidengian\u010di\u0173, besikertan\u010di\u0173, subordinuot\u0173 savybi\u0173 tinklas.<\/p><p><strong>Ta\u010diau pasitik\u0117jimui savimi skiriu ypating\u0105 d\u0117mes\u012f.<\/strong> J\u012f vadin\u010diau daugelio pageidaujam\u0173 savybi\u0173 bei \u012fpro\u010di\u0173 \u0161altiniu ir esmine s\u0105lyga. \u017dinoma, kartu ir pasekme\u2026<\/p><p>Jei pasitikime savimi, daug lengviau pasiekiame tikslus, na\u0161iau dirbame, veiksmingiau sprend\u017eiame problemas, artimiau bendraujame su kitais ir savimi, mylime ir leid\u017eiam\u0117s b\u016bti mylimi. Taip, pasitik\u0117jimas savimi apsaugo mus nuo liguisto prisiri\u0161imo ar perd\u0117to jautrumo, kuris ver\u010dia ie\u0161koti tik gra\u017eiai su mumis besielgian\u010di\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-17492b30b2a\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-17492b49d88\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-17492b3fbb3\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201eKas, jei ne <strong>pasitik\u0117jimas savimi<\/strong>, mus motyvuoja? Tik tada, kai jau\u010diam\u0117s stipr\u016bs, galime ne tik nebebijoti \u012fvairiausi\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kurie galb\u016bt niekada ne\u012fvyks.\u201c<\/p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Rasa Norbut\u0117<\/strong><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element tve-froala fr-box fr-basic\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-17492aa9af6\" style=\"\"><span style=\"font-size: 1em;\">Kad ir kiek straipsni\u0173 ar pamoksl\u0173 prisisiurbsim, jie neduos mums tiek naudos, kiek gal\u0117t\u0173 duoti. Jei turime per ma\u017eai pasitik\u0117jimo savimi, jokie s\u0117km\u0117s patarimai nepad\u0117s. Mes tiesiog negal\u0117sime j\u0173 pritaikyti...<\/span><\/p><p>Be to, kai jau\u010diam\u0117s stipr\u016bs, pamokym\u0173 reikia daug ma\u017eiau \u2013 patys nat\u016braliai randame sprendimus savo problemoms bei kelius savo svajon\u0117ms. Tiesa, pasitik\u0117ti reikia ne tik savimi, bet ir kitu.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> O k\u0105 stiprina tavo naujasis \u017ev\u0117ris \u2013 \u201eVeiklioji L\u016b\u0161is\u201c?<\/h3><p>\u201eVeiklioji L\u016b\u0161is\u201c praturtins veikl\u0105 ir kasdienyb\u0119. \u012edomi veikla ir d\u017eiugi kasdienyb\u0117 nat\u016braliai ve\u017ea \u012f priek\u012f. Tai nei\u0161senkantis tikros laim\u0117s ir \u012fkv\u0117pimo \u0161altinis. Jos skatina svajoti, planuoti ir stengtis, kol pavyks. Jos \u012ftraukia ir nebe paleid\u017eia.<\/p><p>D\u0117mesys smulkmenoms, s\u0105moningumui, minimalizmui, atradimams, norimiems \u012fpro\u010diams, dienos ritualams, artumui su savimi bei kitais kasdienyb\u0119 pripildo d\u017eiugesio, pilnatv\u0117s ir atsipalaidavimo.<\/p><p>Pavyzd\u017eiui, daugyb\u0117 s\u0117kming\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 savo ryt\u0105 pradeda prasmingai.<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li class=\"\"><strong>Benjamin Franklin <\/strong>nubud\u0119s anksti (<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/anksti\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"tve-froala\" style=\"outline: none;\">4 valand\u0105 ryto<\/a>), aktyviai klausdavo sav\u0119s, k\u0105 jis \u0161iandien svarbaus turi nuveikti.