{"id":4043,"date":"2014-07-07T12:15:14","date_gmt":"2014-07-07T09:15:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/?p=4043"},"modified":"2020-12-20T01:19:08","modified_gmt":"2020-12-19T23:19:08","slug":"menuo-be-pirkiniu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/en\/art-without-purchase\/","title":{"rendered":"Month without purchases: <i>I was checking to see if I buy junk often<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>June was special for me - I followed the challenge set by the people of Debesy <strong>not to buy anything except food for yourself and the car.<\/strong> <a href=\"#footnote-1-4043\" id=\"note-1-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">1<\/a><\/p>\n<p>And this month went easier than I expected. It turns out that such a seemingly crazy challenge is not so impossible after all!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>...It's not as hard as it may seem to buy nothing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But first, why put such a test to your discipline and your inner child who wants everything?<\/p>\n<p>        [tcb-script] jQuery(function($){ $(window).scroll(function(e){ scrollTimeOut = true; if ($(&#039;#orodykle&#039;).length){ if($(window).scrollTop() + window.innerHeight &gt; $(&#039;1TP6Pointer&#039;).offset().top) { setTimeout(function(){ $(&#039;1TP6Pointer&#039;).addClass(&#039;onscreen&#039;); }, 750); } } }); } ); [\/tcb-script] <\/p>\n<h2>Why a month without shopping?<\/h2>\n<p style=\"\">Here are some honest reasons why you should also try not to buy anything for a month. Thanks to this challenge...<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>...You'll be able to reduce your mounting debts. Or save money for something you've been wanting for a long time.<\/li>\n<li>...You can start fighting your impulse buying habits.<\/li>\n<li>...You will be able to improve your disciplinary skills and strengthen your willpower.<\/li>\n<li>...You'll start the fight against consumerism and misleading advertising.<\/li>\n<li>...You will be able to remember or discover what is more important to you in life.<\/li>\n<li>...You can always donate the money you save <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aukok.lt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">who need them more<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>...You'll save minutes and hours of your day that would otherwise be wasted choosing new products or comparing discounts. You can use the extra time to do other, more important things.<\/li>\n<li>...You'll also save money on your health, because you won't have to worry about whether the gift (or other purchase) you bought is good enough and won't fall apart the next day.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Or at least you will notice that <a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/en\/simplicity\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\" rel=\"noopener\">it&#039;s really nice to live more minimalistic<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-init-width=\"300\" data-init-height=\"168\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/media1.tenor.com\/images\/59e0447a8e54aac8c5dbe79e128504ff\/tenor.gif\" data-width=\"643\" data-height=\"360\" style=\"\" width=\"643\" height=\"360\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Simple no-buy rules.<\/h2>\n<p style=\"font-size: 1em !important;\"><strong>At first glance, the rules of the challenge are not complicated: <\/strong>not to buy anything for a whole month (or another selected period of time), except for food and transport (gasoline, tickets). <a href=\"#footnote-2-4043\" id=\"note-2-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">2<\/a><\/p>\n<p>However, as I found out during the challenge, it&#039;s not that simple. The definition does not answer two questions:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>What exactly is a purchase?<\/li>\n<li>And what exactly is food for yourself and for transport?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Let's try to answer that...<\/p>\n<p>*Costels and starts speaking in a professor&#039;s voice.*<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>We can say that purchase is the acquisition of a new thing or service by paying with other things, services, money, work or time. In other words, it is an exchange in which participants receive benefits.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>*Coughs again and returns to Daniel&#039;s voice.*<\/p>\n<p>Um While the definition is not bad, it does not answer - what exactly is an exchange? Here are two examples: donations and loans. It seems that there is no exchange here, but don&#039;t you become happier by donating a euro to your grandmother? And when you borrow, don&#039;t you promise to repay in the future?<\/p>\n<p>Let&#039;s move on to the next question - what is food for self and transport? Is the popcorn you eat at the movies food or just candy? And plane tickets to Malaysia - can it be added to the cost of transportation?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Such questions occurred to me often during the challenge.<\/strong> They will rise for you too. The solution, however, is simple: In such cases, it is better to listen to the voice of common sense and choose what is really necessary.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, if you really need new underwear, toothpaste, or toilet paper, buy it. But first make sure you can&#039;t live without it any longer. