{"id":2869,"date":"2013-11-17T12:00:21","date_gmt":"2013-11-17T10:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=2869"},"modified":"2020-12-26T22:00:39","modified_gmt":"2020-12-26T20:00:39","slug":"feisbukitas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/facebook\/","title":{"rendered":"Kas tu esi \u2013 cilv\u0113ks vai Facebook profils? (Iz\u0101rst\u0113t Facebook)<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Br\u012bdin\u0101jums!<\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u0160odien es izk\u0101p\u0161u no savas ierast\u0101s komforta zonas un dal\u012b\u0161os ar faktiem par sevi, kurus neviens pasaul\u0113 nezina. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca no \u0161\u012bm atz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s man ir \u013coti int\u012bmas, t\u0101p\u0113c bija gr\u016bti t\u0101s uzrakst\u012bt.<\/p>\n

Viss, ko es jums l\u016bdzu: <\/strong>izlasi atz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ievadu. Un p\u0113c tam dalieties koment\u0101ros zem\u0101k viens fakts par sevi<\/strong>, ko ar\u012b neviens nezina. Paldies!<\/p>\n

Vai j\u016bs da\u017ereiz j\u016btaties maz\u0101k paveikts nek\u0101 apk\u0101rt\u0113jie? K\u0101ds, ko neviens nezina? Vai nevarat atrast to, kas padara j\u016bs unik\u0101lu?<\/p>\n

Iesp\u0113jams, esat saslimis ar Facebook\u012btu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

J\u0101, tas ir v\u0101rds, ko es tikko izdom\u0101ju. Un t\u0101 k\u0101 es esmu v\u0101rda rad\u012bt\u0101js, man ir iesp\u0113ja to defin\u0113t:<\/p>\n

Facebook\u012bts ir psiholo\u0123iska slim\u012bba, kas izplat\u0101s pati no sevis. Raksturojas ar trauc\u0113t\u0101m sevis un citu v\u0113rt\u0113\u0161anas prasm\u0113m. Slim\u012bbas simptomi: skumjas, depresija un person\u012bg\u0101s izaugsmes iesp\u0113ju samazin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Izklaus\u0101s bied\u0113jo\u0161i? Un t\u0101 vajadz\u0113tu. Paties\u012bba ir t\u0101da, ka Facebook var iz\u0101rst\u0113t.<\/p>\n

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Ko tu AIZMIRSTI, kad ties\u0101 citus un sevi?<\/h2>\n

\u012ass uzdevums:<\/strong> Atcerieties, ka viens \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi veiksm\u012bgs, vispus\u012bgi \u013coti for\u0161s, inteli\u0123ents cilv\u0113ks, kur\u0161 piesaista simtiem fanu. J\u0101, TAS stulbs, kur\u0161 ir nedaudz (vai vair\u0101k) greizsird\u012bgs par savu veiksmi un labpr\u0101t apmain\u012btos ar viet\u0101m.<\/p>\n

K\u0101 tu vi\u0146u\/vi\u0146u v\u0113rt\u0113? <\/strong>Sal\u012bdziniet to, ko \u0161\u012b persona ir sasniegusi, ar to, ko esat sasniedzis.<\/p>\n

\u2026Vai j\u016bti, ka tevi p\u0101r\u0146em neomul\u012bga saj\u016bta?<\/p>\n

Nezinu k\u0101 jums, bet \u0161ie sal\u012bdzin\u0101jumi mani tikai padara skumj\u0101kus - gribas skriet uz virtuvi un sadrupin\u0101t kilogramu cepumu.<\/p>\n

Protams, liela da\u013ca no t\u0101, ko sal\u012bdzin\u0101j\u0101t pirms br\u012b\u017ea, nav l\u012bdzv\u0113rt\u012bga. Galu gal\u0101 vi\u0146iem ir bijusi \u013coti at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bga pieredze nek\u0101 jums. Vai ar\u012b vi\u0146i vienk\u0101r\u0161i bija veiksm\u012bg\u0101ki... Kaut kur pr\u0101t\u0101 tu patie\u0161\u0101m mierini sevi t\u0101.<\/p>\n

Bet vai tu saproti?<\/p>\n

Probl\u0113ma \u0161eit nav sal\u012bdzin\u0101\u0161an\u0101. Probl\u0113mas rodas, kad AIZMIRSTAM, k\u0101p\u0113c m\u0113s izskat\u0101mies un esam at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