<\/li><li class=\"\"><strong>Oprah Winfrey<\/strong> medituoja 20 minu\u010di\u0173, o <strong>Arianna Huffington<\/strong> \u2013 vis\u0105 pusvaland\u012f.<\/li><li class=\"\"><strong>Richard Branson<\/strong> sportuoja ir valgo sveikus pusry\u010dius.<\/li><li class=\"\"><strong>Josh Waitzkin<\/strong> (\u0161achmat\u0173 genijus ir pasaulio tai\u010di \u010dempionas) ra\u0161o dienora\u0161t\u012f, bandydamas suprasti pas\u0105moningus miego metu patirtus atradimus.<\/li><li class=\"\"><strong>Lady Gaga<\/strong> u\u017esiima joga ir teigiamomis afirmacijomis.<\/li><li class=\"\"><strong>Steve Jobs<\/strong> \u017ei\u016br\u0117davo \u012f save veidrodyje ir klausdavo \u2013 jei \u0161iandien b\u016bt\u0173 paskutin\u0117 jo gyvenimo diena, ar jis nor\u0117t\u0173 veikti tai, k\u0105 yra suplanav\u0119s, ir jei atsakymas b\u016bdavo \u201ene\u201c kelias dienas i\u0161 eil\u0117s, jis imdavosi rimt\u0173 poky\u010di\u0173.<\/li><\/ul><p>O k\u0105 tuo tarpu per pirm\u0105sias 15 minu\u010di\u0173 ryto veikia 80 procent\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173? Jie tikrina savo telefonus! Taigi tod\u0117l tikiu, jog \u012ftraukiantis, \u012fdomus darbas ir \u012fkvepianti rutina gali gydyti geriau nei psichologas, saviugdos knygos ar tiesiog dar vieni mokymai.<\/p><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Tai kas toje \u201eL\u016b\u0161yje\u201c vyksta? Turb\u016bt rimta pirtel\u0117?<\/h3><p>Vyksta nuosekli reinkarnacija \u012f L\u016b\u0161\u012f. Dalyvis u\u017esiregistruoja \u012f ka\u017ekoki\u0105 neai\u0161ki\u0105 program\u0105, paskui pereina ilg\u0105 atrank\u0105 ir dar ilgesn\u012f keli\u0105 iki programos prad\u017eios. Programos erdv\u0117je jis randa visk\u0105, ko reikia maniaki\u0161ko tobul\u0117jimo prad\u017eiai.<\/p><p><strong>Vis\u0173 pirma, tai labai skirtingos u\u017eduotys. <\/strong>Jos skiriasi sud\u0117tingumu, \u012ftraukimu, tematika. Vien\u0105 dien\u0105 L\u016b\u0161iukai bando banke nusipirkti ry\u017ei\u0173, kit\u0105 dien\u0105 ant popieriaus analizuoja ir glosto savo baimes, dar kit\u0105 \u2013 atvirai kalbasi su draugu, o dar dar kit\u0105 \u2013 \u017eaibi\u0161kai ple\u010dia savo m\u0105stymo ir problem\u0173 sprendimo galias.<\/p><ol class=\"\"><li class=\"\"><strong>Dalis u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 daromos kasdien<\/strong> \u2013 taip formuojami \u012fpro\u010diai.<\/li><li class=\"\"><strong>Kita dalis u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 \u012fsipina \u012f kasdienes veiklas<\/strong> \u2013 taip ne tik taupomas dalyvi\u0173 laikas, bet ir stiprinamas j\u0173 s\u0105moningumas, geb\u0117jimas steb\u0117ti save ir keisti savo elges\u012f realiu laiku: \u010dia ir dabar.<\/li><li class=\"\"><strong>Likusios u\u017eduotys b\u016bna trij\u0173 sunkumo lygi\u0173 ir atitinka \u012fprast\u0105 u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 suvokim\u0105<\/strong> \u2013 tai savianaliz\u0117s ar veiksmo u\u017eduotys, kurios u\u017eima daugiau laiko. Taigi, L\u016b\u0161is ver\u017eiasi \u012f L\u016b\u0161iuk\u0173 vid\u0173 i\u0161 vis\u0173 front\u0173 ir kei\u010dia j\u0173 gyvenim\u0105 kiekvien\u0105 dabarties akimirk\u0105.<\/li><\/ol><p>Atlikdami u\u017eduotis, dalyviai pakl\u016bsta tam tikriems d\u0117sniams, kurie u\u017etikrina efektyv\u0173 tobul\u0117jim\u0105, silpnina psichologinius gynybos mechanizmus, padeda susidraugauti su kitais dalyviais ir \u012ftraukia stengtis iki uodegos galiuko. Taip pat poky\u010di\u0173 siekti padeda ir \u017eaidybinis, unikalus, kasdienis pa\u017eangos steb\u0117jimas, valdymas bei sisteminga savirefleksija.