{"id":14672,"date":"2013-01-26T22:52:00","date_gmt":"2013-01-26T20:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/2013\/01\/kaip-pakeisti-save-faktai-ir-argumentai.html"},"modified":"2021-02-19T21:36:41","modified_gmt":"2021-02-19T19:36:41","slug":"kaip-pakeisti-save-faktai-ir-argumentai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/ka-izmainit-sevi-fakti-un-argumenti\/","title":{"rendered":"[Pirmasis mano straipsnis]<\/i> Kaip pakeisti save? Faktai ir argumentai"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u0101l\u0101k eso\u0161ais teksts ir pirmais un vec\u0101kais Debesyla ieraksts, kas public\u0113ts 2013. gada 26. janv\u0101r\u012b. Tas nav atjaunin\u0101ts vai labots 1<\/a> un \u012bpa\u0161i atst\u0101ta k\u0101 piemi\u0146a. \u0160eit s\u0101k\u0101s m\u0101konis.<\/p>\n

1) J\u016bs nevarat main\u012bt sevi<\/h2>\n

Jums ir nepiecie\u0161ams kaut kas, uz k\u0101 atsperties, kaut kas, uz k\u0101 uzk\u0101pt, kaut kas, kas j\u016bs paceltu. J\u016bs nevarat pacelties pats, nek\u0101d\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101, tas ir t\u0101pat, k\u0101 m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t satvert sevi par dibenu un pacelt sevi uz aug\u0161u - tas ir neiesp\u0113jami.*<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Lai main\u012btu sevi, jums ir j\u0101padara p\u0101rmai\u0146as neizb\u0113gamas. Jums ir j\u0101pan\u0101k, lai vide piespiestu j\u016bs main\u012bties, lai cik bied\u0113jo\u0161i tas neizklaus\u012btos. Piem\u0113ri ir visda\u017e\u0101d\u0101kie - atcerieties to reizi, kad baid\u012bj\u0101ties k\u0101pt uz skatuves un p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i k\u0101ds j\u016bs uz t\u0101s uzst\u016bma... Vai j\u016bs izjut\u0101t bailes, kad pabeidz\u0101t savu runu? Varb\u016bt, bet t\u0101s bija daudz maz\u0101kas nek\u0101 pirms tam.<\/p>\n

Iepriek\u0161\u0113jie sliek\u0161\u0146i pal\u012bdz p\u0101rsniegt jaunus sliek\u0161\u0146us. M\u0101cieties l\u0113n\u0101m, un j\u016bs neredz\u0113siet, k\u0101 k\u013c\u016bstat par meistaru. Pirmaj\u0101s div\u0101s reiz\u0113s neklausiet v\u0113lmei aizb\u0113gt, tre\u0161aj\u0101 reiz\u0113 pie\u0146emiet un aizb\u0113dziet. Divas reizes ir pietiekami, un n\u0101kamaj\u0101 m\u0113\u0123in\u0101jum\u0101 j\u016bs iztur\u0113siet ilg\u0101k.<\/p>\n

2) k\u013c\u016bdies, k\u013c\u016bdies un v\u0113lreiz k\u013c\u016bdies.<\/h2>\n

Tas, kas m\u016bs nenogalina, padara m\u016bs stipr\u0101kus, reiz teica Bobs M\u0101rlijs**<\/strong>. M\u0101cieties \u0101tri, m\u0101cieties tik \u0101tri, ka s\u0101p.<\/p>\n

Ja v\u0113laties iem\u0101c\u012bties nirt, iemetiet savu iedom\u0101to mobilo t\u0101lruni k\u0101d\u0101 sekl\u0101 ezera da\u013c\u0101, bet ne tik sekl\u0101, lai to var\u0113tu sasniegt, nenolai\u017eoties. Ja izgl\u0101bies, bravo, tu esi izgl\u0101bis savu d\u0101rgumu... un vienlaikus iem\u0101c\u012bjies nirt... Ja cit\u0101di neizgl\u0101bies vai nejau\u0161i nosl\u012bksi, nu, nekas, n\u0101kamreiz cent\u012bsies vair\u0101k.<\/p>\n

3) Necenties visiem liel\u012bties ar to, ko dari.<\/h2>\n

Es nenor\u0101d\u012b\u0161u da\u017eu p\u0113t\u012bjumu avotu*** <\/strong>Cilv\u0113ki, kuri saviem draugiem liel\u012bj\u0101s ar to, ka ir sasniegu\u0161i izvirz\u012bto m\u0113r\u0137i (m\u0113r\u0137i at\u0161\u0137iras), bie\u017e\u0101k \"pabeidza\" m\u0113r\u0137i \u0101tr\u0101k nek\u0101 tie, kuri to nedar\u012bja.<\/p>\n