K\u0101p\u0113c, tavupr\u0101t, citiem iet lab\u0101k? \u0160is \u012bsais video to labi ilustr\u0113:<\/p>\n

K\u0101 atkl\u0101t sevi?<\/h2>\n

Kas ir Facebook slikt\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca?<\/p>\n

N\u0113, tas nav tas, ka tas ir pilns ar rekl\u0101m\u0101m, ka tas par\u0101da tikai to, ko tas v\u0113las par\u0101d\u012bt, vai ka t\u0101 dizains ir d\u012bvains. 1<\/a><\/p>\n

Liel\u0101k\u0101 Facebook un jebkura cita soci\u0101l\u0101 t\u012bkla probl\u0113ma ir t\u0101, ka NAV sliktu zi\u0146u.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u013bauj man paskaidrot. Iedom\u0101jieties, ka esat devies uz sava lab\u0101k\u0101 drauga dzim\u0161anas dienas ball\u012bti. Un j\u016bs taj\u0101 uz\u0146\u0113m\u0101t apm\u0113ram 300 fotoatt\u0113lus.<\/p>\n

Jaut\u0101jums. Vai aug\u0161upiel\u0101d\u0113sit tos visus? Vai ar\u012b izv\u0113l\u0113sies tikai skaist\u0101ko un lab\u0101ko?<\/p>\n

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Re\u0101l\u0101 dz\u012bve pret Facebook<\/p>\n

Protams, izv\u0113lieties opciju, kur\u0101 izskat\u0101ties lab\u0101k. Gandr\u012bz visi <\/strong>cilv\u0113ki izv\u0113las par\u0101d\u012bt savu lab\u0101ko pusi, kad vien iesp\u0113jams.<\/p>\n

Tas ir dabiski \u2013 ir pat\u012bkami, ja citiem pat\u012bk vai kaut kas ar tevi saist\u012bts. (Vair\u0101k, ang\u013cu valod\u0101: Vajadz\u012bba p\u0113c cie\u0146as<\/a>, Savstarp\u0113ja patika<\/a>.)<\/p>\n

Tikai \u0161eit rodas tr\u012bs probl\u0113mas:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Tas rada il\u016bzijas, ka jums kl\u0101jas lab\u0101k nek\u0101 paties\u012bb\u0101.<\/li>\n
  2. Tas izraisa lab\u0101s pieredzes infl\u0101ciju (skaistas fotogr\u0101fijas, video, m\u016bzika...). Patie\u0161\u0101m labas zi\u0146as zaud\u0113 savu v\u0113rt\u012bbu, ja VISS tiek uzskat\u012bts par fantastisku, p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161u, neticamu vienu zi\u0146u.<\/li>\n
  3. Un visbeidzot, nelielas probl\u0113mas s\u0101k \u0161\u0137ist milz\u012bgas.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Kad redzat tikai lab\u0101s lietas, j\u016bs s\u0101kat t\u0101s nenov\u0113rt\u0113t. Lab\u0101ku lietu mekl\u0113\u0161ana noved pie skumj\u0101m un depresijas. Un slikt\u0101s lietas s\u0101k \u0161\u0137ist nesam\u0113r\u012bgi \u0161ausm\u012bgas.<\/p>\n

    J\u016bsu pasaules uzskats br\u016bk, un lietas izskat\u0101s tikai slikt\u0101k. Varb\u016bt tas pat nav slikti, t\u0101 vien \u0161\u0137iet. <\/strong>2<\/a><\/p>\n

    Es nev\u0113los, lai j\u016bs to piedz\u012bvotu. T\u0101p\u0113c es iesaku:<\/p>\n

    atv\u0113rt <\/strong>Par\u0101diet savai \u0123imenei, draugiem un p\u0101r\u0113jai pasaulei \u012bsto SEVI. Aizmirsti slikto, aizmirst labo. Visp\u0101r aizmirsti visu. T\u0101 viet\u0101 prezent\u0113jiet savu t\u012bro sevi. <\/strong>T\u012brs bez izmai\u0146\u0101m un uzlabojumiem. <\/strong>Tom\u0113r tikai par\u0101dot \u012aSTO tu saprat\u012bsi, ka neesi vienpus\u012bgs cilv\u0113ks.<\/p>\n