<\/p><p>Ta\u010diau, kad jiems b\u016bt\u0173 lengviau ir smagiau, visa programa primena nauj\u0105 gyvenim\u0105 su naujais draugais. L\u016b\u0161iukai vieni kitus palaiko, paglosto ir kartais pasijuokia vieni i\u0161 kit\u0173 arba vieningai i\u0161 man\u0119s.<\/p><p>Man L\u016b\u0161is primena pagreitint\u0105 gyvenim\u0105: su L\u016b\u0161iukais kartu gyvena s\u0117km\u0117 ir nes\u0117km\u0117, laim\u0117 ir a\u0161aros, i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai ir ramyb\u0117, draugi\u0161kumas ir var\u017eymasis, laisv\u0117 ir pareiga. L\u016b\u0161yje saugiau nei gyvenime, tad \u010dia galima dr\u0105siau eksperimentuoti su savimi ir savo elgesiu.<\/p><p>Kone visi dalyvi\u0173 atsiliepimai labai geri arba puik\u016bs. Kitaip ir b\u016bti negali, nes L\u016b\u0161iukai labai \u012fsijau\u010dia \u012f savo kail\u012f ir visk\u0105 patys pasiekia savais nagais. Dykaduoniaujantys pasiekia ma\u017eiau \u2013 tai tenkina tiek juos, tiek mane. Ne visi turi marias laiko ir \u016bpo intensyviam tobul\u0117jimui, o programa prie to prisitaiko. Tad \u2013 kas k\u0105 pas\u0117ja, tas t\u0105 ir pjauna.<\/p><p><strong>Kaip man (dar vis) kartoja mo\u010diut\u0117 \u2013 k\u0105 pas\u0117si, t\u0105 ir pjausi:<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c8fdb86\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img class=\"tve_image wp-image-16581\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"16581\" title=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/kaip-pasitiketi-savimi-lusis-debesyla.jpg\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c8fdb8b\" width=\"955\" height=\"601\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Mokym\u0173 tinklara\u0161tyje esi min\u0117jusi, jog nuolat skaitai knygas ir lankaisi seminaruose. Kokios knygos ir kokie mokym\u0173 ved\u0117jai tau padar\u0117 did\u017eiausi\u0105 \u012ftak\u0105?<\/h3><p data-css=\"tve-u-17492ab7ead\" style=\"\">Jau buvau soti nuo kit\u0173 i\u0161minties. Kai imi klausytis v\u0117jo savo galvoje, ima u\u017etekti ir savo pa\u010dios prisigalvojim\u0173. Bet \u0161iuo metu mano v\u0117jai nurimo, tad imu klausytis svetim\u0173 \u2013 v\u0117l gr\u012f\u017eau prie knyg\u0173.<\/p><p>Man \u012ftak\u0105 dar\u0117 tikrai ne viena knyga. B\u016bdama paaugle kur\u012f laik\u0105 su dideliu atsidavimu m\u0117gd\u017eiojau knygos heroj\u0173 elges\u012f \u2013 buvau ypa\u010d \u012fsijautusi \u012f \u201eKrik\u0161tat\u0117vio\u201c knygos pagrindinio veik\u0117jo kopijavim\u0105.<\/p><p>Dar \u012f mane buvo \u012fslinkusios ir kelios populiariosios psichologijos knygos. Rankiodavausi ir storan dienora\u0161tin ra\u0161ydavausi \u012fvairius patarimus. V\u0117liau pati \u0117miau juos kurti. Paskui skaitydavau ir ie\u0161kodavau vienas kitam prie\u0161taraujan\u010di\u0173, kvail\u0173 ir naivi\u0173.<\/p><p>Apskritai, skaitau tik knygas apie psichologij\u0105, psichoterapij\u0105, sveik\u0105 gyvensen\u0105, logik\u0105 ir kartais medicin\u0105. Gro\u017ein\u0117 literat\u016bra man primena svetimo gyvenimo pergyvenim\u0105 \u2013 o a\u0161 labai susireik\u0161minusi ties savuoju.