{"id":12706,"date":"2018-01-17T10:22:53","date_gmt":"2018-01-17T08:22:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=12706"},"modified":"2021-10-06T01:33:52","modified_gmt":"2021-10-05T22:33:52","slug":"metai-be-alkoholio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/gads-bez-alkohola\/","title":{"rendered":"Gads bez alkohola:<\/del> Alkohols ir b\u0113g\u0161ana no sevis<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0160odien varu svin\u0113t. D\u012bvain\u0101kais ir tas, ka \u0161obr\u012bd \u0161is fakts man ne\u0161\u0137iet ne iespaid\u012bgs, ne kr\u0101\u0161\u0146s. \u0160\u0137iet \u2013 un t\u0101 tas ar\u012b ir.<\/p>\n

P\u0113d\u0113jie 365 dienas<\/strong> izlauz\u0101s man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 bez alkohola.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un tie\u0161\u0101m, varb\u016bt es pat neb\u016btu par to rakst\u012bjis. Bet tad es dom\u0101ju par saviem pusaud\u017ea gadiem, par savu dz\u012bvi ar alkoholu, un es nol\u0113mu, ka es nedaudz parun\u0101\u0161u.<\/p>\n

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Pirmk\u0101rt, \u013coti \u012bsi, ko es dom\u0101ju par vald\u012bbas m\u0113\u0123in\u0101jumu c\u012bn\u012bties ar alkoholismu Lietuv\u0101.<\/h2>\n

Galu gal\u0101 tas \u0161obr\u012bd ir aktu\u0101li. N\u0113, es neesmu par skarbiem un drastiskiem likumiem, jo, pirmk\u0101rt, vi\u0146i ir rad\u012bju\u0161i m\u016bsu sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 t\u0101du pirti, kur\u0101 visi p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i c\u0113l\u0101s un pulc\u0113j\u0101s liel\u0101 sast\u0101v\u0101, kas ska\u013ci teica "tu mums nepaskaidrosi. ". J\u0101, jo vair\u0101k tu centies sagr\u0101bt, jo vair\u0101k sagr\u0101btais grib sacelties.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Otrk\u0101rt, tas dump\u012bgais sp\u0113ks p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i vairs nesaprata, par ko vi\u0146i c\u012bn\u0101s - par br\u012bv\u012bbu izlemt, cik un kur lietot, vai vienk\u0101r\u0161i par to, ka alkohols ir katra pa\u0161a lieta.<\/p>\n

Mans k\u0101dreiz m\u012b\u013cotais Marijons uz skatuves pie Seima pils, es klausos, vi\u0146\u0161 jau run\u0101 par to, k\u0101 no priec\u012bga k\u013cuva skumj\u0161 un dom\u012bgs, jo, saprotiet, bez alkohola cilv\u0113ks k\u013c\u016bst dr\u016bms un ka\u0161\u0137\u012bgs, k\u0101 tie politi\u0137i, kas m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ja m\u016bs m\u0101c\u012bt.<\/p>\n

Un tad es dom\u0101ju, ka, M\u0113rij, mums ir probl\u0113mas ar alkoholu.<\/p>\n

Tev bija probl\u0113mas ar alkoholu, daudzi man st\u0101st\u012bja par to, ka esi nomald\u012bjies starp kokiem no r\u012btiem, un, kad jaunie\u0161i smejas par taviem jokiem par dr\u016bmajiem nedzero\u0161ajiem politi\u0137iem, vai tu tie\u0161\u0101m juti laimi un labi, tus\u0113jot tajos r\u012btos?<\/p>\n

Burtiski, c\u012b\u0146a par izv\u0113les br\u012bv\u012bbu p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i k\u013cuva par sauk\u013ciem par jautru dz\u012bvi alkohola ieskaut\u0101. Tas, protams, ir mans subjekt\u012bvais skat\u012bjums, un es var\u0113tu turpin\u0101t desmit rindkopas, bet es to nedar\u012b\u0161u.<\/p>\n

Es lab\u0101k past\u0101st\u012b\u0161u, k\u0101p\u0113c es izsl\u0113dzu no savas dz\u012bves alkoholu un k\u0101 tas main\u012bja manu ikdienu.<\/h2>\n