    Tikai t\u0101 saprat\u012bsi, ka ar\u012b citi nav vienpus\u012bgi. Tikai atveroties tu k\u013c\u016bsi par savu patieso Es. Pietiek izlikties par sv\u0113to.<\/p>\n

    T\u0101tad, \u0161eit ir uzdevums jums:<\/p>\n

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    1. Dodieties uz zem\u0101k eso\u0161ajiem \u0161\u012b raksta koment\u0101riem.<\/a>))<\/a>)<\/li>\n
    2. Un dal\u012bties viens fakts par sevi<\/strong>, ko l\u012bdz \u0161im neviens pasaul\u0113 nezin\u0101ja. Tas var\u0113tu b\u016bt jebkas.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      ... Ir tikai svar\u012bgi, lai t\u0101 b\u016btu patiesa un patiesa. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

      Un, ja jau esat to izdar\u012bjis, \u0161eit ir da\u013ca, ko gaid\u012bj\u0101t:<\/p>\n

      33 fakti, ko tu nezin\u0101ji par mani. Vai ar\u012b k\u0101ds ir \u012bstais Daniels.<\/h2>\n

      1. Man pat\u012bk str\u0101d\u0101t k\u0101 idiotam. Katru jauku dienu.<\/h4>\n

      \"\"<\/span><\/p>\n

      J\u0101, t\u0101 esmu es D\u017eeimsa Bonda poz\u0101 un dodu pienu sav\u0101 dzim\u0161anas dien\u0101.<\/p>\n

      2. 2013. gada septembr\u012b m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju ieg\u016bt milit\u0101ro pak\u0101pi, ta\u010du p\u0113c karav\u012bra zv\u0113resta Lietuvai do\u0161anas \u0101tri p\u0101rdom\u0101ju.<\/h4>\n

      T\u0101 gada j\u016bnij\u0101 es nopietni ieinteres\u0113jos izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101t jaun\u0101ko virsnieku apm\u0101c\u012bbu, nok\u0101rtoju visas medic\u012bnisk\u0101s p\u0101rbaudes un nodz\u012bvoju tur tie\u0161i vienu m\u0113nesi.<\/p>\n

      Es tos atteicu, jo uzskat\u012bju, ka apm\u0101c\u012bbai (un p\u0101r\u0113jai manai milit\u0101rajai karjerai) ir nepiecie\u0161ama simtprocent\u012bga ap\u0146em\u0161an\u0101s, lai noietu visu ce\u013cu. Velt\u012bjums, ko jau biju velt\u012bjis m\u0101kslai. Es b\u016btu var\u0113jis turpin\u0101t m\u0101c\u012bbas, ta\u010du es no \u0161\u012bs iesp\u0113jas atteicos.<\/p>\n

      3. Dievinu k\u0101rt\u012bbu un k\u0101rto\u0161anu. <\/h4>\n

      Organiz\u0113\u0161ana ir viens no maniem liel\u0101kajiem hobijiem. Lietas, datu b\u0101zes, domas, idejas, cilv\u0113ki un citas sist\u0113mas. Tas ir tas, kas man pat\u012bk \u2013 nolikt lietas lab\u0101kaj\u0101s viet\u0101s, izmest visu, kas trauc\u0113 dz\u012bvot.<\/p>\n

      Man tas tik \u013coti pat\u012bk, ka t\u012bru ne tikai savu m\u0101ju, bet ar\u012b draugu m\u0101jas. Protams, ja vi\u0146i par to nekr\u012bt panik\u0101, k\u0101 traki.<\/p>\n

      4. M\u0101kslas vidusskol\u0101 neiek\u013cuvu, jo tr\u016bka izt\u0113les.<\/h4>\n

      Vai vismaz tas bija ofici\u0101lais iemesls. Kad man bija 11 gadu (topo\u0161ais piektklasnieks), krustvec\u0101ki mani m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ja uz\u0146emt Kau\u0146as m\u0101kslas \u0123imn\u0101zij\u0101. Man neizdev\u0101s gala p\u0101rbaud\u012bjums, klus\u0101s dabas z\u012bm\u0113\u0161ana.<\/p>\n

      Es nezinu, ko j\u016bs no manis gaid\u012bj\u0101t, jo klus\u0101s dabas z\u012bm\u0113\u0161ana ar vien\u0101dojumiem nav t\u0101da darb\u012bba, kas prasa lielu izt\u0113li... Vai es k\u013c\u016bdos?<\/p>\n