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv-content-block tcb-local-vars-root thrv_wrapper\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd06\" tcb-template-name=\"Quote 01\" tcb-template-id=\"41598\" tcb-template-pack=\"137\" data-keep-css_id=\"1\"><div class=\"thrive-group-edit-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_group_edit__{\"jusikoti\":{\"name\":\"Quote\",\"singular\":\"-- Text %s\"},\"jusikwfb\":{\"name\":\"Quotation Marks\",\"singular\":\"-- Image %s\"},\"jusil3f2\":{\"name\":\"Quote Box\",\"singular\":\"-- Content Box %s\"},\"jusilagm\":{\"name\":\"Quote Block\",\"singular\":\"-- Content Box %s\"}}__CONFIG_group_edit__<\/div><div class=\"thrive-local-colors-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_local_colors__{\"colors\":{\"5815c\":\"Border\",\"ab96e\":\"Accent Colour\"},\"gradients\":{}}__CONFIG_local_colors__<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box dynamic-group-jusilagm\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd07\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd08\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd09\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box dynamic-group-jusil3f2\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd0a\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd0b\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element dynamic-group-jusikoti\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd0c\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd0d\" style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201eO kitiems neturiu k\u0105 patarti, nes ne\u017einau, kurioje srityje jie naujokai \u2013 juk tikrai ne gyvenime?\u201c<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption dynamic-group-jusikwfb\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd0e\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\" style=\"width: 100%;\"><img class=\"tve_image wp-image-41605\" alt=\"\" title=\"Quotation_marks_image_03\" data-id=\"41605\" src=\"\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/tcb_content_templates\/contentblock\/images\/Quotation_marks_image_03.png\" style=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"137\"><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p><span style=\"font-size: 1em;\">Turi savo konkre\u010di\u0105 problem\u0105 ar siek\u012f \u2013 tokias knygas ir skaityk. <strong>Net jei ir pasitaikys viena kita ma\u017eiau vertinga, ji taip pat skatins m\u0105styti, ie\u0161koti atsakym\u0173<\/strong> \u2013 kartais tai duoda daugiau vaisi\u0173 nei \u201ekokybi\u0161ka\u201c informacija.<\/span><\/p><p>Manau, dabar daugelis, o ypa\u010d sav\u0119s ie\u0161kantis jaunimas, apskritai pervertina informacijos, knyg\u0173, mokym\u0173, seminar\u0173 svarb\u0105. <strong>Svarbiau u\u017e kokybi\u0161k\u0105 informacij\u0105 yra praktinis tos informacijos taikymas,<\/strong> kasdienis smalsumas, nuolatinis dom\u0117jimasis, patir\u010di\u0173 gausa.<\/p><p>Vertinga abejingu ir aroganti\u0161ku \u017evilgsniu perskrosti populiarius patarimus kaip antai \u201egyvenk \u010dia ir dabar\u201c, \u201evienu metu daryk tik vien\u0105 darb\u0105\u201c, \u201emyl\u0117k save\u201c, \u201epalik savo komforto zon\u0105\u201c \u2013 pabandykit elgtis prie\u0161ingai. Labai smagu.