Lai gan man ir biju\u0161i daudzi posmi bez alkohola, \u0161is ir visilg\u0101kais (kop\u0161 pirmo reizi pagar\u0161oju). Iepriek\u0161 jutos tuk\u0161\u0101ka, kaut kas iek\u0161\u0101 nedeva mieru. Tas ir slikts m\u012blas st\u0101sts, t\u0101s ir ilgas vai s\u0101pes, t\u0101s ir bailes, nemiers.<\/p>\n

...Un tad, p\u0113c pintes, tas k\u013cuva mier\u012bg\u0101ks, jautr\u0101ks. <\/strong>Tikai jo t\u0101l\u0101k, jo vair\u0101k viss ievilk\u0101s, un katra realit\u0101tes konfront\u0101cija ar sevi k\u013cuva dr\u016bm\u0101ka.<\/strong><\/p>\n

K\u0101du dienu tu vienk\u0101r\u0161i saproti, ka tev tas ir j\u0101\u0146em un j\u0101atrisina. Un nez k\u0101p\u0113c pirm\u0101 lieta, ko v\u0113laties izsl\u0113gt no savas dz\u012bves, ir alkohols. \u0160eit intu\u012bcija ac\u012bmredzot saka, ka tam vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt j\u016bsu pirmajam solim.<\/p>\n

Es turpinu to teikt alkohols b\u0113g no sevis<\/strong> un es tik \u013coti gribu iet pie sevis, paskat\u012bties uz sevi, mekl\u0113t sev\u012b.<\/p>\n

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Es palieku pie sevis un nebaidos: man nav ne garlaic\u012bgi, ne skumji tikai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka esmu es un es. Man nevajag sevi uzjautrin\u0101t, nedz ar\u012b nomierin\u0101t sevi ar apreibino\u0161\u0101m viel\u0101m.<\/p>\n

Un tas ir d\u012bvaini, bet j\u016bs nepalai\u017eat gar\u0101m \u0161\u012bs eksistences reibino\u0161o nenoteikt\u012bbu.<\/h2>\n

Cilv\u0113ki man saka, ka alkohols pal\u012bdz vi\u0146iem atp\u016bsties. Nu nezinu, es aps\u0113\u017eos ar kafiju restor\u0101na loga priek\u0161\u0101 - j\u016btos atsl\u0101bin\u0101ts; Skatos uz ezeriem, kalniem, prie\u017eu galotn\u0113m \u2013 j\u016btos atsl\u0101bin\u0101jies; Atn\u0101ku m\u0101j\u0101s, iesl\u0113dzu radio, pa\u0137eru sauju savu iecien\u012bt\u0101ko riekstu mais\u012bjumu, ko\u0161\u013c\u0101ju, klausos \u2013 j\u016btos atsl\u0101bin\u0101jies; S\u0113\u017eu ar draugiem, vi\u0146i malko alu, es iemalkoju sarunu un siltumu \u2013 j\u016btos atsl\u0101bin\u0101jies.<\/p>\n

Atp\u016bsties<\/strong> <\/strong>\u2013 ir b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar sevi un apk\u0101rt\u0113jiem. <\/p>\n

Izbaudi to. Un ne daba nek\u013c\u016bs skaist\u0101ka, ne cilv\u0113ki interesant\u0101ki, ne \u0113diens gar\u0161\u012bg\u0101ks p\u0113c alkohola lieto\u0161anas. Tikai tu pats esi kaut cik sav\u0101d\u0101ks, es teiktu - virspus\u012bg\u0101ks. Bet diem\u017e\u0113l daudziem vienk\u0101r\u0161i ir daudz viegl\u0101k dz\u012bvot virspus\u0113.<\/p>\n

Pag\u0101ju\u0161ais gads bija diploma pasnieg\u0161ana, un septi\u0146i braucieni, un uz\u0146em\u0161ana ma\u0123istrant\u016br\u0101, un Jaunais gads, un dzim\u0161anas diena, un jaunas m\u0101jas, bet es visu dz\u0113ru ar laimi, da\u017ereiz pat ar bezalkoholisko \u0161ampanieti.<\/p>\n

Nedom\u0101ju, ka sa\u0146\u0113mu par vienu labu emociju maz\u0101k, bet noteikti s\u0101p galva.<\/h2>\n

Pag\u0101ju\u0161ais gads ir bijis pilns ar s\u0101p\u012bg\u0101m \u0161\u0137ir\u0161an\u0101s un m\u012blest\u012bbas aizie\u0161anas p\u0101rdz\u012bvojumiem, un ilg\u0101m p\u0113c m\u0101j\u0101m, un bezgal\u012bgu darbu virkni, un sirdi spiedo\u0161u s\u0101pju mirk\u013ciem, ta\u010du es nedom\u0101ju, ka alkohols to b\u016btu padar\u012bjis viegl\u0101ku. un mudin\u0101ja mani \u0101tr\u0101k p\u0101rvar\u0113t vismaz vienu probl\u0113mu.<\/p>\n