      5. Man pat\u012bk lob\u012bt valriekstus ar rok\u0101m.<\/h4>\n

      Vai tas nav jautri? Pa\u0146emiet un saspiediet, un tas krauks, kad to saspie\u017eat! Es krauk\u0161\u0137\u0113ju pret galda virsmu, krauk\u0161\u0137\u0113ju starp pirkstiem, krauk\u0161\u0137\u0113ju ar zobiem.<\/p>\n

      (Starp citu, lob\u012btu riekstu pirk\u0161ana man \u0161\u0137iet k\u0101 zaimo\u0161ana riekstu \u0113\u0161anas ceremonijai!)<\/p>\n

      6. Reiz mani atraid\u012bja meitene. P\u0113c tam es s\u0101ku m\u0101c\u012bties komunik\u0101cijas zin\u0101tni un meite\u0146u piesaist\u012b\u0161anu.<\/h4>\n

      Bija laiks, kad nodarbo\u0161an\u0101s ar sievie\u0161u dzimuma b\u016btn\u0113m man bija s\u0101p\u012bga. Es vienk\u0101r\u0161i nezin\u0101ju, ko vi\u0146iem teikt.<\/p>\n

      P\u0113c \u0161\u012b s\u0101p\u012bg\u0101 noraid\u012bjuma es s\u0101ku m\u0101c\u012bties neirolingvistisko programm\u0113\u0161anu (NLP) 3<\/a> un komunik\u0101cijas psiholo\u0123ija, lai tas neatk\u0101rtotos.<\/p>\n

      Man tie\u0161\u0101m j\u0101pateicas \u0161ai meitenei (Gerda, ja tu \u0161o lasi, tad t\u0101 esi tu), jo vi\u0146a man pal\u012bdz\u0113ja p\u0101rvar\u0113t bailes no saskarsmes. Paldies.<\/p>\n

      7. Es da\u017ereiz str\u0101d\u0101ju tik daudz, ka aizmirstu pa\u0113st.<\/h4>\n

      T\u0101 ir da\u013ca no manas di\u0113tas. K\u0101p\u0113c \u0113st vakari\u0146as, ja ir tik daudz nelas\u012btu gr\u0101matu un nerakst\u012btu rakstu?<\/p>\n

      8. Es padar\u012btu baigo redaktoru.<\/h4>\n

      Es varu izlas\u012bt tekstu 5 reizes un joproj\u0101m palaist gar\u0101m virkni pareizrakst\u012bbas un pieturz\u012bmju k\u013c\u016bdu. Tas ir k\u0101 burvest\u012bba! 4<\/a><\/p>\n

      9. Es pavad\u012bju tr\u012bs gadus, veidojot fant\u0101zijas enciklop\u0113diju... L\u012bdz par to aizmirsu.<\/h4>\n

      \u201cPasaule ir rom\u0101ns, kar\u0161u komplekts un enciklop\u0113dija vien\u0101. \u012astam fant\u0101zijas cien\u012bt\u0101jam.<\/p>\n

      T\u0101ds bija \u0161\u012bs rad\u012b\u0161anas moto. Es pavad\u012bju tr\u012bs gadus, veidojot un no jauna veidojot milzu fant\u0101zijas enciklop\u0113diju. J\u016bs joproj\u0101m varat atrast vi\u0146as nepabeigto enciklop\u0113diju tie\u0161saist\u0113: "Pasaule".<\/p>\n

      Radot nepaguvu visas idejas ielikt \u0161aj\u0101 enciklop\u0113dij\u0101. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca darin\u0101jumu ir nogrimu\u0161i atsevi\u0161\u0137\u0101s lap\u0101s un atvilktn\u0113s.<\/p>\n

      \"\"<\/span><\/p>\n

      Pasaules klimatisk\u0101s zonas. Ori\u0123in\u0101ls<\/a> (milz\u012bgs)<\/p>\n

      10. No maniem se\u0161iem tuv\u0101kajiem draugiem \u010detras ir meitenes.<\/h4>\n

      Es pat nezinu, k\u0101 tas notika. Bet izr\u0101d\u0101s, ka man lab\u0101k padodas komunik\u0101cija ar meiten\u0113m nek\u0101 ar z\u0113niem.<\/p>\n