<\/p><p>Ir galiausiai, jau\u010diu, kad laikas u\u017emir\u0161ti, jog ka\u017ekas kitas \u2013 i\u0161 knygos, interneto ar kair\u0117s sofos pus\u0117s \u2013 geriau \u017eino, kaip jums reikia gyventi. Tik\u0117kite savimi, savo mintimis ir savo patarimais pa\u010diam sau ir j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimas tik\u0117s jumis.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c94e802\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img class=\"tve_image wp-image-16584\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"16584\" title=\"lusis-kaip-pasiekti-tikslus\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/lusis-kaip-pasiekti-tikslus.jpg\" data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c94e806\" width=\"955\" height=\"619\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element tve-froala fr-box fr-basic\"><h3 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> Galiausiai, turiu ir tok\u012f savanaudi\u0161k\u0105 klausim\u0105 \u2013 dalis debesylie\u010di\u0173 <em>(suprask, ir a\u0161...)<\/em>&nbsp;patys svajoja sukurti mokymus, programas ar kitokius k\u016brinius... K\u0105 patartum?<\/h3><p>Kai ateina laikas, riba persi\u017eengia pati. \u010cia kaip vaiko pagimdymas. Reikia r\u016bpintis id\u0117ja nuo pat jos u\u017esimezgimo, kurti su ja artim\u0105 santyk\u012f, j\u0105 vystyti ir jausti. V\u0117liau seka sunkaus, bet malonaus id\u0117jos ne\u0161iojimo, r\u016bpinimosi ja etapas. Kai id\u0117ja subr\u0119sta \u2013 ji gimsta.<\/p><p><strong>Gera id\u0117ja yra ta skaudi mintis, kuri nuolat i\u0161kyla galvoje.&nbsp;<\/strong>Galb\u016bt karts nuo karto pam\u0105stote, kad \u017emon\u0117ms ka\u017eko tr\u016bksta, ir \u017einote, kaip tai suteikti? Galb\u016bt matote visuomen\u0117je ar savo artimoje aplinkoje ka\u017ekoki\u0105 problem\u0105, kurios niekas nesprend\u017eia?<\/p><p>Ie\u0161kokite skaud\u017ei\u0173 viet\u0173 \u2013 jose slypi potencialas.<\/p><h2 class=\"\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"display: inline-block;\">\ud83d\udc08<\/span><\/span> A\u010di\u016b u\u017e nuo\u0161irdum\u0105, Rasa!<\/h2><p>K\u0105 a\u0161 galiu \u010dia ir pridurti? Jei turi bet koki\u0173 papildom\u0173 klausim\u0173 Rasai \u2013 r\u0117\u017ek, nes paskatinsiu j\u0105 atsakyti tiesiai \u010dia, komentar\u0173 dalyje \u017eemiau. O ir... <a href=\"https:\/\/dziaugiuosisavimi.lt\/\" class=\"tve-froala\" style=\"outline: currentcolor none medium;\">Kvie\u010diu prisijungti, i\u0161bandyti \u201eL\u016b\u0161\u012f\u201c!<\/a><\/p><p>[parasas]<\/p><\/div>","tve_custom_css":"@media (min-width: 300px){[data-css=\"tve-u-16e80ae1f86\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 1.25em !important; margin-bottom: 0.75em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16e80ae1f8a\"] { margin-top: 0px; margin-left: 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c8fdb86\"] { width: 955px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c8fdb8b\"] { margin-top: 0px; margin-left: 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd07\"] { padding: 50px 0px !important; margin: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd08\"] { border-top: 1px solid var(--tcb-local-color-5815c,rgb(234, 234, 234))   !important; border-bottom: 1px solid var(--tcb-local-color-5815c,rgb(234, 234, 234))   !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd09\"] p { margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16f9c91fd09\"] h1 { margin: 0px !important; 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