Un tom\u0113r es esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, ka ir vismaz viens cilv\u0113ks, kur\u0161 ir izlas\u012bjis tik t\u0101lu, kur\u0161 ir dusm\u012bgs, kur\u0161 nedom\u0101, ka tas ir patiesi, kur\u0161 nedom\u0101, ka visi to var izdar\u012bt, kur\u0161 neuzskata, ka tam ir j\u0113ga, kur\u0161 to dar\u012btu. \u0137er aiz r\u012bkles un lej iek\u0161\u0101, jo "Priek\u0161 kam gal\u0113j\u012bbas?" !? Es nesaku, ka visi, kas dzer, bezj\u0113dz\u012bgi sl\u012bkst. Ne \u012bsti.<\/p>\n

\u013boti reti un to neuzsverot, alkohols dz\u012bvi nepadar\u012bs slikt\u0101ku, varb\u016bt pat ienes\u012bs jautras v\u0113smas, bet, kad es redzu cilv\u0113kus, kuri neprot atp\u016bsties, kuriem to vajag bie\u017ei un arvien bie\u017e\u0101k, arvien vair\u0101k, tas liek man skumji.<\/p>\n

Ne katrs ir apvelt\u012bts ar patiesas, patiesas laimes c\u012bn\u012bt\u0101ja dz\u012bslu. Bet ne visi cen\u0161as to att\u012bst\u012bt, pat ja m\u0113\u0123ina sav\u0101d\u0101k.<\/p>\n

Un es palieku pie piln\u012bgas attur\u012bbas, jo \u0161obr\u012bd daudz kas dz\u012bv\u0113 v\u0113l nav atrisin\u0101ts. <\/h2>\n

Un man t\u0101 interes\u0113, man pat\u012bk risin\u0101t, mekl\u0113t, atkl\u0101t! Varb\u016bt k\u0101dreiz, kad\/ja audzin\u0101\u0161u b\u0113rnus, mani apskauj k\u0101ds, kur\u0161 teiks "tu esi mana acu gaisma", varb\u016bt tad teik\u0161u "iedzeram gl\u0101zi v\u012bna un dal\u012bsimies ar zvaigzn\u0101jiem debes\u012bs".<\/p>\n

Pagaid\u0101m man nav ne v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s, ne laika pat vienai gl\u0101zei, un pat p\u0113c vienas manas smadzenes s\u0101ktu buks\u0113t, sirds s\u0101ktu dauz\u012bties. Pagaid\u0101m negribu neko aizmirst, stumt mal\u0101, j\u016btos atsl\u0101bin\u0101jusies ikdienas dz\u012bves mal\u0101, bet taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 laik\u0101 neesmu simtprocent\u012bga p\u0101rliecin\u0101ta, ka nes\u0101ktu kl\u012bst pa nev\u0113s\u0101m p\u0113d\u0101m p\u0113c dzer\u0161anas.<\/p>\n

Kopum\u0101 gads bez alkohola bija lab\u0101kais gads man\u0101 m\u016b\u017e\u0101. Turpin\u0101m!<\/p>\n

- Ona Adamavi\u010di\u016bt\u0117<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vai v\u0113laties uzzin\u0101t vair\u0101k labas pieredzes par atteik\u0161anos no alkohola?<\/h3>\n

Skaties trenera Igno Bakaja raid\u012bjumu "0 gr\u0101di"!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0160odien es varu svin\u0113t. D\u012bvain\u0101kais ir tas, ka tie\u0161i tagad \u0161is fakts man ne\u0161\u0137iet ne iespaid\u012bgs, ne kr\u0101\u0161\u0146s. \u0160\u0137iet - ko nu ko. P\u0113d\u0113j\u0101s 365 dienas man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 ir biju\u0161as bez alkohola. Un paties\u012bb\u0101 es par to varb\u016bt pat neb\u016btu rakst\u012bjis. Bet tad es padom\u0101ju par savu pusaud\u017ea vecumu, par savu dz\u012bvi ar alkoholu, un es nol\u0113mu, ka [...]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":16604,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-12706","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-debesylieciai"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12706"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12706\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}