Pamatojums ir t\u0101ds, ka cilv\u0113ki, kas liel\u012bj\u0101s, bie\u017e\u0101k sa\u0146\u0113ma sv\u0113t\u012bbas un iedro\u0161in\u0101jumu no apk\u0101rt\u0113jiem, kas savuk\u0101rt rad\u012bja priek\u0161statu, ka m\u0113r\u0137is jau princip\u0101 ir sasniegts. Citiem v\u0101rdiem sakot, apk\u0101rt\u0113jo cilv\u0113ku uzman\u012bba ie\u0161\u016bpoja j\u016bs, liekot dom\u0101t, ka esat paveiku\u0161i visu, kas jums bija j\u0101dara, ka esat pabeigu\u0161i darbu. P\u0101rbaudiet pa\u0161i, kad m\u0113\u0123in\u0101siet atmest vai s\u0101kt apmekl\u0113t sporta z\u0101li - tikai nevienam par to nepieminiet.<\/p>\n

Pagaid\u0101m t\u0101, varb\u016bt n\u0101kotn\u0113 atcer\u0113\u0161os v\u0113l k\u0101du noder\u012bgu teor\u0113tisku inform\u0101ciju tiem, kas m\u0113\u0123in\u0101s main\u012bties pa\u0161i. Vai ar\u012b apk\u0101rt\u0113jie, ja tu tik labi sp\u0113j pal\u012bdz\u0113t citiem sasniegt vi\u0146u m\u0113r\u0137us. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

* <\/strong>Ak, relativit\u0101tes teorija! Pati sist\u0113ma nekustas, kam\u0113r to nekustina kaut kas no \u0101rpuses.<\/p>\n

**<\/strong> T\u0101 nav paties\u012bba, t\u0101 teica A. Ein\u0161teins. Lai gan t\u0101 ar\u012b var neb\u016bt taisn\u012bba.<\/p>\n

***<\/strong> J\u0101, es esmu p\u0101r\u0101k slinks, lai \u0161aj\u0101 rindkop\u0101 kaut ko inteli\u0123entu uzrakst\u012btu.<\/p>\n

  1. Ne\u0146emot v\u0113r\u0101 \u0161o br\u012bdin\u0101jumu.<\/span>↩<\/a><\/p><\/li><\/ol><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Tekstas \u017eemiau yra pirmasis bei seniausias Debesylos \u012fra\u0161as, i\u0161leistas 2013 met\u0173 sausio 26 dien\u0105. Jis n\u0117ra naujintas arba taisytas ir specialiai paliktas kaip atminimas. Debesyla prasid\u0117jo \u010dia. 1) Pakeisti pats sav\u0119s negali Tam reikia ka\u017eko \u012f k\u0105 gal\u0117tum pasiremti, ka\u017eko ant ko gal\u0117tum u\u017ekopti, ka\u017eko kas gal\u0117t\u0173 pakelti tave auk\u0161\u010diau. Pats sav\u0119s niekaip nepakelsi, niekaip, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16089,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","tve_updated_post":"

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    Tekstas \u017eemiau yra pirmasis bei seniausias Debesylos \u012fra\u0161as, i\u0161leistas 2013 met\u0173 sausio 26 dien\u0105. Jis n\u0117ra naujintas arba taisytas [ftn]Neskai\u010diuojant \u0161io persp\u0117jimo.<\/span>[\/ftn] ir specialiai paliktas kaip atminimas. Debesyla prasid\u0117jo \u010dia.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>

    1) Pakeisti pats sav\u0119s negali<\/h2>

    Tam reikia ka\u017eko \u012f k\u0105 gal\u0117tum pasiremti, ka\u017eko ant ko gal\u0117tum u\u017ekopti, ka\u017eko kas gal\u0117t\u0173 pakelti tave auk\u0161\u010diau. Pats sav\u0119s niekaip nepakelsi, niekaip, tai kaip bandymas paimt save u\u017e u\u017epakalio ir i\u0161kelti auk\u0161\u010diau - ne\u012fmanoma niekaip*<\/strong>.<\/p>

    Norint pakeisti save reik padaryti taip, kad pasikeitimas b\u016bt\u0173 nei\u0161vengiamas. Reik padaryti taip, kad aplinka priverst\u0173 tave pasikeist, kad ir kaip tai baisiai skamba. Pavyzd\u017eiai matomi pla\u010diai - atmink t\u0105 kart\u0105 kai bijojai stot ant scenos, o staiga tave ka\u017ekas \u012fst\u016bm\u0119 \u012f j\u0105.. Ar jutai baim\u0119 kai baigei savo kalb\u0105? Galb\u016bt, bet ji buvo daug ma\u017eesn\u0117 nei ank\u0161\u010diau.<\/p>