      (Vai: k\u0101 ar to, ka tr\u012bs no \u010detr\u0101m meiten\u0113m pirmo reizi satiku randi\u0146os. *klepus, klepus*)<\/p>\n

      11. Reiz m\u0113s ar skolas draugu Ernestu uzspridzin\u0101j\u0101m kafejn\u012bcas tualeti.<\/h4>\n

      Izr\u0101d\u0101s, ka ar \u016bdeni tualet\u0113 neizdodas nodz\u0113st dego\u0161o petardi. Kur\u0161 to b\u016btu dom\u0101jis? Es joproj\u0101m atceros, k\u0101 skr\u0113ju pa kafejn\u012bcas durv\u012bm, p\u0101ri Vi\u013c\u0146as ielai un atpaka\u013c uz skolu. M\u0113s tur vairs nedev\u0101mies. Iemesls? Hei, kam vajadz\u012bgs iemesls 15 gadus veciem p\u012bkstieniem?<\/p>\n

      12. Kad man bija 13, es gandr\u012bz zaud\u0113ju galvu.<\/h4>\n

      Matem\u0101tika: velosip\u0113ds + st\u0101vs kalns - \u0137ivere + nobrauciens + \u016bdens = sasod\u012bti slikta kombin\u0101cija. Av\u0101rij\u0101 man izdev\u0101s sa\u0161\u0137elt galvu pier\u0113 UN pakaus\u012b.<\/p>\n

      13. Manas gatavo\u0161anas prasmes (l\u012bdz nesenam laikam) bija tra\u0123iskas.<\/h4>\n

      Ja nopietni, tad vissare\u017e\u0123\u012bt\u0101k\u0101 recepte, ko jebkad esmu apguvusi, ir v\u0101r\u012bti un cepti makaroni bez m\u0113rc\u0113m. Un reiz, cepot pank\u016bkas, pasp\u0113ju par t\u0101m uz pusstundu aizmirst un atgriezos, atradu oglekli un daudz d\u016bmu. Es iem\u0101c\u012bjos gatavot lab\u0101k, kad man bija apm\u0113ram 24 gadi. Apm\u0113ram pirms pusgada no \u0161\u012b br\u012b\u017ea. 5<\/a> \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

      14. Es iegaum\u0113ju za\u013co pipargur\u0137\u012b\u0161u dziesmu un dziedu, kad l\u012bst.<\/h4>\n

      Ja v\u0113l neesi redz\u0113jis \u0161o multfilmu, tad t\u0101 ir:<\/p>\n

      15. Man pat\u012bk dzied\u0101t ejot un es dziedu visur.<\/h4>\n

      Piem\u0113ram, Laisves prospekt\u0101, k\u0101d\u0101 me\u017e\u0101 vai Akropol\u0113. Repertu\u0101rs no vec\u0101s skolas himnas l\u012bdz Frenka Sinatras dziesmai "Strangers in the night" (man pat\u012bk \u0161\u012b dziesma).<\/p>\n

      16. Mana m\u016bzikas gaume ir d\u012bvaina un esmu ar to apmierin\u0101ta.<\/h4>\n

      Klausos Lady Gaga, Caravan Palace, \u010caikovska Gulbju ezeru, Frenku Sinatru un visu, kas pa vidu. Mans m\u016bzikas atska\u0146o\u0161anas saraksts ir \u017eanru kakofonija.<\/p>\n

      17. Pirms da\u017eiem gadiem es dom\u0101ju, ka esmu aseksu\u0101ls.<\/h4>\n

      God\u012bgi sakot, es joproj\u0101m t\u0101 dom\u0101ju, bet vairs neesmu tik p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts. Iesp\u0113jams, ka esmu tikai pel\u0113c\u012bgi aseksu\u0101la \u2013 j\u016btu dzimumtieksmi, bet tikai p\u0113c cie\u0161a kontakta.<\/p>\n

      PS Atvainojiet, ka esmu tik form\u0101li, es vienk\u0101r\u0161i nej\u016btos \u0113rti run\u0101t par \u0161o t\u0113mu. Cik es zinu, aseksu\u0101\u013ci tiek uzskat\u012bti par pat vair\u0101k izvirtu\u013ciem nek\u0101 homoseksu\u0101\u013ci. Nav vajadz\u012bga drosme, lai par to run\u0101tu ska\u013ci.<\/p>\n