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>First ask WHY?<\/li>\n<li>And then - do you REALLY need it?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I&#039;ve made rules for myself that food is what makes me fuller, <a href=\"#footnote-3-4043\" id=\"note-3-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">3<\/a> and I allowed transport only when it was absolutely necessary. <a href=\"#footnote-4-4043\" id=\"note-4-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">4<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can, of course, choose your own way. After all, we each choose our own rules.<\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/media1.tenor.com\/images\/ce441e4f0e6f115e9eb1b321955c1b80\/tenor.gif\" data-width=\"643\" data-height=\"367\" data-init-width=\"200\" data-init-height=\"114\" style=\"\" width=\"643\" height=\"367\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>What did I learn in a month without shopping?<\/h2>\n<h3><em>First: <\/em>I need less new purchases than I thought.<\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">Although I've never been a big spender, before I took the challenge I would buy something new every other day: pencils, a new book, a notebook, some nice junk from AliExpress... And most of the time, I didn't get the most out of any of them.<\/p>\n<p>After a month I realized - I don&#039;t need all that. It turns out I had piles of pencils, <a href=\"#footnote-5-4043\" id=\"note-5-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">5<\/a> grandma has piles of unread books <a href=\"#footnote-6-4043\" id=\"note-6-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">6<\/a> and it turns out I didn't need all that \"interesting\" rubbish to please myself.<\/p>\n<p>It is possible that you too have such a problem of unnecessary purchases.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you accumulate shopping receipts - review them. If you don&#039;t stock up, the next time you&#039;re standing in the store, check what you&#039;ve put in your shopping cart.<\/strong> Do you really need everything? <a href=\"#footnote-7-4043\" id=\"note-7-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">7<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Probably not.<\/p>\n<h3><em>Second: <\/em>Saving money by not buying unnecessary items is becoming... too easy.<\/h3>\n<p>Similarly, I've never been the kind of person who would spend the money I've saved quickly. But living with this challenge has made it... impossible not to save.<\/p>\n<p>It would seem that food, transportation and housing make up the majority of expenses, so reducing non-related expenses will not make much of a difference. But this is not true - <strong>small and unnecessary purchases make up a bigger part of your expenses than you might think.<\/strong>\u200b<\/p>\n<p>Remember the suggestion to look at the receipts? Do it now. It is possible that your little things make up a bigger part of the expenses than mine.<\/p>\n<p>By getting rid of the need to buy loads of unnecessary stuff just because it&#039;s cheap, I managed to save over 100 euros this month. And when my total monthly expenses as a student are around 350-400 euros, they were reduced by 20-30 percent in June! <a href=\"#footnote-8-4043\" id=\"note-8-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">8<\/a><\/p>\n<h3><em>Third: <\/em>The easiest way to not buy is to ignore purchases.<\/h3>\n<p>If there was only one piece of advice to be given to someone starting this challenge, <a href=\"#footnote-9-4043\" id=\"note-9-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">9<\/a> it would sound like this:<strong>&nbsp;ignore purchases.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am talking about the truth that many know, but few apply - if the eyes do not see, the mind does not want to. If you don&#039;t visit shopping centers, it&#039;s like a church, if you don&#039;t browse through shops full of goods on the Internet, if, after all, you have less cash when you walk around the city, then you won&#039;t want to buy.<\/p>\n<p>My biggest temptations have been when I've been to Maxima, various markets, or when I know I have more than enough money in my bank account for a new self-help book. <a href=\"#footnote-10-4043\" id=\"note-10-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">10<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-size: 1em !important;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1ke0HtO8e-ozJHoQegAlXZ3BlhyTdvd4skjeKia9w3eY\/edit#\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"My Crazy Year Challenge Diary\" style=\"outline: none;\" rel=\"noopener\">Looking back at June<\/a>, I can say that the month without shopping helped me. Although I&#039;ve never been much of a shopaholic, <a href=\"#footnote-11-4043\" id=\"note-11-4043\" class=\"footnote-link\">11<\/a> the challenge showed how, who and when I spend money. And at the same time, it helped me to discover piles of unused things that I would have bought new.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The challenge has shown me that I need less than what the store&#039;s advertisements on the Internet, TV or newspapers are trying to convey.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I didn&#039;t lose anything by buying less, I just gained. Not only in terms of money, but also in terms of peace of mind, true self-discipline. A month without shopping has taught me to say no. And I am very happy about that.