    Ankstesni slenks\u010diai padeda per\u017eengti naujus slenks\u010dius. Mokinkis l\u0117tai ir nepasteb\u0117si kaip tapai meistru. Pirmus du kartus neklausyk noro pab\u0117gti, tre\u010di\u0105 kart\u0105 - priimk ir pab\u0117k. U\u017eteks ir dviej\u0173 kart\u0173, sekant\u012f bandym\u0105 i\u0161tversi ilgiau.<\/p>

    2) Klysk, klysk ir dar kart\u0105 klysk.<\/h2>

    Kas m\u016bs\u0173 nenu\u017eudo padaro mus stipresniais, pasak\u0117 kart\u0105 Bob Marley**<\/strong>. Mokinkis greitai, mokinkis taip greitai, kad skaud\u0117t\u0173.<\/p>

    Jei nori i\u0161mokti nardyti \u012fmesk savo prabang\u0173 mobil\u0173j\u012f telefon\u0105 \u012f sekli\u0105 e\u017eero dal\u012f, bet ne tiek sekli\u0105, kad pasiektum nepan\u0117r\u0119s. Jei i\u0161gelb\u0117si - bravo, tu i\u0161gelb\u0117jai savo lob\u012f.. Ir kartu i\u0161mokai nardyt.. Jei, kitu atveju nei\u0161gelb\u0117jai arba nety\u010diom paskendai - na, nieko tokio, kit\u0105 kart\u0105 bandysi smarkiau.<\/p>

    3) Nesistenk visiems girtis k\u0105 tu darai.<\/h2>

    Vien\u0173 tyrim\u0173 kuri\u0173 \u0161altinio neduosiu*** <\/strong>\u017einiomis \u017emon\u0117s kurie pasigyr\u0117 draugams, kad vykdo ka\u017ekok\u012f savo i\u0161kelt\u0105 tiksl\u0105 (tikslai \u012fvair\u016bs) da\u017eniau tiksl\u0105 \"pabaigdavo\" ank\u0161\u010diau, nei tie kurie nesigyr\u0117.<\/p>

    Pagrind\u017eiama tuo, kad pasigyr\u0119 \u017emon\u0117s gaudavo grei\u010diau aplinkini\u0173 palaiminimus, padr\u0105sinimus, o tai paskatindavo mintis, jog tikslas jau i\u0161 esm\u0117s pasiektas. Kitaip tariant, aplinkini\u0173 d\u0117mesys u\u017eli\u016bliuodavo savo pasiry\u017et\u0105 tiksl\u0105 \u012fvykdyt kaip pridera manant, kad tu jau padarei k\u0105 reikia, pabaigei. Patikrinkit patys kada kai bandysit mesti rukyti ar prad\u0117t vaik\u0161\u010diot \u012f sporto klub\u0105 - tiesiog to niekam nemin\u0117kite.<\/p>

    Tiek \u0161iam kartui, gal dar ateityje prisiminsiu ir daugiau naudingos teorin\u0117s informacijos tiems kurie bandys pakeisti save. Ar aplinkinius, jei esi toks geras, kad kitiems padedi pasiekti j\u0173 tikslus. ;)<\/p>

    * <\/strong>O, reliatyvizmo teorija! Sistema pati nejuda kol jos nepajudina ka\u017ekas i\u0161 i\u0161or\u0117s.<\/p>

    **<\/strong> Tai netiesa, tai sak\u0117 A.Ein\u0161teinas. Nors gali b\u016bti, kad tai taipogi netiesa.<\/p>

    ***<\/strong> Taip, a\u0161 tiek tinginys, kad net pating\u0117siu k\u0105 protingo para\u0161yt \u0161ioje pastraipoje.<\/p><\/div>","tve_custom_css":"@media (min-width: 300px){#tve_editor [data-css=\"tve-u-16d02fbc850\"] { font-size: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16d02ff0738\"] { padding: 1px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16d03006aa0\"] { color: var(--tcb-color-6) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-16d030304cf\"] { padding: 1.25em 2.5em !important; margin: 0px 0px 0em !important; }}","tve_user_custom_css":"","tve_globals":{"e":"1","font_cls":[]},"tcb2_ready":1,"tcb_editor_enabled":1,"tve_landing_page":"","_tve_header":"","_tve_footer":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-14672","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kita"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14672","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14672"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14672\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16089"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14672"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14672"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14672"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}