      18. Esmu pavad\u012bjis 360+ dienas no savas dz\u012bves vienatn\u0113 sp\u0113l\u0113jot videosp\u0113les.<\/h4>\n

      Un n\u0113, es nedom\u0101ju, ka sp\u0113l\u0113ju sp\u0113les gadu p\u0113c k\u0101rtas. Es dom\u0101ju, saskaitot visas sp\u0113les, san\u0101ktu vismaz gadu PURE sp\u0113les. Tas ir vair\u0101k nek\u0101 10 t\u016bksto\u0161i stundu.<\/p>\n

      Septi\u0146us gadus es biju milz\u012bgs sp\u0113\u013cu r\u012bks. S\u0101kot ar paz\u012bstamo Lineage\u00a0II un beidzot ar agr\u012bnu pusaud\u017eu Runescape un beidzot ar v\u0113lu pusaud\u017eu World of Warcraft.<\/p>\n

      \"\"<\/span><\/p>\n

      T\u0101 k\u0101du laiku biju es. Un j\u0101, tas ir elfs ar za\u0137a aus\u012bm.<\/p>\n

      Saska\u0146\u0101 ar manu sp\u0113\u013cu statistiku, kuru es glab\u0101ju tikai tr\u012bs gadus no \u0161iem septi\u0146iem, es zaud\u0113ju vismaz 5 m\u0113ne\u0161us no savas dz\u012bves. T\u012bri.<\/p>\n

      Tikai p\u0113c tam, kad es atkl\u0101ju jaunu hobiju - m\u0101c\u012b\u0161anos sazin\u0101ties ar meiten\u0113m - es samazin\u0101ju laiku, ko pavad\u012bju sp\u0113l\u0113jot sp\u0113les. Tiesa, es joproj\u0101m da\u017ereiz sp\u0113l\u0113ju, bet tagad sp\u0113les ir tikai stundu ned\u0113\u013c\u0101. 6<\/a> Es to vairs nevaru iztur\u0113t.<\/p>\n

      19. Es da\u017ereiz esmu milzu stulbi.<\/h4>\n

      Piem\u0113ram, pirms pusgada es uzrakst\u012bju 10 000 v\u0101rdu garu rom\u0101nu... Un es to nejau\u0161i izdz\u0113su no datora un Google diska rezerves kr\u0101tuves vienlaikus. Es pat nerun\u0101\u0161u par eks\u0101meniem, uz kuriem nokav\u0113ju, vai dzim\u0161anas dien\u0101m, kuras aizmirsu.<\/p>\n

      20. Man Holivudas filmas pat\u012bk lab\u0101k nek\u0101 neatkar\u012bgas studijas.<\/h4>\n

      Nezinu, varb\u016bt vienk\u0101r\u0161i no film\u0101m sagaidu kvalitat\u012bvu un jautru izklaidi. Galu gal\u0101, tam filmas ir rad\u012btas \u2013 izklaidei. Idejas lab\u0101k g\u016bstu no gr\u0101mat\u0101m vai sarun\u0101m ar cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n

      21. Es nekad neesmu sapratis dzeju.<\/h4>\n

      Atvainojiet, dzejnieki, bet j\u016bsu raksti man ir gal\u012bgi nesaprotami. Es zinu, ka ir cilv\u0113ki, kuriem pat\u012bk dzeja, bet es neesmu viens no tiem.<\/p>\n

      22. Es ne vienm\u0113r daru to, kas man b\u016btu j\u0101dara.<\/h4>\n

      Es katru ned\u0113\u013cu lasu DAUDZ gr\u0101matu, rakstu un citu tekstu par vesel\u012bg\u0101ku dz\u012bvi, produkt\u012bvu darbu un karjeras veido\u0161anu... Bet es ne vienm\u0113r sekoju tam, ko man saka. \u013boti bie\u017ei es to nepacie\u0161u un nedaru lietas t\u0101, k\u0101 man var\u0113tu b\u016bt lab\u0101k.<\/p>\n

      23. Reiz\u0113m es tik \u013coti ien\u012bstu savu modin\u0101t\u0101ju, ka gribu to izmest pa logu.<\/h4>\n

      Nepiecie\u0161ami vair\u0101k koment\u0101ru? Dro\u0161i vien j\u016bs to piedz\u012bvojat ar\u012b no r\u012btiem.<\/p>\n