<\/p>\n<p>However, what do YOU think of the challenge? Will you join?<\/p>\n<div id=\"parasas\" class=\"\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 900 189\" width=\"200\">\n        <path class=\"d-1\" d=\"M67 50L5 172\"\/>\n        <path class=\"d-2\" d=\"M19 152c7 8 30 33 59 32 41-1 76-46 80-100 2-22-6-77-42-79C61 2-1 54 46 76\"\/>\n        <path class=\"a\" d=\"M204 126.9c1.4-6-1-23.7-8.8-23.3-33.2 1-44 50-31 54 11 3 22-10 36-25 2-3 14 9 25 10\"\/>\n        <path class=\"nie\" d=\"M211 157c45-44 65-58 70-54 6 5-16 42-12 45 6 4 47-55 57-49 7 4-7 34 4 47 8 11 20 7 28 1 18-14 28-28 27-22s-5 38 46 16c21-9 22-29 13-36-3-2-16 6-16 16-1 18 14 29 37 28\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-1\" d=\"M387 80a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"liu\" d=\"M444 184C549 88 546 23 536 23c-19 0-57 74-57 122 0 4 5 13 13 16 5 3 11 2 16 1 6-1 11-6 17-10l39-32c0 6-2 8-3 14-2 7-2 10 1 14l5 4c6 3 14 1 20-1 17-7 26-19 44-29 3-1 8-4 12-2l5 6c4 11 1 16 4 22s13 10 20 8 12-9 13-14l4-13 3-5 6-4 13-5c3-1 6-3 10-8\"\/>\n        <path class=\"t-2\" d=\"M576 85a1 1 0 1 0 2 0 1 1 0 1 0-2 0\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-1\" d=\"M720 142c8 2 27 3 35-3 6-4-18-36-22-32-3 4-6 19-30 65\"\/>\n        <path class=\"s-2\" d=\"M756 140c4-1 9-4 12-8\"\/><\/svg>\n    <\/div>\n    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/wp-content\/themes\/debesyla\/inc\/img\/fallback-parasas.png\" alt=\"Daniel\" style=\"top: -2.5em; position: relative;\"><\/noscript>\n<p>\u200b<strong>P.S&nbsp;<\/strong>By the way, before I even finished the challenge, Edmund from the cloud joined me. <a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1q3GcQxnxejqGY7HvNQcEAqGmEtQb0ufx9uqYoLnABSw\/edit\" style=\"outline: currentcolor none medium;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Here is his challenge blog!<\/a>\u200b<\/p>\n<div class=\"footnotes\"><hr \/><ol><li id=\"footnote-1-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>After all, the car also needs to eat! \ud83d\ude09 <a href=\"#note-1-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-1.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-2-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Or you can make the challenge your own. If you need childcare, don't be afraid to change the rules to your own.<a href=\"#note-2-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-2.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-3-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>So no sweets!<a href=\"#note-3-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-3.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-4-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>No flights and no rides because &quot;there&#039;s nothing to do&quot;!<a href=\"#note-4-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-4.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-5-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>But in another drawer...<a href=\"#note-5-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-5.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-6-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Which I would have bought myself. Now I can find them <a href=\"https:\/\/www.libis.lt\/\" style=\"outline: currentcolor none medium;\">in the library<\/a>.<a href=\"#note-6-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-6.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-7-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>Maybe you only buy because you're used to buying everything at a discount? My dad has that habit. He's always buying everything because it's on sale! What's the saving if half of the purchases are not needed?<a href=\"#note-7-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-7.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-8-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p><strong>Update for 2016:<\/strong> 2 years after the no-buy challenge, my monthly expenditure has dropped to \u20ac300-350. And I'm not a student anymore. The no-buying challenges help me learn not to buy crap. I wrote about this in<a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/en\/simplicity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">in the article presenting minimalism<\/a>.<a href=\"#note-8-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-8.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-9-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>I hope it&#039;s you.<a href=\"#note-9-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-9.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-10-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/debesyla.lt\/en\/improvement\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Self-development is not always useful<\/a>.<a href=\"#note-10-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-10.footnote--><li id=\"footnote-11-4043\" class=\"footnote\"><p>My friends always think I buy too few clothes.<a href=\"#note-11-4043\" class=\"footnote-return\">&#8617;<\/a><\/p><\/li><!--\/#footnote-11.footnote--><\/ol><\/div><!--\/#footnotes-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>June was a special month for me - I stuck to the challenge set by the Cloud Citizens not to buy anything except food for myself and my car. 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