      24. Man pat\u012bk skat\u012bties savus att\u0113lus spogu\u013cos vai logos.<\/h4>\n

      P\u0101rdomas mani bie\u017ei aizrauj. Nez k\u0101p\u0113c tajos br\u012b\u017eos j\u016btos k\u0101 film\u0101.<\/p>\n

      25. Man pat\u012bk m\u0101c\u012bties un visu dienu varu pavad\u012bt enciklop\u0113dij\u0101s.<\/h4>\n

      Esmu gr\u0101matu t\u0101rps un lepojos ar to. Parasti s\u0101kot ar vienk\u0101r\u0161u jaut\u0101jumu par to, kad strazdi atgrie\u017eas (j\u0101, tie ir mani ikdienas jaut\u0101jumi), es caur Vikip\u0113diju non\u0101ku l\u012bdz \u0136\u012bnas v\u0113sturei.<\/p>\n

      Kop\u012bga m\u0101c\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ir ar\u012b viens no iemesliem, k\u0101p\u0113c es rakstu. Man v\u0113l ir daudz vietas, kur augt rakst\u012b\u0161anas, emu\u0101ra uztur\u0113\u0161an\u0101 vai las\u012bt\u0101ju (j\u0101, j\u016bsu) probl\u0113mu risin\u0101\u0161an\u0101.<\/p>\n

      \"\"<\/span><\/p>\n

      26. Es bie\u017ei uzskatu, ka, ja es piln\u012bb\u0101 nesagatavo\u0161os, es izg\u0101z\u012b\u0161os.<\/h4>\n

      Es neatceros, kad p\u0113d\u0113jo reizi es dar\u012bju kaut ko jaunu, kam man nebija nepiecie\u0161ams divreiz ilg\u0101ks laiks, lai sagatavotos. Piem\u0113ram, pirmo reizi v\u0101rot olu (iesp\u0113jams, visvienk\u0101r\u0161\u0101k\u0101 recepte jebkad), pusstundu noskat\u012bjos internet\u0101 video, k\u0101 to izdar\u012bt.<\/p>\n

      Es pat nerun\u0101ju par emu\u0101ra ierakstiem \u2013 es tos rakstu 8-10 stundas. Un j\u0101, es zinu, ka tas ir traki. Pats nevaru atrast lo\u0123iku, bet man tas ir norm\u0101li.<\/p>\n

      27. Es da\u017ereiz varu b\u016bt sasod\u012bti sp\u012bt\u012bgs.<\/h4>\n

      Un bie\u017ei tas man nav izdev\u012bgi. Gatavojot to olu, es var\u0113ju vec\u0101kiem pajaut\u0101t, k\u0101 to izdar\u012bt, bet es grib\u0113ju "tais\u012bt pats". Es j\u016btu, ka mana sp\u012bt\u012bba dar\u012bt lietas p\u0113c saviem ieskatiem ir s\u0101pes man tuvajiem.<\/p>\n

      28. Vai es piemin\u0113ju, ka mana atmi\u0146a ir slikta?<\/h4>\n

      Ja j\u016bs kaut ko ar mani pl\u0101noj\u0101t, bet es to nepierakst\u012bju - dom\u0101jiet, ka es par to jau aizmirsu.<\/p>\n

      29. Man v\u0113l nav j\u0101nogar\u0161o k\u0101ds alkoholiskais dz\u0113riens, kas man pat\u012bk.<\/h4>\n

      Un es s\u0101ku dom\u0101t, ka alkohols nemaz negar\u0161o, un cilv\u0113ki, kas to dzer, nedzer to visp\u0101r p\u0113c gar\u0161as. (Pie\u0161\u0137irti, tas neizskaidro alus vai v\u012bna cien\u012bt\u0101jus.)<\/p>\n

      30. Man var b\u016bt divpadsmitgad\u012bga b\u0113rna gar\u0161as k\u0101rpi\u0146as.<\/h4>\n

      Nekad neesmu gar\u0161ojis gardu alkoholisko dz\u0113rienu, man pat\u012bk karame\u013cu sald\u0113jums ar lazdu riekstiem, es dievinu makaronus, apels\u012bnus un man vienk\u0101r\u0161i riebjas zivju \u0113dieni. Ak, un j\u0101, es da\u017ereiz brokast\u012bs \u0113du \u0161okol\u0101des p\u0101rslas.<\/p>\n

      31. Kad biju b\u0113rns, man \u013coti patika nodarboties ar da\u017e\u0101diem rokdarbiem.<\/h4>\n

      T\u0101 laikam bija mammas ietekme, m\u016bsu m\u0101j\u0101 vienm\u0113r bija materi\u0101lu kaudzes, pap\u012brs, diegu un adatu spoles, l\u012bme un kr\u0101sas. Man joproj\u0101m pat\u012bk lietas tais\u012bt pa\u0161am.<\/p>\n

      32. V\u0113los iem\u0101c\u012bties ad\u012bt, bet neesmu gatava s\u0101kt.<\/h4>\n

      Vai varat iedom\u0101ties, kur Lietuv\u0101 atrast v\u012brie\u0161u ad\u012b\u0161anas klubu? Vai vienk\u0101r\u0161i ad\u012b\u0161anas klubs kaut kur Kau\u0146\u0101? Tas man dotu nelielu stimulu ad\u012bt tos cimdus, par kuriem vienm\u0113r esmu sap\u0146ojis.<\/p>\n

      33. Es \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b baidos un uztraucos.<\/h4>\n

      Manas rokas nedaudz tr\u012bc, rakstot \u0161os v\u0101rdus. Jo man ir bail.<\/p>\n

      Nezinu, k\u0101 tu v\u0113rt\u0113si \u0161\u012bs manas atz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s. Man nav ne jausmas, ko gaid\u012bt no j\u016bsu reakcijas.<\/p>\n

      Bet varb\u016bt t\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161i ir lab\u0101k?<\/p>\n

      \u2026Varb\u016bt tikai baidoties es j\u016btu, ka esmu dz\u012bvs?<\/h2>\n

      Man nav ne jausmas, k\u0101 j\u016bs atbild\u0113sit. Un es l\u016bdzu tikai vienu - pievienojies man. Past\u0101stiet par sevi vismaz vienu faktu, ko v\u0113l neviens nezina.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Tas ir turpat koment\u0101ros zem\u0101k. Ielogoties!<\/p>\n

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      \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n <\/svg>\n <\/div>\n \"Daniels\"<\/noscript><\/p>\n

      1. Lai gan t\u0101 ir ar\u012b vi\u0146a probl\u0113ma.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li>

      2. Vair\u0101k ang\u013cu valod\u0101: K\u0101p\u0113c Y paaudzes jupiji ir nelaim\u012bgi.<\/a>↩<\/a><\/p><\/li>

      3. Kas NAV zin\u0101tne, un, l\u016bdzu, nepie\u013caujiet \u0161o k\u013c\u016bdu k\u0101 es.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li>

      4. \u0160o tekstu redi\u0123\u0113ja br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bg\u0101 redaktore Agn\u0117 Giniotyte. Bez vi\u0146as b\u016btu slikt\u0101k.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li>

      5. Pal\u012bdz\u0113ja, ka es p\u0101rc\u0113los uz savu m\u0101ju atsevi\u0161\u0137i no vec\u0101kiem. Nav m\u0101tes, ir prasme!↩<\/a><\/p><\/li>

      6. Starp citu, j\u016bs varat pievienot mani, izmantojot Blizzard: Debesyla#2681. Es joproj\u0101m sp\u0113l\u0113ju World of Warcraft.↩<\/a><\/p><\/li><\/ol><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

        Br\u012bdin\u0101jums! \u0160odien es izk\u0101p\u0161u no savas ierast\u0101s komforta zonas un dal\u012b\u0161os ar faktiem par sevi, kurus neviens pasaul\u0113 nezina. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca no \u0161\u012bm atz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s man ir \u013coti int\u012bmas, t\u0101p\u0113c bija gr\u016bti t\u0101s uzrakst\u012bt. Viss, ko es l\u016bdzu no jums, ir izlas\u012bt atz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s ievadu. Un tad koment\u0101ros zem\u0101k padalieties ar vienu faktu par sevi, ko ar\u012b neviens nezina. Paldies! Vai jums da\u017ereiz \u0161\u0137iet, ka esat sasniedzis [...]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17859,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2869","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kita"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2869"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2869\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17859"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}